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For The New Ladies: What Were Your Expectations And Experiences When You First Started?

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What sexual practices had you experienced when you first started escorting? Obviously penetrative sex, I would imagine, probably giving blow jobs.

 

But what about the more extreme practices? Had you experienced facials, swallowing, anal, different positions, snowballing, MMF, FFM, etc.?

 

If so was this through personal experience or through watching porn?

 

What expectations did you have once you started? Did you expect to perform the acts that you had personally experienced or had seen in porn?

 

A number of times, new ladies that I have visited have said that they never tried such and such before or were surprised when something happened: me asking for a facial for example: 'I've never tried that, but I'll give it a go', or me licking my cum of of a Ladies face: 'Do you think that's weird?', 'Not if you enjoy it'.

 

Did you learn something through Escorting? Something physical, something good, something bad, something about yourself and others?

 

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You do ask a lot of questions! That is a huge essay to answer, but here are my brief answers!

 

What sexual practices had you experienced when you first started escorting? Obviously penetrative sex, I would imagine, probably giving blow jobs.

Most of them, but choose not to do 'everything' with clients for reasons of comfort, safety and health. 

 

But what about the more extreme practices? Had you experienced facials, swallowing, anal, different positions, snowballing, MMF, FFM, etc.?

Yes to all mentioned here, and a few more!  but again I choose not to do with clients, or possibly only with those I know well- for example, I wouldn't let a client tie me down or dominate me, but I may have with those who I know well and trust, 

MMF- I have done a few with a male partner, but I wouldn't do with two strange men for safety. 

 

If so was this through personal experience or through watching porn?

I'm lucky enough to have a deviant, open minded partner! 

 

What expectations did you have once you started? Did you expect to perform the acts that you had personally experienced or had seen in porn?

That the clients would be, sad, lonely desperate old men. Not true, the range of types surprised and pleased me. I was also pleasantly surprised how my pleasure would be so important to so many men, In terms of services, I have found my clients on the vanilla side and rarely get asked for anything extreme- maybe because I don't advertise them! I tend to avoid clients who ring me up with scenarios they have taken from porn because it's just not me and I don't offer services such as anal or CIM. I have never found not offering these things hinder me! Mind you there are probably things I do that others wouldn't so I guess clients figure out what is and isn't important to them! 

 

Porn has never been my thing or important in terms of inspiring me!

 

Did you learn something through Escorting? Something physical, something good, something bad, something about yourself and others?

As I said first off- I was surprised how lovely most men I saw were- saying that I wheedle out the idiots on the phone. The number of stupid calls I get still amazes me! Oh and that even average looking, plump birds can be successful in this game! ;)

 

EDIT: Bollocks- just read you were asking NEW ladies. Well, I've done it now so you'l have to read it! 

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I suspect that there are a very limited number of new girls reading these threads, although I stand to be corrected.  Therefore well done on Minxy for adding her contribution. :)

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Please don't take this the wrong way but I hope that new ladies don't respond to this thread.   My reason for saying this is new ladies are often preyed on by undesirables and weirdo's, which is why it always worries when new ladies come on the forums asking for advice.

 

No offence Polly I know you meant well.

 

Huggs H x

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You do ask a lot of questions! That is a huge essay to answer, but here are my brief answers!

 

What sexual practices had you experienced when you first started escorting? Obviously penetrative sex, I would imagine, probably giving blow jobs.

Most of them, but choose not to do 'everything' with clients for reasons of comfort, safety and health. 

 

But what about the more extreme practices? Had you experienced facials, swallowing, anal, different positions, snowballing, MMF, FFM, etc.?

Yes to all mentioned here, and a few more!  but again I choose not to do with clients, or possibly only with those I know well- for example, I wouldn't let a client tie me down or dominate me, but I may have with those who I know well and trust, 

MMF- I have done a few with a male partner, but I wouldn't do with two strange men for safety. 

 

If so was this through personal experience or through watching porn?

I'm lucky enough to have a deviant, open minded partner! 

 

What expectations did you have once you started? Did you expect to perform the acts that you had personally experienced or had seen in porn?

That the clients would be, sad, lonely desperate old men. Not true, the range of types surprised and pleased me. I was also pleasantly surprised how my pleasure would be so important to so many men, In terms of services, I have found my clients on the vanilla side and rarely get asked for anything extreme- maybe because I don't advertise them! I tend to avoid clients who ring me up with scenarios they have taken from porn because it's just not me and I don't offer services such as anal or CIM. I have never found not offering these things hinder me! Mind you there are probably things I do that others wouldn't so I guess clients figure out what is and isn't important to them! 

 

Porn has never been my thing or important in terms of inspiring me!

 

Did you learn something through Escorting? Something physical, something good, something bad, something about yourself and others?

As I said first off- I was surprised how lovely most men I saw were- saying that I wheedle out the idiots on the phone. The number of stupid calls I get still amazes me! Oh and that even average looking, plump birds can be successful in this game! ;)

 

EDIT: Bollocks- just read you were asking NEW ladies. Well, I've done it now so you'l have to read it! 

Perhaps 'new' was a bit restrictive and not what I had in mind!

 

Thanks for the considered, thoughtful and honest reply, it is appreciated.

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Please don't take this the wrong way but I hope that new ladies don't respond to this thread.   My reason for saying this is new ladies are often preyed on by undesirables and weirdo's, which is why it always worries when new ladies come on the forums asking for advice.

 

No offence Polly I know you meant well.

 

Huggs H x

Please see previous: perhaps 'new' wasn't the term I was looking for, as you know.

 

What I am interested in, is feedback/views from ladies who previously had experienced 'vanilla sex', is that the right term(?) to suddenly, having 'crossed the line' into a totally (or is it) arena.

 

Rightly or wrongly, I figured that the newcomers would be the ones may need to amend/adapt/continue their sexual outlook: so I felt that this was/is a reasonable question and I still do.

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Please see previous: perhaps 'new' wasn't the term I was looking for, as you know.

 

What I am interested in, is feedback/views from ladies who previously had experienced 'vanilla sex', is that the right term(?) to suddenly, having 'crossed the line' into a totally (or is it) arena.

 

Rightly or wrongly, I figured that the newcomers would be the ones may need to amend/adapt/continue their sexual outlook: so I felt that this was/is a reasonable question and I still do.

Why would you think that work sex is 'wilder' than what people do in their private life, either before they start or whilst they've been working?

The two things are totally different, and what I do at work bears no comparison or relation to my private life at all, the former being incredibly vanilla (to me at least) and the latter being nothing of the sort. Most people go for the more avant garde stuff when they're with somebody they know well enough to trust implicitly, which hardly lends itself to a punting scenario :).

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Why would you think that work sex is 'wilder' than what people do in their private life, either before they start or whilst they've been working?

The two things are totally different, and what I do at work bears no comparison or relation to my private life at all, the former being incredibly vanilla (to me at least) and the latter being nothing of the sort. Most people go for the more avant garde stuff when they're with somebody they know well enough to trust implicitly, which hardly lends itself to a punting scenario :).

Years ago I posted a question/poll that aimed to determine what sexual acts punters has experienced in their married/partnered life, versus that in their punting life.

 

The results indicated that the punting sex was 'wilder' than that found at home.

 

Unless the World has suddenly become more liberated (through the easy availbility of porn?), I'd guess this is more or less the same?

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Years ago I posted a question/poll that aimed to determine what sexual acts punters has experienced in their married/partnered life, versus that in their punting life.

 

The results indicated that the punting sex was 'wilder' than that found at home.

 

Unless the World has suddenly become more liberated (through the easy availbility of porn?), I'd guess this is more or less the same?

This depends on the sex you are having. For me all the acts such as kissing, oral, OWO and a few other things were all things I'd done in my private life. I do however believe there are men and women who do not like either giving or receiving oral, or both and for the partner wishing for this then yes punting sex will for them be more adventurous. I am fairly lazy in my private life, because I am simply do not wish to be 'on' when I'm not working and with someone I'm close to. Doesn't mean it's any less erotic, just slightly different because I'm simply not with someone who's handed over a large sum of money, and who for that money needs my full attention. I guess it's something like having a conscience.

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Years ago I posted a question/poll that aimed to determine what sexual acts punters has experienced in their married/partnered life, versus that in their punting life.

 

The results indicated that the punting sex was 'wilder' than that found at home.

 

So you asked people who were dissatisfied enough with the amount or type of sex they were getting at home that they were prepared to pay out large sums of money to redress this whether punting sex was wilder than the sex they were getting at home, and now you think you can apply the answers you got to people in general? Do you see where this methodology could be a bit on the flawed side?
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So you asked people who were dissatisfied enough with the amount or type of sex they were getting at home that they were prepared to pay out large sums of money to redress this whether punting sex was wilder than the sex they were getting at home, and now you think you can apply the answers you got to people in general? Do you see where this methodology could be a bit on the flawed side?

Absolutely! If I'd asked mumsnet, I'd have got a different bias! But its the only forum that I am aware of where we can ask such questions. I could ask a question about wallpapering on here (in off topic), but I could hardly ask a questions about anal sex on a wallpapering forum (on of off topic), could I.

 

Of course we are biased on here. Of course any answers I get on here can't be applied to people in general.

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Absolutely! If I'd asked mumsnet, I'd have got a different bias! But its the only forum that I am aware of where we can ask such questions. I could ask a question about wallpapering on here (in off topic), but I could hardly ask a questions about anal sex on a wallpapering forum (on of off topic), could I.

 

Of course we are biased on here. Of course any answers I get on here can't be applied to people in general.

Which is what my post was also trying to say. Some couples simply don't perform certain acts, and those acts to other people are an everyday part of their sex life. Going onto the paid for sex scene they aren't necessarily going to be any wilder. Ask anyone who's been to a swinging club!

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Which is what my post was also trying to say. Some couples simply don't perform certain acts, and those acts to other people are an everyday part of their sex life. Going onto the paid for sex scene they aren't necessarily going to be any wilder. Ask anyone who's been to a swinging club!

So its horses for courses, really? Some escorts have had wild sex in their private life, others not so, the reverse is also true in their professional lives.

 

I still wonder how much porn influences what we expect in both scenarios. Aliens watching us must think that we make babies by shoving our dicks in various holes and then cum all over our ladies faces who then pass the cum onto another lady. Gay porn must be even more confusing!

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So its horses for courses, really? Some escorts have had wild sex in their private life, others not so, the reverse is also true in their professional lives.

 

I still wonder how much porn influences what we expect in both scenarios. Aliens watching us must think that we make babies by shoving our dicks in various holes and then cum all over our ladies faces who then pass the cum onto another lady. Gay porn must be even more confusing!

Not quite, what I'm trying to say is there are different definitions of 'wild'. For instance I consider 69/oral sex/doggy/woman on top to be pretty much normal, yet some people would consider that 'wild'.

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Not quite, what I'm trying to say is there are different definitions of 'wild'. For instance I consider 69/oral sex/doggy/woman on top to be pretty much normal, yet some people would consider that 'wild'.

'Wild thing, you make my heart sing'.

 

I don't really like 69, as I miss the visual stimulus of having my cock sucked and besides, I can't concentrate!

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'Wild thing, you make my heart sing'. I don't really like 69, as I miss the visual stimulus of having my cock sucked and besides, I can't concentrate!

Oh I dunno, a crafty peek at what's going on from between her legs with her rear end right in front of your face is quite a sight to behold! :)

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Why would you think that work sex is 'wilder' than what people do in their private life, either before they start or whilst they've been working?

The two things are totally different, and what I do at work bears no comparison or relation to my private life at all, the former being incredibly vanilla (to me at least) and the latter being nothing of the sort. Most people go for the more avant garde stuff when they're with somebody they know well enough to trust implicitly, which hardly lends itself to a punting scenario :).

Oops, I voted that down, sorry. Can I withdraw the vote?

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Oops, I voted that down, sorry. Can I withdraw the vote?

I voted her up again to get everything back to zero. If you want to vote her up again someone else who wasn't going to vote might be prepared to make a proxy vote. :-)

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I voted her up again to get everything back to zero. If you want to vote her up again someone else who wasn't going to vote might be prepared to make a proxy vote. :-)

Her votes have been up and down more times than a whore's drawers! IF you get my drift...

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Her votes have been up and down more times than a whore's drawers! IF you get my drift...

The voting system can get a bit surreal. It's not like the votes really count towards anything, so it seems more ornamental than anything.

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I voted her up again to get everything back to zero. If you want to vote her up again someone else who wasn't going to vote might be prepared to make a proxy vote. :-)

Proxy voting?

 

Lord save us  :huh:

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Not quite, what I'm trying to say is there are different definitions of 'wild'. For instance I consider 69/oral sex/doggy/woman on top to be pretty much normal, yet some people would consider that 'wild'.

 

So do I, although I would never choose to do 69 or RO. I've met punters who hadn't even seen a woman naked in years, and for whom asking to do it with the light on was practically a hanging offence at home. I've also met punters who were keen on all sorts of BDSM or other 'scene' type stuff with their other halves but occasionally just wanted a bit of a fuss and a vanilla-type GFE which they still weren't getting at home, however much off the wall stuff they'd been doing at clubs or with non-paid people they'd met. Sex and intimacy are two completely different things.

 

I don't know why the OP keeps bringing porn up; last time I looked (and I don't really watch it because it doesn't interest me) porn had about as much to do with the way people have sex in the real world as the Grand Prix has to do with taking the hatchback over to Morrisons to do the shopping. I'd be even more amazed if any aliens watching associated it in any way with reproduction, since babies don't ordinarily appear in porn.

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So do I, although I would never choose to do 69 or RO. I've met punters who hadn't even seen a woman naked in years, and for whom asking to do it with the light on was practically a hanging offence at home. I've also met punters who were keen on all sorts of BDSM or other 'scene' type stuff with their other halves but occasionally just wanted a bit of a fuss and a vanilla-type GFE which they still weren't getting at home, however much off the wall stuff they'd been doing at clubs or with non-paid people they'd met. Sex and intimacy are two completely different things.

 

I don't know why the OP keeps bringing porn up; last time I looked (and I don't really watch it because it doesn't interest me) porn had about as much to do with the way people have sex in the real world as the Grand Prix has to do with taking the hatchback over to Morrisons to do the shopping. I'd be even more amazed if any aliens watching associated it in any way with reproduction, since babies don't ordinarily appear in porn.

I've brought porn up a few times as I consider it paints an unrealistic picture of what is the 'norm'. I like the analogy. And OK, the making of babies, not the delivery of them...

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But people who get their ideas about sex from porn are another group altogether (made up, I suspect, of those who don't get much of the former); the majority of adults are capable of differentiating between a performance orchestrated, played out and produced for the benefit of the viewer rather than the participants and real sex, where the participants are the only people involved?

 

Nobody in their right mind would consider porn to be relevant to what real sex was like any more than people watching Richard Curtis films would believe that England was populated entirely by cuntish and punchable middle-class types unable to dress themselves properly, form ordinary adult relationships or express any emotion without mumbling incoherently or making tedious, unfunny double entendres. They are both works of fiction, and therefore you're trying to compare apples and oranges?

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But people who get their ideas about sex from porn are another group altogether (made up, I suspect, of those who don't get much of the former); the majority of adults are capable of differentiating between a performance orchestrated, played out and produced for the benefit of the viewer rather than the participants and real sex, where the participants are the only people involved?

 

Nobody in their right mind would consider porn to be relevant to what real sex was like any more than people watching Richard Curtis films would believe that England was populated entirely by cuntish and punchable middle-class types unable to dress themselves properly, form ordinary adult relationships or express any emotion without mumbling incoherently or making tedious, unfunny double entendres. They are both works of fiction, and therefore you're trying to compare apples and oranges?

 

umm

there was a woman on the radio this morning talking about kids sexually abusing each other.  She was claiming that porn was one of the reasons this happened -kids arfe not best equipped to understand that porn is acted, and is not real like.

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