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Hello everyone. This is my first post here, but that is not what the thread's title is about.

I'm 31 years old and still a virgin. I guess I can count myself in the group of people that if not for money would never have sex, and like that, I have also never helped myself of the services of professionals.

I'm not British but do come over from time to time. Right now I'm in the middle of a two week visit in London, and like many other times, the matter of going about it started to fill my thoughts again.

Now, although I have no experience, I definitely know what I want.

I don't think it matters, so I'll spare you the details.

I read and read a lot about all this, from Soho walk-ups to the many agencies around.

I guess I just have that curiosity about a woman's body that somehow you're supposed to get somewhere along the way but that I never did.

I thought something along the lines of going for a long session, like 90 minutes, or 2 hours, because although I'm probably not going to last long, the last thing I want I to feel hurried.

I would like to hear from you guys with more experience what to expect, and tips on the best way to go about it.

Thank you.

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I think you need to dive in and start making up for lost time!

I'm not sure if I'd go for 90-120 minutes for your first ever time with a woman; maybe start with an hour, so you can go away, reflect on your experience, think about what you did/didn't like, what else you'd like to try, and then have another session, maybe with someone else.

If you're in London you could do a lot worse than visiting HoD's outpost in South Kensington - a classy, convenient location with a roster of tasty lovelies :D

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The only thing I would say is dont try to hide the fact you might be in-experienced or a virgin. Infact, it would probably help you if you mentioned it when making the booking.

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Hello everyone. This is my first post here, but that is not what the thread's title is about.

I'm 31 years old and still a virgin. I guess I can count myself in the group of people that if not for money would never have sex, and like that, I have also never helped myself of the services of professionals.

I'm not British but do come over from time to time. Right now I'm in the middle of a two week visit in London, and like many other times, the matter of going about it started to fill my thoughts again.

Now, although I have no experience, I definitely know what I want.

I don't think it matters, so I'll spare you the details.

I read and read a lot about all this, from Soho walk-ups to the many agencies around.

I guess I just have that curiosity about a woman's body that somehow you're supposed to get somewhere along the way but that I never did.

I thought something along the lines of going for a long session, like 90 minutes, or 2 hours, because although I'm probably not going to last long, the last thing I want I to feel hurried.

I would like to hear from you guys with more experience what to expect, and tips on the best way to go about it.

Thank you.

First thing to decide is would you prefer the services of an Independent lady, Parlour, Agency or other. Whatever you choose ensure they have many positive Field Reports on Pnet which include some from multiple FR posters. This guarantees nothing but gives you an indication of what others think. I sometimes punt with those with no FRs or other feedback and am prepared to take the risk of being scammed or meeting a lady with a bad attitude, but as a newbie i strongly advise you not to do this. It might put you off, stick with those with a good reputation at this stage.

If i were you i would go for an hours punt to start and a good WG or Establishment shouldnt be making you hurry, but some punters push their luck so take it that an hour means an hour.

Whatever you decide dont believe the utter nonsense that paying more gets you a better punt, my 25 years of punting has told me this is not the case. I have paid £350 for an hour and it was no better than when i paid £80 for an hour elsewhere. There was no difference. What you or others pay is a matter for you and them, as is what a lady or establishment charges, but bear what i have said in mind.

The ladies Attitude is the key to a good punt, this is what i look for above everything else. I only punt with newbies to me if i can speak to them on the phone for a quick chat, IMO you can tell a lot from this. Due to being lied to in the past i require confirmation of whether the services advertised are the services on offer, being referred to a website by a lady i dont know is not good enough for me. This refers to Indies. With Parlours, Agencies and some others they may have a receptionist who is not willing to discuss services, unless you choose one that is highly recommended like HOD i wouldnt proceed. I personally dont use Agencies anymore due to being ripped off in the past, and know many punters that have also been ripped by them. Saying that others on here seem happy with the ones they use.

Lastly, whatever you do relax and have fun. Good luck.:D

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Hello everyone. This is my first post here, but that is not what the thread's title is about.

I'm 31 years old and still a virgin. I guess I can count myself in the group of people that if not for money would never have sex, and like that, I have also never helped myself of the services of professionals.

I'm not British but do come over from time to time. Right now I'm in the middle of a two week visit in London, and like many other times, the matter of going about it started to fill my thoughts again.

Now, although I have no experience, I definitely know what I want.

I don't think it matters, so I'll spare you the details.

I read and read a lot about all this, from Soho walk-ups to the many agencies around.

I guess I just have that curiosity about a woman's body that somehow you're supposed to get somewhere along the way but that I never did.

I thought something along the lines of going for a long session, like 90 minutes, or 2 hours, because although I'm probably not going to last long, the last thing I want I to feel hurried.

I would like to hear from you guys with more experience what to expect, and tips on the best way to go about it.

Thank you.

hello yota,

my advice would be to choose a more experienced lady. as said by others, the attitude of the lady is of critical importance and in fact I think this is always the case, whether its your 1st or 51st punt !

pick some lady around your own age or if not ,then older. I would not go for a girl in her teens or v. early 20s. choose a lady who is happy to french kiss -- stay clear of any lady who is not !!

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Excellent advice from Smithy.

Plus I would say try to lower your expectations of the first time and make it less of a big deal (as far as you can !). The truth is for most of us the first time we had sex was a mixed experience at best. Be prepared for having a few goes before you're really able to enjoy yourself fully. Take the pressure off yourself.

And absolutely, dive in ! Why wait ?

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my advice would be to choose a more experienced lady...

Any lady in the trade will be vastly more experienced in sexual things than OP. I think the recommendation shouldn't go for experience (which you can't judge anyway), but for maturity. Don't go for a 18/19 year old (alleged) girl who giggles and can't hold a conversation. Find a girl in her mid-to-high twenties.

Chances are she'll be self-confident and more experienced with life, and this is what matters to you.

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I would recommend, with your being a newbie to this in more ways than one - i.e. its like turning up to drive a taxi when you've never learnt to drive let alone had a fumble with the gears - that you dispense with the potentially awkward booking where your expected to take the lead, and go for a straight-down-to-action meet with someone like Alex at Maxes Angels.

If you quickly flood the engine (to use another motoring analogy) or worse, stall it, she will make sure she bolts on those jump leads to get you started again.

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Any lady in the trade will be vastly more experienced in sexual things than OP. I think the recommendation shouldn't go for experience (which you can't judge anyway), but for maturity. Don't go for a 18/19 year old (alleged) girl who giggles and can't hold a conversation. Find a girl in her mid-to-high twenties.

Chances are she'll be self-confident and more experienced with life, and this is what matters to you.

Of course you can judge experience. You use the FR system to locate a lady with FRs going back a number of years like i do on ocassion.

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Thanks for all the sincere thoughts, guys!

I honestly appreciate them.

I'm still trying to convince myself to do it, but somehow hearing you all made me think I'm thinking too much about it.

I won't try to hide my inexperience, and I don't think I could even if I tried.

Honestly I wasn't expecting so much positive/encouraging feedback.

Can I bother you with my tastes now? Do they even matter for a first time?

I've always had a think for Japanese woman. That would make me a client for the Asian ladies.

But I get the idea that those are the dodgiest ones, according to the PRs.

I by no means only like Asian women, and following your advices, I might go for a more reputable place with European ladies.

Again, thank you all for your comments. They really made me think I'm not doing anything weird.

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wishing you luck for you first time and also don't be afraid to tell the girls it's your first time. It's nothing to be ashamed of :):D

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If you have a hankering for Asian ladies then Briony of Olina Escorts will have you queuing at the cash withdrawl machine and you'll be wishing you'd started sooner.

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to be fair, Id say someone like Briony is the last thing Yota needs... too hardcore! I dont know the OP, but i doubt he wants a finger up his anus on his first time!

For a first time, i think communication would be vital, and someone who's fluent in English would be good. Its not the usual service needed the first time I wouldnt think.

I may be out of order here, but i would suggest reading the forum, and any women posting here that you think sound like nice and considerate girls (there are many here). You could send them a PM on here and discuss if she felt comfortable taking the booking.

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Thanks for all the sincere thoughts, guys!

I honestly appreciate them.

I'm still trying to convince myself to do it, but somehow hearing you all made me think I'm thinking too much about it.

I won't try to hide my inexperience, and I don't think I could even if I tried.

Honestly I wasn't expecting so much positive/encouraging feedback.

Can I bother you with my tastes now? Do they even matter for a first time?

I've always had a think for Japanese woman. That would make me a client for the Asian ladies.

But I get the idea that those are the dodgiest ones, according to the PRs.

I by no means only like Asian women, and following your advices, I might go for a more reputable place with European ladies.

Again, thank you all for your comments. They really made me think I'm not doing anything weird.

Hi Yota

I wouldnt think or plan things too much. Find a girl with good punternet reviews that is local, I agree someone late twenties or thirties, personaly I would go British as you will need some chit/chat etc. Your nerves may or may not get the better of you on the punt. Idealy you need a relaxed atmosphere and time in which to relax...60 min appt only try for one climax...relax, kiss,cuddle etc so make sure the girl is ok with this and plenty of oral both ways....then go have some fun, and never look back!

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How much did you want to spend? Assuming £150-£200 which is average for agency girls in London, I would recommend these two as being kind, easy going, not man-eaters, and speak good English:

http://www.hot-collection.co.uk/escort/674

http://www.abella1.com/kelly_spanish_sexy_blonde_escort.htm

When I say "not man-eaters", I mean you won't get PSE with these girls (maybe you can if you ask for it), with both you get a very good GFE very similar to being with a girl you just picked up somewhere. That is what I would want for my first time!

If you're nervous about making the booking, the easiest receptionist to talk to is at Bunnies of London, lots of first timers go there:

http://www.bunniesoflondon.co.uk/gallery.htm

You could just ask them who they recommend, believe me you won't be the first.

If you're visiting London you may prefer to have a girl come to your hotel room. Most will, for a small extra fee (usually £50 difference). But you can get a girl who is outcall only, which is best kind as these are often part-timers who work evenings only, so even more like a real girlfriend. Best outcall girl I know is http://www.londonphotomodels.com/escort-471/

but she's £300 so plenty of people here would find her rate too much. But she's worth every penny.

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Sorry, didn't answer the actual question.

What to expect?

"Standard" service from an incall escort from a London agency goes like this:

- ring bell at appointed time, buzzed into building, find flat, knock on door, wait 30 seconds (are they checking their makeup? closing Facebook?) click clack of heels, door opens

- girl may not look exactly like photos, because of different makeup, or glamour photos, or some Photoshopping, but usually you can see it's the same girl (if not, you are within your rights to leave without paying and that's recommended, as it won't be a good punt)

- either kiss on both cheeks or some offer kiss on lips or even DFK straight away - doesn't really matter, doesn't mean much at this stage (though DFK is nice!)

- take your coat off, hand over money, best is to ask for a shower straight away (they always like you to shower, even if you just wash your bits)

- go to girl's working bedroom, opinions differ on what to wear after shower, I usually put underpants back on or wrap a towel round me (NB your girl may have closed a few doors, there may be 2 girls sharing a flat so another girl in another room watching TV, don't worry you won't see her)

- girl might be wearing lingerie by this stage, unless you asked her to keep her clothes on until you came back - NB telling girls stuff like that in an authoritative way is quite good fun

- you could sit on edge of bed and chat for a couple of minutes, kiss if she's a girl who offers kissing or DFK, or with other girls you could lie down on your front and let her massage your back, or other stuff, seasoned punters will get straight into it at this point so as not to waste booked time but you don't have to it's up to you!

- soon you should be lying on bed next to her, she in lingerie still probably, so take her bra off (or ask her to), caress her body, enjoy

- she might put her hands down to your penis, relax and enjoy

- both take your pants off

- you can put your hand on her pussy and explore around pussy lips but it's not great for her if she's dry (which she will be). About 30% of girls object to you putting your finger(s) inside, even if hands are clean and nails short - if you are inexperienced then I really don't recommend touching her pussy too much with your hands as it may feel weird to her if you poke about. You can always do this kind of stuff at end of booking if curious (recommended some time if you are inexperienced, you need to know what it all feels like and what feels good to her)

- she will usually expect that you want a blowjob at this point, again it's up to you but 99% of punters do - note not necessarily to completion, most would not cum yet

- you can do RO (cunnilingus), about 90% of girls will let you and 50% actually like it a lot. I strongly recommend doing this as it is a great educational experience if you are not experienced. You might need to ask for guidance, but basically you want to be quite firm with your tongue, you can press quite hard - not like a kitten lapping milk, more like you're licking up something quite delicious as hard as you can. Slow/fast and other details vary completely from girl to girl, you can experiment. If she likes it then after a minute or two she will stop pretending to like it and make some more appreciative noise to say she actually likes it.

- pussy may smell and taste anything from sweet or nothing much or faintly oily (she applied a dab of some kind of lube before you arrived) or freshly fishy like good caviar or an oyster (this is very sexy I find) or faintly of urine if she didn't shower just before you arrived (if it's faint, push on through this, it won't do you any harm and will soon go). There can also be bad tastes/smells: metallic (it's ok if it's mild won't do you any harm, but not that pleasant for you) or strong chemical smell like Dettol (not at all ok, she's used some product meaning she might have an infection or soreness) or strong or 'off' fishy smell or strong urine smell (avoid).

- after a bit, or a lot, of oral, she will expect you to fuck her, position is up to you and you can change position part-way through. If you are reclining, you can invite her to climb on top of you first for cowgirl.

- she will put the condom on you, just let her do it (maybe she did it already before the blowjob)

- I recommend the three basic positions (missionary, doggy, and cowgirl) until you are more experienced, though even there there's a lot of possibilities e.g. missionary with one or both of her legs pushed back to her chest or even on your shoulders

- you'll likely last longest in cowgirl as you're most relaxed in that position, and shortest in doggy

- to last your longest time, the key thing is to relax mind and body. Do not think about Anne Widdicombe or something else disgusting, it's an urban myth that that helps. Most importantly, relax all your internal penis/groin muscles, do not *at all* tighten those muscles that lift and harden your erect penis (you know the ones, tightening them also helps to bring you to orgasm when masturbating), instead try to consciously relax those particular muscles, it doesn't matter at all if your penis is only 90% hard

- after you've cum, wait inside her for 20-30 seconds, then gently withdraw so as not to pull the condom off

- she or you will take the condom off, no need to tie a knot in it, usually she will take it in her hand in a tissue or a wet-wipe, and offer you a wet-wipe to clean your penis with

- probably about 20-30 minutes in, here, unless you spent a lot of time doing oral or chatting or massage first

- what you do now is up to you, usually you lie next to girl chatting for 10-15 minutes, then she might put her hand down to harden you up again, and offer you more sex in a different position

- it's a good idea to do the second round of sex, especially if you came quickly the first time, you might last longer the second time

Enjoy. Tell us how it goes!

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Sorry, didn't answer the actual question.

What to expect?

"Standard" service from an incall escort from a London agency goes like this:

- ring bell at appointed time, buzzed into building, find flat, knock on door, wait 30 seconds (are they checking their makeup? closing Facebook?) click clack of heels, door opens

- girl may not look exactly like photos, because of different makeup, or glamour photos, or some Photoshopping, but usually you can see it's the same girl (if not, you are within your rights to leave without paying and that's recommended, as it won't be a good punt)

- either kiss on both cheeks or some offer kiss on lips or even DFK straight away - doesn't really matter, doesn't mean much at this stage (though DFK is nice!)

- take your coat off, hand over money, best is to ask for a shower straight away (they always like you to shower, even if you just wash your bits)

- go to girl's working bedroom, opinions differ on what to wear after shower, I usually put underpants back on or wrap a towel round me (NB your girl may have closed a few doors, there may be 2 girls sharing a flat so another girl in another room watching TV, don't worry you won't see her)

- girl might be wearing lingerie by this stage, unless you asked her to keep her clothes on until you came back - NB telling girls stuff like that in an authoritative way is quite good fun

- you could sit on edge of bed and chat for a couple of minutes, kiss if she's a girl who offers kissing or DFK, or with other girls you could lie down on your front and let her massage your back, or other stuff, seasoned punters will get straight into it at this point so as not to waste booked time but you don't have to it's up to you!

- soon you should be lying on bed next to her, she in lingerie still probably, so take her bra off (or ask her to), caress her body, enjoy

- she might put her hands down to your penis, relax and enjoy

- both take your pants off

- you can put your hand on her pussy and explore around pussy lips but it's not great for her if she's dry (which she will be). About 30% of girls object to you putting your finger(s) inside, even if hands are clean and nails short - if you are inexperienced then I really don't recommend touching her pussy too much with your hands as it may feel weird to her if you poke about. You can always do this kind of stuff at end of booking if curious (recommended some time if you are inexperienced, you need to know what it all feels like and what feels good to her)

- she will usually expect that you want a blowjob at this point, again it's up to you but 99% of punters do - note not necessarily to completion, most would not cum yet

- you can do RO (cunnilingus), about 90% of girls will let you and 50% actually like it a lot. I strongly recommend doing this as it is a great educational experience if you are not experienced. You might need to ask for guidance, but basically you want to be quite firm with your tongue, you can press quite hard - not like a kitten lapping milk, more like you're licking up something quite delicious as hard as you can. Slow/fast and other details vary completely from girl to girl, you can experiment. If she likes it then after a minute or two she will stop pretending to like it and make some more appreciative noise to say she actually likes it.

- pussy may smell and taste anything from sweet or nothing much or faintly oily (she applied a dab of some kind of lube before you arrived) or freshly fishy like good caviar or an oyster (this is very sexy I find) or faintly of urine if she didn't shower just before you arrived (if it's faint, push on through this, it won't do you any harm and will soon go). There can also be bad tastes/smells: metallic (it's ok if it's mild won't do you any harm, but not that pleasant for you) or strong chemical smell like Dettol (not at all ok, she's used some product meaning she might have an infection or soreness) or strong or 'off' fishy smell or strong urine smell (avoid).

- after a bit, or a lot, of oral, she will expect you to fuck her, position is up to you and you can change position part-way through. If you are reclining, you can invite her to climb on top of you first for cowgirl.

- she will put the condom on you, just let her do it (maybe she did it already before the blowjob)

- I recommend the three basic positions (missionary, doggy, and cowgirl) until you are more experienced, though even there there's a lot of possibilities e.g. missionary with one or both of her legs pushed back to her chest or even on your shoulders

- you'll likely last longest in cowgirl as you're most relaxed in that position, and shortest in doggy

- to last your longest time, the key thing is to relax mind and body. Do not think about Anne Widdicombe or something else disgusting, it's an urban myth that that helps. Most importantly, relax all your internal penis/groin muscles, do not *at all* tighten those muscles that lift and harden your erect penis (you know the ones, tightening them also helps to bring you to orgasm when masturbating), instead try to consciously relax those particular muscles, it doesn't matter at all if your penis is only 90% hard

- after you've cum, wait inside her for 20-30 seconds, then gently withdraw so as not to pull the condom off

- she or you will take the condom off, no need to tie a knot in it, usually she will take it in her hand in a tissue or a wet-wipe, and offer you a wet-wipe to clean your penis with

- probably about 20-30 minutes in, here, unless you spent a lot of time doing oral or chatting or massage first

- what you do now is up to you, usually you lie next to girl chatting for 10-15 minutes, then she might put her hand down to harden you up again, and offer you more sex in a different position

- it's a good idea to do the second round of sex, especially if you came quickly the first time, you might last longer the second time

Enjoy. Tell us how it goes!

Fantastic post with plenty of description, the random percentages were a nice touch and gave it a feel of authenticity.

Good luck Yota

The YMCA have a swimming team called YOTA as a matter of interest.

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Thanks again for all your tips, especially BeautySeeker, with great detail.

That actually helps, because I really can be very anal about unknown situations.

The more I can look up for, the better.

It's actually starting to become more real, as I just called an agency and tried to make a booking.

I ended up calling for an Asian one (AsianSuperModels) and asked for the one I fancied the most (Yuu), so ended up having to go for my second choice (Nanako), but was told to call tomorrow as to confirm time for booking.

I know you guys suggested an older lady and typically fluent in english, but the thing is, I am also not a native English speaker (although I humbly consider myself to speak the language fluently) and honestly, because I still see this as something which I don't know if I'll ever get the courage to repeat, and for that reason, above all else, I'm trying to get as close as possible to my dream girl.

In a way is as if I'm saying that if I can spend a night with my dream girl, then I can die happily.

I got from other posters talking to the girls before the actual thing is very important, as to confirm services, and in this case, to explain the circumstances (first time and all).

Should I ask to speak to her when making the booking, or that doesn't work that way?

If so, how pushy should one be to get that done?

I guess I'm mostly scared of getting a girl who won't like dealing with a first timer, and may be put off by it if just finding out at the time of the punt.

Honestly speaking, I don't really know how relaxed I can be, because even just the failed booking attempt got my heart racing like if I was shoplifting or something!!!

Definetly if I wasn't getting this much encouragement I don't really thing I would have gone through with it.

The only thing I can say is thank you very much, and I'll be sure to let you know what happens, whether I actually end up doing it, or not...

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Sorry, didn't answer the actual question.

What to expect?

"Standard" service from an incall escort from a London agency goes like this:

- ring bell at appointed time, buzzed into building, find flat, knock on door, wait 30 seconds (are they checking their makeup? closing Facebook?) click clack of heels, door opens

- girl may not look exactly like photos, because of different makeup, or glamour photos, or some Photoshopping, but usually you can see it's the same girl (if not, you are within your rights to leave without paying and that's recommended, as it won't be a good punt)

- either kiss on both cheeks or some offer kiss on lips or even DFK straight away - doesn't really matter, doesn't mean much at this stage (though DFK is nice!)

- take your coat off, hand over money, best is to ask for a shower straight away (they always like you to shower, even if you just wash your bits)

- go to girl's working bedroom, opinions differ on what to wear after shower, I usually put underpants back on or wrap a towel round me (NB your girl may have closed a few doors, there may be 2 girls sharing a flat so another girl in another room watching TV, don't worry you won't see her)

- girl might be wearing lingerie by this stage, unless you asked her to keep her clothes on until you came back - NB telling girls stuff like that in an authoritative way is quite good fun

- you could sit on edge of bed and chat for a couple of minutes, kiss if she's a girl who offers kissing or DFK, or with other girls you could lie down on your front and let her massage your back, or other stuff, seasoned punters will get straight into it at this point so as not to waste booked time but you don't have to it's up to you!

- soon you should be lying on bed next to her, she in lingerie still probably, so take her bra off (or ask her to), caress her body, enjoy

- she might put her hands down to your penis, relax and enjoy

- both take your pants off

- you can put your hand on her pussy and explore around pussy lips but it's not great for her if she's dry (which she will be). About 30% of girls object to you putting your finger(s) inside, even if hands are clean and nails short - if you are inexperienced then I really don't recommend touching her pussy too much with your hands as it may feel weird to her if you poke about. You can always do this kind of stuff at end of booking if curious (recommended some time if you are inexperienced, you need to know what it all feels like and what feels good to her)

- she will usually expect that you want a blowjob at this point, again it's up to you but 99% of punters do - note not necessarily to completion, most would not cum yet

- you can do RO (cunnilingus), about 90% of girls will let you and 50% actually like it a lot. I strongly recommend doing this as it is a great educational experience if you are not experienced. You might need to ask for guidance, but basically you want to be quite firm with your tongue, you can press quite hard - not like a kitten lapping milk, more like you're licking up something quite delicious as hard as you can. Slow/fast and other details vary completely from girl to girl, you can experiment. If she likes it then after a minute or two she will stop pretending to like it and make some more appreciative noise to say she actually likes it.

- pussy may smell and taste anything from sweet or nothing much or faintly oily (she applied a dab of some kind of lube before you arrived) or freshly fishy like good caviar or an oyster (this is very sexy I find) or faintly of urine if she didn't shower just before you arrived (if it's faint, push on through this, it won't do you any harm and will soon go). There can also be bad tastes/smells: metallic (it's ok if it's mild won't do you any harm, but not that pleasant for you) or strong chemical smell like Dettol (not at all ok, she's used some product meaning she might have an infection or soreness) or strong or 'off' fishy smell or strong urine smell (avoid).

- after a bit, or a lot, of oral, she will expect you to fuck her, position is up to you and you can change position part-way through. If you are reclining, you can invite her to climb on top of you first for cowgirl.

- she will put the condom on you, just let her do it (maybe she did it already before the blowjob)

- I recommend the three basic positions (missionary, doggy, and cowgirl) until you are more experienced, though even there there's a lot of possibilities e.g. missionary with one or both of her legs pushed back to her chest or even on your shoulders

- you'll likely last longest in cowgirl as you're most relaxed in that position, and shortest in doggy

- to last your longest time, the key thing is to relax mind and body. Do not think about Anne Widdicombe or something else disgusting, it's an urban myth that that helps. Most importantly, relax all your internal penis/groin muscles, do not *at all* tighten those muscles that lift and harden your erect penis (you know the ones, tightening them also helps to bring you to orgasm when masturbating), instead try to consciously relax those particular muscles, it doesn't matter at all if your penis is only 90% hard

- after you've cum, wait inside her for 20-30 seconds, then gently withdraw so as not to pull the condom off

- she or you will take the condom off, no need to tie a knot in it, usually she will take it in her hand in a tissue or a wet-wipe, and offer you a wet-wipe to clean your penis with

- probably about 20-30 minutes in, here, unless you spent a lot of time doing oral or chatting or massage first

- what you do now is up to you, usually you lie next to girl chatting for 10-15 minutes, then she might put her hand down to harden you up again, and offer you more sex in a different position

- it's a good idea to do the second round of sex, especially if you came quickly the first time, you might last longer the second time

Enjoy. Tell us how it goes!

Brilliant post.

Beautyseeker, has it occurred to you that you could money coaching newbies?:)

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the random percentages were a nice touch and gave it a feel of authenticity.

I'll assume you mean that with complete sincerety. :D

I'd have you know, I've seen exactly 100 working girls and made careful notes each time so these percentages are exact. Especially the 90% hard one.

Yota: you don't get to speak to agency girls before your booked time, that's why the agency handles the booking. If you want to get a request through to the girl or tell her it's your first time, best is to send a polite text to the agency saying "Please tell Nanako ...", the agency if a good agency will just forward your text to the girl.

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My friend good luck - and prepare yourself for a life of punting, which isn't a bad thing at all if you stay single.

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I ended up calling for an Asian one (AsianSuperModels) and asked for the one I fancied the most (Yuu), so ended up having to go for my second choice (Nanako), but was told to call tomorrow as to confirm time for booking.

Sorry to put a damper on, but also be prepared for some disappointments.

Yuu is the Japanese bikini model Atsuko Yamaguchi who is not seeing punters in London! More than 1 girl use her pictures. I know one of them and she is excellent, but not the girl in the pictures.

Nanako is also an oriental model (may not be on the website anymore?) who brings up several hits on 'Tineye'.

Sadly, the same is true for many other girls on asiansupemodel, and most other asian/oriental sites.

If you read the 'asian variety' thread, the reputable agencies are mentioned there. My advice is to use one of them!

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Brilliant post.

Beautyseeker, has it occurred to you that you could money coaching newbies?:D

there are flaws in the post - how to avoid cumming the moment dick enters mouth.

also he is a total virgin - it is all very unpredictable.

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I booked Nanako and thought I recognised the pix from somewhere and sure enough the girl who did the booking was not her, then afterwards did a search and felt a little stupid. But the girl I saw was great anyway!

Like some have said, don't put too much into the first time. You have a wonderful journey ahead of you, that hopefully will enthrall you for the rest of your life and provide you with some of the best moments and memories. Get started.

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Hello everyone.

I thought I should come back and put a conclusion to this.

I read all your previous posts and did my best to follow your advices, while still trying to do my own thing.

I eventually called asiansupermodel the next day trying to book nanako, but got no answer. Still,it was probably for the best, and after reading the asian variety thread I ended up choosing Suki from 007escorts.

I eventually headed there, super worried about the time, and eventually ended up arriving 30 minutes early. I guess I spent the most nervous 30 minutes of my life waiting for the time to go meet Suki.

Without going into the details, let me first tell you that Suki was wonderful. Not only is she a very beautiful woman (that may vary with your tastes), but also incredibly sexy and attentive.

I may not have any previous experiences to compare this one to, but at the very least I can say that she tried her best to let me have a good time. I never felt rushed, or uncomfortable, at least not more than what my inexperience had already made me before even getting there.

I can now say that I'm not a virgin anymore.

I never expected this to go this well, really, but as good as it may have been, one thing made this experience less than perfect.

I always had the notion that if something would get in the way of things, would be to not be able to hold on for long. and come too soon.

In fact, the opposite happened, i.e. I never got to come!

I kind of attribute this to the fact I was so incredibly nervous, but also made me think that I might not be cut out to do this.

I know this might a pretty negative way of looking at it, but this is what I get from it.

I remember thinking that if I chose a non-Asian woman this might happen due to lack of stimulation (from me, not from the ladies), but with Suki I can definitely say that I had my dream woman with me, and other than knowing fully well that she was not a Japanese, and speaking less than perfect English, I have no complaints about her looks, her behavior or anything else for that matter.

I'm sorry If this had more detail than it should, but I somehow wanted to repay you guys for the tips given, and the time spent reading my rant.

This might not ended up being all that it could have been, but it probably wouldn't ever happened if not from your help and support.

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