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do you punters and WG think the same that's its just a bit of sex

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Well I can't speak for WGs but speaking as a punter - yes, I do think it's just a bit of sex BUT it depends on how you define "...just a bit of sex."

 

If you believe the anti-punting propaganda, the kind of sex involved in punting is a nasty, selfish, exploitative animal activity that owes nothing to human feeling, affection, mutual enjoyment or respect. For myself, I enjoy sex as a natural, healthy and un-shameful activity between, in the case of the punting I engage in at least, two free, consenting and mutually respectful human beings.

 

So yes, "...just a bit of sex" - but what's wriong with that?

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Obviously it's not just a bit of sex. If a bit of money isn't involved too, it ain't punting.

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just some fun and undwind from life :)

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To me it's a bit of no strings attached fun - for both parties. I think Max summed it up perfectly.

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It's more than that - as there is baggage taken into every punt - if you are attched for example - or cant get it for nothing

 

that seems to trivialise it

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How can anybody have a bit of sex?   Wouldn't that be frustrating?   I'd be more inclined to think that most 'men in particular' want LOTS of sex, not a bit :)

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I used to get a little bit of sex when I was in a long term relationship.And maybe I could get a bit now for free, but the difference is getting sex with gorgeous women that I fancy.So that means paying for it...

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If it was a bit of sex I would go for a "tuppeny upright". I pay for a hour of sexual fun which is much better

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The sex is enjoyable, but I see escorts for far more than that.  I want to be intimate with someone and for the brief time we are together have a feeling of closeness.  Honestly I could happily skip the sex and get 90% of what I want, but it is important in other ways.

 

To quote Don Draper: "Why is sex the definition of being close to someone? If we lied here in my arms I would have felt just as close."

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A bit of money, a bit of chitchat a bit of snogging and sucking and then a bit of sex..yep sounds good to me.

 

Of course its a lot more than just a bit of sex to some, but to others thats all it is. I prefer the former as it just is better all round but I am happy to see the latter also so long as they are clean, healthy and respectful x

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I like to refer to it as an experience...and yes i like lots not just a little haha

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I like to refer to it as an experience...and yes i like lots not just a little haha

 

I agree with that - it's more of an experience for me as well.  The best WGs I've met so far create such an experience which starts with the welcome, their positive energy, their warmth and attention on you, the environment they create to make you feel comfortable to the actual sex of course and ultimately the goodbye.  It's an amazing thing really when it's done well. 

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I like to refer to it as an experience...and yes i like lots not just a little haha

Thats the truth  ^_^  ;)

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For a punter it should just be sex.  You can't have feelings for a wg as in the long run its no good for you!  I speak from experience and lessons have been learnt!  Its about sex, fun and a non serious meeting between to consensual adults.  She wants your money and you want her body!  That's it.  I expect if you are an attractive guy with a good body and a nice personality then a wg may have hit the jack pot as she is being paid and really enjoys the experience as well! 

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For a punter it should just be sex.  You can't have feelings for a wg as in the long run its no good for you!  I speak from experience and lessons have been learnt!  Its about sex, fun and a non serious meeting between to consensual adults.  She wants your money and you want her body!  That's it.  I expect if you are an attractive guy with a good body and a nice personality then a wg may have hit the jack pot as she is being paid and really enjoys the experience as well! 

Is just great guaranteed sex.  Much better than when you go out and somebody buys you a drink, then expects you to shag him and leaves you disappointed after a short while........ because probably he got it so easy.  At least in a booking, you know you are going to shag for say 1hour, otherwise he will complain....... thank God.

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Haha...is that a threat or a promise! Shagging for na hour sounds good (even better in this heat) when the two of you are stuck together by each others sweat...

Cowgirl for the duration would be great as it gives me time to read the news on the mobile haha

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Haha...is that a threat or a promise! Shagging for na hour sounds good (even better in this heat) when the two of you are stuck together by each others sweat...

Cowgirl for the duration would be great as it gives me time to read the news on the mobile haha

 

I find a BJ when I'm standing suits me best. That way I can rest my beer-mug on her head.

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For a punter it should just be sex. You can't have feelings for a wg as in the long run its no good for you! I speak from experience and lessons have been learnt! Its about sex, fun and a non serious meeting between to consensual adults. She wants your money and you want her body! That's it. I expect if you are an attractive guy with a good body and a nice personality then a wg may have hit the jack pot as she is being paid and really enjoys the experience as well!

Exactly, it's not about feelings but if it's mutually interactive then it's lots more fun. I understand though that some guys don't really want to interact and have met some who were under the impression it wasn't really the done thing because they have been with girls who really don't want any interaction other than cum and go and some feel a bit ashamed to be there for some reason so don't really want to converse at all

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Exactly, it's not about feelings but if it's mutually interactive then it's lots more fun. I understand though that some guys don't really want to interact and have met some who were under the impression it wasn't really the done thing because they have been with girls who really don't want any interaction other than cum and go and some feel a bit ashamed to be there for some reason so don't really want to converse at all

No talking.I don't think i could last :)

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I find a BJ when I'm standing suits me best. That way I can rest my beer-mug on her head.

I really dislike when a guy getting a bj puts his hands on his hips looking down at what he's getting.  It reminds me of The Green Giant which is always guaranteed a laugh.

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it's not emotional for me, it's more than a "bit of sex". A lot is about trying new experiences, something I can't get at home, but I also like a kiss and a cuddle as well. 

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do you punters and WG think the same that's its just a bit of sex

 

All of us can only speak for one or the other (unless we're both punters and WGs, which I doubt is the case for most here). And even then, it's unlikely the answer would be the same for any two people anyway. In the end, sex simultaneously involves both physical and emotional reactions so you're dealing with a myriad of possible interpretations few of which could really be put in a box and easily explained, even when it's just a commercial transaction. For the lucky ones, it is just a bit of sex. For the rest, which I suspect is the majority, it's not that straightforward or plain sailing. 

 

For me, in a long career punting, it's been different things at different times. The common thread has always been that punting is better with a girl I like than with a girl who is pretty (often very pretty) but whose personality leaves me cold. On that basis, it's probably safe to say whatever it is, it's not just a bit of sex. I would guess that to the girls who've seen me, though, I am simply a paying customer and any enjoyment they get is fairly minimal even if the event is not, at times, unpleasant.

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I find a BJ when I'm standing suits me best. That way I can rest my beer-mug on her head.

Was it Ian Gillan who said that his ideal woman would be 3'6" with a flat head :D?

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