sinfulsid

Advice Needed.. Filtering Clients.

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Hello everyone, 

 

So I am having this problem, I have just signed up as an escort and I am gaining some interest. (well alot of interest actually, and it is beginning to be a problem.)

 

I do have fairly highish prices but I am still getting alot of interest.. I thought it would filter some people out.. but apparently it is not working and I am getting constant emails from men that I really do not want to meet...

 

How can I let them get the message? At the moment I am like ignoring them but then they come see me on cam and its like.. errm.. :/ 

 

I am a nice person and I don't want to be nasty to anyone .. but at the same time I wont dis-respect myself by putting myself in situations I don't want to be in.

 

I am aware that I could make alot of money in this industry, but money is not everything. You learn this by making alot on cam a week :P

 

(P.s I am actually a girl, not a guy called sid.)

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Hello everyone, 

 

So I am having this problem, I have just signed up as an escort and I am gaining some interest. (well alot of interest actually, and it is beginning to be a problem.)

 

I do have fairly highish prices but I am still getting alot of interest.. I thought it would filter some people out.. but apparently it is not working and I am getting constant emails from men that I really do not want to meet...

 

How can I let them get the message? At the moment I am like ignoring them but then they come see me on cam and its like.. errm.. :/ 

 

I am a nice person and I don't want to be nasty to anyone .. but at the same time I wont dis-respect myself by putting myself in situations I don't want to be in.

 

I am aware that I could make alot of money in this industry, but money is not everything. You learn this by making alot on cam a week :P

 

(P.s I am actually a girl, not a guy called sid.)

Your profile states that you are MALE

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We all get lots of interest when new and your rates have nothing to do with it.If people approach you on cam I believe you can kick them off and block them if they are not taking no for an answer.To escort you need to be assertive don't be afraid to say no and if needs be log and block timewasters on phone and email.I would suggest you take a look at the saafe website for advice and info if you are new to escorting.Be careful posting about being new on forums this in itself can attract timewasters.

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Then why are you called sid and why have you registered as a guy?

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I thought that would be obvious ;)

I did not want people to know who I am haha.

So I signed up as male and a guy called sid.

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And thank you Bibi for the advice. I will check it out.

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I thought that would be obvious ;)

I did not want people to know who I am haha.

So I signed up as male and a guy called sid.

What's obvious about it? People wouldn't know who you are if you called yourself hairymary and signed up as a female.

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I thought that would be obvious ;)I did not want people to know who I am haha.So I signed up as male and a guy called sid.

So how is signing up as a bloke then telling everyone on the world wide web you're actually female any different to signing up as a female in the first place??

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Wanker, probably. :huh:

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Wanker, probably. :huh:

On THIS board?? Preposterous   :lol:

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Wanker, probably. :huh:

There's no "probably" about it in my view

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I thought that would be obvious ;)

I did not want people to know who I am haha.

So I signed up as male and a guy called sid.

No its not obvious, its stupid. 

 

How do we know you are not really a guy who usually gets turned down for bookings so are trying to fish for ways around girls checking methods for who they will and won't take a booking from. Sorry, no advice from me.

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Yes, I looked at his profile and assumed he was male.

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But then a bloke could have signed up as a woman and still do the same thing! Hmmmm

 

Anyway, part of the job is filtering people and wading through emails, texts and calls, I don't see a fraction of the men who actually call me and I've been doing this 4.5 years. Just ignore those you don't want to see and accept that you will get contact from people who sound yucky, rude or haggling etc or who ask timewasting questions with no intention on booking and so on.  It's just part of the job. It'll die down once you stop being the new girl! 

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But then a bloke could have signed up as a woman and still do the same thing! Hmmmm

 

 

Yes and if he declared he was a man or was discovered what would we call him?  TROLLLL

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Yes and if he declared he was a man or was discovered what would we call him?  TROLLLL

I agree what a really stupid thing to do I really don't understand why bother doing that ?

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But then a bloke could have signed up as a woman and still do the same thing! Hmmmm

 

Anyway, part of the job is filtering people and wading through emails, texts and calls, I don't see a fraction of the men who actually call me and I've been doing this 4.5 years. Just ignore those you don't want to see and accept that you will get contact from people who sound yucky, rude or haggling etc or who ask timewasting questions with no intention on booking and so on.  It's just part of the job. It'll die down once you stop being the new girl! 

 

Which was exactly what EasyMe did for quite a while before being caught out...

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Jesussss christ lol. I realized how paranoid girls are now lol.(I am not a man who gets turned on about asking about bookings.)

Anyway my AW name is MeganHearts.

I guess it does not really make sense that I signed up as a guy, but anyway moving on....

 

Can anyone help me? Thank's..

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Thank you lydia for your nice non paranoid comments :P

lol

:)

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I thought that would be obvious ;)

I did not want people to know who I am haha.

So I signed up as male and a guy called sid.

If anything if you are an escort you would want people to know who you are so they can look you up for possible bookings and so forth.Really not a good idea to tell fibs it makes people suspicious.

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Which was exactly what EasyMe did for quite a while before being caught out...

I don't think its a problem if people ask for advice on an open forum lets face it they can read posts on alot of forums without even registering but more of an issue when 'new ladies' start pming.This always makes me go hmmmmmm.

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Which was exactly what EasyMe did for quite a while before being caught out...

Ahh, but on here I/we are only giving out advice that anyone could read anyway, if anyone is daft enough to confide in a stranger via PM  then that's their call! 

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I don't think its a problem if people ask for advice on an open forum lets face it they can read posts on alot of forums without even registering but more of an issue when 'new ladies' start pming.This always makes me go hmmmmmm.

Niether do I but when someone starts out with a deception Im not going to bother. If this was the other way around and it was  a guy  he would be getting flamed by now. Especially to then come on and say the opposite of what they are registered as. Fact is we now have no idea what sinful is. A girl pretending to be a guy, a guy pretending to be a girl, a girl pretending to be a guy claiming to be a girl. Who can be bothered x

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Sidney!!! You've been rumbled...

"Said in a carry on sort of voice"

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