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Refractory Period

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The time after orgasm before you can get it up again. What's yours? Or more particularly, how long after you have cum does it take for you to want to do it again? I seem to be starting to get horny about 4 hrs later......(I'm 50).

According to wikipaedia an 18 year old male has a period of 15mins increasing to 20 hrs+ at age 70......

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The time after orgasm before you can get it up again. What's yours? Or more particularly, how long after you have cum does it take for you to want to do it again? I seem to be starting to get horny about 4 hrs later......(I'm 50).

According to wikipaedia an 18 year old male has a period of 15mins increasing to 20 hrs+ at age 70......

I thought this post was going to be about Astronomy. Im 57 and can get it up again after 20 mins with the right girl, mind I wont be doing it again the next day.

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I'm 24 and I won't even lose my erection after the first load if I am still stimulated, but it can take a further 40 mins to an hour to be able to come again.

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The time after orgasm before you can get it up again. What's yours? Or more particularly, how long after you have cum does it take for you to want to do it again? I seem to be starting to get horny about 4 hrs later......(I'm 50).

According to wikipaedia an 18 year old male has a period of 15mins increasing to 20 hrs+ at age 70......

For me its all about what stimulation i get. At Parties where there are multiple ladies i can come 5-6 times in 2 hours, but i have never done just one 2 hour Party, i stay for the next one after an hours break. At the second one i can come 3-4 times. So around 20 minutes recovery time.

At 121s i can come 2-3 times in an hour. I am 44.

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For me its all about what stimulation i get. At Parties where there are multiple ladies i can come 5-6 times in 2 hours, but i have never done just one 2 hour Party, i stay for the next one after an hours break. At the second one i can come 3-4 times. So 20 minutes recovery time.

At 121s i can come 2-3 times in an hour. I am 44.

You ARE the man. I wish that I could keep up and perform like that. 3 cums in a day are good for me.

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You ARE the man. I wish that I could keep up and perform like that. 3 cums in a day are good for me.

As you know Steve its rude not show your appreciation to the Party ladies.:);)

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I'm 47 and it's at least a good couple of hours for me. Hence usually only go for 30 min appointments.

One lady I see from time to time is determined to make me cum twice in an hour next visit. Not sure whether I am looking forward to that or not!

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I interrupt this thread to bring you an important newsflash ;

Women can come ad infinitum. :)

Thank you. :):D

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I thought this post was going to be about Astronomy. Im 57 and can get it up again after 20 mins with the right girl, mind I wont be doing it again the next day.

I though the thread was about furnace bricks - otherwise no comment!

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I thought this post was going to be about Astronomy. Im 57 and can get it up again after 20 mins with the right girl, mind I wont be doing it again the next day.

Hmm, wasnt expecting astronomy as much as crucibles and ceramics but never mind.

Anyway, my question is not about when you can get it it up again but how long does it normally take for you to want to get it up again: eg I jacked off this morning at 730 to clear my head of lascivious thoughts as I had a busy day but by midday my thoughts were turning to sex as usual.

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I interrupt this thread to bring you an important newsflash ;

Women can come ad infinitum. :)

Thank you. :):D

You know how to put a dampner on things:D Just for that you can have the wet spot.

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36 and don't lose me stiffy with the right chick but whereas I could go twice in a half hour, I tend to need 45 minutes these days, so one hour is the ideal.

Going to Ldn this week so will go for three Soho sessions - breakfast, lunch and dinner. Miss my youth when I could do five pops a day in The Dam.

Does Viagra help you jizz more or just keep it up more?

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36 and don't lose me stiffy with the right chick but whereas I could go twice in a half hour, I tend to need 45 minutes these days, so one hour is the ideal.

Going to Ldn this week so will go for three Soho sessions - breakfast, lunch and dinner. Miss my youth when I could do five pops a day in The Dam.

Does Viagra help you jizz more or just keep it up more?

AFAIK it helps to maintain an erection and may in fact delay ejaculation.

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Hate to say this but you (most of you anyway) are misunderstanding what I asked - I am not asking how fast or how often in a given time you can cum again but how long it takes for you to feel like you want to/have to do it again.

Let me try and put it simply - you wake up horny as hell, you go to a parlour or toss off if you are hard up as well as hard on and for a while you are satisfied and you can concentrate on your job or whatever. Then after a certain amount of time the horniness starts to build up again and you repeat the cycle.

I am not asking about how many times in an hour you can cum at a party!

It is widely held that women do not have a refractory time but Mrs Lurcio for sure appears to work on a ten day cycle compared to my half a day.........

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For me its all about what stimulation i get. At Parties where there are multiple ladies i can come 5-6 times in 2 hours, but i have never done just one 2 hour Party, i stay for the next one after an hours break. At the second one i can come 3-4 times. So around 20 minutes recovery time.

At 121s i can come 2-3 times in an hour. I am 44.

I've just been to a particularly good LMP party, with some great girls, and I managed 4 in two hours, which I think is a personal best. The last orgasm wasn't very, ahem, productive though.....:)

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I've just been to a particularly good LMP party, with some great girls, and I managed 4 in two hours, which I think is a personal best. The last orgasm wasn't very, ahem, productive though.....:)

I know what you mean. Em called it my last dribble once, ever diminishing returns, but great fun along the way.:)

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I'm 24 and I won't even lose my erection after the first load if I am still stimulated, but it can take a further 40 mins to an hour to be able to come again.

Apart from the fact that I am exactly twice Mr Mouse's age, this could have been written by me :).

I do find however that the number of punts where I come twice in an hour are getting further apart :).

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To answer the OP, for me it depends on the woman and the situation: sometimes I lose interest straight after I cum, harsh I know but true, a wave of disappointment and/or inertia rushes over me. Other times I'm barely sated and raring to go again more or less straight away. I think it's a psychological as well as a physiological thing.

However, recently I've been experimenting with a different approach; preventing myself from coming for as long as I can, getting to the brink then pulling back and building up all over again. So, I've cum once at the end of some parties recently but its been incredibly intense; I had a 3-some today with two women off the other site and had a mind-blowing orgasm at the end of the hour - I was at the precipice for the best part of half an hour: the final release was ecstatic. It's been good for me because I'm feeling less jaded than I did a while back when punting was becoming a bit monotonous. I was being driven by how many times I could cum, trying to fit 2/3 into an hour booking, looking at my watch to check how much time had gone/was left, and sometimes mistiming things and failing: I'd lost sight of the quality of the experience. Not for everyone, I know, and I'm not trying to convert anyone, but it's working for me at the moment.

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Depends on the orgasm, if it so intense I go blind for a few moments and I am tingling all over then I like to have a little sleep in the persons arms and then round 2 maybe a hour or so later, but if it's just a normal one then I like to carry on and see if I can get another ;)

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;)

For me, it's several hours and several hours. Was the same when I was a teenager. I always suspected I was a bit below par in that department :D

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Regarding the original post, I hseem to have no "refractory" period, simply put, put me in front of a sexy girl and I'm horny until quite a long time after I leave.

As to how long do I have to wait between orgasm and starting again, generally it's about 30-45 minutes depending on circumstances. But I have found a great trick, by giving my wedding tackle a good cold shower after orgasm he seems to revive immediately.

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I interrupt this thread to bring you an important newsflash ;

Women can come ad infinitum

All of them?

Or only some? (i.e. a self-selected sample)

Or haven't you bothered to check? ;)

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Have gone twice in an 45 min booking and once 3 times in an hour booking so about 10 mins.

But it all depends: time since I last had sex, how horney I am, how much I like the girl.

Average about 3 in a 2 hour booking.

Most was about 5 times in a 3 hour booking. And could have gone for more but time ran out. But I hadnt had so much as a wank for 2 months and she was the most gorgeous and friendliest girl Ive ever met. Sadly retired. And was the most expensive.....

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