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How Not To Get Caught!

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I am always aware that being caught out by Wife or Girlfriend has to be avoided at all costs.  What precautions do you take? 

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there's only one way to be sure not to be caught don't do it

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or don't get married...

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you could always get castrated that way it would save her doing it when she found out

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Never trust a WG and don't divulge any personal information for starters :)

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Charming ..... finn

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Never trust a WG and don't divulge any personal information for starters :)

 

If you adopt such an absolutist approach I suspect that you will all too often receive a somewhat cool and clinical experience.

 

I guess you must like talking about the weather instead.

 

Oh, and do you expect the WG to be similarly circumspect in what she says?

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If you adopt such an absolutist approach I suspect that you will all too often receive a somewhat cool and clinical experience.

 

I guess you must like talking about the weather instead.

 

Oh, and do you expect the WG to be similarly circumspect in what she says?

I have no issues with my statement and equally i take what they tell me with a pinch of salt. Equally I have no interest in their private lives :) as for cool and clinical experiences the honest answer is mixed experiences over the years some good some even outstanding but equally some very, very, poor.

To many examples of punters opening up and then living to regret it.........

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dont tell them anything about yourself, and I normally give a fake name

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Have a phone so busy that any calls to any number never look suspicious.  Don't use SMS unless you delete imediatly.  Separate account for punting for which card is stored in place she will never (tyre well for my spare tyre...). Simples

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Have a punting email address, and NOT link it your smartphone!!

 

Always use a punting phone, with a PAYG SIM. A basic phone will suffice, one that is not a smartphone or has internet access or gives away your location. Phone should be locked, with access by PIN only.

 

If possible, leave your work or private phone in the car/office, and not take it with you.

 

If incall appt., do not take any your wallet with you (bank cards, credit cards, or any ID document). If you do, and need to use shower, make sure you take your belongings with you to the shower room. Take sufficient cash for the punt, plus any extras should you plan to extend your stay, or even tip (yes, I do).

 

Park some distance away from the WG's flat, so nosey neighbours can take your details down, or worse still the WG.

 

If outcall at hotel, put all your belongings away in the safe, and do not leave any paperwork lying around,  which could easily identify you.

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Also, if using SatNav, make sure you are able to delete out the last journey made, if it is shared or used by others. Whilst using it to get to a WG, make sure the SatNav volume in case you have to take any calls as it may be difficult to explain why the SatNav is being used for a journey to/from usual place of work.

 

Given recent events, use a different AW user name to your nick on here, and if you submit any FRs, try and amend/alter date and times of appt, so that it is not easy for a WG to connect your nick to the AW username and/or when you saw her.

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I have no issues with my statement and equally i take what they tell me with a pinch of salt. Equally I have no interest in their private lives :) as for cool and clinical experiences the honest answer is mixed experiences over the years some good some even outstanding but equally some very, very, poor.

To many examples of punters opening up and then living to regret it.........

 

Indeed. If booking is for 1hr or over and you are in recovery mode, a simple chat/conversation can easily lead you to give away some of your personal details.

 

dont tell them anything about yourself, and I normally give a fake name

 

Agreed. and a fake profession (if you are going to say it, at least make sure you are knowledgable about it).

 

Have a phone so busy that any calls to any number never look suspicious.  Don't use SMS unless you delete imediatly.  Separate account for punting for which card is stored in place she will never (tyre well for my spare tyre...). Simples

Far easier to have the spare punting phone, than to faff about with SIM cards being inserted/removed, call history deleted, texts deleted, etc.

 

Above may be fine, but could easily be got at by others, e.g. The AA man attending to the wife's tyre change, finding the SIM and handing it over to her!!

 

I know of a punting friend who keeps the spare punting cash stashed away at work, in a safe.

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Have a phone so busy that any calls to any number never look suspicious.  Don't use SMS unless you delete imediatly.  Separate account for punting for which card is stored in place she will never (tyre well for my spare tyre...). Simples

 

Never use a work phone to call a WG/Parlour or an agency. some have been known to text you out of the blue, of any offers, girls returning back from hols, new girls starting, etc. An out of the blue text from them could easily compromise your situation.

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I don't think it can be avoided at all costs.  I expect the more you have the more you want and I guess the guard could eventually slip.  I suppose its try to make it fit into your day to day normal routine.  I am going on a course soon so I will fit a visit in after the course.  Course can run on quite late and the traffic is terrible getting out of the city so this will account for the extra time.  I hope?   

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Fucks sake...

You're obviously punting with some iffy characters or di you just assume all escorts are stalking thieves?

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Fucks sake...

You're obviously punting with some iffy characters or di you just assume all escorts are stalking thieves?

 

Nope. Just cautious. I hide this hobby from all my friends and family, and am cautious with them as well, e.g. when going to a punt.

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I am amazed that many of the responses all seem to start from the assumption that the escort will be the one to betray you. That astounds me since I have never felt an escort was about to do any such thing.

 

I would have thought that preventing anyone from your civvie life finding out was far more dangerous and likely. There have been some good tips above relating to that.

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dont tell them anything about yourself, and I normally give a fake name

 

Do most clients here use a pseudonym when meeting with a lady?

 

I careful research my visits and have complete and total faith in the girl I am seeing, so see no problem in disclosing my real identity - although maybe my attitude will change when something goes wrong.

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I am amazed that many of the responses all seem to start from the assumption that the escort will be the one to betray you. That astounds me since I have never felt an escort was about to do any such thing.

 

I would have thought that preventing anyone from your civvie life finding out was far more dangerous and likely. There have been some good tips above relating to that.

 

Paul, read about a thread  I started (approx 15 months ago) about a scamming couple in the Loughborough area. Since then, I have been very cautious when going to see anyone for punting.

 

Also, most of my tips have been about hiding my hobby, so that I hope I don't get caught out by friends/family when punting.

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If punting outside your comfort zone, when driving try and stay within the appropriate speed limits in case there are any speed or mobile cameras around, as it could be tricky to explain why you were in a certain area. Even worse for Company car Drivers.

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If punting outside your comfort zone, when driving try and stay within the appropriate speed limits in case there are any speed or mobile cameras around, as it could be tricky to explain why you were in a certain area. Even worse for Company car Drivers.

 

I do agree that a degree of caution is sensible, especially on a first visit.

 

I do think that PP has the perception of balance of risk right in saying that the most likely things to trip you up are the unintended mishaps or crossed paths (with civvies) on the way to or from a visit, and potentially having to account for AWOL funds or time, or unexpected items like a punting phone, SIM, or texts, emails etc.

 

I don't expect to share my life history with a WG, and I very much doubt that she would want to hear it, but a bit of insight into each others lives, more relevant on repeat visits, is a calculated risk that is safe to take at times imo.

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I use my real first name, so that narrows me down to one of probably several million other blokes in the uk. I don't really see the issue. Plus a wg has no idea if it's my real name or not. Same with my job.

Even if a wg discovered my surname, I can't find me anywhere on the internet and I know who I am - so I'm damn sure no one else can!

Each to their own but if I felt the need to have a completely different identity / persona just for the sake of a punt then I don't think I'd bother...

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I do agree that a degree of caution is sensible, especially on a first visit.

 

 

I know of a member on here who had some money and a bank card taken from his belongings whilst on a 4th visit to the same WG. He didn't discover til he got home, so could never prove it. Also, he didn't think she was a habitual thief, perhaps more of an opportunist. 

 

My view on this is why allow the opportunity to create such a scenario when it can be avoided altogether, by being cautious.

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Fucks sake...

You're obviously punting with some iffy characters or di you just assume all escorts are stalking thieves?

 

i can appreciate your comment, but WG's are just strangers and you dont know them.  And if something went missing during a punt then that could be nasty.  Isnt a punters stuff better locked in a car boot then there is no chance of misunderstanding.

 

Imagine if on an outcall something went missing and you accused the girl.  then when she finally goes the item is found.  that will really spoil things.  same reason i dont take valuables to the office or to a hospital.

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