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Prostate Massage - Enjoy Or Not?

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Any one here happy to share their experiences with prostate massage? Any techniques that you have discovered and enjoy? 

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Hi, I find that being very gentle to start of with is ideal.

Most likely you will have a free hand, so using your other hand to massage him to an even harder state can be fun.

 

Every one is different.

 

Some guys like a girl to be quite Dom about providing a prostate massage, while others insist on their woman being very gentle at it.

 

Different strokes for different folks.

 

Have you tried it?

 

Did you enjoy it if you did, or did you find it underwhelming?

 

I suppose I should really be asking, did the guy in question enjoy it;-)

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Lots of lube and start of with something small even if the guy books you for "your biggest strap on". Often these produce squeals before they are even inserted yet the guy who quietly says "Ive done it once or twice" can then almost swallow you big boy dildo whole. Horses for courses. I find that not everyone can enjoy   prostate massage as much as just a gentle insertion only a centimetre in. For some the actual anus and just inside is the pleasure spot and pushing any further in is less enjoyable. You just have to experiment as each guy is different. 

 

Plus of course everything that SKG7 said Im in full agreement with

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I enjoy it - it gives me a warm feeling and usually builds up to a much bigger orgasm.  Best technique is using just one figer and putting a bit of pressure inwards towards your prostate.  Similar technique as when you massage a woman's g-spot I suppose.

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I have never been happy with it; perhaps I have not have the type of escort like Chloe and SKG7 to start me off. I must search for a gentle expert.

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I enjoy a slow and gentle prostate massage. I need a lot of lube and for the experience to start very slowly, building up to a shuddering climax. I get harder than usual and my orgasm is certainly different, it's somehow deeper and more powerful. All in all if it's done right it's lovely.

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Its not for me. I have had some horrific experiences at the GPs surgery in that region and the thought of paying good money to have the experience repeated leaves me cold. Each to their own eh ?

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I'm a sissy about being penetrated.

Perhaps it all dates back to when I was six years old. An emergency operation for my appendix. In the pre-op the surgeon, without warning me what was going to happen, wanted to feel it from inside...

(Never forgotten)

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I've only had it once after a tantric masseuse offered it and expressed disappointment when I politely declined, then offered it again and I thought - what the hell once can't hurt - but alas it did hurt a bit. It felt just like an unfortunate medical exploration rather than something new and pleasurable. Maybe I was just unlucky this time, but I'm not champing at the bit to try again.

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I've only had it once after a tantric masseuse offered it and expressed disappointment when I politely declined, then offered it again and I thought - what the hell once can't hurt - but alas it did hurt a bit. It felt just like an unfortunate medical exploration rather than something new and pleasurable. Maybe I was just unlucky this time, but I'm not champing at the bit to try again.

 

They do, don't they? They always make me feel there is a mark I have failed to come up to.

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I reckon all men would find it pleasurable if it was done properly and they were relaxed enough! 

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I reckon all men would find it pleasurable if it was done properly and they were relaxed enough! 

So are you offering lessons in "How to do it properly?"

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So are you offering lessons in "How to do it properly?"

Of course! I have a page on my website about it! Obviously I only offer one to one lessons at my usual rate, but I would consider a group session if you PN boys want to club together! :) 

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I find that not everyone can enjoy   prostate massage as much as just a gentle insertion only a centimetre in. For some the actual anus and just inside is the pleasure spot and pushing any further in is less enjoyable.

This is what I mostly prefer when 'practicing' by myself. :P  I can reach the right spot with my finger when I try, but it's a bit awkward and I've never been able to get it right in such a way that it leads to a special kind of orgasm that some guys report. In fact, I've found that if I have spent a bit of time on the area, when I do eventually orgasm it doesn't feel quite right - as if I haven't climaxed fully and there's more to come or something - so it's not as satisfying. 

 

Would probably get much better results with a skilled practitioner doing it for me :D But the one time I've had a lady venture there with a finger, the whole thing didn't feel right at all - it was a rather odd, uncomfortable feeling. 

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It is... different. Definitely enjoyable if you take your time.

 

Usually, the results are explosive even when I thought I've run out of ammunition! ;)

 

Every punter should try it with a skilled practitioner.

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I have never been happy with it; perhaps I have not have the type of escort like Chloe and SKG7 to start me off. I must search for a gentle expert.

You have to be gentle to start off with at least even for someone who has had this a lot. You need to warm up and relax the muscle. Its easy to make someone bleed down there with very little deliberate effort and no one wants to deal with blood  nowadays, not if they have any sense anyway. Plus if you are not gentle then how can someone enjoy it. Some guys just dont get anything from having their prostate massaged though. Literally nothing, I have had guys lay there looking up at the ceiling waiting for that lovely feeling to happen and it didnt. I guess some prostates are more sensitive than others. 

 

Before anyone comes along and says that isn't true, Ive been doing it for 12 years, I know how to do it lol x

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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Of course! I have a page on my website about it! Obviously I only offer one to one lessons at my usual rate, but I would consider a group session if you PN boys want to club together! :)

 

a group prostrate massage session !! - you'd be frantically busy just keeping up !! ;):P

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Agree - gentle is definitely the way to go although you do need some pressure applied to the prostate to get the full effect in my experience. When a WG just puts a finger up there and hopes for the best it's certainly not the same!

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Agree - gentle is definitely the way to go although you do need some pressure applied to the prostate to get the full effect in my experience. When a WG just puts a finger up there and hopes for the best it's certainly not the same!

I find that when using a finger I can reach the prostate but not give it proper attention without causing excess pressure on the anus so I prefer to use a handy super slim line little vibe with lots of bend to it as that way there is no undue pressure anywhere else and you can use it with the buzz on, off or turned up full power and buzz someone around the bed. It is very popular also with the guys who ask me to rim even though I dont do it, no tongue out there can flick as fast as my little vibe lol and add to that copious amounts of lube they usually love it x

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I experienced it for the first time recently at Rub in Nottingham! (See FR)

 

I had the most intense orgasm I have ever had and look forward to the next time with eager anticipation :D

Edited by Chasfas

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A skilled practitioner.......hmmm definitely worth a go!

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a group prostrate massage session !! - you'd be frantically busy just keeping up !! ;):P

That's why the best  ladies have ten fingers!

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You have to be gentle to start off with at least even for someone who has had this a lot. You need to warm up and relax the muscle. Its easy to make someone bleed down there with very little deliberate effort and no one wants to deal with blood  nowadays, not if they have any sense anyway. Plus if you are not gentle then how can someone enjoy it. Some guys just dont get anything from having their prostate massaged though. Literally nothing, I have had guys lay there looking up at the ceiling waiting for that lovely feeling to happen and it didnt. I guess some prostates are more sensitive than others. 

 

Before anyone comes along and says that isn't true, Ive been doing it for 12 years, I know how to do it lol x

You are 100% right, I'll go one step further and say that because in older gentlemen that prostate enlarges they are more likely to actually enjoy this experience than their younger counterparts. I always used my fingers well lubed up but wearing latex gloves to do a massage because its easier to hit the mark, found with wands it wasn't always successful. Another thing I would do is to get my guy to back himself onto my finger/fingers at his own pace as it's imperative that those sphincter muscles are relaxed otherwise you could tear or cause discomfort.

To those guys that have had bad experiences with doctors or nurses in the past and have created a barrier because of it or are even slightly homophobic, I would say your cutting off your nose to spite your face and if you can get over that barrier you will experience something different and extremely pleasurable.

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I'll go one step further and say that because in older gentlemen that prostate enlarges they are more likely to actually enjoy this experience than their younger counterparts.

 

Well, if it feels this good in 30s, can't wait to see how it feels when I'm 60.   :)

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I've had a few, as an optional extra with a full-body massage+happy ending. It's certainly a different sensation. Sometimes I'm in the mood and it's very erotic; other times, it's a bit uncomfortable or even just uninteresting! I think gentle is good, although one I remember was done quite vigorously with two fingers and it was great! :D The anus is full of nerve endings and so is very sensitive. Sometimes, I like a little gentle pressure there without actually penetrating - once you go inside, it's a whole different ball game...so to speak... :)

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