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I have been seeing Asian WG's in London (almost exclusively Thai) for the last few years - but recently I have found myself taking more from my time with them when there is less emphasis on the physical and more emphasis on the companionship.

 

There have been 2 Thai girls this year that I have spent 2 hours per visit on average with, but if I'm honest, if I added up the time spent during each session on the physical stuff, it would probably amount to less than 30 minutes in a 2 hour booking.

 

Now, some of this is down to my age - I'm not as young as I was ;) - and find the request of "again" sometimes hard to live up to (I should be so lucky) - but also a great deal of this is down to how I see them as a person, as a human being who hopefully will appreciate that I try hard to offer a little more respect, attention and well, tenderness I guess.

 

I wondered if any other peeps had hit this punting 'crossroads' at all..?

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In the past I was a wham bam thank you maam, but now my wants are different, I also tend to return to ladies who have more to offer than just the (as you say) the physical stuff. This is sometimes difficult and I have become attached to some ladies and so have stopped seeing them. It is only when you stop seeing them on a professional basis you can sometimes be surprised and 2 ladies kept in contact and we occasionally go for a coffee etc. which is cool. I would never push myself upon a lady and now I look for ladies who not always in rush to do the business and then that's it, I too like the feeling of tenderness and have over the past year or so preferred an erotic massage to full service, as this provides for me a more tender/closeness than full service. That may sound strange but and it is hard to explain, except for me it allows full surrender no pressure and total relaxation. 

 

I have used escorts to provide this service, but usually the best experience is found using agency or individual who provide just this service and once you have been a few times it gets better, just have to look out for 'the crossroads' which is when I usually look for new ladies.

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Agree with this ^^ mate.

The two girls in question and I became pretty close - or as close as it's reasonably possible to be - and I'll admit that there were moments where I had to consider walking away before it became an issue. One was pretty much taken away by unfortunate circumstances beyond my (and her) control, and my relationship with the other (who is current) is pretty much at the point where I'm considering calling it off entirely.

It's unfortunate - but I'd rather get close to a girl and have a brilliant few months with her, than have an endless stream of encounters that ultimately leave me unfulfilled.

Better to have liked and lost...than never hit it off at all (or something like that!)

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I think when you are paying for a session of a hour or over, then you are paying for more than sex. I pay for an escape from reality for a hour and I very much enjoy the working girls who can weave a world for that hour  in which I am desirable and good in bed. although I enjoy it very much, I never make the mistake of believing the fantasy.

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I think when you are paying for a session of a hour or over, then you are paying for more than sex. I pay for an escape from reality for a hour and I very much enjoy the working girls who can weave a world for that hour  in which I am desirable and good in bed. although I enjoy it very much, I never make the mistake of believing the fantasy.

Mr. L:  I could not have said it better myself.  That is the reason why I return to the same girl, and you do too.

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I have been seeing Asian WG's in London (almost exclusively Thai) for the last few years - but recently I have found myself taking more from my time with them when there is less emphasis on the physical and more emphasis on the companionship.

 

There have been 2 Thai girls this year that I have spent 2 hours per visit on average with, but if I'm honest, if I added up the time spent during each session on the physical stuff, it would probably amount to less than 30 minutes in a 2 hour booking.

 

Now, some of this is down to my age - I'm not as young as I was ;) - and find the request of "again" sometimes hard to live up to (I should be so lucky) - but also a great deal of this is down to how I see them as a person, as a human being who hopefully will appreciate that I try hard to offer a little more respect, attention and well, tenderness I guess.

 

I wondered if any other peeps had hit this punting 'crossroads' at all..?

 

 

You can well appreciate why most wg's prefer men over 45-50.

1.  They are much gentler and more thoughtful of her. 

2.  They are less demanding and exhausting.  Not into jack-hammer pounding in each orifice. 

3.  They tend to book longer sessions, which are more lucrative.

4.  They are more into the fantasies and the escape from reality than the pure humping.  Much more chat and laughter.

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You can well appreciate why most wg's prefer men over 45-50.

1.  They are much gentler and more thoughtful of her. 

2.  They are less demanding and exhausting.  Not into jack-hammer pounding in each orifice. 

3.  They tend to book longer sessions, which are more lucrative.

4.  They are more into the fantasies and the escape from reality than the pure humping.  Much more chat and laughter.

 

That's an awful lot of generalisation there.

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You can well appreciate why most wg's prefer men over 45-50.

1.  They are much gentler and more thoughtful of her. 

2.  They are less demanding and exhausting.  Not into jack-hammer pounding in each orifice. 

3.  They tend to book longer sessions, which are more lucrative.

4.  They are more into the fantasies and the escape from reality than the pure humping.  Much more chat and laughter.

Oh dear, this is not the case at all... None of what has been said above is age specific. I have met my fair share of over 45's who have exhausted me (both in good ways and the not so good - ie turned up having had a few too many to drink and expected me to work miracles on their little floppy one). I have some wonderful regular clients in their mid twenties who are extremely courteous and gentlemanly, as well as older gentlemen too.

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I was hoping to create a bit of controversy.  Generalisations are always controversial…...

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Nice way to backtrack, don. As a younger punter I can say that I'm always left with WG's happy to see me again. I get my moneys worth but I am also courteous and ensure they are having fun (which they often do, more than not). I don't think this is age specific and again - I honestly think some of them enjoy an attentive, younger, gentlemen who likes sex!

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I was hoping to create a bit of controversy. Generalisations are always controversial…...

When it comes to the Thais I agree they prefer older more mature punter.

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I remember reading a blog about Thai women and the myth they prefer older men. The blogger pointed out that they prefer anyone with money. A subtle difference maybe?

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Nowt wrong with that.I'm a bit of a chatterer and generally natter no matter where i am or what i'm doing.I know on some other posters on the various forums consider being nice to a wg as some kind of weakness and actually wanting to talk to them,and view "wasting" cash talking to them as tantamount to some kind of sacrilege.As for the again reuest.You're not alone there and i reckon im probably a lump younger than you :)
Personally i wouldnt call this a crossroads as that kind of implies some kind of problem.If its what you enjoy and makes you happy then fair play to you and long may you keep going :)

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Nice way to backtrack, don. As a younger punter I can say that I'm always left with WG's happy to see me again. I get my moneys worth but I am also courteous and ensure they are having fun (which they often do, more than not). I don't think this is age specific and again - I honestly think some of them enjoy an attentive, younger, gentlemen who likes sex!

 

Not to contradict you, Umimiu, but I have yet to see any WG indicate that she doesn't want to see me again….and that goes back to the time when you were still in short pants.  I fully agree that as long as you are "courteous and ensure they are having fun", they will always be happy to take your money on a future occasion.

 

Having said that, I know some WG's who have told agencies NOT to book certain clients with them again, because they were rough, discourteous, sloppy and smelly, drunk, etc.

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