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Do you feel that you are more attractive to the opposite sex thanks to punting? I always like the spring in my step after a good session with a WG which makes me more relaxed around civvies opposite sex  :)

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Do you feel that you are more attractive to the opposite sex thanks to punting? I always like the spring in my step after a good session with a WG which makes me more relaxed around civvies opposite sex  :)

Not sure I'd say I felt more attractive to the opposite sex but since I started punting I've felt a lot more confident in the company of women. Not that I'm trying to pull them, I just mean in everyday situations.

After going a long time without having sex I found myself feeling awkward in the company of women, particularly women I didn't know. No idea why that should have been the case but that's how I felt anyway. I can notice the difference in myself.

I agree 100% about the spring in the step after a good punt. In fact I'm hoping my step will be a lot springier by about 9pm this evening! :D

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I feel I've become more attractive to women willing to have sex with me for money and a bunch of guys on the internet who like to write about it.

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In a round about way - yes.

 

I have friends who don't punt and don't get much sex either. Their desperate attempts to chat up women with their juvenile antics and cheesy chat-up lines just to get laid by anything female, breathing and with a pulse is seen as a complete turn off by most women.

 

Knowing I can get good sex with ladies  of my choice at a time to my liking means I don't have to act differently than I normally would when in female company.  Being yourself is a far more attractive trait to the opposite sex than trying to put on an act to impress.

 

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Do i feel more attractive to the opposite because of punting? In a word,no.Punting may do many things but that aint one.

If you said does it improve confidence,then you may have a point.Being taken outside your comfort zone in situations can do that.Can it however make an ewokalike like me look like Brad Pitt,now thats a different story :)

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I don't really see how it could make you feel more attractive if you really think about it.

 

You are after all - paying a woman to have sex with you - that's all - why should it make you feel more attractive?

 

When I have scored with a woman - now that makes me feel more attractive - or convinces me that I have some attraction to me and makes me feel more confident. But paying a woman because you're not man enough to pull a woman, or lack the confidence - or whatever - I fail to see how the confidence factor kicks in even though in some of you it plainly does. This may be due to a delusion that the women you pay actually value more than your ten pounds notes - if that works for you ok - it doesn't work for me.

 

As for chaps with cheesy chat up lines - sorry to tell you this chaps - sooner or later if you keep it up - someone says yes. My mate once said to a girl, on the spur of the moment - do you come here often? I asked him later how he could use such a cheesy line - he said he couldn't think of anything else to say in the heat of the moment. Guess what - he called her and ended up having quite a time with her.

 

 I know the limits of my appeal to women whether I punt or not.

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Short answer -no.

to elaborate I have always been invisible to women.

Getting older does not make things any better.

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Not attractive no.  It would take a makeover of Herculean proportions to work that trick.  Gok Wan, Trinny, Sussanah combined would have their work cut out.

 

But it has made me more confident around the ladies.  I can't explain why but then I'm no psychologist.  The human mind works in mysterious ways.

 

To answer Lancelot's rather cynical suggestion that people like me somehow think the ladies value us for more then our money I find that quite insulting.  We're adults here and I don't think any of us are that innocent or naive - I'm most certainly not

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Men who are having sex, paid or otherwise, are more attractive to women, its one of those caveman things, the girls just pick up the vibe. My personal experience, is that it makes me more relaxed, so I am more relaxed around woman,, and start chatting more easily,, but my sexual speculation about woman, always excessive,, has got even higher..

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No effect whatsoever I'm afraid. The two worlds are not the same.

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No effect whatsoever I'm afraid. The two worlds are not the same.

 

But then the effect is bound to be different for different people.  So many other factors have to be taken into account - personality, past life, present life, personal circumstances.  Pick half a dozen punters at random and you could get half a dozen different responses

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Do you feel that you are more attractive to the opposite sex thanks to punting? I always like the spring in my step after a good session with a WG which makes me more relaxed around civvies opposite sex  :)

 

No

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No.....I've always been gorgeous :P

 

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Short answer -no.

to elaborate I have always been invisible to women.

Getting older does not make things any better.

 

I think the reason why you may feel you are invisible to women is because you don't know the rules of the game or how to go about doing it. Why do you think you are invisible? I am learning the idea that if a girl thinks you constantly worry that you aren't good looking for her, you aren't worth her time.

 

If I had to spend £350 would it be for 2.5hours with an escort or going out for twelve hours in London having lots of fun and learning.

 

I'm not currently working but I am tempted when i do...

 

http://www.kezia-noble.com/

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I don't know whether it's punting or just getting older but a few years ago I was very wary about trying to appear attractive to younger women. Now I don't give but a thought and just act naturally and recently I've attracted quite a bit of attention from much younger women, quite seriously so in a couple of cases. Just enjoying it ...... And the punting too of course ;-)

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Question needs to be answered by the Girls on here.

but we know what the desired answer is dont we ? 

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And to try and answer the original question,

From some reactions of my daughters, in reaction to behavior by their peers,

I can say; probably not.

 

I'll keep my hobby well discreet, thx you.

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Nope. Never had any interest from women before I started (and was therefore the reason I started in the first place) and none since either. Hasn't made any difference to my lack of confidence in social situations around women. Though oddly enough, I'm normally perfectly at ease around the escorts I've seen. 

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LOL @ kezia... 

 

She'll be very flirty as long as she thinks I would pay.

But not my type of trap. no disrepect ma'm, but I'll pass.

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But paying a woman because you're not man enough to pull a woman, or lack the confidence - or whatever - I fail to see how the confidence factor kicks in even though in some of you it plainly does. This may be due to a delusion that the women you pay actually value more than your ten pounds notes - if that works for you ok - it doesn't work for me

I've zero interest in wanting to pull or even appear attractive to other women, and am quite happy to pay for the sex I want. I'm more than happy with all other aspects of the relationship with my partner, so don't want any emotional baggage of being involved with another woman.

I've no real clue why I feel more confident around women generally since I started punting - maybe it's simply because I'm interacting with the opposite sex a lot more frequently than I was. Maybe I just feel better about myself because I actually have a sex life again, albeit a paid for one. One thing I know for sure is that I'm under no illusions as to why all these lovely wg's meet and have sex with me, and I wouldn't want it any other way...

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Do you feel that you are more attractive to the opposite sex thanks to punting? I always like the spring in my step after a good session with a WG which makes me more relaxed around civvies opposite sex  :)

 

A resounding yes from me!

 

Before I discovered punting, I had almost begun to feel that there was never going to be any sexual connection again between myself and the girls I would fancy.

 

For most of my time until a few years ago, I had taken it for the norm that when you smile at the waitress / shop assistant who serves you, or occasionally a girl you pass on the street, that she will smile back.  However, for the last few years before I started punting I seemed to have become invisible to the girls around me.  Something I found very sad. :(  I felt that I was just getting past the point that any girl would be interested.

 

Whilst punting is an artificial way of connecting with girls in sexual 'relationship', I feel that through this hobby I regained my sense of looking at women as sexual beings, and hey presto, as I meander the streets looking around me and thinking about how much I might sexually desire this woman or that, they respond!

 

I have found myself passing smiles with strangers on the street or on a train for the first time in years.  Only the other day I was waiting in a hotel for my regular and a young, attractive girl exchanged glances with me once, then twice, then a third time with a smile, all without me even trying for her attention.  Coincidence?  My imagination?  Maybe, maybe...

 

Of course, I understand that it is all in my head, but whatever it is that is in my head, I hope it stays there for a long, long time!  :)  

 

I appreciate that some on this forum are sex gods :angry: who will always be attractive to the opposite sex, and others for whom punting does nothing to change matters, but for me it has changed matters hugely.  I don't know why for sure, but I'm very, very grateful. :cool:

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Not attractive no.  It would take a makeover of Herculean proportions to work that trick.  Gok Wan, Trinny, Sussanah combined would have their work cut out.

 

But it has made me more confident around the ladies.  I can't explain why but then I'm no psychologist.  The human mind works in mysterious ways.

 

To answer Lancelot's rather cynical suggestion that people like me somehow think the ladies value us for more then our money I find that quite insulting.  We're adults here and I don't think any of us are that innocent or naive - I'm most certainly not

 

Not you perhaps - but there are some on here who grasp at straws. I am afraid that when you are paying you have to take the view that it really is just business - as you clearly understand. I really do think single punters should get out and meet friends so that when a girl smiles at them - they know it's a real smile and not a paid one.

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A resounding yes from me!

 

Before I discovered punting, I had almost begun to feel that there was never going to be any sexual connection again between myself and the girls I would fancy.

 

For most of my time until a few years ago, I had taken it for the norm that when you smile at the waitress / shop assistant who serves you, or occasionally a girl you pass on the street, that she will smile back.  However, for the last few years before I started punting I seemed to have become invisible to the girls around me.  Something I found very sad. :(  I felt that I was just getting past the point that any girl would be interested.

 

Whilst punting is an artificial way of connecting with girls in sexual 'relationship', I feel that through this hobby I regained my sense of looking at women as sexual beings, and hey presto, as I meander the streets looking around me and thinking about how much I might sexually desire this woman or that, they respond!

 

I have found myself passing smiles with strangers on the street or on a train for the first time in years.  Only the other day I was waiting in a hotel for my regular and a young, attractive girl exchanged glances with me once, then twice, then a third time with a smile, all without me even trying for her attention.  Coincidence?  My imagination?  Maybe, maybe...

 

Of course, I understand that it is all in my head, but whatever it is that is in my head, I hope it stays there for a long, long time!  :)  

 

I appreciate that some on this forum are sex gods :angry: who will always be attractive to the opposite sex, and others for whom punting does nothing to change matters, but for me it has changed matters hugely.  I don't know why for sure, but I'm very, very grateful. :cool:

A lot of what you say doesn't make much sense - do you think a forum where men have to pay for sex is inhabited by sex gods who are irresistable to women? That seems illogical.

For the women who are giving you the eye - until you have converted those looks into real mutual unpaid sex - they don't mean a great deal though I can see how paying for sex gives you the illusion that you are good with women - and how that might feed into your positive self esteem. You imply that you look around a lot more than you used to (pre-punting) - if you look around more - you will obviously get looks back.

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Well, the sex god thing was supposed to be a bit light hearted tbh. :unsure:

 

Otherwise, I don't really want to convert an exchange of glances into unpaid sex.  I prefer the lack of complications of the commercial arrangement.

 

On the whole, your summary is probably the main truth.  I am spending more time looking at women and thus would get more looks back.  However, I think there is a bit more to it as well though. 

 

When I see a pretty girl on the street now, I can think to myself that I can always go and pay for a girl with the same, or better, looks whenever I am in the mood.  I think this provides a sense of confidence in the way I exchange such glances and a confident glance is probably more attractive to the recipient than an un-confident, furtive glance when I might have been more concerned about getting a negative reaction.  Thus I get more looks back, which feeds further into the confidence, and all of a sudden it is a virtuous circle.

 

Whatever the truth, it works for me anyway.

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Well, the sex god thing was supposed to be a bit light hearted tbh. :unsure:

 

Otherwise, I don't really want to convert an exchange of glances into unpaid sex.  I prefer the lack of complications of the commercial arrangement.

 

On the whole, your summary is probably the main truth.  I am spending more time looking at women and thus would get more looks back.  However, I think there is a bit more to it as well though. 

 

When I see a pretty girl on the street now, I can think to myself that I can always go and pay for a girl with the same, or better, looks whenever I am in the mood.  I think this provides a sense of confidence in the way I exchange such glances and a confident glance is probably more attractive to the recipient than an un-confident, furtive glance when I might have been more concerned about getting a negative reaction.  Thus I get more looks back, which feeds further into the confidence, and all of a sudden it is a virtuous circle.

 

Whatever the truth, it works for me anyway.

I used to think like too - if I see a hot babe I think - well I can have that if I want.

 

For a while that felt good - but it sort of wore off as I realised I wanted the actual girls I see in the street, shop or whatever - and not the girls I pay for sex!

I suppose it's a case of you most want what you can't have.

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