Diamond Geezer

How Many Are Guilty Of Not Leaving Negative Feedback / Report When They Should?

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Whilst perusing the boards a couple of days ago I found a member had posted about wanting to visit a lady I'd seen about 6 months ago.

This lady has impeccable feedback with over 100 +ve's on AW and no neutral or negative. My experience however was the polar opposite of everything others have said. I do appreciate I may have been the unlucky one regarding many of my issues with her but there were also things she lied about on her profile such as being a non smoker and her age was at least 10 yrs out (although many ladies tweak their age).

During my punting career I've had three dates that have truly deserved a negative and she was one of them.

Just wondering now many others here are guilty of not leaving a -ve when they know they should?

She doesn't know me and only has my punting phone number yet I still have this silly thing of reprisals in my head!!

Needless to say, I PM'd the respected P/Net member in question with my experiences.

This is equally valid for the ladies.

DG

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I think there's like a 'disincentive' to leave negative feedback. For instance if you don't like one girl in a parlour and you still want to go there... negative feedback might be bad for you if she complains to the other girls. Plus doing feedback takes time and a bit of effort.

 

I appreciate it when someone takes the time to do constructive negative feedback though. With me personally now, if a girl has any valid negative feedback I won't go and see her... because it takes a definite bad experience for someone to write that. She's probably had several others go unreported. No site will leave the 'no' reviews of the girls on the site! So you could say it was partly my own fault for not checking up on all of Jade's reviews for example before going to see her. I'm thinking of taking the time to rereview her to neutral with some added comments- we'll see.

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This lady has impeccable feedback with over 100 +ve's on AW and no neutral or negative. My experience however was the polar opposite of everything others have said. I do appreciate I may have been the unlucky one regarding many of my issues with her but there were also things she lied about on her profile such as being a non smoker and her age was at least 10 yrs out (although many ladies tweak their age).

Just wondering now many others here are guilty of not leaving a -ve when they know they should?

 

 

Yes I'm guilty......

 

The point with having 100 positive reviews on AW is just how many negative ones she chucked out? AW has no controls in place at all.

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Whilst perusing the boards a couple of days ago I found a member had posted about wanting to visit a lady I'd seen about 6 months ago.

This lady has impeccable feedback with over 100 +ve's on AW and no neutral or negative. My experience however was the polar opposite of everything others have said. I do appreciate I may have been the unlucky one regarding many of my issues with her but there were also things she lied about on her profile such as being a non smoker and her age was at least 10 yrs out (although many ladies tweak their age).

During my punting career I've had three dates that have truly deserved a negative and she was one of them.

Just wondering now many others here are guilty of not leaving a -ve when they know they should?

She doesn't know me and only has my punting phone number yet I still have this silly thing of reprisals in my head!!

Needless to say, I PM'd the respected P/Net member in question with my experiences.

This is equally valid for the ladies.

DG

I understand the reluctance to put a negative feedback on AW as a retributive negative is often the case as a minimum. This is a huge fault in the AW system but I am not holding my breath waiting for it to be fixed.

However, it is quite straightforward to submit a negative review here. I have always done so on my rubbish punts.

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Whilst perusing the boards a couple of days ago I found a member had posted about wanting to visit a lady I'd seen about 6 months ago.

This lady has impeccable feedback with over 100 +ve's on AW and no neutral or negative. My experience however was the polar opposite of everything others have said. I do appreciate I may have been the unlucky one regarding many of my issues with her but there were also things she lied about on her profile such as being a non smoker and her age was at least 10 yrs out (although many ladies tweak their age).

During my punting career I've had three dates that have truly deserved a negative and she was one of them.

Just wondering now many others here are guilty of not leaving a -ve when they know they should?

She doesn't know me and only has my punting phone number yet I still have this silly thing of reprisals in my head!!

Needless to say, I PM'd the respected P/Net member in question with my experiences.

This is equally valid for the ladies.

DG

I think punting  and review sites are there as a helpful resource for both punter and working girl.  Provided you are not being a bitch or that it was down to bad chemistry between the two of you, then yes you should have left feedback that was accurate and  informative for other punters.  Then again, I'm one of those people who always gets into hot water for saying exactly what I think !

 

Another thought about reviews on that site is that it is mostly folks blowing smoke up one another's arses.........  not a service I currently offer :)

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Guilty as charged.

 

The fear of the Escort getting back to you in some manner.

 

I once e-mailed an Escort saying that she ought to get her profile right as A. She didn't do it, B. Had never seen it as her 'friend' wrote it and C. She didn't offer many of the services she said she did.

 

She, or at least, her friend, told me to f off.

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I didn't even know girls could delete them! Hmm... still good recent feedback is still important- if I'm really thinking of going to see the girl I check the reviewer too. 'Positive feedback' only really counts if it's within the last couple of months... well that's the most valid anyway!

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I didn't even know girls could delete them! Hmm... still good recent feedback is still important- if I'm really thinking of going to see the girl I check the reviewer too. 'Positive feedback' only really counts if it's within the last couple of months... well that's the most valid anyway!

 

With PN reviews if a WG wants one removed then they all get removed, no cherry picking here.

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Guilty as charged.

 

The fear of the Escort getting back to you in some manner.

 

I once e-mailed an Escort saying that she ought to get her profile right as A. She didn't do it, B. Had never seen it as her 'friend' wrote it and C. She didn't offer many of the services she said she did.

 

She, or at least, her friend, told me to f off.

 

Use your account to report her, don't put up with crap.

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I think there's like a 'disincentive' to leave negative feedback. For instance if you don't like one girl in a parlour and you still want to go there... negative feedback might be bad for you if she complains to the other girls. Plus doing feedback takes time and a bit of effort.

 

I appreciate it when someone takes the time to do constructive negative feedback though. With me personally now, if a girl has any valid negative feedback I won't go and see her... because it takes a definite bad experience for someone to write that. She's probably had several others go unreported. No site will leave the 'no' reviews of the girls on the site! So you could say it was partly my own fault for not checking up on all of Jade's reviews for example before going to see her. I'm thinking of taking the time to rereview her to neutral with some added comments- we'll see.

 

Depends on the parlour. When I gave a negative review of a girl at HOD I got a discount on my next visit.

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Depends on the parlour. When I gave a negative review of a girl at HOD I got a discount on my next visit.

Great idea - obviously a parlour that values repeat business.

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Sandy's should introduce that ;)

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Hang on! I didn't think you could delete a neg feedbsck on AW. You can rebute it which makes it neutral but you can't vanish it. Or have I missed something?!

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A parlour with standards won't treat you badly if be rude for a negative review unless you are already on shakey legs with them for some sort of behavioural issue or the everyone there knows you are particularly petty or hard on the girls. If you are then expect a rebuttal saying so but still if the complaint is valid they should take it up with the girl in question snd if they are decent offer a discount. Saying that how will they know it's you unless you tell them x

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I understand the reluctance to put a negative feedback on AW as a retributive negative is often the case as a minimum. This is a huge fault in the AW system but I am not holding my breath waiting for it to be fixed.

However, it is quite straightforward to submit a negative review here. I have always done so on my rubbish punts.

 

 

With PN reviews if a WG wants one removed then they all get removed, no cherry picking here.

It is about time we had some "not guilty" pleas. I have always reviewed my punts on Punternet and looking back I see that out of 95 reviews I gave just three negative reviews. One review I gave a qualified recommendation saying that I was sure others would find her ok but she didn't float my boat.

Reading this thread it is quite clear that positive A/W reviews should still be treated with extreme caution. How many are written by the S/P or her friends? I am certain that Galahad's stance for reviews is shown to be in the interests of punters and that one can trust the reviews on here.

As for all of those punters who plead guilty, the only thing I can say is that least you are honest!

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Use your account to report her, don't put up with crap.

If anyone PMs me, I'll reveal who it is, in Swindon BTW.

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I've only written a very small number of FRs and all have been positive. I tended to write one if a girl who had little or no feedback, and had provided a particularly good service. It's amazing how much one bit of positive feedback can gather interest (I usually get a flood of PMs from members after leaving feedback on a new girl). So I see the benefit in leaving good feedback when a girl is new.

However, I realise for the system to work, that leaving only positive feedback is as unhelpful as it is helpful. Without a balanced view it only does half the job. Personally, I would find it impossible to write a negative review, or even a neutral one of a girl. The consequences to that girl could be both very damaging to her livelihood, but also crushing to her personally and emotionally. If a girl has let me be that intimate with her, regardless of how disappointing an experience it was, negative feedback doesn't feel like something that would correct the situation. Some of the negative reviews I've read have come across as fair and balanced, others have been clearly embelished to deliver a spiteful rant. Some of the latter ones can be quite easy to spot and dismiss where the guy is just being a total a**hole and is unrealistic in his expectations.

We all have bad days, perhaps she has had an unpleasant client that day, but in this industry your bad day can get broadcast on the internet. So I've decided to stop writing FRs now, and instead leave a small comment in the appropriate section of the forum. This allows me to write a brief review that isn't directly attached to the girls profile. So limits any potential damage. I will always try and balance any negative points with positives, because in many bad reviews I see, I think people often over emphasise the things they're unhappy about, and skip the things that were actually ok, or even good.

Practically all the WGs I've visited have been in parlours, so I always consinder both the girls' reputation and the parlour when leaving any kind of feedback. I'd say of the 100 or so visits I've made, about 70% of those have been positive, 25% neutral, and only 5% disappointing. One of the 5% was a very well reviewed girl who has an absolute ton of positive feedback. And many of the great girls I've visited have had little or no feedback.

At the end of the day, I believe that paying £60 for an initial 30 minute visit with a girl is low risk. If it ends up being a disappointment it's not a big financial loss, you walk away and don't return. I tend to avoid using reviews now, and go with my instinct. The excitement and positive experiences I've had far outweigh the bad ones.

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Do you have to book THROUGH their system in order to leave feedback, much like Amazon reviews or eBay purchases?

 

Or can you just leave it.

 

Only reason I ask is that I saw a lovely guy last week who contacted me through there, but it was not booked via that site, but rather by their PM system (oh dear, is that allowed? LOL!!) ... so now I can't work out how to leave him feedback - he has none (but then, neither do I) ... and he had some anxiety about whether girls would see a black guy with a foot fetish. He was lovely, and I want to improve his feedback from nil.

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I think punting and review sites are there as a helpful resource for both punter and working girl. Provided you are not being a bitch or that it was down to bad chemistry between the two of you, then yes you should have left feedback that was accurate and informative for other punters. Then again, I'm one of those people who always gets into hot water for saying exactly what I think !

Another thought about reviews on that site is that it is mostly folks blowing smoke up one another's arses......... not a service I currently offer :)

Certainly neither bitchy or chemistry Sarah. I have issues on several levels with the lady I refer to but this thread isn't for me to discuss her in particular. I may write a P/Net report sometime though.

I've had punts where the chemistry hasn't clicked but chalk them to experience, it's bound to happen occasionally.

Hang on! I didn't think you could delete a neg feedbsck on AW. You can rebute it which makes it neutral but you can't vanish it. Or have I missed something?!

I didn't realise an AW rebuttal changes a negative into a neutral let alone a possibility of deleting feedback.

Whilst on AW, I appreciate ladies aren't meant to discuss the escort side of the site but my understanding is they operate a traffic light system and possibly hidden notes (verified ladies only). This concerns me far more than a public rebuttal and leaving -ve feedback isn't worth it for that reason alone.

DG

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Do you have to book THROUGH their system in order to leave feedback, much like Amazon reviews or eBay purchases?

Or can you just leave it.

Only reason I ask is that I saw a lovely guy last week who contacted me through there, but it was not booked via that site, but rather by their PM system (oh dear, is that allowed? LOL!!) ... so now I can't work out how to leave him feedback - he has none (but then, neither do I) ... and he had some anxiety about whether girls would see a black guy with a foot fetish. He was lovely, and I want to improve his feedback from nil.

You can only leave feedback for a confirmed booking made through AW.

DG

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You can only leave feedback for a confirmed booking made through AW.

DG

I thought you could leave neutral feedback on an unconfirmed booking. It's easy to make neutral feedback either glowing or scathing. Of course the WG can probably ask AW to remove it claiming the booking never happened.

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Do you have to book THROUGH their system in order to leave feedback, much like Amazon reviews or eBay purchases?

 

Or can you just leave it.

 

Only reason I ask is that I saw a lovely guy last week who contacted me through there, but it was not booked via that site, but rather by their PM system (oh dear, is that allowed? LOL!!) ... so now I can't work out how to leave him feedback - he has none (but then, neither do I) ... and he had some anxiety about whether girls would see a black guy with a foot fetish. He was lovely, and I want to improve his feedback from nil.

Tina, it's failrly common practice to arrange bookings on AW without using the booking system. If you do so and decide you want to leave each other feedback, the service seeker can always send a phantom booking request (at a prearranged "dead" time for the WG). The service provider can then accept the phantom booking amd both parties can leave feedback on each other.

I am pretty sure it's impossible for a WG to leave feedback on a punter without a confirmed booking request.

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I thought you could leave neutral feedback on an unconfirmed booking. It's easy to make neutral feedback either glowing or scathing. Of course the WG can probably ask AW to remove it claiming the booking never happened.

You're quite correct, one often sees "feedback only" which doesn't affect the feedback score.

DG

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I thought comments about choosing what AW fb could be shown turned out only to relate to which ones you chose to include on your profile page under the pics on the right.

 

Yes I am one who goes for the positive in my PNet reviews because it is up to me what I do and don't do as I have said so many times before.

 

A bad one I may not want to spend my time writing about - up to me. there's plenty of good ones I have reviewed - up to me.

 

Hundreds of people look at this site and the reviews without ever registering for either so taking and not contributing - have a go at them and not those of us who review when and what we want.

 

Scams on AW are different I think as people could get robbed or whatever from some scams as far as I understand it. And I have certainly reported fake pics on here to G for the hall of shame list.

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Ooo dear, sounds too complicated for me :D

I'd rather be seeing the customer regularly and neither of us having feedback, than bothering with farting about with phantom accounts.

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