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Seeing An Escort For The First Time

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I have never seen an escort before, but I'd really like to. There are a few Ladies near me that I would really like to see, however I just can't find the confidence to get in contact. Is everyone the same the first time?

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Yes very very nervous.  I have a partner as well so you are torn between knowing its wrong but needing and wanting the excitement and sexual fulfilment of meeting a woman that you don't know for sex! The first time I jumped up and said no and said to myself that's it I won't do that again!  Then I found a lady that did sensual massage and hand relief  and she gave me more confidence! If it was me I would look for sensual massage, hand relief first and see how you go.  Certainly go for a lady with more experience even a little older as they may be better at putting you at ease. By older I would say at least thirty something which is old!  Just my opinion which others will disagree may disagree with!  

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Should have read thirty something isn't old!

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make sure you do some research and prehaps go for an hour  as gives you time to relax a bit

 

just email the ladies and explain your new im sure they will understand

 

aim for a gfe too x

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I have never seen an escort before, but I'd really like to. There are a few Ladies near me that I would really like to see, however I just can't find the confidence to get in contact. Is everyone the same the first time?

Speaking as someone who took 6 months to book an escort after deciding he was going to see one - yes it can be nerve wracking taking that first step! I waited until I knew I was sure I wouldn't back out no matter what as I wouldn't have liked to let a wg down. I explained it was my first time with a wg, booked 90 minutes and explained I wanted a no rush gfe. Which is exactly what I got. Others will say book a shorter appointment, go with what you think will work for you.

Nerves are natural for a first time, pick a well reported wg and you should be fine. It can be addictive so be warned!

Good luck and let us know how you get on... ;)

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Nervous.Hell,i was shaking so much the lady got worried i was going to keel over :) In hindsight i would agree with the others about research.I took the plunge and went for someone with no feedback nothing,I got lucky in that it was a very nice lady,oddly enough,formerly in the same trade as me and was very patient with a quivering wreck.Now i realise that i got lucky.So research and let them know it's your first visit so will be nervous so they know waht theyre dealing with.

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When I started there was no such thing as the interweb, and we had to take our chances with adverts in shop windows! It could be terrifying, but we pulled through.

 

Nowadays there are plenty of safe places, such as here, to do your research. That helps, but the first time will always be nerve-wracking. My advice would be to find a mid 30's lady who offers GFE and is happy to meet newbies.

 

Having said that, there will be plenty of guys with differing advice. In the end do what feels OK to you

 

Good luck!

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Hey hun, and very importantly, if you do manage to pluck up the courage to visit someone and you're nervous, don't show it! It will not help anyone feel sexy if you do. It will not add anything beneficial to the experience.

 

And who knows? If you behave in a confidant and relaxed way, maybe you'll eventually relax for real and then you will definitely have a great time! I personally would much prefer a guy to be assertive then nervous. Good luck hun!

 

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Given that you do good research and select a woman who has a good reputation i would advise you to tell her it is your first punt and that you are nervous and i am sure she will be sympathetic and help you to overcome this.

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Even old timers can ocasionally feel nervous for all sorts of reasons so don't worry - just go for it!

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Given that you do good research and select a woman who has a good reputation i would advise you to tell her it is your first punt and that you are nervous and i am sure she will be sympathetic and help you to overcome this.

I think this would work with the right escort, however it will make for a much better experience if the OP came across as confidant and relaxed. This will help the escort relax.  Of course, any escort would try and help relax her client if he said he was nervous but I don't think that most women would find a bundle of nerves sexy therefore I don't think that this approach will get the best out of an escort. The best experiences happen when you believe you are with your lover and you forget that you are client and escort

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Don't worry about the nerves, experienced escorts will have seen this before- lots of times! I find it quite endearing when a client is nervous- much better than the cocky swaggering sort who tries to make me feel I should be grateful he is there!

 

As well as research, use your instinct when you speak to her on phone when you book. If she sounds impatient or not as warm as you;d like then don't choose her (but do still cancel don't just not show up).

 

If she is any good she will sooth your nerves and even if you feel you fumble through it a bit, the next time will be better! 

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Trouble is when you are very nervous it effects your performance!  Well it does mine!  Its good if you can see a lady that you can break the ice with on your first one, share an experience or have a joke.  Turning up with dental dams certainly did break the ice!      

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I think this would work with the right escort, however it will make for a much better experience if the OP came across as confidant and relaxed. This will help the escort relax.  Of course, any escort would try and help relax her client if he said he was nervous but I don't think that most women would find a bundle of nerves sexy therefore I don't think that this approach will get the best out of an escort. The best experiences happen when you believe you are with your lover and you forget that you are client and escort

How exactly is he supposed to do that??Nervousness and anxiety are a natural reaction to what could be seen as stressful situations.Its due to not wanting to freak the lady out there are suggestions about research and informing the lady pre visit that its your first time in that situation and nervous so she will know why youre quaking away.Some ladies are incredibly good at easing nerves and tension and putting people at ease.But to tell him not to be nervous and be confident.

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If a guy is nervous then he is nervous.I don't agree that a guy should act assertive when he doesn't feel that way.In fact false swagger can make a guy look like he's acting in a weird way.An experienced lady will be fine if you say you are nervous and its your first time.She will hopefully be reassuring and try to break the ice with a smile and a hug and a kiss and chat to you and then take the lead.

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I think this would work with the right escort, however it will make for a much better experience if the OP came across as confidant and relaxed. This will help the escort relax. Of course, any escort would try and help relax her client if he said he was nervous but I don't think that most women would find a bundle of nerves sexy therefore I don't think that this approach will get the best out of an escort. The best experiences happen when you believe you are with your lover and you forget that you are client and escort

If a lady can't deal with a nervous,new client then she is probably in the wrong job.It doesn't matter of we think nerves are sexy or not its about helping someone new to our world to have a good time.A guy would feel even more pressured if he then had to put on an act of confidence.Its my job to help him relax so unless the girl advertises as a sub there is no reason why she can't go softly softly until his nerves ease and then take the lead if needs be.
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I have never seen an escort before, but I'd really like to. There are a few Ladies near me that I would really like to see, however I just can't find the confidence to get in contact. Is everyone the same the first time?

I was very nervous my first time when i was 19, it was pre-net and i have no idea what the WG would look like, i had briefly spoken to her on the phone and she seemed friendly. My advice is take a deep breath and remember its all about having fun, choose a WG rated by others on here and i hope it goes well.

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I was very nervous my first time when i was 19, it was pre-net and i have no idea what the WG would look like, i had briefly spoken to her on the phone and she seemed friendly. My advice is take a deep breath and remember its all about having fun, choose a WG rated by others on here and i hope it goes well.

when you were 19?  sheesh how much was that?  ten bob?

 

(Actually just used a inflation calculator on thisismoney.co.uk and a £120 punt when I was 19 would have been about £23.  even in 1900 it would have been £1 4s 0d)

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when you were 19?  sheesh how much was that?  ten bob?

 

(Actually just used a inflation calculator on thisismoney.co.uk and a £120 punt when I was 19 would have been about £23.  even in 1900 it would have been £1 4s 0d)

It was in the 80s Cov so post ten bob coinage,  ;)  i cant recall how much it was though.

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I see lots of guys who are first timers.  I treat them exactly the same as all my clients, aside from the fact I take things slower and am very patient.

 

I find most guys relax pretty easily with me.  What I'd advise is to make sure you see an experienced escort, if you are young go for the more mature lady who will  have had experience of this before.

 

Good Luck

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It was in the 80s Cov so post ten bob coinage,  ;)  i cant recall how much it was though.

 

so you never went out with a ten bob note, have 5 pints, fish and chips and still have your tram fare home then?

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so you never went out with a ten bob note, have 5 pints, fish and chips and still have your tram fare home then?

No i was 6 when ten bob notes were phased out.

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No i was 6 when ten bob notes were phased out.

 

 

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when you were 19?  sheesh how much was that?  ten bob?

 

(Actually just used a inflation calculator on thisismoney.co.uk and a £120 punt when I was 19 would have been about £23.  even in 1900 it would have been £1 4s 0d)

 

My first punt was £5 plus ten shillings for the maid.

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My first punt was £5 plus ten shillings for the maid.

Do they still ask for "A tip for the maid" at walk ups?  I haven't been to one in ages. It used to annoy me but I never had the balls to refuse.

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