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do you married guys think we are doing your wives a service as well as you when you punt

by relieving your frustrations for you instead of you having to bother them for things they may not like doing

or wont do

and do you think your relationship is better with them  because of us

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 I know my wife would be horrified to find out how much of our combined finances I've spent on paying for sex as well my cheating.  But although we no longer have sex we have reached a sort of happy contentment with each other because I'm no longer pestering her to do things she doesn't want to.  You could argue that my punting has kept us together for so long.  I think she suspects I'm up to something but keeps quiet about it. 

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No of course we are not doing their wives a service, we are by default doing them a disservice. Im pretty sure if you put the question to the wives of "would you be happy for your husband to spend your family money on having sex with prostitutes so that you didnt feel under pressure to perform when you dont want to" then most would be horrified and most certainly answer 'absolutely not". There would be some wives who would be okay with that situation but I still think most would not be so therefore we are not doing them a service at all. They are simply living in ignorant bliss, I use the word ignorant as in its true meaning not as an insult. 

 

Yes many guys do feel that them seeing escorts has helped their marriages in many different ways and I would agree with them. I dont think the wives would see it the same way though even if its actually true x

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I met a WG once who told me that one time she had a guy turn up to an appointment wearing his wife's knickers and suspenders.

She said she thought it was a bit cheeky and disrespectful (towards his wife) on his part! :D

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I met a WG once who told me that one time she had a guy turn up to an appointment wearing his wife's knickers and suspenders.

She said she thought it was a bit cheeky and disrespectful (towards his wife) on his part! :D

 

So do I. As regards the OP's question, definitely yes.

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No of course we are not doing their wives a service, we are by default doing them a disservice. Im pretty sure if you put the question to the wives of "would you be happy for your husband to spend your family money on having sex with prostitutes so that you didnt feel under pressure to perform when you dont want to" then most would be horrified and most certainly answer 'absolutely not". There would be some wives who would be okay with that situation but I still think most would not be so therefore we are not doing them a service at all. They are simply living in ignorant bliss, I use the word ignorant as in its true meaning not as an insult. 

 

Yes many guys do feel that them seeing escorts has helped their marriages in many different ways and I would agree with them. I dont think the wives would see it the same way though even if its actually true x

 

Of course the wife would see it differently but if she doesn't want to have sex to insist that he must therefore remain celibate is pure hypocrisy.

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I believe in compromise...there are of course caveats to this but in the main every single relationship is unique...this should however never deter us from the fact we should always be looking for a positive outcome (for all concerned)...

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Of course the wife would see it differently but if she doesn't want to have sex to insist that he must therefore remain celibate is pure hypocrisy.

I do sort of agree with this... Seems like a fair compromise and I personally don't believe that the human race as a whole is meant to be monogamous, especially for such a long stretch of time. Everyone needs to be true to themselves and allow themselves an outlet, unfortunately society has made it very hard to stay away from the 'norm' and of course long term partners may be horrified if they found out what had been going on. Women/ wives can however be very 'naughty' too.

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Although it's still cheating (in my book) I used to punt for two reasons, variety and my Mrs wouldn't do A.

When we split up and I got involved with another I was glad I knew my way around cos although she was great girl sex was way off.

There is no disservice in my opinion most of us would not be married to girls with model like looks and capable of giving the sort of sex we get from a pro.

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Of course the wife would see it differently but if she doesn't want to have sex to insist that he must therefore remain celibate is pure hypocrisy.

Of course its hypocrisy. Still, we may be doing the husbands a service and with great pleasure at that but we are not doing the wives a service…unless of course its a threesome 

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I met a WG once who told me that one time she had a guy turn up to an appointment wearing his wife's knickers and suspenders.

She said she thought it was a bit cheeky and disrespectful (towards his wife) on his part! :D

Thousands of men out there are doing much worse whilst wearing their wives knickers believe me. I earn out of the pantie wearers these day's and whilst I think it's disrespectful towards the wife (they should buy their own), I think it's the urge to wear something feminine and easier to pinch the Mrs's than have her find a strange pair hidden and jump to the wrong conclusions, so maybe it's no more disrespectful than seeing a hooker behind her back in the first place if that makes sense.

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Women/ wives can however be very 'naughty' too.

 

Quite. Remember reading somewhere that up to 10% of children are not fathered by the men who think they did. Seems difficult to believe it's that many, but I don't doubt there have been plenty of cases of this.

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 so maybe it's no more disrespectful than seeing a hooker behind her back in the first place if that makes sense.

to be honest holly I doubt a wife would see any difference

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Quite. Remember reading somewhere that up to 10% of children are not fathered by the men who think they did. Seems difficult to believe it's that many, but I don't doubt there have been plenty of cases of this.

Well if the royal family do it…..

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to be honest holly I doubt a wife would see any difference

I don't think they would either.

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