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First Punt Yesterday

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After a good few weeks of planning and deciding whether or not I was going to do it and looking at different girls etc I took the plunge yesterday and booked my first ever punt, an hours in call. 

 

I turn up a minute or so before the allotted time and obviously I'm slightly nervous to say the least! Knock the door and it's opened by a very pretty young lady and I'm invited in. First impressions very good, this is clearly the girl in the pictures but without the airbrushing. A slight gut on her but this is no problem for me and what girls (or men!) haven't apart from the size 6 types and Dame Kelly Holmes! Very attractive face - could be someone I'd go for on civvy street.

 

She can tell I'm nervous and offers me a drink. I accept - a glass of water, and tell her this is my first time punting. She laughs and says no problem. We start by getting undressed and a bit of oral and I'm getting hard now. A bit more and she's on top - really going for it - so I ask her to slow down a bit as I like the slow build up and faster as we get into it. We switch to doggy and I'm controlling the pace, better... until she starts banging back up against me hard and fast! If someone had told me this would happen before I would've maybe thought that could be good, but I just couldn't get into it. 

 

Had a visit from the 'melty man'. Not sure if this was down to the fact the pace was too fast, wearing a condom for the first time in a few years (extra safe too), nerves or the whole punting experience. Fair play to her she worked hard on getting me hard again with more oral and hand relief and managed to finish me off despite the fact I probably never got more than 60% hard.

 

I walked out of there feeling some very strange things. Some of them things I never anticipated! I never felt horny the whole time... Maybe this was nerves or this particular girl or the fact it all felt so clinical. Maybe I do have an emotional side and I need more of a connection! 

 

I'd be interested to hear thoughts and hear whether this resembled your first punt (or any punt).

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After a good few weeks of planning and deciding whether or not I was going to do it and looking at different girls etc I took the plunge yesterday and booked my first ever punt, an hours in call. 

 

I turn up a minute or so before the allotted time and obviously I'm slightly nervous to say the least! Knock the door and it's opened by a very pretty young lady and I'm invited in. First impressions very good, this is clearly the girl in the pictures but without the airbrushing. A slight gut on her but this is no problem for me and what girls (or men!) haven't apart from the size 6 types and Dame Kelly Holmes! Very attractive face - could be someone I'd go for on civvy street.

 

She can tell I'm nervous and offers me a drink. I accept - a glass of water, and tell her this is my first time punting. She laughs and says no problem. We start by getting undressed and a bit of oral and I'm getting hard now. A bit more and she's on top - really going for it - so I ask her to slow down a bit as I like the slow build up and faster as we get into it. We switch to doggy and I'm controlling the pace, better... until she starts banging back up against me hard and fast! If someone had told me this would happen before I would've maybe thought that could be good, but I just couldn't get into it. 

 

Had a visit from the 'melty man'. Not sure if this was down to the fact the pace was too fast, wearing a condom for the first time in a few years (extra safe too), nerves or the whole punting experience. Fair play to her she worked hard on getting me hard again with more oral and hand relief and managed to finish me off despite the fact I probably never got more than 60% hard.

 

I walked out of there feeling some very strange things. Some of them things I never anticipated! I never felt horny the whole time... Maybe this was nerves or this particular girl or the fact it all felt so clinical. Maybe I do have an emotional side and I need more of a connection! 

 

I'd be interested to hear thoughts and hear whether this resembled your first punt (or any punt).

first go is really scary.

please dont give up. Its worth it -really.

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Giving up on it and putting it on the 'tried it and didn't like it' pile is a real possibility. 

 

The adrenalin and nerves wouldn't be why I would give up. That part I enjoyed. What came after just didn't do anything for me.

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I had similar feelings to those you describe after my first couple of punts, in fact I very nearly quit after punt 3 which was very unsatisfying.

I enjoy the build up as well but I think for the first couple of punts the nerves also had a bit of a numbing effect on the other senses! After disappointing punt no. 3 I decided to give it another couple of tries before giving up and fortunately met an absolutely gorgeous wg. Not only looks wise, but in attitude & personality and I had the most amazing 2 hours with her. Met her a few more times and since then have been on a lucky run with the wg's I've seen. Not one of them have felt in any way clinical - maybe due to the fact that although the adrenaline and nerves are still there in the build up, I'm more relaxed when it comes to the punt.

I can't do cold and clinical, or shorter punts which make me feel rushed and also don't work for me. Only you can decide whether it's for you, but there are definitely wg's out there who make punts feel anything but cold and clinical. I tend to go for the ones who offer no rush GFE's and that their feedback and reports reflect that.

I also prefer repeat bookings with those who I felt offered the kind of booking I was after, and have always enjoyed the second or third punts more than I did the first.

Although we all punt for the same thing, we have different preferences as to how we like our punts to progress - and it's a matter of finding wg's who can provide exactly what you want.

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I'm going to take a guess that the lady was an EE. While there are some great EE WGs out there, there do seem to be a disproportionate number of the type who move on to penetration irritatingly quickly and have their set routine that they stick to rather than adapting to the particular client which can make the experience rather clinical. Try a well-reviewed British, Thai or northern/western European next time.

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just relax it gets easier and more addictive

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I was a shambles when I first did it!  A guilt ridden nervous wreck!  For a year or two I decided that sensual massage was more my thing and then I met a superb lady.  It's built up my confidence and I am also more confident socially.  I don't go weak at the knees when chatting to a pretty girl now as I have been with some beautiful ladies!  Perhaps try massage first and see how you feel! There are some lovely ladies out there and they are not all actresses!

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Cheers for the replies. She was indeed EE. Nice, friendly girl but scripted could be a good way to describe it. Not sure she was right for me as although GFE was advertised she was quite domineering, which I wouldn't have thought I would mind as I don't like it when girls are too passive but it turns out isn't for me maybe. Going to penetration too fast/ going too fast and hard with the oral did nothing to get me in the mood. Not sure if all of us guys like a slow build up though so she may have suited some!

 

Still undecided whether to try again, will give it a few weeks and just stick to once a week with the wife for now!

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Cheers for the replies. She was indeed EE. Nice, friendly girl but scripted could be a good way to describe it. Not sure she was right for me as although GFE was advertised she was quite domineering, which I wouldn't have thought I would mind as I don't like it when girls are too passive but it turns out isn't for me maybe. Going to penetration too fast/ going too fast and hard with the oral did nothing to get me in the mood. Not sure if all of us guys like a slow build up though so she may have suited some!

Still undecided whether to try again, will give it a few weeks and just stick to once a week with the wife for now!

The last sentence in your first paragraph is a key point here. No not all of us guys like the same thing at the same pace. If you don't let her know, she'll carry on regardless thinking you're ok with what she's doing...

Don't be afraid to let her know if she's going too fast, slow or whatever. If you're not ready for the condom then politely tell her so and carry on doing what you want to do. One wg I've seen always starts off a bit too hard and fast with oral and I find myself asking her to do it slower and more gently. She just looks at me and grins and then does it how I like it. I think she does it on purpose - I've seen her 6 times!!

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Once a week sex with your wife!!  That's sounds great!  Why the need to see escorts j4247?  I think my partner is once a month, sometimes once every six weeks! She doesn't do oral sex and usually only sex in one position! missionary!  She was my first partner and I had never had sex with anyone else before her!  Sad but true!   Can you see why I decided to take the plunge?  I have been thinking about leaving her although is the grass greener?   

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I mentioned it a few times that slower is better for me and she did go slower for a while (although still not slow enough!). Wasn't long before the pace quickened again though. Maybe I should've been more forceful or maybe some girls just don't like to listen!

 

Thanks again for the replies, its good to talk about it with people who have been through the same things!

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Yep every woman is different from every other women - in sexual matters as in everything else - a bit like men.

 

Every first time for a paid-for sexual encounter is different for everyone.

 

It may be you are expecting it to be very like what you are used to with your wife - that may be to do with how much experience you have had apart from with you wife.

 

BUT

 

There is no reason for anyone to say stick at it and it will get better.

 

Do what you want.

 

Keeping going and not enjoying costs as much money as keeping going and enjoying.

 

Do what you want.

 

You may decide what you have with your wife has elements in it you don't find with a stranger.

 

Do what you want.

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My first ever punt was about 15 years ago in Darwin, Australia. I had been on holiday for a few weeks and decided before I left that it would be nice to book an outcall at my hotel. The night before I had been to a strip club (I was travelling on my own btw) and had a private dance from one of the girls there. This got me in the mood, as well as raised my confidence, so the next day I booked a 1 hour outcall. I was crapping myself - all sorts of stuff went through my mind and probably ultimately resulted in me not enjoying it as much as I could of.

After I got back to England, I set about finding some local girls and gradually building my experience from there. These days, I work in London so almost always go for Thai girls who, in my experience at least, off the best and most sensual service.

Horses for courses - I guess what I'm trying to say is be patient. If you decide not to continue, fair enough. If you carry on, you have a world of discovery at your fingertips. It's a learning experience like most things. You will find yourself seeing many girls who do nothing for you but you will also come across some real gems that make you smile. When you move into seeing girls more than once, that's when the friendship and companionship starts to build and you start to experience the best mutual feelings.

I have a regular WG in London these days, a wonderfully pretty and sexy Thai girl - it's relationships like these that you need to keep a sense of perspective on, and remember why they do what they do - and know when is the right time to walk away if things get too much.

It all comes with time - but it's a great journey, a little expensive, but I have met some incredible girls and heard many a life story. Treat them with respect, be yourself - and it can be a deeply fulfilling experience mate.

Good luck with your decision though :)

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Very eloquently put! You're making me want to give it another go now.

Although I didn't have a very positive experience last time out, the buzz I got from the nerves/anticipation was still great.

Maybe I'll give it a go with a Thai girl this time. I like variety in my life which is part of the reason I wanted to try this whole game. Seems they get the best reviews in general on here.

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Very eloquently put! You're making me want to give it another go now.

Although I didn't have a very positive experience last time out, the buzz I got from the nerves/anticipation was still great.

Maybe I'll give it a go with a Thai girl this time. I like variety in my life which is part of the reason I wanted to try this whole game. Seems they get the best reviews in general on here.

 

I'm sure you'll discover whether 'this' is for you after a few experiences.

 

Not sure that Thai girls 'getting the best reviews' is as simple as that: Thai girls get good reviews from fans of Thai girls - I'd say most guys on here don't tend to limit themselves to one ethnic group

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The first time I punted I found myself on the train wondering what the hell I was doing but treated it like an aeroplane trip - it's booked so I've got to go, much as I hate it.

The next moment of doubt was ringing the doorbell, then going up the stairs, then having the door opened by a pretty girl wearing very little beckoning me to enter her flat.

Talking to said girl was hard to begin but got a lot easier but when we went to the bedroom all the doubts returned.

To be honest , she wasn't the prettiest girl, nor did she have the greatest figure but she was sweet and attentive.

I think that the worst of my doubts and fears were forgotten when she turned round a little and put my somewhat reluctant cock in her mouth and started being even more attentive .

Finally , an hour and a half later, while struggling out of her embrace in order to shower and go home, I decided that it had been a rather odd experience, on the whole positive, and one to be repeated to see if it could be improved.

Try again if at first you don't succeed.

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After a good few weeks of planning and deciding whether or not I was going to do it and looking at different girls etc I took the plunge yesterday and booked my first ever punt, an hours in call. 

 

I turn up a minute or so before the allotted time and obviously I'm slightly nervous to say the least! Knock the door and it's opened by a very pretty young lady and I'm invited in. First impressions very good, this is clearly the girl in the pictures but without the airbrushing. A slight gut on her but this is no problem for me and what girls (or men!) haven't apart from the size 6 types and Dame Kelly Holmes! Very attractive face - could be someone I'd go for on civvy street.

 

She can tell I'm nervous and offers me a drink. I accept - a glass of water, and tell her this is my first time punting. She laughs and says no problem. We start by getting undressed and a bit of oral and I'm getting hard now. A bit more and she's on top - really going for it - so I ask her to slow down a bit as I like the slow build up and faster as we get into it. We switch to doggy and I'm controlling the pace, better... until she starts banging back up against me hard and fast! If someone had told me this would happen before I would've maybe thought that could be good, but I just couldn't get into it. 

 

Had a visit from the 'melty man'. Not sure if this was down to the fact the pace was too fast, wearing a condom for the first time in a few years (extra safe too), nerves or the whole punting experience. Fair play to her she worked hard on getting me hard again with more oral and hand relief and managed to finish me off despite the fact I probably never got more than 60% hard.

 

I walked out of there feeling some very strange things. Some of them things I never anticipated! I never felt horny the whole time... Maybe this was nerves or this particular girl or the fact it all felt so clinical. Maybe I do have an emotional side and I need more of a connection! 

 

I'd be interested to hear thoughts and hear whether this resembled your first punt (or any punt).

Well done and summing the courage, that's what i fear happining to me, nerves paryalising me!!.

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My first ever punt was about 15 years ago in Darwin, Australia. I had been on holiday for a few weeks and decided before I left that it would be nice to book an outcall at my hotel. The night before I had been to a strip club (I was travelling on my own btw) and had a private dance from one of the girls there. This got me in the mood, as well as raised my confidence, so the next day I booked a 1 hour outcall. I was crapping myself - all sorts of stuff went through my mind and probably ultimately resulted in me not enjoying it as much as I could of.

After I got back to England, I set about finding some local girls and gradually building my experience from there. These days, I work in London so almost always go for Thai girls who, in my experience at least, off the best and most sensual service.

Horses for courses - I guess what I'm trying to say is be patient. If you decide not to continue, fair enough. If you carry on, you have a world of discovery at your fingertips. It's a learning experience like most things. You will find yourself seeing many girls who do nothing for you but you will also come across some real gems that make you smile. When you move into seeing girls more than once, that's when the friendship and companionship starts to build and you start to experience the best mutual feelings.

I have a regular WG in London these days, a wonderfully pretty and sexy Thai girl - it's relationships like these that you need to keep a sense of perspective on, and remember why they do what they do - and know when is the right time to walk away if things get too much.

It all comes with time - but it's a great journey, a little expensive, but I have met some incredible girls and heard many a life story. Treat them with respect, be yourself - and it can be a deeply fulfilling experience mate.

Good luck with your decision though :)

"It all comes with time - but it's a great journey, a little expensive, but I have met some incredible girls and heard many a life story. Treat them with respect, be yourself - and it can be a deeply fulfilling experience mate."

2 Big Thumbs up for saying that, excellent attitude.

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My first encounter was nearly three years ago with a lovely girl who some of you may remember called Kiran Kaur. She was absolutely gorgeous and I was a nervous wreck. At her place, she was so confident, offered me a drink (bourbon, of course :-) ), which helped a little but I was still a bag of nerves and even got stage fright when it came to anal.

Looking back, having a girl like Kiran was a great start for me and over time the nerves have receded and the confidence has grown and that knock on the door or a door being opened at a new meeting is just an amazing feeling. I reckon that meeting someone who is inexperienced or doesn't speak English very well for a debut would make life difficult. Enjoy the ride.

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I decided to give it another crack a couple of days ago. What. A. Disaster! 

 

Booked in with a stunning looking girl - well reviewed. Much more relaxed this time and horny as I've had nothing at home for over a week. 10 minutes away I get a call from the agency saying the booking is off as her landlord has turned up unexpectedly. I can wait an hour or maybe more (I can't) or they can arrange for me to see somebody else nearby.

 

They give me a couple of names and I have a quick look at some pictures and am booked in to see a girl in 15 minutes. There is only 1 very flaky review I can find on her. Maybe I should've had a think with my brain rather than my cock at this point?!

 

No problem getting buzzed in and I'm upstairs and the door is opened by a mildly attractive girl but who to be brutally honest is overweight. Didn't look a great deal like her pictures either, and certainly wasn't a size 8! Thinking back over it, I may have been done by the old bait and switch but I'm not 100% sure. It could just have been the 'Alex Ferguson' of the photoshop world was involved.

 

Very pleasant, friendly girl. Actually got along with her really well and was feeling OK about it even if I wasn't really attracted to her much. Some kissing, oral on me and then I'm on top in mish. A few strokes in I start to smell something... 

 

It wasn't overpowering but it was definitely the dreaded fishy fanny. Instant wood killer. I'm out of the door within 3 minutes.

 

In hindsight 15 minutes didn't give her long to get ready, but to me washing is probably the most important part of that. Or maybe she has an infection or something, in which case she should'nt be working in my opinion. I've not many times come across this smell before, but my 'bed post notches' number far less than most on here I'd guess - could it just be her natural smell. Poor girl if so!

 

Undecided if I'm going to try again or not. The other day didn't really tell me a lot. I should've just gone home after the cancellation! Lesson learned on that one.

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I know how it feels when your dick starts making the decisions but with hindsight, a self-inflicted hand shandy would have been the best bet- the agency knows rightly how you are probably feeling so can pull a fast one like this and get away with it. Shame on them.

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I'm not saying you "should" stay with the hobby, but there are still many good encounters out there if you do. Even with this board, it was a while before I figured out "really" what to do. 

 

Better to have your own back up plan.  Things happen.  You ended up with the agencies back up plan, not your own.  I have not had to use my back up plan (usually a parlour) more than twice that I recall.  But both were excellent punts.  By the way, what agency?

 

Not sure you mentioned your location, but for your next punt, you might want something totally sure to be a great time, like Chloe-K or HoD or few others. If you share your location and preferences, I'm sure you will get ideas.

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Always useful to have a fallback option just in case something like that happens.  Perhaps if you call an agency have 2 girls in mind so you can suggest someone if your first choice isn't available or falls through.  Alternatively have the number of some other agency with some other girl you have been able to do your research on stored in your phone just in case.  Never be afraid to say something like "I'd rather leave it then, thanks" if you can't get the booking you want.  Best not to rely too much on agency suggestions; some agencies do try to help the punter and steer him in the right direction but other will just look to foist you off on whichever girl has had the least bookings recently and needs the business.

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Eventually you will learn to relax - and dictate the pace. That's the trick. You need to communicate on the spot what you want.

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Cheers for the replies.

 

I'm looking around South/Central London area so theres plenty of choice - perhaps too much. Half the trouble is I don't think I'm entirely sure what I want other than under 30, slim (size 6/8 - actual size not agency size!), friendly gfe. 

ho

 

Definitely won't be relying on agency recommendations or backups again. In future I'll be going home! As good as the reviews are for HoD, parlours don't appeal to me. 

 

Out of interest as much as anything, is a girl getting 15 minutes notice from an agency normal practice or would they normally try to give her longer?

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