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Booking Again After A Dispute?

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Would you book again an escort after she disputed your field report? I wonder whether we should let what could have been just a small misunderstanding -- albeit with unfortunate consequences -- in an otherwise positive experience, throw away a potentially rewarding and long-lasting relationship.  After all, if I was wrong, then I would like to know for sure.

 

But we are not a couple, and sex after a fight wouldn't have the same significance. And we all know that women are vengeful creatures.

 

Also, apparently, she can't remember who I was, but let's assume she could.

 

Any suggestion?

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For me this would depend what the fall out was about, and how the other party approached it.

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The fact that she is saying she doesn't remember who you are after a field report that obviously said something significant and the fact she disputed it means in all liklihood she wouldn't want to see you again ,you could always ask if you could rebook.Its not just about if you want to rebook is it?Its also about if she would feel ok seeing you again if you have had a disagreement.

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I would feel that the chances of a bad meeting are too high after any sort of dispute. I have decided not to attempt to meet a couple of ladies with whom I have had issues on here. A shame, because they are both top rated ladies, but I am not prepared to run the risk of a less than good meeting.

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I chimed in again to add that of course it could be her who could not want to see me again.  Hence I agree on what Strawberry and Bibi remarked.  Sorry for having thought only about myself.

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Would you book again an escort after she disputed your field report? I wonder whether we should let what could have been just a small misunderstanding -- albeit with unfortunate consequences -- in an otherwise positive experience, throw away a potentially rewarding and long-lasting relationship.  After all, if I was wrong, then I would like to know for sure.

 

But we are not a couple, and sex after a fight wouldn't have the same significance. And we all know that women are vengeful creatures.

 

Also, apparently, she can't remember who I was, but let's assume she could.

 

Any suggestion?

 

Depends on what you said... if it was that she had a fishy fanny... Er no.

 

If it was that she hadn't mouth-washed and normally did so this time it was off-putting then yes, if she can't remember why or who you are then, what's the problem?

 

 

 

I would feel that the chances of a bad meeting are too high after any sort of dispute. I have decided not to attempt to meet a couple of ladies with whom I have had issues on here. A shame, because they are both top rated ladies, but I am not prepared to run the risk of a less than good meeting.

 

 

The could be high, but then that would depend on how A: professional the escort is and B: what was said/individual circumstances.

 

With regard to your personal statement, unless you told the lady Hi I am Porker Paul, how would she know?

Second, just because you have an online dispute with someone doesn't mean that in person you wouldn't get on.

 

I've had many an argument with guys on here, and yet we get on swimmingly well in a face to face meeting... one of those things I guess.

 

Passion, Excitement, Feelings, Emotions, and context are so lost in the virtual world, it's amazing how I can fight with posters on here, and yet when they have been brave enough to out themselves to me, or I've met them, the whole dynamic changes, because I can see the emotion, feel the passion, connect with the context. ( via expressions etc)

 

And it's all worked out swimmingly well.

 

You know what they say...

 

Great risks lead to greater rewards/catastrophic consequences.

 

Me personally would rather take the risk, than walk away not knowing ( but them the not knowing bit would bug me, so...)

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question to me is more - why would you even bother?
punting is not about relationships for me, if something goes tits up on a punt from either side - just get outta there and move on - like you say women are vengeful creatures (where as us blokes are all angels  :P )

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There's misunderstandings...and there's misunderstandings...time is a great healer...maybe this applies to more then one thread, please feel free to cut and paste at your leisure...:-P

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nope would move on and book another, plenty more to choose from

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It entirely depends on what you said in the review, as others have said. I would personally be very unhappy if a guy slated me in a review and then came back to see me and expected to be allowed access to my body. If he had complained about me physically then no…I would assume the guy was malicious, because we all know they can be, and I would feel he may just want to have a booking so that he could do another negative review. No way would I see him. I wouldnt though pretend that I didnt know who he was. I would remind him of the review and ask him his reasoning behind wanting to see me again…just out of interest.

 

If though it was just a little thing then it wouldnt bother me, people dont see the same situation from the same perspective. If someone say complains about being kept waiting for 5 minutes or my bedroom wasnt as big as he liked then it really really isn't a thing to get upset over. 

 

So..if it was bad enough to complain about in a review why do you want to see her again when there is that issue in place, if it was a tiny thing that doesnt actually even bother you then why complain about it in the first place. The lady obviously makes you happy which means she must be good at what she does.

 

There is always the possibility though that she may not really remember you, you may book an appointment then when you arrive she recognises you and you discover there and then if the review pissed her off or not. Minimum she says nothing then blocks your number when you leave ..maximum she lets rip and you have to leave having wasted  your time and hers x

 

Why would it upset you that she disputed your review, if you  put something she disagrees with in the review, as you are fully entitled, then she has the right to dispute it, as she is fully entitled. You know when putting up a review that it can be disputed so it shouldn't be a big deal. 

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nope would move on and book another, plenty more to choose from

Absolutely right. Why go back to somebody you've publicly critizised. If she feels your feedback may have been detrimental to her business or her self esteem in some way, she won't exactly welcome you back with open arms.

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Absolutely right. Why go back to somebody you've publicly critizised. If she feels your feedback may have been detrimental to her business or her self esteem in some way, she won't exactly welcome you back with open arms.

or legs! :P

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nope would move on and book another, plenty more to choose from

That is the way.

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If I didn't want to see someone again I'd say so.

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If I didn't want to see someone again I'd say so.

Depends on whether she really doesn't know who he is. She may well recognise the review but if it was a while ago she may not recognise the face to go with it. We don't know both sides of the story.

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Have a conversation with her and try to understand her point.  If indeed she is too upset of your criticism, although you still like her, maybe is a lesson for you to learn.

 

I remember I received a review once from a guy I saw for a very long time regularly and he gave a lower mark for the hotel he booked, altogher affecting 'my' score on the review by 1-2 points, which we were both not aware until we saw this.  There was nothing wrong with the hotel as it still has top marks on TripAdvisor, so we only laughed about it and moved on.

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Wow!  Thank you guys for your lots of feedback.

 

Here is an update: she has contacted me again, after I thought our dispute was settled (we parted ways because she couldn't remember anything about the fact, so there was not much to talk about).

 

Our dispute was about a service that (I thought) she denied out of the blue and it was in private, polite and friendly from both sides.  Unsolicited, I have recognized that my report sounded way more negative than what I meant, and I said that I was going to fix it.  Interestingly, this was not an issue to her: she was just upset because she felt that I lied about that service.

 

Amusingly, she has said that it were my polite and respectful ways that made her remember me in the end and reopen the conversation.

 

So, I think there have been a misunderstanding.  I somewhat felt it, hence this thread, but since I often give too much leeway, this time I decided it was better to be more strict. And I missed it, this time.

 

Anyway, I have replied asking her whether it was fine to meet again.

 

Meanwhile, I would like to examine some things further.  Please bear with me.

 

The fact that she is saying she doesn't remember who you are after a field report that obviously said something significant and the fact she disputed it means in all liklihood she wouldn't want to see you again ,you could always ask if you could rebook.Its not just about if you want to rebook is it?Its also about if she would feel ok seeing you again if you have had a disagreement.

 

Would you care to explain, please?  Why would she say that she doesn't remember me in that case?

 

Me personally would rather take the risk, than walk away not knowing ( but them the not knowing bit would bug me, so...)

 

This is the thought that prompted me to start this thread.

 

nope would move on and book another, plenty more to choose from

 

Not plenty, as I don't live in a huge city.  Even then, as far as I can see, quality escorts are not plentiful at all. And my strict requirements restrict choice even more. But even if they were plentiful, I wouldn't walk away from a professional because of a misunderstanding and, on top of that, while damaging her reputation, just because I could do it.

 

question to me is more - why would you even bother?
punting is not about relationships for me, if something goes tits up on a punt from either side - just get outta there and move on [snip]

 

For me, meeting escorts is about relationships, since I always think about multiple bookings.

 

Why would it upset you that she disputed your review, if you  put something she disagrees with in the review, as you are fully entitled, then she has the right to dispute it, as she is fully entitled. You know when putting up a review that it can be disputed so it shouldn't be a big deal. 

 

I was not upset that she had disputed my review. On the contrary, I was happy that she did. For one, I am always happy to clarify, but more than anything, I think that people show their true colours when they dispute.  Indeed, I always say that I don't consider anybody to be a friend until we fought over something.

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People trying to rebook after a dispute.To me this always smacks off power trippers.

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Endless selection of great girls to choose from, so I'd move on and book someone else.  Your choice of course.

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Personally I would not, and I also walk if there is any argument pre-prandial (and naturally pre-payment) as I've found from experience that it just does not work out.

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People trying to rebook after a dispute.To me this always smacks off power trippers.

 

This is not my case since I am already going to publish a revised, more positive version of my field report.

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........Anyway, I have replied asking her whether it was fine to meet again.

 

 

She will probably agree as it will save her boyfriend IGOR having to measure you personally :wacko:

 

 

 

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This is not my case since I am already going to publish a revised, more positive version of my field report.

Why? Just so you can get a booking. This means your new review would be inaccurate if your first review was accurate. If it was inaccurate then why did you post it as such? You can only do one review per booking also.

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Why? Just so you can get a booking. This means your new review would be inaccurate if your first review was accurate.

 

Thank you for commenting, Chloe, but clearly you didn't read my above explanation, thus your remark is without foundation.

 

If it was inaccurate then why did you post it as such?

 

I made a mistake.

 

You can only do one review per booking also.

 

It was not on AW, so I can.

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