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Is It Allowed To Make Personal Contact With Companion Members To Arrange Encounters

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My apologies if this is a silly question, I have looked at the rules of this website and I don't think it is stated.

It seem that a number of delightful ladies contribute to Punternet and they seem very bright and insightful. After a period of time is it permitted to make private contact with them to ask them to consider a personal encounter. Of course such matters would remain strictly confidential. Just wanted to ask in case any rules or etiquette were in place to discourage such things for the harmony of the website.

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A Gentlemen member of Punternet can if he wishes a personal encounter make advances to the chosen Lady of the Punternet forum but please at all times be respectful of the delightful chosen lady, correct grammar can make or break online harmony, shyness of ladies of Punternet must be overcome so your first words of contact via pm or email should  start perhaps a little poem or maybe a joke or two, but nothing from or any reference to the Krankies.

If you are lucky with your respectful engagement with a chosen one please remember that at all times in the ladies boudoir at Gentleman of punternet is expected to keep at least one foot on the floor at all times during coitus to maintain the ladies dignity.

Good luck.

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My apologies if this is a silly question, I have looked at the rules of this website and I don't think it is stated.

It seem that a number of delightful ladies contribute to Punternet and they seem very bright and insightful. After a period of time is it permitted to make private contact with them to ask them to consider a personal encounter. Of course such matters would remain strictly confidential. Just wanted to ask in case any rules or etiquette were in place to discourage such things for the harmony of the website.

Where a lady chooses to display her website address, then it is perfectly in order to contact her there.

Despite the tongue in cheek comment of the message above, politesse always seems to be much appreciated.

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A Gentlemen member of Punternet can if he wishes a personal encounter make advances to the chosen Lady of the Punternet forum but please at all times be respectful of the delightful chosen lady, correct grammar can make or break online harmony, shyness of ladies of Punternet must be overcome so your first words of contact via pm or email should  start perhaps a little poem or maybe a joke or two, but nothing from or any reference to the Krankies.

If you are lucky with your respectful engagement with a chosen one please remember that at all times in the ladies boudoir at Gentleman of punternet is expected to keep at least one foot on the floor at all times during coitus to maintain the ladies dignity.

Good luck.

Thank you for your reply, it is very much appreciated. As is your gentle humour.

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Stop calling us companions(or at least don't include me), it's patronising and pretentious.

 

You can send a PM at anytime to anyone and the content is up to you, but keep it straightforward - most ladies like prospective clients to be straight to the point, numerous flouncy messages are usually indicative of someone who's going to be a bit of a pain in the neck, or who is more likely to enjoy messaging rather than attending actual bookings.

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feel free to send me one as well if you like to talk

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Stop calling us companions(or at least don't include me), it's patronising and pretentious.

 

You can send a PM at anytime to anyone and the content is up to you, but keep it straightforward - most ladies like prospective clients to be straight to the point, numerous flouncy messages are usually indicative of someone who's going to be a bit of a pain in the neck, or who is more likely to enjoy messaging rather than attending actual bookings.

My sincere apologies it was not my intention to be rude or in any way be disrespectful to you or anyone else, it is a term I have always used as it was suggested to me many, many years ago by a lady as appropriate term. I would hope I have never been as "Pain in the neck" as you say. I do find messaging rather difficult in actuality more so than the actual encounter. As a new member I thought it best to check first before causing any potential bad feeling. Is there a more modern and appropriate term you would rather I use. Again please accept my apologies for any offence caused.

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feel free to send me one as well if you like to talk

Thank you very much you are most kind.

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Escort, SP (service provider), some on here like WG (working girl), sex worker, 'lady', woman, prostitute all are accurate terms. Companion reminds me of a dog, PA or some small person tagging along in some sort of Agatha Christie novel.

 

Companion is also a term I associate with people who think paying for sex is somehow illegal, who won't be clear about services, and so one party often ends up either ripped off, badgered, or at least very vulnerable because they think they can't approach the authorities.

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Remus you sure your cut out for this? If you are then PM them on here I am sure they won't mind and if you are met with a torrent of abuse then move on.... Simples

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I would suggest if the lady you are interested in is displaying her website then she would be interested but if she isn't there is a reason for that. Some ladies don't like seeing guys that post here, others like myself don't see anybody at all anymore so stick to those that are displaying websites.

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Escort, SP (service provider), some on here like WG (working girl), sex worker, 'lady', prostitute all are accurate terms. Companion reminds me of a dog, PA or some small person tagging along in some sort of Agatha Christie novel.

 

Companion is also a term I associate with people who think paying for sex is somehow illegal, who won't be clear about services, and so one party often ends up either ripped off, badgered, or at least very vulnerable because they think they can't approach the authorities.

Thank you for you reply, I think I will use the word lady from now on. I am fully aware of the legal nature of meetings, I am very comfortable with the intimate moments and have been lucky enough never to have been ripped off before. I am very careful however when contacting a lady. I was hoping by joining this website that I would be able to be learn from other contributors and educate myself with a more modern view and terminology.

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Remus you sure your cut out for this? If you are then PM them on here I am sure they won't mind and if you are met with a torrent of abuse then move on.... Simples

Oh yes I am quite sure thank you, I think I just need to make more of an effort to bring myself up to date with how things work nowadays. I am a bit stuck in my "Old fashioned ways" I have no desire to insult anyone, so I will try to be more careful with my words from now on. 

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I would suggest if the lady you are interested in is displaying her website then she would be interested but if she isn't there is a reason for that. Some ladies don't like seeing guys that post here, others like myself don't see anybody at all anymore so stick to those that are displaying websites.

Thank you Holly for clarifying that, I am in no rush, so perhaps it would be best to contribute and listen more before thinking of making any personal contact. I do regret my question now, I was just concerned about overstepping the mark and the rules of this website. 

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A Gentlemen member of Punternet can if he wishes a personal encounter make advances to the chosen Lady of the Punternet forum but please at all times be respectful of the delightful chosen lady, correct grammar can make or break online harmony, shyness of ladies of Punternet must be overcome so your first words of contact via pm or email should  start perhaps a little poem or maybe a joke or two, but nothing from or any reference to the Krankies.

If you are lucky with your respectful engagement with a chosen one please remember that at all times in the ladies boudoir at Gentleman of punternet is expected to keep at least one foot on the floor at all times during coitus to maintain the ladies dignity.

Good luck.

 

An essential rule of pocket billiards!

 

Love the poem idea and would suggest this as a good "opener",

 

What's in a name? that which we call a dildo

By any other name would it buzz so sweet;

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A Gentlemen member of Punternet can if he wishes a personal encounter make advances to the chosen Lady of the Punternet forum but please at all times be respectful of the delightful chosen lady, correct grammar can make or break online harmony, shyness of ladies of Punternet must be overcome so your first words of contact via pm or email should  start perhaps a little poem or maybe a joke or two, but nothing from or any reference to the Krankies.

If you are lucky with your respectful engagement with a chosen one please remember that at all times in the ladies boudoir at Gentleman of punternet is expected to keep at least one foot on the floor at all times during coitus to maintain the ladies dignity.

Good luck.

 

Fandabbydozy!! :D

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oh eer you naughty boy you! kate lll x bend over let me spank you!

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To add to the comments already made by my esteemed lady colleagues... I would suggest you contact any of the lucky ladies who have caught your eye on here via their preferred method of contact which will be stated on their lovely websites.

I have found that men who insist on messaging to excess tend to be what we like to call 'pesty pants'. Many of us ladies are professional and with our own funny little quirks regarding how we like to be contacted so do be a poppet and humour us with our preferences.

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To add to the comments already made by my esteemed lady colleagues... I would suggest you contact any of the lucky ladies who have caught your eye on here via their preferred method of contact which will be stated on their lovely websites.

I have found that men who insist on messaging to excess tend to be what we like to call 'pesty pants'. Many of us ladies are professional and with our own funny little quirks regarding how we like to be contacted so do be a poppet and humour us with our preferences.

 

Thank you again excellent advice, as I said I think perhaps I will take sometime to settle in and get used to peoples preferences and views first, I would hate to be thought of as a pest by anyone.

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I am not sure I would contact a lady via here.  Just my personal preference.  If she has her personal website or AW address on here  then would contact that way.  As long as you are polite and genuine then no need to offer any more at first point of contact.  I guess that's the main thing polite and genuine. No body can be offended by that!  Then again you never know in todays world.  I've got the dog in the office here so just going to take my companion for a walk.....   

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Stop calling us companions(or at least don't include me), it's patronising and pretentious.

 

You can send a PM at anytime to anyone and the content is up to you, but keep it straightforward - most ladies like prospective clients to be straight to the point, numerous flouncy messages are usually indicative of someone who's going to be a bit of a pain in the neck, or who is more likely to enjoy messaging rather than attending actual bookings.

 

As someone who often accepts social bookings, I am considered to be a social companion on such dates. I do not consider the term patronising nor pretentious and surprised you are so offended by this term.

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Companions, someone been watching Serenity ?

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Thank you for you reply, I think I will use the word lady from now on. I am fully aware of the legal nature of meetings, I am very comfortable with the intimate moments and have been lucky enough never to have been ripped off before. I am very careful however when contacting a lady. I was hoping by joining this website that I would be able to be learn from other contributors and educate myself with a more modern view and terminology.

With great respect, you have only been a member for a few days. I would suggest that you read 15 or 20 threads fully on each section of the site. Then you will get a feel for the language we use, the MO of several of the escorts and the way us punters work.

 

I sense that your first language may not be English, and that the English you learned may have been learned several years ago.

 

Don't get me wrong, you are very welcome here, but read yourself into the scene for a couple of weeks before trying to generate a reaction.

 

I wish you luck here and will help you if I can.

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With great respect, you have only been a member for a few days. I would suggest that you read 15 or 20 threads fully on each section of the site. Then you will get a feel for the language we use, the MO of several of the escorts and the way us punters work.

 

I sense that your first language may not be English, and that the English you learned may have been learned several years ago.

 

Don't get me wrong, you are very welcome here, but read yourself into the scene for a couple of weeks before trying to generate a reaction.

 

I wish you luck here and will help you if I can.

 

Thank you for your advice and you are correct to a degree regarding my use of the English Language. It seems, I may have overstepped the mark which was not my intentions, it has been mentioned to me in the past that I can be somewhat over enthusiastic, as it appears to be in this case. My sincere apologies I will take your advice and strictly limit my input from now on.

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Thank you for your advice and you are correct to a degree regarding my use of the English Language. It seems, I may have overstepped the mark which was not my intentions, it has been mentioned to me in the past that I can be somewhat over enthusiastic, as it appears to be in this case. My sincere apologies I will take your advice and strictly limit my input from now on.

 

Overstepped your mark? You have done nothing of the sort!

 

I'm not getting why some people have found your use of the english language so offending. You seem to have better command of it than those whos first language IS English! I have found none of your posts offensive and I suspect the same of many other readers. I cant see a single reason why you have felt the need to apologise for your posts. You cant please everyone, so just be yourself and carry on posting.

 

At least you don't say 'would of' instead of 'would have'. That is a grammatical crime if ever I saw one!

 

Back on topic.

 

My preference is contact by email.

I prefer not to be approached when I'm in the chatroom. If I'm in there, it's for lighthearted banter.

 

I would advise that you read websites carefully. Most ladies will have their preferred point of contact stated on their sites

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