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When girls go on an outcall they tell someone where they're going. When you're going to an incall who do you tell? 

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When girls go on an outcall they tell someone where they're going. When you're going to an incall who do you tell?

You can tell anyone who you like, but right now it's the girls who are afraid of punters rather than the punter being scares of the incall location.

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You can tell anyone who you like, but right now it's the girls who are afraid of punters rather than the punter being scares of the incall location.

 

I asked this question as i've not seen it asked before. Those who I meet on outcalls tell me i'm wasting my money on an outcall venue and should do incall instead. I of course explain my reasons why I don't (my security mainly) they giggle, and at the same time acknowledge I'd want to do, what they do, when doing an outcall. Thing is I have nobody to tell for my security.   

 

I guess incall visits are perhaps more popular than outcalls - surely guys you're not all just turning up hoping for the best?   

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Most of my punting thus far has been outcalls, but the incalls I have done have all been with wg's who have plenty of feedback and / or field reports. No one else knows I punt, so I have no security, which I'd imagine is the same as most guys. I think it's just a matter of being aware of your surroundings, and if something doesn't look right, walk. While I am always alert to potential problems, it isn't really something I worry about.

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I think this is another case of who gives a stuff. Working girls suffering violence get headlines, punters get what they deserve. A friend of mine was staggering home after being on the town. Two prostitutes offered him a "two for the price of one" session. So he took them home. One pulled his jumper over his face and the other his trousers round his ankles. They grabbed anything of value and legged it. He called the police who could not stop laughing as they took his statement. Told him there was no chance of a conviction or a solving of the crime.

Punters getting mugged on punts, do they report such crimes?

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I think this is another case of who gives a stuff. Working girls suffering violence get headlines, punters get what they deserve. A friend of mine was staggering home after being on the town. Two prostitutes offered him a "two for the price of one" session. So he took them home. One pulled his jumper over his face and the other his trousers round his ankles. They grabbed anything of value and legged it. He called the police who could not stop laughing as they took his statement. Told him there was no chance of a conviction or a solving of the crime.

Punters getting mugged on punts, do they report such crimes?

 

I give a stuff, and thought it was a fair question to ask. What you describe in your reply is hardly selling the need for no personal security. Please understand i'm just trying to get my head around the seasoned pro's (like yourself maybe?) getting an address and just turning up hoping for the best. Sounds crazy to me. You'll go into a strangers gaff with several rooms, not knowing whose in the building (if anyone at that particular time) and still be relaxed to have a good time. Maybe i'm thinking too much like a WG, being sensible, or both.           

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I would never see a girl at her incall for safety reasons. 

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I would never see a girl at her incall for safety reasons. 

Severely limiting your options then - is this aimed at just indies or parlours as well?

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I guess incall visits are perhaps more popular than outcalls - surely guys you're not all just turning up hoping for the best?   

 

Pretty much - yes.

 

Take sensible precautions - take as little with you as possible (I usually only carry cash and my keys, no cards) - but on the whole, I figure the chances of walking into a room and getting mugged for my punting cash is pretty low.

 

And I guess it's a lot safer now than it used to be - back in the day I used to see a card in a phonebox, call the number, get the address and go there.  Now at least we've got forums like this where people post about bad experiences.

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I would never see a girl at her incall for safety reasons. 

 

Good to read someone else on my wavelength 

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Pretty much - yes.

 

Take sensible precautions - take as little with you as possible (I usually only carry cash and my keys, no cards) - but on the whole, I figure the chances of walking into a room and getting mugged for my punting cash is pretty low.

 

And I guess it's a lot safer now than it used to be - back in the day I used to see a card in a phonebox, call the number, get the address and go there.  Now at least we've got forums like this where people post about bad experiences.

 

In the real world i'm sensible - This punting world its hard to apply the same precaution. You're literally know before you set off you're going into the unknown where its 50/50 something may go off. Going back to personal security, nobody other than you, and the person you're going to meet knows where you are at that time. 

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Good to read someone else on my wavelength 

 

I think most punters on here though would think the wavelength is narrow band.

 

Not a criticism, just see this as limiting your options and I have reservations about outcalls being any less safe.

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I think most punters on here though would think the wavelength is narrow band.

 

Not a criticism, just see this as limiting your options and I have reservations about outcalls being any less safe.

 

Please elaborate the point on outcalls

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I have been punting for 30 years and have never let it worry me.  I have never been assaulted/robbed while visiting. Outcalls are a dreadful waste of money, although I have had a few. On visits, I do not restrict the cards I take but I generally have only the money for the punt + £30.  Cheap watch + punting phone (non-smart).

 

Essentially the WG bears the risks.  If you are worried book through the AW system and email the details to yourself (and delete on your safe return).

 

The only time I felt threatened was when a grandmother came to the door (I ran!).

 

Jack

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@raylondoner I've never came across a girl who didn't offer outcalls, so my options have never been limited by refusing incalls. 

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@RustyPipe Totally agree with you!  Good post/topic btw. 

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@RustyPipe Totally agree with you!  Good post/topic btw. 

 

I don't understand why you both feel that an outcall is safer.

Surely you have all the same dangers - the girl could steal stuff, her gang of thugs could turn up, etc.

 

The only difference is that with an outcall you have no exit route.

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It's a very good topic. I normally book through agencies, so I believe I feel a little bit more secure if I go to see a girl I haven't met before for an incall appointment. If I decide to book an Indy, it's usually for an outcall appointment for the first time. I don't use brothels or parlours. I've been seeing escorts for just over 10 years following this policy and I've never had a nasty situation- I hope that good fortune continues.

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I don't understand why you both feel that an outcall is safer.

Surely you have all the same dangers - the girl could steal stuff, her gang of thugs could turn up, etc.

 

The only difference is that with an outcall you have no exit route.

 

When I book outcalls with a first time escort, they are always at a hotel. That type of booking has been more common for me and never had a problem.

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I don't understand why you both feel that an outcall is safer.

Surely you have all the same dangers - the girl could steal stuff, her gang of thugs could turn up, etc.

 

The only difference is that with an outcall you have no exit route.

 

If a gang of thugs wants to turn up at a hotel to have a "party" i'll feel much more comfortable  :P

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I have been punting for 30 years and have never let it worry me.  I have never been assaulted/robbed while visiting. Outcalls are a dreadful waste of money, although I have had a few. On visits, I do not restrict the cards I take but I generally have only the money for the punt + £30.  Cheap watch + punting phone (non-smart).

 

Essentially the WG bears the risks.  If you are worried book through the AW system and email the details to yourself (and delete on your safe return).

 

The only time I felt threatened was when a grandmother came to the door (I ran!).

 

Jack

 

Thing is, an incall such as http://www.hamiltonsescorts.com/escort-sammy.htm or http://www.hamiltonsescorts.com/escort-romily.htm is over 10 times the fee you carry and not easily written off :huh:   

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When I book outcalls with a first time escort, they are always at a hotel. That type of booking has been more common for me and never had a problem.

 

And I've never had a problem on an incall - and I'd expect that's true of most people.

 

I still think that the perceived danger is higher than the actual danger.  But then humans are notoriously bad at assessing danger - taking precautions over unlikely things and being reckless about things which are way more likely.

 

I'd think that I'm more likely to have something bad happen to me driving to a punt than at the actual punt itself, for example.

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What I meant about no one giving a stuff was the police, the media and researchers.

Personally I never worry about my own personal safety. In my working life I visit problem areas snd some dangerous clients. I have a great radar for trouble and get out fast.

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A friend of mine was staggering home after being on the town. Two prostitutes offered him a "two for the price of one" session. So he took them home. One pulled his jumper over his face and the other his trousers round his ankles. They grabbed anything of value and legged it. He called the police who could not stop laughing as they took his statement

 

:D  I think he probably got his money's worth just to be able to tell and retell the tale, though I presume he has a bachelor flat.

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When I book outcalls with a first time escort, they are always at a hotel. That type of booking has been more common for me and never had a problem.

 

Exactly!  I normally book in-calls because I prefer the spontaneity this offers but, if I have doubts about the area or the location, I will happily log onto between9and5.com and book a mutually-convenient day-room for the meet.  I am a lot more concerned about grotty flats than I am thugs popping out of closets to rob me.

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