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Met an  escort last month who believes that her business is not very good because there is too much competition in her area and she thinks that clients are happy enough just to jump on anything.

 

 She probably genuinely does not understand why her business is not as strong as it should be. Following my meet with her, she emailed me saying that it was nice to meet me and that she was looking forward to seeing me again etc,etc. I left a good review on her local board but it is clear from reading it that I was disappointed at the level of service.( absence of FK ) . Following the review she emailed me thanking me for the good review and hoping to see me again  but no reference whatsoever as to of why I was less than  happy .

 

It struck me--- maybe she is completely unaware of the  warmth and openness other escorts show to their clients. I mean some escorts seem perfectly happy to engage with you intimately and to french kiss you warmly. It is this relaxed full-on approach which makes all the difference to many clients.

 

I really like her, she's absolutely gorgeous, a stunner . Should I tell her why I think she is not doing the level of business she seeks ?  Its not the competition, its her approach.  Will she welcome that advice or just tell me to 'F Off' and mind my own business ? ( As things stand, I would not see her again )

 

 

 

 

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Met an  escort last month who believes that her business is not very good because there is too much competition in her area and she thinks that clients are happy enough just to jump on anything.

 

 She probably genuinely does not understand why her business is not as strong as it should be. Following my meet with her, she emailed me saying that it was nice to meet me and that she was looking forward to seeing me again etc,etc. I left a good review on her local board but it is clear from reading it that I was disappointed at the level of service.( absence of FK ) . Following the review she emailed me thanking me for the good review and hoping to see me again  but no reference whatsoever as to of why I was less than  happy .

 

It struck me--- maybe she is completely unaware of the  warmth and openness other escorts show to their clients. I mean some escorts seem perfectly happy to engage with you intimately and to french kiss you warmly. It is this relaxed full-on approach which makes all the difference to many clients.

 

I really like her, she's absolutely gorgeous, a stunner . Should I tell her why I think she is not doing the level of business she seeks ?  Its not the competition, its her approach.  Will she welcome that advice or just tell me to 'F Off' and mind my own business ? ( As things stand, I would not see her again )

I wouldnt bother, how she conducts herself is up to her is my way of viewing it, not for me to offer advice to an adult who in my view should already know how to offer a great service. I would just go elsewhere and forget about her.

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In all likely hood if she isn't getting the hint from an honest review then she probably isn't going to take it on board if you spell it out for her.You don't say how long she has worked for.Escorting is a big learning curve but if she has been working a while and can't pick up how a session is going and work on it then perhaps this is not for her.Totally up to you but she may take it personally and tell you to jog on and carry on much as before.Business can be very up and down anyway but ladies cannot just rely on looks they need to put warmth and enthusiasm into the services they offer or gents don't return simple as that.

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She's clearly aware that her business is not as good as it could be but, equally clearly, doesn't seem to have a clue as to why.

 

If your report was fair and honest you probably can't do any more but, having said that, if she thinks it was a good review maybe it wasn't quite as clear as you say it was.

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She's clearly aware that her business is not as good as it could be but, equally clearly, doesn't seem to have a clue as to why.

 

If your report was fair and honest you probably can't do any more but, having said that, if she thinks it was a good review maybe it wasn't quite as clear as you say it was.

I agree with this. Another way to think about it is you say as things stand you wouldn't see her again, and while she might tell you to eff off and mind your own business, she just might appreciate and take on board some constructive criticism. Either way you're not going to lose anything apart from maybe receiving an abusive email :)

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Met an  escort last month who believes that her business is not very good because there is too much competition in her area and she thinks that clients are happy enough just to jump on anything.

 

 She probably genuinely does not understand why her business is not as strong as it should be. Following my meet with her, she emailed me saying that it was nice to meet me and that she was looking forward to seeing me again etc,etc. I left a good review on her local board but it is clear from reading it that I was disappointed at the level of service.( absence of FK ) . Following the review she emailed me thanking me for the good review and hoping to see me again  but no reference whatsoever as to of why I was less than  happy .

 

It struck me--- maybe she is completely unaware of the  warmth and openness other escorts show to their clients. I mean some escorts seem perfectly happy to engage with you intimately and to french kiss you warmly. It is this relaxed full-on approach which makes all the difference to many clients.

 

I really like her, she's absolutely gorgeous, a stunner . Should I tell her why I think she is not doing the level of business she seeks ?  Its not the competition, its her approach.  Will she welcome that advice or just tell me to 'F Off' and mind my own business ? ( As things stand, I would not see her again )

You saw her, you reviewed her and made it clear how you felt.  That surely is enough !  I would say don't concern yourself.    She might FK with some and not others?

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It sounds to me like the constructive feedback elements of cumandgo's review of the WG may have been a little subtle and she hasn't picked up on the nuances. I would say that he has done enough though and to give her direct, uninvited, one-to-one feedback may well get taken badly. You have to be a very well grounded person to take criticism of your sexual technique well!!!

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I wouldnt bother, how she conducts herself is up to her is my way of viewing it, not for me to offer advice to an adult who in my view should already know how to offer a great service. I would just go elsewhere and forget about her.

 

You're right I know but I'm a softie ( plus I fancy the knickers off her ! ) .

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In all likely hood if she isn't getting the hint from an honest review then she probably isn't going to take it on board if you spell it out for her.You don't say how long she has worked for.Escorting is a big learning curve but if she has been working a while and can't pick up how a session is going and work on it then perhaps this is not for her.Totally up to you but she may take it personally and tell you to jog on and carry on much as before.Business can be very up and down anyway but ladies cannot just rely on looks they need to put warmth and enthusiasm into the services they offer or gents don't return simple as that.

 

She is experienced. At least 2 years under her belt and a string of good reviews. 'good' but not 'sensational ' !

 

She's clearly aware that her business is not as good as it could be but, equally clearly, doesn't seem to have a clue as to why.

 

If your report was fair and honest you probably can't do any more but, having said that, if she thinks it was a good review maybe it wasn't quite as clear as you say it was.

 

I think it was clear enough .In that knowledge,  I cant understand then why she  says she wants to see me again but has avoided my milk and watery comment about seeing her again.?

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I agree with this. Another way to think about it is you say as things stand you wouldn't see her again, and while she might tell you to eff off and mind your own business, she just might appreciate and take on board some constructive criticism. Either way you're not going to lose anything apart from maybe receiving an abusive email :)

 

That's my thought process on it too.

 

You saw her, you reviewed her and made it clear how you felt.  That surely is enough !  I would say don't concern yourself.    She might FK with some and not others?

 

 

Oh great !!    Now you really have me going. Now I definitely have to find out. If its me, then I need to know why ? :eek:

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She says that there is too much competition in the area etc.Even if her service is not as it should be she would still get enquiries from new punters so could it be that she is not updating as much as she should or not advertising as she should?There can be many reasons for business being slow.As for the fk thing is it a common theme on her other reports/feedback?

As for saying she will see you again then its probably a standard polite email she sends to guys she has seen.I think perhaps its a case of moving on and letting her get on with it.I am a little surprised she told you she wasn't doing too well in the first place to be honest.

As for saying you like her and think shes a stunner..perhaps that is what she is relying on to get guys to come back?

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  Try shaving off the mustache .... No point in ever telling an escort that you won't be seeing her again . As if she cares  , when you've only seen her the once .  She's not gonna miss you at all .

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Hi C & G,

 

It seems from what you have written that the reason you were disappointed was the absence of FK. 

 

If, however, that's a service she doesn't offer, then really there isn't a lot she could do to appease you - if she doesn't want to do that and states as such on her profile, then unfortunately it's not really up to you to "correct" her by telling her to offer it!

 

I'm assuming of course that she states on her site/profile that FK is not on offer. If she doesn't, then of course you're right that she is misleading clients and this will of course put them off from seeing her again.

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I think there can be no guarantee that you will get the DFK that is so important to you, and to  loads of us, if you return, so I would start a search for another hot babe lovely lady

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I'm always delighted when a guy communicates clearly. If he sends me a little email along the lines of: please wear the black skirt/white shirt combo, seamed stockings and suspenders, black stilettos and twiddle my left nipple while you have a finger up my bum - wonderful! Is it possible she wasn't aware of your penchant for serious snogging?

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 Although I've been in this business for a while now, like any business there are always ways to improve.  If someone offers constructive critism on how I can improve my service so I get more business, I will happily take it on board, but that's just me. 

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She is experienced. At least 2 years under her belt and a string of good reviews. 'good' but not 'sensational ' !

 

 

I think it was clear enough .In that knowledge,  I cant understand then why she  says she wants to see me again but has avoided my milk and watery comment about seeing her again.?

By milk and watery do you mean you have actually told her you won't be seeing her again,or do you mean youve made pleasent excuses ie i havent got the time at the mo,when i get round your way again etc etc.If its the latter,thats not helping anyone.If you really want to see her again but the fk is such a deal breaker than why not mention it?

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Met an  escort last month who believes that her business is not very good because there is too much competition in her area and she thinks that clients are happy enough just to jump on anything.

 

 She probably genuinely does not understand why her business is not as strong as it should be. Following my meet with her, she emailed me saying that it was nice to meet me and that she was looking forward to seeing me again etc,etc. I left a good review on her local board but it is clear from reading it that I was disappointed at the level of service.( absence of FK ) . Following the review she emailed me thanking me for the good review and hoping to see me again  but no reference whatsoever as to of why I was less than  happy .

 

It struck me--- maybe she is completely unaware of the  warmth and openness other escorts show to their clients. I mean some escorts seem perfectly happy to engage with you intimately and to french kiss you warmly. It is this relaxed full-on approach which makes all the difference to many clients.

 

I really like her, she's absolutely gorgeous, a stunner . Should I tell her why I think she is not doing the level of business she seeks ?  Its not the competition, its her approach.  Will she welcome that advice or just tell me to 'F Off' and mind my own business ? ( As things stand, I would not see her again )

Why waste your time? You said so yourself. She didn't deliver. The first meet is the very time that she should be delivering, in order to make the best impression possible. To bag you as a regular. Her service won't improve, but get worse.

 

So how can she be so bloody attractive and yet fail to deliver!? Many reasons and I can't see that any of them matter. I doubt she gives gives a toss about you, as an individual. And why should she?

 

This attempt at taking you into her confidence, by discussing how poor business is for her is nothing but a sympathy play for more of your custom. I've seen this dozens of times. To flatter your ego. Make you feel 'special'. Kid you into thinking you have some kind of 'exclusivity'. Don't fall for it!

 

You do appear smitten, despite your stated reservations! :D  Do not kid yourself into thinking that this lady needs 'saving' by you, in terms of her business. And if it's likely that you're not going to punt her again, why do you care? Why is her stated lack of business any of your business? :wacko:  So you're going to tell her that her service was crap, this is how she needs to improve and then say that you're not going to see her again! Charming! I know that I'd tell you to fuck right off! :D

 

This is a dangerous mentality. The 'well meaning' advice thing. The punter becomes obsessive and clingy. He becomes a boundary pusher.  She may even begin to resent it and you, secretly. Leave her be and go find yourself a hottie, who will deliver. My hunch. You'll keep the dialogue going with her and will be back!  :P

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Why waste your time? You said so yourself. She didn't deliver. The first meet is the very time that she should be delivering, in order to make the best impression possible. To bag you as a regular. Her service won't improve, but get worse.

 

So how can she be so bloody attractive and yet fail to deliver!? Many reasons and I can't see that any of them matter. I doubt she gives gives a toss about you, as an individual. And why should she?

 

This attempt at taking you into her confidence, by discussing how poor business is for her is nothing but a sympathy play for more of your custom. I've seen this dozens of times. To flatter your ego. Make you feel 'special'. Kid you into thinking you have some kind of 'exclusivity'. Don't fall for it!

 

You do appear smitten, despite your stated reservations! :D  Do not kid yourself into thinking that this lady needs 'saving' by you, in terms of her business. And if it's likely that you're not going to punt her again, why do you care? Why is her stated lack of business any of your business? :wacko:  So you're going to tell her that her service was crap, this is how she needs to improve and then say that you're not going to see her again! Charming! I know that I'd tell you to fuck right off! :D

 

This is a dangerous mentality. The 'well meaning' advice thing. The punter becomes obsessive and clingy. He becomes a boundary pusher.  She may even begin to resent it and you, secretly. Leave her be and go find yourself a hottie, who will deliver. My hunch. You'll keep the dialogue going with her and will be back!  :P

 

 

You are absolutely right .   I'll not do anything about it..   ( she's bloody HOT though   :P )

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 Although I've been in this business for a while now, like any business there are always ways to improve.  If someone offers constructive critism on how I can improve my service so I get more business, I will happily take it on board, but that's just me. 

 I have to accept though that constructive criticism is rarely seen as constructive in this business.

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You are absolutely right .   I'll not do anything about it..   ( she's bloody HOT though   :P )

Well, my advice was meant to be well meaning, even if it reads a little harsh! I'm happy that you took it in the spirit it was intended  :D

 

But yes, how bloody annoying when you find a hottie! :P

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By milk and watery do you mean you have actually told her you won't be seeing her again,or do you mean youve made pleasent excuses ie i havent got the time at the mo,when i get round your way again etc etc.If its the latter,thats not helping anyone.If you really want to see her again but the fk is such a deal breaker than why not mention it?

 

She suggested a booking at Christmas time and I made some joke and used the words ' perhaps'. 

 

FK is a deal breaker but if an escort isn't naturally happy with it, whats the point in forcing the issue really.

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To be fair she should not be suggesting when to book her at all.Bit desperate and cheeky in my opinion.

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To be fair she should not be suggesting when to book her at all.Bit desperate and cheeky in my opinion.

Spot on. Boundary pushing on her part, of course. You'd be surprised at how often this happens. Perhaps the OP should push that boundary back by asking for a cheeky Christmas discount! :P  :D

 

I suspect that he'd receive a very sharp bah humbug, in reply! :D

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Well, my advice was meant to be well meaning, even if it reads a little harsh! I'm happy that you took it in the spirit it was intended  :D

 

But yes, how bloody annoying when you find a hottie! :P

 

The FK thing has me flummoxed.

 

It is so important to many clients --- for me it is No.1. To outrule FK must take out 40 % of the target market , before you even have to deal with the competition.

 

 

Being just a hottie isn't enough .

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