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Virgin Here, Considering Hiring A Wg - Can I Ask Some Questions?

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Hello. I'm new to PunterNet. I'm an older virgin (have never been with a woman, or kissed) and I've never punted before. I'm interested in losing my virginity to a working girl. I was wondering if I could get some advice about a couple of things. I would like to kiss and cuddle a bit, and hopefully progress to PIV and possibly oral during a session, if I was to find a suitable lady. If I am not mistaken, the kissing and cuddling is usually included with a GFE. I have a couple of questions about this. What should I say to the WG when I contact her? I don't want to come across as a creep or weirdo. Should I mention upfront that I'm a virgin? Are there actually WGs out there who would be happy to do GFE with a virgin? Also, what session length would you guys recommend for a first timer? I was thinking of going for either an hour or 2 hour booking. I don't want to go in with a deluded mindset, expecting it to be amazing, as I realise it probably won't be.

 

I asked on another site a while ago but was basically laughed at for being a virgin at my age, and received very little in the way of helpful advice. I discovered Punternet recently and thought I might have better luck here. Also, I might not be able to reply to anyone's posts until later on today because I'm going to bed now.

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Ok, PIV is a new one on me - Pissing In Vagina? - bit full-on for a virgin.

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Ok, PIV is a new one on me - Pissing In Vagina? - bit full-on for a virgin.

If that is the case Vin DaLoo, I would be surprised if many working ladies would be happy to provide that particular service as it seems a high risk activity with regard to health and potential disease transmission..

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Most established ladies will have met men in your situation. Look around, do a bit of research, check FR's then make sure the lady of your choice knows your a virgin and knows exactly what your looking for.

Good Luck x

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If that is the case Vin DaLoo, I would be surprised if many working ladies would be happy to provide that particular service as it seems a high risk activity with regard to health and potential disease transmission..

Lol.. Its more likely to be penis in vagina.

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Don't let anyone shorten your booking time though or rush you. 

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Lol.. Its more likely to be penis in vagina.

 

Ah, just my filthy mind.

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I'm sorry, Seekingpleasure, I may be wrong but I don't feel you are genuine: how come you know such terms as WG, GFE, PIV (a new one on me!).  I lost my virginity in a massage parlour in my early 30's. But in those days there was no internet so maybe you are genuine and have been 'lurking' on here and other sites, getting info, watching porn and trying to pluck up courage. 

I'm sorry to hear you were ridiculed for being a virgin on another site - I'm thinking of one such site where that might happen.  I hope you receive a more helpful and understanding response on Punternet.

It sounds as if you want to experience what it would be like making love to a real girlfriend so let that inform your search for a suitable lady.  You don't need to mention that you are a virgin, at least when you are setting up the encounter.  I'm sure you've read lots of reports and must have a few ladies you are interested in seeing. Maybe 30 mins is best for your first booking.  Just go for it, don't overthink it.  Relax, let the lucky lady take the lead, go with the flow, imagine she is your girlfriend, enjoy the feel of her body, give her pleasure........ 

OMG, I envy you. :)

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A lot of guys lurk on the forums before they either sign up or join in and the OP has already stated that he joined another forum first but they took the piss. Its entirely possible for someone to work out what some things mean without actually being a punter yet.

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If that is the case Vin DaLoo, I would be surprised if many working ladies would be happy to provide that particular service as it seems a high risk activity with regard to health and potential disease transmission..

I just can't work you out Remus. You are either a troll or a complete innocent abroad. Either way, you are well mannered in your posts, so I suppose there is no harm done.

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I just can't work you out Remus. You are either a troll or a complete innocent abroad. Either way, you are well mannered in your posts, so I suppose there is no harm done.

Thank you Kantos, I was referring to Vin DaLoo comments about PIV, I had never heard that term before and was concerned about the virgin OP thinking a lot of working ladies would partake in activities that would be dangerous. Now it is thought to mean something else, so no harm done.

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What to say when you contact her? Well keep the email or phonecall polite and to the point. Maybe say you are new to this and will be a little nervous and then say you would like a nice gfe with lots of kisses and affection, oral and full sex and then enquire about the date and time you have in mind.I would say an hour is your best bet, enough time to enjoy but not too much time if you don't get on as well as you hoped.

The worst thing to do as some new guys try to do on their first time is to have some sort of long tick list where you want to go through as many of her services as you can in your time together...this always looks like a timewaster and even if genuine makes for a rather strained benny hill on speed type of booking.

p.s piv is not a widely used term so maybe avoid using this term...just full sex is the less confusing term.

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Hello. I'm new to PunterNet. I'm an older virgin (have never been with a woman, or kissed) and I've never punted before. I'm interested in losing my virginity to a working girl. I was wondering if I could get some advice about a couple of things. I would like to kiss and cuddle a bit, and hopefully progress to PIV and possibly oral during a session, if I was to find a suitable lady. If I am not mistaken, the kissing and cuddling is usually included with a GFE. I have a couple of questions about this. What should I say to the WG when I contact her? I don't want to come across as a creep or weirdo. Should I mention upfront that I'm a virgin? Are there actually WGs out there who would be happy to do GFE with a virgin? Also, what session length would you guys recommend for a first timer? I was thinking of going for either an hour or 2 hour booking. I don't want to go in with a deluded mindset, expecting it to be amazing, as I realise it probably won't be.

 

I asked on another site a while ago but was basically laughed at for being a virgin at my age, and received very little in the way of helpful advice. I discovered Punternet recently and thought I might have better luck here. Also, I might not be able to reply to anyone's posts until later on today because I'm going to bed now.

 

 

My advice would be to loose your virginity to a Civvie.

 

My reasons for this are varied and complex... but I will try and give a general reason.

 

 

WG's (Ok not all but professional ones) are professionals... I understand why you want to loose your virginity, but when I have come across gents like yourself in the industry it always seems to backfire for them.

 

 

There is something in the air that when you loose your virginity, it makes an attachment to the person.

 

The fact that you've waited so long tells me that you had a reason, or felt you had.

 

WG's aren't GF's and a truly professional lady will make you feel what you long for, but, in most, not all cases the poster ends up starting a "I fell in love with a WG thread" and that's just not good for you.

 

 

My advice would be this...

 

If it doesn't matter who you loose it too, then any number of women on a friday night at a club would probably be more than happy to, break that "cherry" Plus it's a very unique chat up line.

 

 

Hope you find what you are looking for.

 

Autumn

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Ah, just my filthy mind.

Vin,

I like your take on it better! :-P

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I think the fact that he used the PIV abbreviation actually proves he's not familiar with this game, since no one here seems to have heard it before:-)

 

I actually agree with Autumn.

 

If

1) losing it to a civvie is not an option, and

2) if you have the money to spend,

 

I would recommend making a shortlist of 2-3 well-reviewed girls, and maybe considering booking them for spending some non-punting time initially, before you decide whether you like them and want to lose your virginity to them, which you can do on a subsequent booking. Getting to know a person a bit will always make a difference especially when losing your virginity and no matter how professional the girl and good an actress, something of the person always comes out when you spend a couple of hours with them and you'll either make a connection or you won't. 

 

Keep in mind though, the potential risk if you hit it off with the girl is that you could end up with an even worse case of what Autumn is describing. Which is why I am suggesting it in the specific circumstances described above. 

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Maybe he's a VIP!!!

 

Very Important Punter?   :)

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In the real world it would be nicer to lose your virginity to someone special a girl friend and not an escort.  But if it has to be this way my opinion is go for a slighty older lady that offers vanilla type services.  I don't think you want the PSE on a first date unless it appeals!  I would just tell her that you are nervous and less experienced and ask her to lead but tell her what you want.  I would probably have a 2 hour and not 30 mins.  I would use half an hour having a drink, relaxing and chatting, perhaps kissing and once fully relaxed go for it. 

 

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 to a girl friend though.  I don't think it matters when you lose it and I can't understand why some one would take the mickey.  This Virgin thing is very much hyped up. 

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I'm sorry, Seekingpleasure, I may be wrong but I don't feel you are genuine: how come you know such terms as WG, GFE, PIV (a new one on me!).  I lost my virginity in a massage parlour in my early 30's. But in those days there was no internet so maybe you are genuine and have been 'lurking' on here and other sites, getting info, watching porn and trying to pluck up courage. 

I'm sorry to hear you were ridiculed for being a virgin on another site - I'm thinking of one such site where that might happen.  I hope you receive a more helpful and understanding response on Punternet.

It sounds as if you want to experience what it would be like making love to a real girlfriend so let that inform your search for a suitable lady.  You don't need to mention that you are a virgin, at least when you are setting up the encounter.  I'm sure you've read lots of reports and must have a few ladies you are interested in seeing. Maybe 30 mins is best for your first booking.  Just go for it, don't overthink it.  Relax, let the lucky lady take the lead, go with the flow, imagine she is your girlfriend, enjoy the feel of her body, give her pleasure........ 

OMG, I envy you. :)

Whatever you do experience - first time out - it certainly wont be that - if that's what you think, you'll end up thinking you're not missing much.

If you achieve an erection and get your willy inside her and cum there - that will be a big success at this level. Go no more than 1 hour and pay no more than £150.

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My advice would be to loose your virginity to a Civvie.

 

My reasons for this are varied and complex... but I will try and give a general reason.

 

 

WG's (Ok not all but professional ones) are professionals... I understand why you want to loose your virginity, but when I have come across gents like yourself in the industry it always seems to backfire for them.

 

 

There is something in the air that when you loose your virginity, it makes an attachment to the person.

 

The fact that you've waited so long tells me that you had a reason, or felt you had.

 

WG's aren't GF's and a truly professional lady will make you feel what you long for, but, in most, not all cases the poster ends up starting a "I fell in love with a WG thread" and that's just not good for you.

 

 

My advice would be this...

 

If it doesn't matter who you loose it too, then any number of women on a friday night at a club would probably be more than happy to, break that "cherry" Plus it's a very unique chat up line.

 

 

Hope you find what you are looking for.

 

Autumn

That's your advice? lose it to a civvie?

 

he has already been down that road the last 20 years and nothing doing

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My advice would be this...

 

If it doesn't matter who you loose it too, then any number of women on a friday night at a club would probably be more than happy to, break that "cherry" Plus it's a very unique chat up line.

 

 

Hope you find what you are looking for.

 

Autumn

 

Autumn: I am sure if OP could do that, her certainly would have done it long time ago. Night clubs not exactly lettered with raging nymphomaniacs, who are hunting to bed the guy, never mind to go into effort to build a "cherry picker" either.

 

He did actually explicitly said in his post, that: I'm interested in losing my virginity to a working girl.

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just go and enjoy, a more mature woman would be good for you to take care of you, but dont fall for her as its your first time

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Autumn: I am sure if OP could do that, her certainly would have done it long time ago. Night clubs not exactly lettered with raging nymphomaniacs, who are hunting to bed the guy, never mind to go into effort to build a "cherry picker" either.

 

He did actually explicitly said in his post, that: I'm interested in losing my virginity to a working girl.

Agreed - plus a nerd going up to 100 night club girls with that line is not necessarily going to get a yes

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My first experience wasn't brilliant as neither of us knew what to do except fumble around in general genital areas. In my short period of time in this past time when explaining to girls that I had never punted before they accommodated accordingly and were very gentle and took their time before moving things along. A 'civvie' might not do things like give a BJ so seeing a Wg might actually be a much better first experience. In any case just try to relax and don't put pressure on yourself to 'perform'

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In the real world it would be nicer to lose your virginity to someone special a girl friend and not an escort.  But if it has to be this way my opinion is go for a slighty older lady that offers vanilla type services.  I don't think you want the PSE on a first date unless it appeals!  I would just tell her that you are nervous and less experienced and ask her to lead but tell her what you want.  I would probably have a 2 hour and not 30 mins.  I would use half an hour having a drink, relaxing and chatting, perhaps kissing and once fully relaxed go for it. 

 

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 to a girl friend though.  I don't think it matters when you lose it and I can't understand why some one would take the mickey.  This Virgin thing is very much hyped up. 

 

Indeed. I think the idea of taking a man's virginity has a deep appeal to women. The only one of Mrs Bloom's ex's that she ever recalls with affection is one for whom she was his first.

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