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Sarah Summers

Barebackism

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I have the right to refuse to see anyone, no matter what.  It does not make me racist, but if I am to be called 'barebackist' then so be it.

 

I had an email from a guy asking to see me tonight.  By his 'handle' I took it to mean he had some form of piercing down 'there'.  

 

He has one feedback, so I took a look and see that he has seen a lady who advertises unprotected sex.  On her questions someone asks if she provides condoms and she said no - that the client has to bring his own.  Then I look at the galleries and see she does indeed have unprotected sex  including sex with a man with a pierced willy.

 

It could be his willy - I asked him and  he said it isn't.  I did not believe him.  Why deny it if he thinks he is not doing anything wrong? That's up to him if he wants to shag some dirty woman bareback, but even though she is being honest - and I applaud her for that - it does not mean that I have to see him for any other reason than the whole thing is very off putting, and I can't be bothered with any of it.

 

So you can call me an 'ist' if you like and I'll wear that badge.

 

I know............  there are men out there seeing ladies who do and ladies who don't, but in this case it seemed more than obvious to me that it was him in the galleries.  If he saw me, he would have to wear a condom, so what's my point here then?

 

I don't have to if I don't want to, and today, I am giving him a wide berth and blocking him.

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I take it, girls get asked quite a lot about whether they would be willing to provide bb. Strangely enough, nobody has EVER asked/inquired me about this particular service for some reason. 

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I take it, girls get asked quite a lot about whether they would be willing to provide bb. Strangely enough, nobody has EVER asked/inquired me about this particular service for some reason. 

Lea, nobody asks me to do that either , but I guess this man does because he saw a lady who offers this service, and I found it very off putting to say the least, whether or not he wanted to even have sex with me.

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Most of the guys we see do it bareback with somebody - wife, mistress, girlfriend, fuck buddy, casual sex on holidays, female (or even male) colleague etc.

Lots of sex workers have husbands, lovers, fuck buddies, boyfriends, who are not necessarily faithful, so we sleep not just with them, but also with all those they themselves sleep with.

To expect anything else would be unrealistic. Life is messy, and not necessarily black and white. So, I'm not quite sure what point you're making. Of course you can choose who you see, and do it within the rules you set. I'm sure nobody is saying otherwise.

 

I'm amused by you asking "Prince Albert" if the cock on the pic is his....   :lol:

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Really doesn't matter if its bareback or if he wanted to shag you on a gondola in the middle of the venice carnival.

 

The point of the thread was that you said no.

 

Its a small word but it can take a long time to say it....................................

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I think bareback sex shouldn't happen and definitely shouldn't be advertised between a working girl and punter. Its outrageous and stupid to put your life at risk for an orgasm. kate LLL

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Some of us have put a lot more at risk for an orgasim haha

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There's no doubt about it, so, off course no need to be a control freak. Equally, no need to take  the other view to extreme i.e. ''right, i'm gonna fu*ck everybody bb, so what?  :D

in my view,  if theres any precaution I can take - why not do it. There is other reason I use condoms (always have- never had a problem) which is -I'm not on the pill. Just got my own views about chemical contraception and medicine in general- the less of it,  the better. 

Also, don't fancy getting pregnant and having ''hooker baby'' -sorry bad taste joke. 

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I'm not sure why any escort would offer bareback.  If I saw that on an escorts like list I would certainly leave her page.  Most punters are looking for a responsible clean healthy wg and would want to protect their partners as well.  I would never have sex with a wg bareback and I guess 99% of escorts and punters would agree so no problem and you just say no thanks. I would say no thanks and leave if a wg actually offered me BB sex at a meeting.  It would hope it would never be entertained!   

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Would they have a hooker nose?...

Ok ok, i'll get my coat!!!

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Would they have a hooker nose?...

Ok ok, i'll get my coat!!!

 i wouldn't know who the daddy is. 

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here here comonce! its gross, some guys do ask though but they are obviously stupid!  x kate x

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I think bareback sex shouldn't happen and definitely shouldn't be advertised between a working girl and punter. Its outrageous and stupid to put your life at risk for an orgasm. kate LLL

 

Totally wrong.  Yes of course unprotected sex should be advertised, so we know which girls to avoid and the girls know which punters to avoid.

 

And of course Sarah Summers, you absolutely have the right to refuse any client.

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not totally wrong at all, on high end agencies u would never see bb advertised but it is offered on an independent site frequented by a lot of punter net members I was referring to that site and feel that site could spread diseases so I don't think they should advertise very unsafe practices. I stick by what I posted. if it wasn't advertised on there guys wouldn't ask for it when calling other people or agencies. it rarely happened but even one call enquiring about it is too much for me!  kate  x

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Golden rule number one is that each individual makes their own choices (whether right or wrong) and nobody apart from the individuals involved know what they got up to...independent, agency or otherwise...

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Websites don't spread disease, people do.  I don't want to visit a girl not knowing whether or not she willingly offers unprotected sex.  I want to indulge in kissing and eating pussy and having my cock sucked on a punt, and I don't want to do that with a girl who who will have unprotected sex with a client, its not just HIV to worry about, its all the other diseases its probably safe to assume that she will be carrying, and which are far more easily transmitted than HIV.  I would far rather that the community who want offer and take up this service can do so openly, then we can avoid them.  Far better than it be driven underground.

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I avoid any lady who doesn't categorically state No Bareback. If she doesn't state this I assume it may be offered on the day - apologies to any ladies who don't state No BB yet never do BB but some of us look for an assertion against it. A great many ladies actually state they won't see a guy who's seen a BB lady. That's brilliant and I like that attitude, must take ages of detective work though trolling through a guys feedback (assuming all meetings exchange feedback).

Whether it's over BB or any other reason you choose (or just a gut feeling), you have the ultimate right to refuse a client, we all know that.

I haven't had unprotected sex for over 6 yrs and I know of another guy who hasn't for 16 years.

DG

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So long as YOU take precautions YOU will be fine. It's no different than meeting a gorgeous girl/guy on a night out, having a bit too much to drink and getting lucky. So long as people are responsible those that do carry something they may be unaware of have a very slim chance of passing it on.

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I am surprised, there have been some great punts i've had only to realise the lady in question offers such a service...but that is there choice just as i make mine...

On adultwork alone you will find pornstars and great escorts (and i do mean great) that apparantly offer it and i have seen them in the past...so i would never discount someone like that 100 per cent...

Its ultimately a question of looking after yourself as you cannot preach to the world (well you can but may not get you very far)!!! Lol

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Unprotected sex between two adults, who have no idea about the sexual history of each other but who can assume that it is varied, sounds like a complete nightmare to me.

 

I just assume that if a WG offers unprotected sex, that she must not care at all about either herself or her customers, as somewhere down that road you are going to end up sleeping with the wrong person and regretting it.

 

I love sex, but I value my health a lot more.

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You can say and think what you want. But if you were in the company of that fab wg, that absolute peach of a woman.................

 

 

No one would believe you said no.

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your name suits you, only an 'odd bloke' would have unprotected sex with wg. enough said . kate

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I try to avoid girls who offer BB since I know that some escorts like to see my track record, and may use evidence of such a visit as a reason to decline to take my booking. That is not only their right, but simple common sense in my view. Sarah is absolutely right on this one.

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omg you obviously don't know much about sex education do you? pls look up stasticics on hiv . some girls that offer bare back work in a brothel and see like 10 men a day that's 140 people a week if they work daily  so u are effectively sleeping with 140 people that's not taking into account  the number of people her previous customers have slept with ! im a healthy girl and cant understand people who don't care of their health especially if they have a partner and children. cancer cant always be avoided sadly  but hiv can if you just put a condom on.    With age doesn't always come wisdom sadly . kate

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omg you obviously don't know much about sex education do you? pls look up stasticics on hiv . some girls that offer bare back work in a brothel and see like 10 men a day that's 140 people a week if they work daily so u are effectively sleeping with 140 people that's not taking into account the number of people her previous customers have slept with ! im a healthy girl and cant understand people who don't care of their health especially if they have a partner and children. cancer cant always be avoided sadly but hiv can if you just put a condom on. With age doesn't always come wisdom sadly . kate

Who is that directed at? If its me you may wish to re-read my post...

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