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Why Has Evolution Made Us Enjoy Giving Oral?

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I can understand why we have evolved to enjoy shagging.  For without a sex drive the species would die out.  But what possible reason is there for evolving to enjoy giving oral.  I find it one of the best bits of sex.

Anyone any ideas why we have evolved in this way?

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Well I guess its just the human race being inventive. The sex organs are sensitive so that we enjoy what makes us procreate or people wouldnt get much further than the first snog would they…after that imagination took over. I doubt its anything much to do with actual evolution other than us learning a way to have pleasure without  the encumbrance of creating children when we dont want them. 

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We develop good and bad tastes (no pun intended) and a lot of factors come in to play as to what we enjoy to drive our senses wild, and what we begin to dislike as the mind and body say no...

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Dunno, but I'm jolly glad! Apparently, even apes do it. Maybe to make the "what's in it for me" females more inclined to go all the way? :o As for the males, no point pondering the motivation of a gender that sticks hoover nozzles up their bum in the pursuit of pleasurable sensations...

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The female form is designed in such a way that you just can't ignore it....and I mean every god-dam-inch... 

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i guess as sex is for pleasure as much as reproduction, it's something done to please partners or build bonds and such like that.  most sex anybody ever has if you think out it is not for reproduction.

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For the whole subject of the evolution of human sexuality Jared Diamond's "Why Is Sex Fun?" is a good read.

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I can understand why we have evolved to enjoy shagging.  For without a sex drive the species would die out.  But what possible reason is there for evolving to enjoy giving oral.  I find it one of the best bits of sex.

Anyone any ideas why we have evolved in this way?

Have we evolved? I don't think so!

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Cov,

 

I know a lot of people enjoy oral but I remember a thread last year on the subject where a goodly number said it didn't do anything for them. To suggest that your particular like is a question of evolution is going a bit far. The conclusion was that it had been popularised by porn. In fact we wondered where porn would lead us next. :unsure:  

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There was an article about oral sex which said a high percentage of men hated cunnilingus but did it to get "proper" sex.

In my lifetime blow jobs have gone from being as rare as hens teeth to compulsory so not really an evolutionary matter

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There was an article about oral sex which said a high percentage of men hated cunnilingus but did it to get "proper" sex.

In my lifetime blow jobs have gone from being as rare as hens teeth to compulsory so not really an evolutionary matter

well i love cunnilingus and rimming.  i find it very pleasurable.  Are you saying I am not the same as the majority of men? (not having a go -just want to know)

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Certainly as far as rimming is concerned I would suggest that that is very definitely a minority sport.

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We have to take peoples responses at face value (same with any surveys on the subject) when it comes to ones private life (especially in the bedroom)...the truth is not always forthcoming...

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Unfortunately my partner did not evolve this way and will not give oral or let me give her oral!  Frustrating hey!  Particularly since I now have the taste for it! Whats one to do!! 

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......because it feels fucking awesome when done right ^_^

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I enjoy it more now that iam older,(40's)...if I really fancy a lady.Which is often now, that I pay for it.I very much want to taste her womanhood.Maybe there are a lot of feromones in the genetal area?

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I think its a bit like kissing in some way- an emotional thing, people just want to please one another.  I'm more into giving then receiving myself, something satisfying about it...

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The older I get, the more I like it. Perhaps because it's one of those things you can do when your stiffy isn't everything it might be.

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This thread has made me think that BJs are an essential requirement for every one of my punts. Every punt has started with a BJ and many have finished with a BJ too. I can't imagine a punt without getting my cock sucked supremely. However not every punt has involved shagging. There's been a handful of punts where we haven't shagged and instead indulged in an hour of mutual fun and oral to such an extent that the encounter flew by. And also a high proportion of my punts involve RO which I really enjoy and am happy to spent time on.

 

This has all been the case throughout my 10 year punting career. But it makes me wonder what punting was like in the past, some 20yrs or more ago. Was BJ's an expected part of the encounter? In the days when shaven havens weren't the norm, was RO regularly indulged in? I can't imagine a world where the punt just consists of a shag, shoot your load and that it ! :huh:

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This thread has made me think that BJs are an essential requirement for every one of my punts.

I can't imagine a world where the punt just consists of a shag, shoot your load and that it ! :huh:

Same here. It's possibly an age thing with me, but if I had to choose between an hour's shagging only, vs an hour's worth of oral / reverse oral and no shagging - it'd be the latter.

Of course a combination of everything is good ;)

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I think its a bit like kissing in some way- an emotional thing, people just want to please one another. I'm more into giving then receiving myself, something satisfying about it...

Likewise...good post indeed!!!

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I remember the laughs I had with my friends about my first time and the amount of chocolate involved in order to be persuaded by my first boyfriend to do it.  Licking chocolate was a good incentive to take it further.

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Chocolate is always good...

 

I could quite easily spend all my time pleasing others....

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I can understand why we have evolved to enjoy shagging.  For without a sex drive the species would die out.  But what possible reason is there for evolving to enjoy giving oral.  I find it one of the best bits of sex.

Anyone any ideas why we have evolved in this way?

 

Probably derivative from taste & smell  of sexual pheromones.

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