english rebecca69

Am I Being Silly?

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hi all so i get alot of request for outcalls to clients homes through the agency

 

i am happy to meet at a hotel but i just feel really uncomfortable going to an outcall at a private house

 

am i mad?

 

i just get all parinoid esp after thr recent activity

 

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What do you mean requests 'through the agency'?  I thought you are independent.  Also what 'recent activity'?

 

Bottom line you should do whatever you feel confident with and pleases you, but ultimately if you will ever decide on visiting somebody at their premises in the future make sure you check the address on Google street view to get a feel of the area, ask for his full name and home number (if he has one).  Some ladies even check the client's address on 192.com (for which you have to pay).

 

Most importantly don't ever let anyone push you to do what you are not confortable with.  Good luck.

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Any guys who are in a relationship and still invite ladies to an in-call at home are asking for trouble in my view.

 

I can quite see why Rebecca feels uneasy about making such visits.

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I only go to someone's private address if I have met them several times before on my own turf or in a good london hotel, I need to sound someone out and get a real feel for them before hand.

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am i mad?

 

i just get all parinoid esp after thr recent activity

 

Not at all.

 

You are right to be cautious

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I don't think it really matters, if someone wants to harm you they will wherever. I've read horror stories happening in hotel rooms, private houses as well as ladies own incall.

 

For this reason I never veer from my security and screening procedures.

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It matters 100%. I know I will never be secretly recorded at my incall place for a start!

 

We take precautions where we can.  Some precautions are easier to take.

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The recent activity she is referring to is a lady being murdered whilst on an outcall,I believe Rebecca has openly stated she does agency and independent work like a few ladies choose to do.

Anyway back to the original post.Personally I only do outcalls to private addresses if I know the chap or if they have feedback and book me via a.w.I generally have a driver/security parked somewhere nearby discreetly.I have had bad experiences in the past when I did outcalls to private homes via phone bookings.You shouldn't feel silly choosing to work in a way that makes you feel safer and more comfortable.

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Not silly at all.  If the gent wants to see you that much he will go to your in call venue or book a hotel.  I wouldn't dream of you coming to my house!  My dog gets very jealous and she can be very over protective!

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I am in a city centre and will only go on outcalls to city centre hotels. I will not go to a private residence. I don't feel safe there and frankly I worry about finding a grubby house or an unpleasant dog or something like that. I just can't be bothered.

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Rebecca you are not being silly, you are being cautious. If your gut tells you no then dont do it. I dont take many outcalls but I never go to private addresses x 

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Rebecca, I think in this day and age the risk is too high for any girl to visit a private residence.

 

Outcalls ideally should be to decent hotels in safe areas only, to allow the girls to feel safer.  Also clients visiting girls should only visit girls who have decent incall premises in safe areas, so the clients too can feel safer.

 

I prefer to see girls for outcalls, so I book a decent four star hotel in a safe area.  This way we can both feel safer.

 

Whatever you decide Rebecca, best of luck ;)

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Rebecca, I think in this day and age the risk is too high for any girl to visit a private residence.

 

Outcalls ideally should be to decent hotels in safe areas only, to allow the girls to feel safer.  Also clients visiting girls should only visit girls who have decent incall premises in safe areas, so the clients too can feel safer.

 

I prefer to see girls for outcalls, so I book a decent four star hotel in a safe area.  This way we can both feel safer.

 

Whatever you decide Rebecca, best of luck ;)

Just because the 'area' is 'safe' doesn't mean the client or WG isn't going to attack you, a 4 star hotel is no guarantee you won't be harmed or ripped off. One thing I've learned in life is that appearances can be deceptive, and I treat every one and every booking with the same caution and enjoyment as the next. I've had great bookings in budget hotels, and difficult ones which could have gone wrong/where I was very vulnerable in very expensive hotels and vice-versa.

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@ Strawberry check my above post again, I said "allow them to feel safer" in safe areas, I never said feel safe!  100% safety cannot be guaranteed.

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My take on hotel outcalls is at least there are other people about in other rooms,a record of who has booked the room and usually cctv that can clock who has entered and left.I agree nothing is 100% but I feel abit better at hotels rather than houses.

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It is about what you want as much as anything. If you are making a good living and having fun without visiting punters at hone, why bother?

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I have asked escorts to visit my own private residence, and they have obliged- but only after I have got to know them really well and have had several bookings beforehand. They will know me well, and they will be my 'favourites' and I'm comfortable with letting them into my home. (I am a single man and live alone, for clarity).

 

I would not dream of inviting an independent escort or escort from an agency to my home, if we have not met before. Most reputable agencies also refuse those bookings and make it a rule that outcalls must be to a hotel.

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I have asked escorts to visit my own private residence, and they have obliged- but only after I have got to know them really well and have had several bookings beforehand. They will know me well, and they will be my 'favourites' and I'm comfortable with letting them into my home. (I am a single man and live alone, for clarity).

 

I would not dream of inviting an independent escort or escort from an agency to my home, if we have not met before. Most reputable agencies also refuse those bookings and make it a rule that outcalls must be to a hotel.

i have worked for  A few reputable agencies and they have all sent me outcals to homes....x

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I would not dream of inviting an independent escort or escort from an agency to my home, if we have not met before. Most reputable agencies also refuse those bookings and make it a rule that outcalls must be to a hotel.

Reputable agencies will do the proper checks, by that I mean checking the landline name and number against the phonebook. Clients who are ex directory should not be able to have home outcalls if using a reputable agency, unless he is very well known to them and had no previous complaints from their escorts. I've been sent to addresses to agency clients to find the client outside and taking me into another flat/house number, so on these occasions the proper checks had not been done.

I always google street view before setting off. My old flat mate was sent somewhere in the same postcode as us, so we presumed it'd be okay, only to get there to find it was a high rise! Fortunately it was daytime and she was in a cab so just told the driver to take her back home, making some excuse about meeting friends for a flat viewing and had already decided she definitely would not want to live there!

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Just to clarify on my above post I don't think Rebecca is silly to be thinking about security, however I've read of just as many incidents and attacks going occuring at incall, and hotels as in client's homes.

 

A woman was held, beaten and raped for 12 hours in a reasonable, busy, city centre hotel room 2 years ago after attending an outcall arranged by her agency.

 

All the CCTV in the world won't help you if you are bound and gagged, or even dead.

 

My most frightening experience happened incall, and for various reasons I never thought anyone would target me there (the location was hardly remote). The guy travelled from a different part of the NW, interestingly enough not from a place considered 'rough' or anything like it.

 

One of the most prolific scammers who has been quite difficult with quite a few SPs is incredibly well spoken and boasts of the penthouse he's booked in a lovely hotel(which may or may not be true, I didn't hang around to find out but I know of others who don't know his rep. who have met him).

 

No security is fool proof, and it's no good if it's after the event and attacks have happened in hotels.

 

This is why I always advocate sticking to tried and tested procedure, treat every booking like the rest.

 

Genuine punters don't realise the 'nice' things TWs and dodgy punters say, they say the same "I'm genuine, I'm a nice guy, you are safe with me" things you do, and they are hardly likely to say otherwise!

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No security is fool proof, and it's no good if it's after the event and attacks have happened in hotels.

 

 

Which is why we take precautions in the hope that it will prevent us from getting in danger

 

 

All the CCTV in the world won't help you if you are bound and gagged, or even dead.

 

 

That may be so but CCTV may help identify/track down the offender.

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Which is why we take precautions in the hope that it will prevent us from getting in danger

 

 

 

That may be so but CCTV may help identify/track down the offender.

Absolutely right but no help whilst you are being traumatised, which I'd prefer to try and avoid. 

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I don't so them firstly because I just wouldn't feel safe and secondly I have a moral issue with guys who see escorts in their marital home and finally, I don't want to end up in some smelly grubby place.

 

However, I know women who do them happily. 

 

Incidentally the woman who was murdered was at her incall place, which is usually considered the safest way of working...

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I don't so them firstly because I just wouldn't feel safe and secondly I have a moral issue with guys who see escorts in their marital home and finally, I don't want to end up in some smelly grubby place.

 

However, I know women who do them happily. 

 

Incidentally the woman who was murdered was at her incall place, which is usually considered the safest way of working...

This is the risk, you can't tell what the place is like until you are inside, and external appearances aren't reliable.

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Not silly at all.  If the gent wants to see you that much he will go to your in call venue or book a hotel.  I wouldn't dream of you coming to my house!  My dog gets very jealous and she can be very over protective!

 So hilarious, this reminds me of a meeting where the client had a bitch who was very curious and friendly towards me.  The client told me he has never seen the dog behaving like this with a new person.  On another occassion I had a tom cat who kept licking my legs while I was with the client at his premises.  Until now I have a smile on my face when I remember these moments.  I simply love pets and I guess they feel this straight away.

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