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Hi I'm a newbie to all this so please bare with me. I'm 20 have a partner and a baby we live with his parents and I can't stand it I really want to move out and have my own house and business but I can never save enough money basically all my money from a normal job would go on childcare. Partner won't move out so I'm stuck! I've been looking at escorting but I'm worried my body isn't good enough for it I'm a size 10 with stretch marks on my belly but I'd say facially I'm very attractive. I'm polite and friendly I live near MK but I don't know anyone there so I'd look to work there. Could anyone tell me where is good to work, hours, earnings potential?

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you might be better going onto the saafe website, this is a site specifically for w.gs and will give you some good advice and support. Hours and potential pay is hard to say, it depends on if you work for an agency,parlour or go independent and depends on what hours you choose to work and how many clients come and see you. As for your body, look about on the internet, w.gs come in all shapes and sizes so don't worry about that.Do have a look on the mentioned website though and think carefully if this is for you, as well as positives escorting has negatives and isn't always the easy route out of financial difficulty you may think it is. Think carefully before taking the plunge.

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Check out **.  Look at the competition. You will see ladies of all shapes and sizes.

 

check out the parlours in MK. there is annabellas and temptations.  Look on the MK sub topic here to see more about MK.  But think carefully about working in your home town.  Do you want to see your clients in the supermarket or pub or school gates?

 

consider if you want to show your face on the internet.  Once stuff is on the internet its there for ever.  

 

and do your sums.  Loads of money, but also costs, especially if you need a separate flat for working.

 

good luck.

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Hi I'm a newbie to all this so please bare with me. I'm 20 have a partner and a baby we live with his parents and I can't stand it I really want to move out and have my own house and business but I can never save enough money basically all my money from a normal job would go on childcare. Partner won't move out so I'm stuck! I've been looking at escorting but I'm worried my body isn't good enough for it I'm a size 10 with stretch marks on my belly but I'd say facially I'm very attractive. I'm polite and friendly I live near MK but I don't know anyone there so I'd look to work there. Could anyone tell me where is good to work, hours, earnings potential?

Stop right there. Please don't place anymore posts abut being a newbie or interested in getting into the business because you are leaving yourself wide open for abuse and weirdos. Go to saafe.com and ask there but not here.

Chloe can you help this lady at all or at least give her some pointers?

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make sure you are mentally prepared for it, and look for escorts support groups, good luck

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Stop right there.  Please don't place anymore post's abut being a newbie or interested in getting into the business because you are leaving yourself wide open for abuse and weirdo's.   Go to saafe.com and ask there but not here. 

 

Chloe can you help this lady at all or at least give her some pointers?

I have sent her a pm and advised parlour work in mk till she knows the ropes then branch out into indie once she knows the ropes. I know it goes against the indies grain but I learnt a lot there and its good to have other folk around when things go wrong the first few times. The wealth of escorting experience and knowledge knocking around the average parlour kitchen table on a daily basis is huge. 

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Hi I'm a newbie to all this so please bare with me. I'm 20 have a partner and a baby we live with his parents and I can't stand it I really want to move out and have my own house and business but I can never save enough money basically all my money from a normal job would go on childcare. Partner won't move out so I'm stuck! I've been looking at escorting but I'm worried my body isn't good enough for it I'm a size 10 with stretch marks on my belly but I'd say facially I'm very attractive. I'm polite and friendly I live near MK but I don't know anyone there so I'd look to work there. Could anyone tell me where is good to work, hours, earnings potential?

 

 

Stop right there.  Please don't place anymore post's abut being a newbie or interested in getting into the business because you are leaving yourself wide open for abuse and weirdo's.   Go to saafe.com and ask there but not here. 

 

Chloe can you help this lady at all or at least give her some pointers?

 

 

You are more than welcome to come in and have a chat with myself Autumn, and the ladies at Temptations to gain some insight, and answer any questions, you may have.

 

Even if you choose not to pursue it, or work elsewhere you are welcome for the advice, and support.

 

Autumn 

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You are more than welcome to come in and have a chat with myself Autumn, and the ladies at Temptations to gain some insight, and answer any questions, you may have.

 

Even if you choose not to pursue it, or work elsewhere you are welcome for the advice, and support.

 

Autumn 

 

You girls are lovely and thanks Chloe too thought you wouldn't mind.  You are absolutely right too, I would have said in light of the background she gave a good parlour would be the right way to go.

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Shame this person hasn't come back on and replied.

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Stop right there.  Please don't place anymore post's abut being a newbie or interested in getting into the business because you are leaving yourself wide open for abuse and weirdo's.   Go to saafe.com and ask there but not here. 

 

Chloe can you help this lady at all or at least give her some pointers?

 

Yes because all punters are oddballs and weirdos.

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Yes because all punters are oddballs and weirdos.

 

Babe Holly didn't say that, she said the girl was leaving herself open to oddballs and weirdo's, not that all gentlemen are.

 

Sweets I do the girls AW on the group settings, and I help them set up, you don't want to read half the stuff sent to them, and even the reg girls get TW's and guys who can't be arsed to read the profile and still send a e-mail saying can I have x y or z when it states that they don't offer it.

 

All Holly was doing was trying to help the lady in question avoid that.

 

It wasn't personal against you, so you don't need to be so defensive.

 

If a new punter asked you for advice you would try and tell him to avoid scam artists and bait & switch in the same way.

 

A x

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Nice touch Autumn  :)

 

My door is alway open to any girl, for a cuppa and a chat, New to the industry or not babe, it's nice to help someone find their feet, or just have a natter.

 

:) :) :) 

 

The Industry has given me a lot over the years, and I do like to give back.

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Yes because all punters are oddballs and weirdos.

 

Not at all.  When I first started I was inundated with weirdo's that do prey on new girls.  They ranged from the woman, the Avon woman behind the doors to the pillow man (who it turns out could have been very dangerous).  Later on I manned the phones for several new girls that started out and in every case the same strange people started ringing not knowing it was me the other end of the phone.

 

I should imagine all the guys here are lovely guys, those I have met certainly are and there is no way I would ever suggest that all punters are oddballs and weirdo's 'so please don't put words in my mouth' but there is no denying that are dangerous and not so nice punters out there who are for more likely to prey on new girls than girls that are more experienced or know what/who to look out for.

 

I'm surprised your jumping on me for this one and not more interested in the welfare of the lady posting.

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Yes because all punters are oddballs and weirdos.

Not really unfortunatley for he good apples there are a lot of bad apples who seek out new girls to either exploit them or attempt to mould them into what THEY want regardless of the girls feelings. Not to mention the "I'm a punternet reviewer" gang who let's face it, probably are not even on here but use it to extract services from a girl against her will with the threat of ruining her rep before she even has one. Your issue should be with those guys not with the ladies who are trying to ensure a new girl gets off on the right foot.

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You are more than welcome to come in and have a chat with myself Autumn, and the ladies at Temptations to gain some insight, and answer any questions, you may have.

 

Even if you choose not to pursue it, or work elsewhere you are welcome for the advice, and support.

 

Autumn 

Also, read some of the FRs on here and AW to see what might be expected? Just a thought.

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Yes because all punters are oddballs and weirdos.

Whilst there are plenty of genuinely nice punters who are fine and a delight to deal with, unfortunately it's the timewasters, guys on a power trip, stalkers and game player which you have to contend with right from the start and quite often they can be difficult to spot. Newbies do go through an extreme learning curve, the more experienced ladies will mostly be ignoring them so it's obvious they come back to the ones who don't know they are the guys to avoid, or what to look out for.

 

Genuine punters often don't realise how some guys behave because it would never occur to them to be like that, nor can they imagine why on earth someone would but they do and we deal with them regularly.

 

That said the problem guys never goes away, many of them resurface over and over, new ones come on the scene. Even now years down the line I still deal with some very difficult people on a daily, often weekly basis. Some guys just don't give up and if it's not directly to you it's via other ladies who they know will pass the word or message on.

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I have sent her a pm and advised parlour work in mk till she knows the ropes then branch out into indie once she knows the ropes. I know it goes against the indies grain but I learnt a lot there and its good to have other folk around when things go wrong the first few times. The wealth of escorting experience and knowledge knocking around the average parlour kitchen table on a daily basis is huge.

I think that's great advice, I'm indie but I wouldn't advise jumping into being indie first. When I came to London, I found myself a parlour solely for those reasons you state. : )

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Hi, seriously, don't worry about your size or stretch marks, you'd be surprised at the interest us men have and what type of women we're interested in anyway, size 10 wow!

You can see the good advise the other Ladies are offering you so use it, be safe.

As suggested, look at the competition first and do your homework, this is key for both punters and WG, above all I hope you enjoy it and make a lot of money.

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This is a wonderful thread.

 

I always have mixed feelings about a girl wanting to get started. I agree that starting in a parlour is a great way to begin. It's still not 100% safe, but it's certainly much better. I worked for years at a massage parlour in California and I learned a LOT about being a prostitute. The big things you learn are often about yourself: what your boundaries are and how to guard them. It's not just the dangerous predators to worry about, but also the boundary pushers. A boundary pusher may try to persuade you into doing things you don't want to do, from telling them your real name to having unprotected intercourse. There is also a certain type of BPer who is determined to find out where the "real you" is and will prod (literally or figuratively) to find the point at which you flinch.

 

Another caveat is that once you start, it is hard to quit. I wouldn't say the money is easy, but there are few jobs that are as lucrative. And I would have to say that it's pretty common to have an "easy come, easy go" attitude towards the cash flow, with budgeting being a low priority when you know that you will (probably) make a lot of money in the next few days. The easiest way to be responsible with money is to bite the bullet and pay your taxes. I happen to be the employee of my own limited company and am savvy about accounting/expenses. I am not afraid to put my money in the bank and, if after my expenses and judiciously allowing for a salary offset against taking profits in dividends, there is tax to pay on top of the business taxes, I am happy to pay it. 

 

Years ago, the man who ran the massage parlour told me his Golden Rule: don't get greedy. Pay your taxes. Don't let the offer of more money persuade you to ignore red flags. Be willing to give back the money if someone is intimidating you, because a hundred quid or so isn't worth the possible fall-out from aggravating an already angry man. (I can tell you from personal experience that this is very easy to say but hard to do when you're angry at being messed about.)

 

You also have to consider the possible repercussions of being outed. It does happen, in a variety of ways. I've heard everything from someone's father-in-law showing up at the door as a punter to an ex-partner being spiteful at the end of a relationship.

 

And, finally, be aware that being an escort can make it very difficult to have a normal romantic relationship with a partner. Men ordinarily are not OK with their partners having sex with other men, even for money. And they will worry about your safety. 

 

Anyway, if you come back to see this thread I encourage you to go to the SAAFE website and forum. 

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Its been nice to read these threads as I myself have taken the steps to become an indie after doing outcalls but also I have starting working in parlours as well as I enjoy the company. I have found it difficult to work out AW but I am getting the slowly but surely. But yes don't be greedy always stay safe but if you need any help lots of ladies are happy to help good luck xx  

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Seems like Kimberlys (no second 'e') make for a very thoughtful sort of WG...

 

Well said, ladies.

 

BTW, Kimberly (no C), when you have sussed out AW, please offer lessons to some of us poor fools still trying.

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Seems like Kimberlys (no second 'e') make for a very thoughtful sort of WG...

 

Well said, ladies.

 

BTW, Kimberly (no C), when you have sussed out AW, please offer lessons to some of us poor fools still trying.

I will do indeed, I am still and the stage of wanting to kick the dame thing :D

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Wondering where the OP has gone actually

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