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Spotting The Signs...

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Was thinking the other day about how many visits to a WG it takes before you feel comfortable/before you click and when do you know to call it a day. So based on those musings, my questions are:

1. How many visits before you feel really comfortable with your chosen girl?

2. How many visits do you make before reaching a conclusion that she's worth continuing with?

3. What puts you off and how do you spot the signs that things are on the slide and she might prefer that you didn't book her again?

For me:

1. About 3/4 visits

2. 2 visits (always give a second chance)

3. Talking about other customers, distraction, lack of focus, clock watching etc.

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1) 2-3 visits (never seen a girl more than 3 times so can't comment)

2) 2 visits

3) Not emotionally involved or present, when they are robotic, clock watching, distracted, lack of focus, etc

 

Fortunately never had any talk about other customers.

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As a WG I have to add a comment to this "men" talk.


 


As one who has a reasonable number of regular “playful times” friends all I can say by personal experience is that the action starts as soon as I open the door. Yes, no more need to warm up and bookings become longer. A good talk, top up refreshments and shower are just a prelude for more action time!


 


As a rule prior to the next encounter for more extravagant delights emails will be exchanged with a topic of substance followed by suggestions of variety and spice.


 


Great minds think alike, stimulates the libido and everything is in its right place ;-)


 


My point: Yes, you can be “serviced” , however full satisfaction is a two way street.


 


Hear, hear!


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No disrespect intended Amanda :) In fact I have commented elsewhere on this forum that the best times often come when you repeat visit and build something of a bond of sorts - for me it's certainly not a case of going through the motions. I prefer my time with WGs to be a 'two way street' as you say, I see it as a lack of genuine respect for a woman to only take pleasure for myself. My efforts and results in that area are not always exemplary - but I always have at the back of my mind that the job the WG is engaged in cannot be easy, and thus it's only proper to behave with dignity towards them - something that engaging in mutual satisfaction makes it so effortless to observe.

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@ Amanda - I'll admit my question 2 above does sound a trifle heartless. It wasn't intended that way...

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No disrespect intended Amanda :) In fact I have commented elsewhere on this forum that the best times often come when you repeat visit and build something of a bond of sorts - for me it's certainly not a case of going through the motions. I prefer my time with WGs to be a 'two way street' as you say, I see it as a lack of genuine respect for a woman to only take pleasure for myself. My efforts and results in that area are not always exemplary - but I always have at the back of my mind that the job the WG is engaged in cannot be easy, and thus it's only proper to behave with dignity towards them - something that engaging in mutual satisfaction makes it so effortless to observe.

 

No disrespect intended Jacko6969  :) but what "job" are we talking about?

 

Yes I do get your point if you chose a "service" from a "provider" you do get a job. However, I would like to point out that many independents are no longer "providers' and have made a conscious choice to fully enjoy the horizontal, vertical and diagonal pleasures of one owns body with another human being. Obviously, not every man has an exemplary or are capable of multiple performance for several reason. Nevertheless, they do enjoy and get a lot of satisfaction in just watching uninhibited self-satisfaction of a woman spontaneously in the zone. As you said: "engaging in mutual satisfaction makes it so effortless to observe."

 

With due respect but I do believe that your exemplary efforts can be a hindrance and may allow some to take advantage of your good nature.

 

Be wise my friend and have a lovely weekend.

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Point taken Amanda. Maybe I'm not all that good at explaining myself fully - and 'job' was a poor choice of word - but my overall point was to imply that it's certainly not all about self-satisfaction on my part, but a willingness to make sure that the lady feels secure, comfortable and respected enough to fully enjoy herself also...

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When she asks you for money or a loan or a gift forget and exit as soon as possible ! 

 

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notorious, I had that a few years back with Amanda (no connection to Amanda L on this thread) , she was the Geordie Cheryl Cole-lookalike once at Saucy London who came up in discussion on another thread about escort lookalikes a few weeks ago.

 

Pouty Cheryl lookalike Amanda: "Oh, Fantasy Lover, would you buy me those Louboutins?" 

 

Me: "Er...they're a little expensive." 

 

Amanda: "Oh, don't you love me then?"

 

Me: "See you later, you mentalist..."

 

Amanda: "Can we meet outside Harrods next time? Hello?"

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Was thinking the other day about how many visits to a WG it takes before you feel comfortable/before you click and when do you know to call it a day. So based on those musings, my questions are:

1. How many visits before you feel really comfortable with your chosen girl?

2. How many visits do you make before reaching a conclusion that she's worth continuing with?

3. What puts you off and how do you spot the signs that things are on the slide and she might prefer that you didn't book her again?

For me:

1. About 3/4 visits

2. 2 visits (always give a second chance)

3. Talking about other customers, distraction, lack of focus, clock watching etc.

 

I've only ever had one WG I would consider as a regular and I knew from the first visit and the email exchange afterwards that things were good.

 

As for the ending bit, I doubt she intended it, but she sent me a snappy text concerning confirmation of (what turned out to be our last) booking.  As far as I was concerned everything had been sorted a week or more before, and thought she would know me well enough to know that I would let her know if anything was stopping me from meeting up on time.  From the tone of her text it was like I was just another unreliable punter.

 

The meet itself was ok, but at the same time something had gone. I won't deny that I felt sad about that, but at the end of the day it is paid pleasure, so I decided that I had to move on.

 

I just feel that it was better to end it like that and still remember the many good times rather than return and be disappointed again.  That doesn't stop me wishing that it had been different :(

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1. 1-3 visits.

2. 1 visit.

3. If she isn't as attractive in person as in her photos. If she is doing it purely for the money.

 

Its hard to explain how you think/know if she genuinely likes you. Everyone is different, some people are reserved so its harder to know if she likes you, as opposed to if she is very outgoing and gets on really great with just about anyone.

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In terms of calling it a day, I think if you have experienced something where it migrates into personal territory and then for some reason loses that, it's difficult to keep going.

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