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Discussions On The Price Of Escorts

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Being single its no secret to a few friends and work colleagues that I see escorts.

Bare in mind the people I know are working and middle class men.

When I get asked "how much is she?" I tell them the hourly rate, their response is always the same - something along the lines of I've got money to burn, why not just go to the pub pick up any old chick buy her £20 worth of drinks and she's yours.

 

I was talking with a couple of work colleagues today, I showed them a photo of my regular escort who I've been seeing lately, their response was all the usual Wow she's a model?! bet she costs a lot? I said £250 for the night (is actually £350). The look on their face just dropped - saying things like I'd never pay that much. I'm there thinking to myself escorts normally cost £800-1200 for an overnight, lucky to get one for £600, and think how extremely cheap £250/350 is.

 

Then when I think about the forum discussions I've read, the profiles I've read stating things like how the WG won't lower her price for whatever reason - its rude and offends her, that £120-150/hour just about pays her bills, overheads of escorting etc. You know 3 hours a week is a hard weeks graft for many women doing 40+ hours. But this isn't a discussion on how much escorts should charge.

 

It annoys me. All these men who come across as all "I'd never spend X (cheap) amount for a shag, I'd rather do this or that". Yet there's loads of men out there who will spend £10-20 or more for a 4 minute lapdance, usually no touching only to walk away with no result other than being all horny. Or spend £thousands on a car to impress or act dangerously, or spend £50 or more per night for a so-called good night out. Yet when I say something like I spent £120 on some fit girl for an hour... "Money to burn!"

 

If only they knew a fraction of the total money I've spent on escorts over the last 6 years... is my only or biggest secret I have to keep.

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As long as you think it's worth it, who cares? It is an expensive 'hobby' (unless you're a Soho quickie guy), there's no getting away from that.

 

Best not discuss it with others if you don't like their reaction.

 

Everyone has different spending priorities about all sorts of things...like you say...cars, holidays, clothes, houses...and it's human nature to question others' priorities, but in the end, everyone needs to make their own decision how to spend their money.

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people will never agree on a right price ,

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I never discuss punting with any friends or colleagues, but I have had a conversation with a mate who is now separated and wasn't getting anywhere with dating. Not sure how we got to talking about it but he mentioned no way would he pay for sex - but he's quite happy to blow well over £100 at a lap dance club...

Each to their own as mentioned above. I've spent a small fortune recently cramming in a few final visits with a regular who has now quit and left the country. Don't regret a single penny - and I was more than well rewarded with the extra time I was given. Even without that it was worth it.

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I would never discuss my punting with another soul, apart from the lady I might be visiting while chatting. My secret is mine alone, and is staying that way.

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I have friends who don't know for sure that I punt quite  a bit (they may imagine I do)  but have the attitude that they "would never ever pay for sex"  A couple of them do however spend inordinate amounts of time trawling bars and nighclubs in the hope to get laid by spending money buying girls drinks and trying to impress them with their cheesy chat up lines and childishly embarassing antics.

 

When they do eventually score it's usually with a right munter or a slightly prettier girl who is either too drunk or drugged to neither know or care what happened to her that night.

 

They wouldn't spend their money on an escort but know the price of everything and the value of nothing.

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People who don't know the value of money can't spend it well.  I have come to the realization that average people throw away lots of money while convinced that they are saving.

 

I haven't counted how much money hiring escorts has saved me, but it is a lot.  Since I hire escorts, I don't need all the paraphernalia that average men have to acquire to be "cool" and attract women.  Not to mention the savings in time and brain power.  And the freedom.

 

Apparently, there are things that people don't get no matter how many times you tell them.  What can I say?  More power to us.

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Over the years, I've chatted to many men about the subject of fees, and they all seem to agree on one thing: regardless of whether you pay £150 or £300 for the services of an escort, it's still waaaay cheaper than a mistress or a divorce. So, more important than what it's costing you is what it's NOT costing you.

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Ilook at the men I know and see what they spend on boozing, fancy PE kit for this sport or that, fags etc.  They spend way more than I do on punting I reckon.  so I reckon its pretty good value, and apart from the downsides of trying to pull mentioned above, is good because it doesnt impinge embarrasingly on the rest of my life.  Like a bloke where I used to work who was shagging someone at work on the side, his missus stormed in and screamed at him in an open plan office them emptied a black bag of his stuff all over his desk.  you dont get that with hookers :)

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I work to a budget. I won't go over a certain hourly rate or total monthly spend. It works for me. Ladies who can get business from hourly rates greater than my budget get best wishes from me but little else (and certainly not jealousy). It can be an expensive hobby, especially if you get addicted. I once blew a £1200 rebate from the taxman in a week, but boy what a week that was.

To some people, £10 to go to the cinema is a lot of money. There is little point in getting into arguments over it. I never discuss my punting with a soul though, so there is little chance of it.

I totally agree with Uschi above though, it's a lot less expensive a hobby than either a full time relationship or, god forbid, a divorce.

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Being single its no secret to a few friends and work colleagues that I see escorts.

Bare in mind the people I know are working and middle class men.

When I get asked "how much is she?" I tell them the hourly rate, their response is always the same - something along the lines of I've got money to burn, why not just go to the pub pick up any old chick buy her £20 worth of drinks and she's yours.

 

I was talking with a couple of work colleagues today, I showed them a photo of my regular escort who I've been seeing lately, their response was all the usual Wow she's a model?! bet she costs a lot? I said £250 for the night (is actually £350). The look on their face just dropped - saying things like I'd never pay that much. I'm there thinking to myself escorts normally cost £800-1200 for an overnight, lucky to get one for £600, and think how extremely cheap £250/350 is.

 

Then when I think about the forum discussions I've read, the profiles I've read stating things like how the WG won't lower her price for whatever reason - its rude and offends her, that £120-150/hour just about pays her bills, overheads of escorting etc. You know 3 hours a week is a hard weeks graft for many women doing 40+ hours. But this isn't a discussion on how much escorts should charge.

 

It annoys me. All these men who come across as all "I'd never spend X (cheap) amount for a shag, I'd rather do this or that". Yet there's loads of men out there who will spend £10-20 or more for a 4 minute lapdance, usually no touching only to walk away with no result other than being all horny. Or spend £thousands on a car to impress or act dangerously, or spend £50 or more per night for a so-called good night out. Yet when I say something like I spent £120 on some fit girl for an hour... "Money to burn!"

 

If only they knew a fraction of the total money I've spent on escorts over the last 6 years... is my only or biggest secret I have to keep.

Punting is and should be a luxury.  Lots of reasons why - all been said before on here.

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Punting is and should be a luxury.  Lots of reasons why - all been said before on here.

Not to all. Its only a luxury to those who can gain access away from the punting scene. To some its an occasional necessity just to be close to another person. If you dont need to fuck but want too then its a luxury, if you have no other way to sexual release then it would become a necessity even if its just through sheer loneliness. Think disabled and unable to pleasure yourself, no family/friends etc, I think that would be less a luxury and more an occasional necessity to those in this situation. To a guy who is able too and or is in a relationship then yes, its a luxury 

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Punting is and should be a luxury.

 

Er... I disagree. To me, it is common sense.

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Being single its no secret to a few friends and work colleagues that I see escorts.

Bare in mind the people I know are working and middle class men.

When I get asked "how much is she?" I tell them the hourly rate, their response is always the same - something along the lines of I've got money to burn, why not just go to the pub pick up any old chick buy her £20 worth of drinks and she's yours.

 

I was talking with a couple of work colleagues today, I showed them a photo of my regular escort who I've been seeing lately, their response was all the usual Wow she's a model?! bet she costs a lot? I said £250 for the night (is actually £350). The look on their face just dropped - saying things like I'd never pay that much. I'm there thinking to myself escorts normally cost £800-1200 for an overnight, lucky to get one for £600, and think how extremely cheap £250/350 is.

 

Then when I think about the forum discussions I've read, the profiles I've read stating things like how the WG won't lower her price for whatever reason - its rude and offends her, that £120-150/hour just about pays her bills, overheads of escorting etc. You know 3 hours a week is a hard weeks graft for many women doing 40+ hours. But this isn't a discussion on how much escorts should charge.

 

It annoys me. All these men who come across as all "I'd never spend X (cheap) amount for a shag, I'd rather do this or that". Yet there's loads of men out there who will spend £10-20 or more for a 4 minute lapdance, usually no touching only to walk away with no result other than being all horny. Or spend £thousands on a car to impress or act dangerously, or spend £50 or more per night for a so-called good night out. Yet when I say something like I spent £120 on some fit girl for an hour... "Money to burn!"

 

If only they knew a fraction of the total money I've spent on escorts over the last 6 years... is my only or biggest secret I have to keep.

If I was you I would stop talking about this with any of the colleagues.  Not only they might be portraying you differently when discussing this with their friends/partners etc but your statement proves they do not understand that you have a 'need' they do not have and which, probably, will get out of your head.  But as you said, some people buy cars, some go to pub...........is none of their business what you do with your life.  Somehow I imagine you as a very sensible person.

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I see the escorting business as gold!  I'm more than happy to pay the girls whatever they choose to charge because:

 

I get to see a range of gorgeous girls that are way more fun and open minded than a normal girlfriend

They fulfil all my desires

The girls are also great to talk to

They give me freedom from the traditional boredom, ties, head games and arguments that come with having a normal girlfriend

I'm very busy, so having a range of girls to see frees me from having to chase girls and play silly fucking games

The financial cost is much less than having a normal girlfriend

The pleasure I receive from the girls enhances my life overall

 

I'm very careful when selecting girls and I follow tight standards before booking the girls. 

 

So the financial cost is tiny compared to the big benefits I get.

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I see the escorting business as gold!.

I thought it was brass...ok ok i'll get my coat!!! :-P

Seriously though, i'm the opposite in the sense that i love the dinner/drinks social side of dates...

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I am off to London for the weekend. It is a show I want to see. After all the travelling and meals are added in it is probably costing the same as a punt. Some people are theatre mad and probably spend that dum monthly or more. Hobbies and passions are not cheap these days.

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I never discuss punting with any friends or colleagues, but I have had a conversation with a mate who is now separated and wasn't getting anywhere with dating. Not sure how we got to talking about it but he mentioned no way would he pay for sex - but he's quite happy to blow well over £100 at a lap dance club...

 

Isn't that strange? He'll pay £100 for something that's so obviously sexual but won't pay for sex. There's some weird mind-trick going on there...!

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It's one thing admitting you are a punter, another showing photos and giving details of the women you are seeing. I don't refer to websites, pricing or anything else specific when discussing the paid sex scene unless I'm directly asked and I'm sure the person is genuinely interested ie it's not for some entertainment value or to pass the time of day. Discretion is beneficial and expected of both parties in the transaction. Your colleagues may be expressing their disapproval, or uncomfortability around this issue. People often disapprove of how much someone spends on this, that or the other. I remember discussing my occupation with someone not involved in the sex scene and he was genuinely surprised how little Escorts charge. People not involved generally may not be able to guage the cost.

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Isn't that strange? He'll pay £100 for something that's so obviously sexual but won't pay for sex. There's some weird mind-trick going on there...!

Obviously he got several lap dances for his cash, but yes I thought it strange he'd keep paying to have pretty girls gyrating provocatively around him but was so dismissive about paying for sex.

I know how I'd rather have spent the £100!

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I thought it was brass...ok ok i'll get my coat!!! :-P

Seriously though, i'm the opposite in the sense that i love the dinner/drinks social side of dates...

 

So do I but I have different lady friends for those activities. Granted, they may think I'm gay / impotent / or that my cock has dried up / dropped off but it suits me not to get into a sexual type relationship with them.

 

Perhaps it answers a question I often see asked as to whether folks can have good friends of the opposite sex.  I guess the answer is yes - if you punt.

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All men clearly place a different value or importance on sexuality than each other, so I think it's understandable that some men won't see why you would pay so much for sex (although certainly for me it is far more than that) as many people lack the capacity to empathise in that way.  However, I think the previous posters have hit the nail on the head with the suggestion that many guys would not want to be seen to be approving of this type of activity.

 

I certainly would never mention the fact I see escorts to anyone I know personally, especially not work colleagues.  It's impossible to predict how they would react, and how they would see you afterwards - especially the thoughts they don't mention out loud.  Regardless of how I personally feel about seeing escorts, the respect of my colleagues is very important to my career.

 

Personally I see ladies because being physically close to someone is deeply important to me, and I can't place a monetary value on that.  I'm obviously limited to what I can afford and still meet my other obligations, but it is no different in principle to people spending money on cars, sports, holidays, etc. that make them happy and their life more fulfilled.

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The way I look at it is even if you have a partner/wife you pay for it other kinds of way.  New three piece sweet,  new dress, jewellery, I want a new dish washer, the hoover is too slow I need a Dyson!  Wife/partner or escort!  Both pull at your purse strings.  Just I see escorts and my partner has a twenty five year old sofa and washes the dishes by hands. 

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I used to work with a guy who was on his third wife.....and third house :eek: Divorce and she gets the lot each time!! Paying for sex is way way way cheaper than a relationship or pulling!! And lasts longer too!!

 

And as for the guy wanting to get a girl for "20 quids worth of drinks"......he is most likely going to end up with girls with self esteem issues and a shed load of grief!!

 

And anyway......most people think of a 1-2-1 with an escort. I am a party man. I have laid in between two stunning girls turning alternately to kiss both....while a third was riding me cowgirl!! I could keep these "morally responsible" guys who don't pay for it in jealous disbelief for many hours for the stories and experiences I have had. None of which are going to happen without me stooping to the "desperate lows of paying for a shag" :lol:

 

It's best that most men wouldn't do it......because otherwise it would be almost impossible to get bookings with girls being so busy!!! ^_^ 

 

Sometimes it's frustrating when I see a girl in real life that I would so love to be with for some fun (but that happens very rarely)......but when I sit back quietly and observe all the awful situations guys get themselves in just for the sake of getting laid, I wouldn't swap my sex life with any of them :lol:

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I imagine a smoker spends more in a month on fags than I do on punting. Wonder who gets the greater pleasure.

I spend what I can afford on what I enjoy.

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