nikitamids

Transportation Drivers And Security

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I have a curiosity question for all.. 

How many ladies like myself drive themselves to out calls?

Do you ever feel unsafe meeting clients on out calls without security?

Have you every got into a dodgy situation with a nutty client?

wondered what people thoughts are as personally I have never felt the need to have someone escort me too and from appointments..

 

I have a no rush attitude and prefer not to have someone else to worry about outside.I did have that in the early days but do not feel the need for it..as a lot of the places I visit are very rural it would stick out having someone hovering outside there home.

 

and for the clients..

how may of you prefer that someone doesn't have a minder/ security sat outside your home?

or maybe it doesn't bother you

 

Just being nosy :)

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I have a curiosity question for all.. 

How many ladies like myself drive themselves to out calls?

Do you ever feel unsafe meeting clients on out calls without security?

Have you every got into a dodgy situation with a nutty client?

wondered what people thoughts are as personally I have never felt the need to have someone escort me too and from appointments..

 

I have a no rush attitude and prefer not to have someone else to worry about outside.I did have that in the early days but do not feel the need for it..as a lot of the places I visit are very rural it would stick out having someone hovering outside there home.

 

and for the clients..

how may of you prefer that someone doesn't have a minder/ security sat outside your home?

or maybe it doesn't bother you

 

Just being nosy :)

 

 

What is the security guy going to do for you if the punter is 18 stones of muscle and a bit of a nut job?

 

At the end of the day you are going to end up calling the cops..... so yeah what is the point of have security unless it is for the little tiny johns.....

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What is the security guy going to do for you if the punter is 18 stones of muscle and a bit of a nut job?

 

At the end of the day you are going to end up calling the cops..... so yeah what is the point of have security unless it is for the little tiny johns.....

But how would you call the cops if he's jumping on your head,holding you down,throttling you etc?And its amazing how many guys will happily get physical with a woman but wont with a man and i mean any man,not necessarily a big bloke

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and for the clients..

how may of you prefer that someone doesn't have a minder/ security sat outside your home?

or maybe it doesn't bother you

 

 

 

I would prefer not to know. I would like to hope that the lady does have some kind of security as there are some nut jobs out there you only have to have a read on the dangerouse punter warnings board.

 

So I would like to take it for granted that she is working safely.

 

If she and him were parked outside my house I wouldnt be happy on account of a lack of discretion

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What is the security guy going to do for you if the punter is 18 stones of muscle and a bit of a nut job?

 

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Cheat and use a weapon, probably.

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I've driven myself, also used a driver and also used public transport. All depends on the location, time of day, length of booking etc but whatever I do there's always someone who knows where I am. I find NOT having to drive means I arrive a lot more refreshed, don't have to worry about parking, or getting stressed re the traffic. If it is a driver I'm using then just as if I arrive on my own discretion is paramount, the client will not know any different, there will be no obvious hovering and it won't affect his experience one bit. 

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I use a driver but it is one of my rules that they drop me off , make sure I get through the door safely and wait for my text to say every things is ok and the are not allowed to sit outside the customers property as this is a lack of respect and discretion also my driver always is aware what time my time ends.  However my regular punters I normally drive myself.  

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I might be seen as a little picky.....but to me it doesn't seem the right thing to do for a girl to come on the internet and openly announce she travels with no security :unsure:

 

(I haven't checked your profile but girls generally have a contact to be used for booking them so are not often anonymous here).

 

Just want girls to be safe.

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I'm too much of a wuss to do outcalls to private homes- mainly because of the security issue, but when doing outcalls to hotels I go by cab. Someone always knows where I am but I don't have a minder waiting for me outside. I always call the client in their hotel room before I leave to ensure they are where they say they are. 

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The first rule of security, don't let people know your security.....

second rule of security read rule one again.

Been doing it know over 12 years.

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The first rule of security, don't let people know your security.....

second rule of security read rule one again.

Been doing it know over 12 years.

 

What does dont let other people know your security mean?

 

You mean, so people cannot figure out a way to break your security if they know what it is?

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everyone has there own working practices nothing to do with announcing no security :) and very capable of making sure I meet no nutters someone knows where I am at all times even though I travel alone..been working longer than 12 years and up to now had no problems :) 

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I'm too much of a wuss to do outcalls to private  homes

 

Me too !! ... I never make bookings at my home, I usually book outcall when I am staying in a hotel.

 

I don't mind if the girl has a driver as long as they are discrete.

 

I once had a girl ask if her driver could come up to the room to make sure I was alone... I agreed but then she asked if it would be ok if he waited in the bathroom until we finished....erm ... NO WAY !! ... then asked if it would be ok if he waited in the hallway outside the room..... erm ... NOPE ... The driver ended up waiting in the bar.

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I might be seen as a little picky.....but to me it doesn't seem the right thing to do for a girl to come on the internet and openly announce she travels with no security :unsure:

 

(I haven't checked your profile but girls generally have a contact to be used for booking them so are not often anonymous here).

 

Just want girls to be safe.

 

like I said am careful so I have no security issues just wondered how other felt about it or handled it ...

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    Well i have done a bit of part time driving for escorts and its dead boring !

 

    I always made it clear i was there to drive and thats all .As for security i would stay parked where she asked me to stay but if the punter is a nutter she still has to get out of the house so what good is her so called security then ? i think most are just dreamers .

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    Well i have done a bit of part time driving for escorts and its dead boring !

 

    I always made it clear i was there to drive and thats all .As for security i would stay parked where she asked me to stay but if the punter is a nutter she still has to get out of the house so what good is her so called security then ? i think most are just dreamers .

Yeah but that nutter might be thinking she has a bigger nutter, unless he is a high ranking nutter with a couple more guys in the house

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I've had a driver since I started escorting. Most of my outcalls are to central London hotels. It would not be practical for me to be driving around for ages looking for parking space. Traffic is also a big issue in London. My driver knows all the shortcuts and can quite easily re-route if traffic is looking bad, where as I'd be using a satnav [which always takes me the longer route] and probably arrive late!

 

Perhaps I'd be driving around myself if I lived outside London. Who knows. Right now, this is the best and most practical and cost effective way for me.

 

I only drive to an outcall if it's a local hotel.

 

I don't do outcalls to private residence. I don't feel safe doing so.

 

Never had a nutter on an outcall nor incall

 

I've never felt the need to rush on an outcall. Driver knows I'll never be back on time. He knows to give or take 30 mins. If I am more than 30 mins late, he will call me to check all is well.

 

Sometimes bookings are extended. Driver knows to be prepared for any such scenarios.  It helps that the driver is a personal friend I've known since my teens! :D

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    Well i have done a bit of part time driving for escorts and its dead boring !

 

    I always made it clear i was there to drive and thats all .As for security i would stay parked where she asked me to stay but if the punter is a nutter she still has to get out of the house so what good is her so called security then ? i think most are just dreamers .

 

Very odd last sentence. What are these dreamers dreaming about?

 

I think if a punter knew there was a driver/security awaiting the lady's arrival, he's far less likely to mistreat her. It's a deterrent. Some men feel all big and bad knowing a lady has no security in place.

 

In this game, you have to take every safety measure you possibly can. Hopefully other drivers are far more proactive than you were, and would know what to do if a situation did arise.

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I stopped doing outcalls after an incident in Stafford.  I had a driver on speed dial but fat lot of good that did when the punter is trying to tie his sweaty T-Shirt round your neck.  On that occasion I head butted and ran.  This guy knew I had a driver not so far away too.

 

Ladies don't ever get complacent, even with security.

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I stopped doing outcalls after an incident in Stafford.  I had a driver on speed dial but fat lot of good that did when the punter is trying to tie his sweaty T-Shirt round your neck.  On that occasion I head butted and ran.  This guy knew I had a driver not so far away too.

 

Ladies don't ever get complacent, even with security.

 

Absolutely agree. You can never be too safe.

 

What did your driver do when you ran out in a state? If something like that happened to me, I'd expect my driver to take control of the situation, i.e. calling the police etc.

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Absolutely agree. You can never be too safe.

 

What did your driver do when you ran out in a state? If something like that happened to me, I'd expect my driver to take control of the situation, i.e. calling the police etc.

 

He left me in the car shaking while he went knocking on the guys door...  Bloody idiot tried to give him a bottle of wine and some perfume for me saying it all was a mistake and he mistook my services.  My driver (was my partner at the time) threw the wine back into the room and told him to watch his back.  All I wanted to do was go home and get a shower and cry.  Getting the police isn't always the answer.

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He left me in the car shaking while he went knocking on the guys door...  Bloody idiot tried to give him a bottle of wine and some perfume for me saying it all was a mistake and he mistook my services.  My driver (was my partner at the time) threw the wine back into the room and told him to watch his back.  All I wanted to do was go home and get a shower and cry.  Getting the police isn't always the answer.

Sorry to hear you had problems I understand that ladies have to be vigilant when working alone like I have said not totally in the dark when I work alone someone knows where I am at all times but everyone has different methods to help them avoid nutty clients I would never skimp on my checks and am always 100% sure who and where I am visiting ...

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"Very odd last sentence. What are these dreamers dreaming about?"    Being big hard men when they are of no real use as Holly shows "I had a driver on speed dial but fat lot of good that did when the punter is trying to tie his sweaty T-Shirt round your neck."  the only good the drive does is being parked up were the girl knows she can run too, but only she can get herself out of that mess , as Holly did.

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I do find it sad to hear when girls are in situations with crazy clients but as I said a post back as a lone lady I have lots of things I can check and I know they have always worked for me.I fully understand ladies work for as many appointments as they can get but personally I am over fussy at times and always if I am not 100% sure I don't visit 75% of  the out calls I do are from people who have already in called me..its the odd bad apples that make it dangerous for ladies ..the few new ones have been placed through my checking mincer before I go on the odd occasion over the years I have turned up and not liked the look of the place and have not gone ahead with booking...I still would not used a driver/security...

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I don't seem to have heard of SPs having security drivers recently but that is not to say they don't have the and 100% not to say they shouldn't and don't need them.

 

Read Becky Adams book Madam for how essential such security can be as well as security close enough when working out of an establishment.

 

I know a lady who drove herself to outcalls with no form of security and not surprisingly but scarily she came across some frightening oddballs. Not ony threats of violence but getting to a house 30 miles from home to find the door wide open. She went in and was shouted at by someone accusing her of breaking in to rob him.

 

And just recently a new SP found a punter trying to slip in a cock with the condom removed. After locking herself in the loo, once he appeared to have calmed down and apologised she opened the door to get a punch square on the nose. She ran out the hotel and down the road barefoot with blood flowing and was only saved by club doormen taking her inside and not letting the guy himself in.Might have been better if they let him inand gave him a physical form of deterrent.

 

Security is essential and I fear not enough SPs devise good enough measures for their own safety.

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