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Tantric Massage - What Is It?

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One of my most memorable experiences punting is receiving a Thai massage from a Thai lady. It was aggressive, sexual and I honestly have never felt so good in my life. I long for a similar experience.

I'm looking for a massage and going on the other site, a lot of people list Tantric massages as one of their specialties, though I have my doubts about whether they can actually do it.

Anyways, just wanted to know a bit more about what it is and your experiences.

Many thanks!

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Tantric massage is a state of mind, you make a connection with each others bodies, learn to trust and anticipate one others thoughts and movements...culminating in a truely earth shattering experience.

As with everything you will get the good and the bad, but remember tantric is something you build up to and cannot be achieved in a hour, day or even a week.

What is offered is a tip of the ice burg but can still bring immense pleasure...

Good luck in your search and please do post your experience/s.

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One of my most memorable experiences punting is receiving a Thai massage from a Thai lady. It was aggressive, sexual and I honestly have never felt so good in my life. I long for a similar experience.

I'm looking for a massage and going on the other site, a lot of people list Tantric massages as one of their specialties, though I have my doubts about whether they can actually do it.

Anyways, just wanted to know a bit more about what it is and your experiences.

Many thanks!

I would start with a Google search if I had such a query.

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I do not thing Tantric massages can be called aggressive. They tend to be gentle and intuitive, the masseuse refines her touch, going from hands, to silk, to hair, to breath! Some Thai masseuses are naturally aggressive so maybe that is what you had? I remember having a massage in a top quality hotel in Thailand (non sexual) where the lady was about 4 foot nothing but could have bent steel with her hands.  

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overpriced sensual massage

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I kind of agree with my circus going colleague above. 

 

The trick is to find a masseuse with whom you feel comfortable, a Gumtree search is a reasonable start.  You can gently  enquire if anything else is on the menu.  If it is not then just lie back and enjoy the massage; but if it is, then the experience becomes a bit of a courtship and the sexual relief at the end is all the more pleasurable because you have worked at the relationship.  Both parties still know that it is a business relationship and maybe in normal life we would not have much in common but there is nothing wrong with mixing business with a bit of pleasure!

 

If, of course, you just want a rub and tug (nothing wrong with that) then it will be easier to go to a lady who advertises that service.

 

happy hunting.

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I went for a Thai massage in London once and although the lady was very nice I was shocked she wanted to jump on my back.  I asked her to calm down and go for a slight massage on my delicate skin.  However the best foot massage I had it in Bangkok and another in Singapore: total bliss of 90min for 6 English pounds.

 

The tantric massage always gives me headache: my body wants the real McCoy, ha ha

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I personally love tantric massages and (when done right) they are quite different than just a plain massage with a HJ finish.  In my opinion, it's all about 'riding the wave' where you build up to get close to orgasm, then back off again slightly, build up again, back off and so forth which usually results in mind blowing orgasms in the end.  The more you relax at the bottom of the wave, the bigger the build-up to the top so it's also a lot about easing your mind, relaxation and deep breathing at times.  I think it takes some skill to be able to read someone's body language enough to tell when he's getting close without going over the top.

 

There is indeed also a lot of stuff about it on the internet.

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Apparentley Sting does it.

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Ive seen a couple of ladies advertise this and they come across as Plastic Hookers that are full of themselves and havent got the bottle to get a proper good Fucking they seem a tad full of themselves. Maybe its on account of them not even entertaining the thought of any penetration at all. It's just the immpression I get when viewing their profiles.

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overpriced sensual massage

 

Don't you mean "High Class"  overpriced sensual massage

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its one hell of a feeling I hear it gets you really horny ready for some action! kate lll x

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I had a non-sexual tantric massage couple of years ago. It only felt like twenty minutes but the lady said it lasted an hour and a half. They are incredibly relaxing.

 

I had a Thai massage in a Phuket parlour. The girl stepped on to my back and walked up my spine. I've never felt anything so intense, too intense for my liking. That she turned on a TV didn't really help the mood.

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I love the tantric experience with a lady, it makes our special connection so much more intense and special.

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Ive seen a couple of ladies advertise this and they come across as Plastic Hookers that are full of themselves and havent got the bottle to get a proper good Fucking they seem a tad full of themselves. Maybe its on account of them not even entertaining the thought of any penetration at all. It's just the immpression I get when viewing their profiles.

 

I wouldn't see a Tantric massage as a replacement for visiting a WG, it is an alternative.  If the person offering the massage is good, as in skilful, it can be a very enjoyable experience.

 

It is something I only do occasionally as I usually prefer to see someone offering a wider range of services, but if you haven't tried it, then I'd say you are missing something, but finding a good provider remains essential for that to be worthwhile.  They do exist ;)

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I used to love them but have not had one in a while they can vary so much though. I think it depends if it is a correctly trained masseuse or someone who "watched with Nellie" to leatn the techniques.

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I used to visit full sex providers quite regular but after having some amazing tantric massage experiences I now do not bother with full sex providers. The thing that kept me coming back is just the intensity of the orgasm, a skilful practicioner who knows exactly how to control your orgasm, continually bringing you right up to the point of orgasm, then starting again, the orgasm when finally delivered is so much more intense. I even forgot to breathe doing one of these orgasm it was so intense, also multiple orgasm where the girl just keeps going and makes you come again.

Two of my favourites Lara here http://www.essensualhealing.co.uk/

and Eva here http://www.tantric-massage-london.net/index.php?go=gallery#eva

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I wouldn't see a Tantric massage as a replacement for visiting a WG, it is an alternative.  If the person offering the massage is good, as in skilful, it can be a very enjoyable experience.

 

It is something I only do occasionally as I usually prefer to see someone offering a wider range of services, but if you haven't tried it, then I'd say you are missing something, but finding a good provider remains essential for that to be worthwhile.  They do exist ;)

 

I comprehend what you are saying and verify that your statement is true, my good brother.

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Tantric massage is a state of mind, you make a connection with each others bodies, learn to trust and anticipate one others thoughts and movements...culminating in a truely earth shattering experience.

As with everything you will get the good and the bad, but remember tantric is something you build up to and cannot be achieved in a hour, day or even a week.

What is offered is a tip of the ice burg but can still bring immense pleasure...

Good luck in your search and please do post your experience/s.

Whilst I believe in it, and I say this because I knew a lady who specialised in it and was fortunate to actually watch her work - I could not do it.  I believe you have to be spiritual to do it, and I am not.

 

So to conclude, much like the squirting thing - I think some ladies can and most ladies can't.  The ones who do, are a treasure, as was my friend, and it's a shame that every one who jumps on the bandwagon spoils the specialised things by flooding the market  and spoiling a good service.

 

It's this USP everyone wants.  Why can't we just be good at what we do and let that be our USP instead of saying we can do something because we think it might bring in more wonga :(

 

Sorry for the pun :)

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Good post Sarah,

Maybe the market gets dilluted and people get deluded...

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In my experience it is even more intense and erotic than just knickers down and off we go! I always try to read the desire of the client by body language and anticipate their desires. It is fulfilling on a different level not for everyone I guess tho x

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Hi Elisha...tantric is about making the mind, body and soul interconnect in a very sexual way...very hard to do in a short term appoitment x

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Hi Elisha...tantric is about making the mind, body and soul interconnect in a very sexual way...very hard to do in a short term appoitment x

Indeed thats why my clients keep coming back.  ;)

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My experience and understanding of Tantra is that it's a slow unrushed whole body experience 'and as Sarah says a spiritual one too' that really needs both partners to participate. With that in mind surely a trantric massage would be better described as an almost tantric sensual massage. Unless of course it's going to be mutual massaging.

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