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How To Confirm A Particular Service?

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Hey guys, copy pasting my post from another thread, was looking for some help:

 

I'm assuming it's fair to go on a punt assuming DFK is on the table if its listed under the services. However, once for me it was listed but the WG refused, initially without reason. It was only later that she gave a reason for it.

 

I was just wondering if it is at all fair to confirm a service like this before starting off? Is it something you can ask the agency? If it is a big part of the punt (as it thankfully does seem to be for a lot of people here), can one confirm its on the table? Else you really do feel like you're being let down (and your confidence may take a boot as well). Also, what's a good way to identify a provider of DFK? Only reports would serve any indication right?

 

Thanks!

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 ild suggest that you mention to the agency when booking what services you seek. Pls do use code words though like dfk, cim, swl, and  a level etc The receptionist will then help you to select a girl that offers those services and will inform the escort what you are looking for so you wont have to mention it when you meet and you can just concentrate on having fun ! Hope information was useful . kate LLL  x

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It is fair to expect listed services but you have to remember that some are still at discretion and depend on your state of health and hygiene so if you arrive clean and healthy with good breath then a girl is at fault if she advertises DFK but then refuses it. If you have extreme smokers breath, halitosis or half a packet if crisps in your teeth it they are obviously I cleaned then it's a fair assumption that you may not get DFK and that wouldn't be the girls fault.

You can read the reviews snd this will give you a good indication of who truly does offer this service. If it's refused then you are within your rights to ask why x

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It is fair to expect listed services but you have to remember that some are still at discretion and depend on your state of health and hygiene so if you arrive clean and healthy with good breath then a girl is at fault if she advertises DFK but then refuses it. If you have extreme smokers breath, halitosis or half a packet if crisps in your teeth it they are obviously I cleaned then it's a fair assumption that you may not get DFK and that wouldn't be the girls fault.

You can read the reviews snd this will give you a good indication of who truly does offer this service. If it's refused then you are within your rights to ask why

You are fully within your rights to double check any services you want in the call or email at the time of booking or before. If someone get all flighty " how dare you ask that" then I would be dubious as to why a straight answer isn't just given as all it takes is a yes, no or maybe x

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To OP.  In my thinking, you should ask the lady herself, that is If you got a chance to talk to her. It gets a bit trickier  I you're using an agency (although not necessarily if its a reliable one, which does not happen that often) then you should  ask the receptionist. 

Having said the above, theres no 100% guarantee that the services will be delivered, even if promised. 

Lady in question may refuse to provide it (whatever the reasons may be) you'll be left disappointed  and it will be her word against yours. 

Ideally, it should be like that, but this is how it is in reality. 

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Hey guys, copy pasting my post from another thread, was looking for some help:

 

I'm assuming it's fair to go on a punt assuming DFK is on the table if its listed under the services. However, once for me it was listed but the WG refused, initially without reason. It was only later that she gave a reason for it.

 

I was just wondering if it is at all fair to confirm a service like this before starting off? Is it something you can ask the agency? If it is a big part of the punt (as it thankfully does seem to be for a lot of people here), can one confirm its on the table? Else you really do feel like you're being let down (and your confidence may take a boot as well). Also, what's a good way to identify a provider of DFK? Only reports would serve any indication right?

 

Thanks!

So, what was her reason?  This would help everyone's discussion of your issue.

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So, what was her reason?  This would help everyone's discussion of your issue.

This is often very all the confusion comes from. The reason in OP's opinion might be not the reason (the ''real reason'') why Sp refused to provide that service. 

And how justifiable it is? Whats acceptable to some might not be to others. This can vary enormously: I know some people who would refuse certain service, because ''they don't fancy that individual very much''. This is , arguably, ''unprofessional'' , but who am I to condemn such  Sps, maybe they really can't bring themselves to do it? 

Offcourse, there's another argument, that ''you're a prostitute, therefore you should provide everything ''whats on offer'' (and sometimes even whats not on offer)  come what may!  

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I prefer to cut out the middle man, so to speak, and visit indies. That way I speak by phone to the lady I hope I will be getting intimate with. During the call I will ask outright if the service I require are available. In general I will have read loads of reviews before making my selection, so I should know what the answers will be.  Any hesitation and I will look elsewhere.

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I would advise against using code words as suggested above if you are calling an indie. We tend to roll our eyes at them and a less experienced escort wouldn't have a clue what you were on about!

Most people don't use these terms unless they read internet forums! Not that there is anything wrong with that (obviously) but it's not the real world!

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There are plenty of instances of comments about SPs not providing a particular service listed.

 

It's tough - I would say ladies have every right to refuse to do a service with a particular punter. That is different from deliberately misleading punters to entice them in and not doing it with anyone.

 

But how the hell you tell the difference is anybody's guess - or it isn't:

 

Do your research on reviews and feedback.

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There are plenty of instances of comments about SPs not providing a particular service listed.

 

It's tough - I would say ladies have every right to refuse to do a service with a particular punter. That is different from deliberately misleading punters to entice them in and not doing it with anyone.

 

But how the hell you tell the difference is anybody's guess - or it isn't:

 

Do your research on reviews and feedback.

 Exactly. How do you tell it was escort's intention from the beginning to ''entice'' a client into booking them and then not delivering the service?

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So, what was her reason?  This would help everyone's discussion of your issue.

The thing is, besides this 'denial of service' she was really nice. At first, she mentioned "its at our discretion etc" to which I, obviously, wholeheartedly agreed, but did express disappointment.

 

Later, out of her own accord without me prodding, she very hesitantly mentioned something about a mouth/gum problem which she had shown the doctor who said somebody might have given it to her/done that. I have absolutely no idea if that was legitimate or true but she appeared pretty embarassed and I didn't want her to have to explain herself so I didn't even ask her to repeat what she'd said.

 

In retrospect maybe I should have clarified at the get go. Is it fair to walk away at the beginning itself in such a situation, and is it prudent to hand over a token amount? If so, how much?

 

Thanks for the help guys

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I don't have any problem asking specifically if some things are genuinely on offer and if the answer is yes or I passed any particular prerequisites (eg not too big for anal) then I'd be right pissed off if it was refused on the punt. It has happened but by then of course you're usually naked and in the action so it's just tough but you know not to go back

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If its a deal breaker for you then you need to make sure you ask when booking.  As Lydia said if it's an Indie your looking at don't use code words because they are likely to put the phone down on you or maybe not even know what your talking about.  Be precise and clear in your requirements.  Most girls will have heard it all before so no need to feel embarrassed.  Be prepared to walk if she refuses a service she has agreed to on the phone when booking, but also remember that there has to be some common sense applied, you can't expect DFK if your oral hygiene is bad or you have been munching on cheese and onion crisps for example.

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If its a deal breaker for you then you need to make sure you ask when booking.  As Lydia said if it's an Indie your looking at don't use code words because they are likely to put the phone down on you or maybe not even know what your talking about.  Be precise and clear in your requirements.  Most girls will have heard it all before so no need to feel embarrassed.  Be prepared to walk if she refuses a service she has agreed to on the phone when booking, but also remember that there has to be some common sense applied, you can't expect DFK if your oral hygiene is bad or you have been munching on cheese and onion crisps for example.

 

 

You know what I mean... 

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It sounds like a minefield for us punters, all these different scenarios and inconsistencies.

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It sounds like a minefield for us punters, all these different scenarios and inconsistencies.

Best stick to reading a worthy book in the evenings then :)

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Its always worth confirming services on offer prior to booking. The trouble is that in this industry, some girls (or their pimps/agents/maids) lie and some guys have terrible hygiene. So, to a 3rd party observer, it is often hard to ascertain the real cause for these "denials of service".

Basically, do your best to work out what is on offer up front. If what you want isn't on offer, don't book. If it is offered initially but upon arrival mysteriously not, ask why. If you don't get a valid reason, then feel free to moan about it afterwards - most effectively by writing an appropriate FR.

This is an occupational hazard of punting though. It will happen and if you can't deal with it then consider another hobby.

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If a girl does this but you haven't brushed your teeth in four years she isn't going to do it, or just ate something horrid or if she doesn't smoke and you smoke five thousand a day xxx

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