Cumonce

Becoming Bored!

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Just checking if any guy's feel like me or will continue for as long as possible?  I have seen some very attractive women over the last two or three years but over the past month I have seem to have lost my mojo and am becoming less interested in seeing a wg!  I think its a case of I have ticked off the boxes now and perhaps would rather invest my money in tangible things like property rather than women.  I have got my dog for company anyway! So retirement from the game is near I feel!!   

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Just checking if any guy's feel like me or will continue for as long as possible?  I have seen some very attractive women over the last two or three years but over the past month I have seem to have lost my mojo and am becoming less interested in seeing a wg!  I think its a case of I have ticked off the boxes now and perhaps would rather invest my money in tangible things like property rather than women.  I have got my dog for company anyway! So retirement from the game is near I feel!!   

Similar story - have had the money and opportunity but in the last 4 - 5 months havnt seen anyone. Mainly what stops me from punting - is the memories of how I have felt coming away from even good punts - feeling like I have wasted my money, unless it has been really exceptional - which doesnt happen that often.

 

Though I think that having so few chances to punt puts me under a lot of strain and I probably dont want that hassle of hoping nothing is going to go wrong on the day.

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Neither Lancelot nor Cumonce tell us how old they are. I feel that will be a factor in governing their attitude to punting

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Neither Lancelot nor Cumonce tell us how old they are. I feel that will be a factor in governing their attitude to punting

 

 

I was thinking the same thing  myself.

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44 years of age Paul but still in reasonable condition.  I do agree with Lancelot there are a few punts that yes are wonderful but very hard to find.  I do still see one reg and we will continue as friends after she has retired as I am helping her with her business etc but that will be as friends only but that's good as  enjoy her company!  We don't have to take our clothes off to have a good time!!!

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Don't get me wrong if you still have the motivation, money and enjoy it why not! 

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Also  I remember the last time I saw a wg I had a struggle finding a working cash point near to where I live!  First I went to the petrol station and it was out of service then the local coop and their cash machine had been ripped out even the one at the bank in the local town was out of use.  Ok I did find one but I think someone is telling me something!!! 

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Ah yes, welcome to middle age and reduced testosterone production. I found when my "horny" was beginning to decline, I took myself off to a (private) hormone clinic for bio-identical hormones. It sure did the trick, but wasn't cheap. A couple of my boys swear by Testogel.

 

"What Is Testosterone and Why Does It Decline?

Testosterone is a hormone. It's what puts hair on a man's chest. It's the force behind his sex drive.

During puberty, testosterone helps build a man's muscles, deepens his voice, and boosts the size of his penis and testes. In adulthood, it keeps a man's muscles and bones strong and maintains his interest in sex. In short, it's what makes a man a man (at least physically).

After age 30, most men begin to experience a gradual decline in testosterone. A decrease in sex drive sometimes accompanies the drop in testosterone, leading many men to mistakenly believe that their loss of interest in sex is simply due to getting older.

"Some say it's just a part of aging, but that's a misconception," says Jason Hedges, MD, PhD, a urologist at Oregon Health and Science University in Portland. A gradual decline in testosterone can't explain a near-total lack of interest in sex, for example. And for Hedges' patients who are in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s and having erectile problems, other health problems may be a bigger issue than aging.

"A lot of the symptoms are mirrored by other medical problems," Hedges says. "And for a long time, we were not attributing them to low testosterone, but to diabetes, depression, high blood pressure, and coronary artery disease. But awareness and appreciation of low testosterone has risen. We recognize now that low testosterone may be at the root of problems."

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44 years of age Paul but still in reasonable condition.  I do agree with Lancelot there are a few punts that yes are wonderful but very hard to find.  I do still see one reg and we will continue as friends after she has retired as I am helping her with her business etc but that will be as friends only but that's good as  enjoy her company!  We don't have to take our clothes off to have a good time!!!

 I hadn't even started to book ladies at that age !  :D

 

I have found my mojo very weak recently but more because of the pressure of work and more importantly wanting to get my scene going again with the lady in my life.

 

Much depends on your circumstances. 

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Yes I must admit work has been tiring and I have not been doing the exercise I usually do.  Perhaps I need exercise or more sexercise!

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There is an element of Groundhog Day to a punt too. There is only so much you can do in an hour. I rarely find that there is a 'go with the flow ' situation. I always find myself making the running, which is a bit disappointing. 

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I get what you mean it seems like hard to find the right woman that i want to find so i get bored trying to find a decent one that suites me.

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Perhaps we ought to start a support group called ex-punter.net for bored and lost mojo punters! 

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I am 49 - but doubt if age is a factor. It is more to do with my circumstances - various domestic pressures, financial hassles and very little time I get away from the family.

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I would not say bored as i could never get bored, jaded perhaps...

But a long time ago i was seeing ladies pretty much everyday (including some weekends too)...peeps found it hard to believe and i was writing one field report after another and so on...

I really believed in living life to the fulliest in every sense...

However certain events plus the fact a very close family member and a good friend got themselves in serious financial strife pretty much at the same time (and i'm talking serious) one was living the playboy lifestyle without the playboy earnings, the other saw his business ventures go tits up...

Anyway, having bailed both out, all this gave me a different approach to life but i'm still the same person be it a little bit more laid back but that comes with age so i'm told haha...

In a sense, i'm quite lucky as it's always been a lifestyle choice but reading past threads some do forget it's a luxury and not a necessity, i still enjoy my adventures and shall continue to do so until that spark really does go...

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I am bored too ... well maybe not bored.... more Disillusioned.

 

I am 32, single & I have been punting for 10 years although I think it might be time for a break ( not retiring though).

 

For a variety of reasons I am not much of a agency guy, prefer Independents. 

 

My last regular girl decided she wanted to join a agency & more than doubled her price from 120 ph to 250 ( outcall ). She knew about my preference for Indies & said I could still contact/book her directly but I would have to pay her new rates!!.  When I tried to arrange a fee between her old & new rates she declined as she said she knew I could afford her new rate & that she would not budge, I have not seen her since.

 

The last few punts have been average/bordering on less than average. It's getting more & more hard to find a good reliable independent these days ( well it's hard for me !!).

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Hi Darkknight,

Maybe if you list your area and preferences someone here might be able to help or point you to someone new and refreshing...

I'm having trouble getting my diary to match with some ladies not seen before in London at present but i am perservering (for the moment at least)...

I'm tempted to go to Milton Keynes as few ladies have caught my eye) but know once there, it would be very hard to comeback...

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Getting bored can happen, been there and got Tshirt, so I just give up for a few months, longest was for five months.

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If you are bored or jaded with the punting scene, do what I do and take a break.  Do something else.

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Hi Darkknight,

Maybe if you list your area and preferences someone here might be able to help or point you to someone new and refreshing...

I'm having trouble getting my diary to match with some ladies not seen before in London at present but i am perservering (for the moment at least)...

I'm tempted to go to Milton Keynes as few ladies have caught my eye) but know once there, it would be very hard to comeback...

 

Hey, 

 

I'm London based ( happy to go to 150 ph, maybe 200 .. I like variety although no one taller than 5ft8), I often travel for work though ( not visited MK ), I prefer to have a punt when I am staying in a hotel ( fortunately My work means I do that a lot ).

 

Any recommendations will be gratefully received  :)

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I think that punting can become a bit samey and the thrill of the illicit can wane. I try hard to make sure I do not over punt and so look forward to each one. I find after a punt that for the first week I do not care if I punt or not. After a few weeks, the desire and wanting become exquisite. On days like this when the sun shines and every woman in the town seems to be down to t shirts it is overwhelming.  I always punt in London and so make a day of it, to add to the pleasure.

It is no more a waste of money than any other thing

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That's a difficult one dark knight because you have seen the reg at one rate and suddenly you are paying more than double for the same.  I think I would have also not seen her anymore.  Yes up to her but surely worth offering a lower rate for old regs.  Its a shame she was just in it for the money!   

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44 years of age Paul but still in reasonable condition.  I do agree with Lancelot there are a few punts that yes are wonderful but very hard to find.  I do still see one reg and we will continue as friends after she has retired as I am helping her with her business etc but that will be as friends only but that's good as  enjoy her company!  We don't have to take our clothes off to have a good time!!!

At that age I was having great sex with my wife - sometimes several times a day.  Ah, happy days!

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get yourself to the gym, weights and exercise, increase cardio for staying power, weight training for testosterone and reduce stress

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You are or were a lucky man Softee!!

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