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A Girl I've Wanted To Bang For A Long Time Is Now Escorting..

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So I've know this girl for a few years and I've non stop wanted to bang her every time I see her..

 

She's more of an acquaintance that sometimes comes along when a large group of us go out.

 

She's had a profile for a while saying shes escorting and camming. I've cammed with her a few times and she is totally oblivious to the fact I could be someone who knows her.

 

So do I take the plunge and make an escorting booking then reveal it's me, or reveal myself then see if shes game?

 

Either way, I've wanted to bang her for tooooo long...

 

Suggestions??

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life can be short tell her of your desires worst way she sais no. Im thinking she will probably say yes and she may scream yes yes yes in the bedroom as im thinking you are going to be showing her a good time as u want her lots! enjoy! kate xxxx

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Personally speaking I'd rather not punt with someone I knew and who knew me - particularly if we went out with a group of friends - too close to home.

Seems a bit too much like mixing business with pleasure for my liking!

Plus if what she's doing is a secret from the group you go out with, I'd imagine she might be somewhat freaked out, so if I did decide to go ahead I'd let her know first.

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I feel yo should call her and admit it is you before making the booking though as turning up to see her when she knows you as a friend would freak her out. let me know how it goes hey? kate    xxxxx good luck!

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My first reaction was 'congratulations', but after pause it may not be such a blessing. If you know her, how well does she know you? If you're a single lad that couldn't give two hoots whether your family, work colleagues etc know you pay for sex, then that's one problem out of the way. But you still have no idea how she will react to seeing a familiar face.

 

I got to enjoy a handful of bookings a couple of years ago with a girl who I'd admired from a far many moons ago and it wasn't a problem as she didn't know me. But she did say that had she recognised me through the door hole she would have asked her colleague to make her excuses. It's understandable, ladies privacy in this industry is paramount.

 

Whatever you choose, all the best.

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I would steer clear. Too many security issues for me.

If you do decide to book, do her a favour and let her know who you are before you turn up. It might save both of you from a lot of embarassment if she decides not to go ahead.

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Thanks for the replys both.

 

Some very valid points there from each of you. She doesn't know me too well so I guess that's in my favour.

 

She does know me enough to stop and have a chat if we bump into each other so I guess if she is keeping all a secret I should just stay back, maybe do a few more webcam perving sessions.

 

Frustrating though ha!

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I bet she would rather keep her "secret" life apart from her "real" friendships. 

 

I am surprised that none of the ladies have offered an opinion; I would hang fire till the girls have had their say if I were you.

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I wouldn't want to be confronted with someone who was part of a friends group personally. It's bad enough you have been secretly camming with her but that's the risk you take camming without seeing the other person I guess. I would stay clear x

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Do you know if she likes you!  Would she jump at the chance of having sex with you!  You are both single so whats the problem.  Its only sex.  You could have had sex on a drunk night out and been friends but doesn't mean you are going to go out together on a date.  It may just be a mutual thing and she may see it as that.   She doesn't hide her face so she must know that she will be spotted. Perhaps ask her and she will only say yes or no.   If you are going to ask her and tell her it is you I would set up a new profile and not say that I have cammed her.  You have just registered and noticed her.  She may get funny that you didn't say when you cammed her! 

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I can see how you might be tempted, but the potential for future awkwardness is too great. If I were you, I would give it a miss.

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No no no no no!

 

Do not book her!

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It depends.

 

She might tell on you and you might tell on her - we do not know either of you so no insult intended.

 

I certainly do not think it's fair to just appear in front of her so would certainly reveal yourself in advance - and assure her you will never expose her to the friends and stick to that whether she takes the booking or not.

 

I wouldn't mention the camming whatever happens. And don't ever refer to 'banging her' within her hearing (or without her hearing either.)

 

but only if you think she would keep her side of the privacy bargain.

 

then again, it depends how matey you are with that bunch of friends. If they're your life perhaps don't risk it. If you would agree if she made you leaving that group part of the bargain and you were fine with that ok.

 

I can see the attraction of booking with a girl you knew before you knew she worked.

 

But what is that about someone saying you might just as easily had sex with her after a night out - is that what young people do these days??

 

Minxy - why such a definite answer?

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For those who say well you may ended up having sex with her anyway as you share a circle of friends.That does happen,and it can and frequently does cause big problems within the group,let alone adding in the paid for part.It will end up causing friction with both parties wondering what the other could end up splurting out whilst pissed.It just seems to be a situation of why potentially cause so much agro for everyone for a moments gratification.
Also,fopr those advocating a new aw account so that she wouldnt know he'd been camming her unknown and find it creepy,none have mentioned the part of AW that shows aliases.
Thinking with the little man is never advised,in this case it may be best to really think through all possible problems and complications.

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Might just only be me but whenever I hear the word 'bang' I cringe, and want to jump backwards in my seat. Especially when used in the context of actions towards a female.

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Discretion works both ways but you'd be outing yourself as a punter to someone you know - obviously you know she's an escort but I'd not be comfortable with that.

Personally, I'd not visit her, much easier to visit a stranger.

If you search the archives, there have been threads here before about guys arriving to a "blind date" with an escort only to realise they know each other. There may be some valuable reading for you there.

DG

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For those who say well you may ended up having sex with her anyway as you share a circle of friends.That does happen,and it can and frequently does cause big problems within the group,let alone adding in the paid for part.It will end up causing friction with both parties wondering what the other could end up splurting out whilst pissed.It just seems to be a situation of why potentially cause so much agro for everyone for a moments gratification.

Also,fopr those advocating a new aw account so that she wouldnt know he'd been camming her unknown and find it creepy,none have mentioned the part of AW that shows aliases.

Thinking with the little man is never advised,in this case it may be best to really think through all possible problems and complications.

 

It depends.

 

She might tell on you and you might tell on her - we do not know either of you so no insult intended.

 

I certainly do not think it's fair to just appear in front of her so would certainly reveal yourself in advance - and assure her you will never expose her to the friends and stick to that whether she takes the booking or not.

 

I wouldn't mention the camming whatever happens. And don't ever refer to 'banging her' within her hearing (or without her hearing either.)

 

but only if you think she would keep her side of the privacy bargain.

 

then again, it depends how matey you are with that bunch of friends. If they're your life perhaps don't risk it. If you would agree if she made you leaving that group part of the bargain and you were fine with that ok.

 

I can see the attraction of booking with a girl you knew before you knew she worked.

 

But what is that about someone saying you might just as easily had sex with her after a night out - is that what young people do these days??

 

Minxy - why such a definite answer?

 

Might just only be me but whenever I hear the word 'bang' I cringe, and want to jump backwards in my seat. Especially when used in the context of actions towards a female.

I must say Ruth that I find it off putting, the word fuck wouldn't bother me at all but 'bang' seems to have violent connotations.

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My advice would be to book her but I would let her know who I was. That way its not awkward face to face or shes gonna be in for a real shock. I cant see there being a huge problem to be honest. Shes escorting most likely without anyone knowing and your punting without anyone knowing. When your together in your grouo of mates, the only two people that know are you two, the only way anyone is going to know is if either of youbsay anything. My mates know I do it but I would never tell them that one of our group was an escort if I was in that situation. The privacy of it all would stay between you and I cant see there being an issue. However your feelings towards her would be shown to her if you did go through with it by the fact you have booked her. You dont book a girl who you dont think looks a stunner.

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Too much overlap for me, Pandora's box. If you like her can't you try to 'bang' her as a friend. Paying her could mean losing her as a friend and fracturing your group.

Let us all know what happens!

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I am not offended by bang. I think I prefer it to fuck.  I still like fuck though.  I hate shag.

 

I prefer any of those to do  or had as in " I am going to do her" or "I have had her"

 

The worst one is use

 

A man had been to see me and as he prepared to go he said he would use me again.

 

My eyebrows raised ( a comical sight ) and I said "use me?"

 

His sarcastic response was "ok then I will make love to you again some time"

 

Swine

 

:D 

 

Re the OP who wants to bang the lady.....

 

I would say no..... if you need our advice you are already unsure it is the right thing to do.  I would not advise telling her you have been watching her doing the naughties on webcam either..... but you could inch your way forward by telling her you are tempted to watch... see what her reply is.

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If you fancy her that badly and move in the same circles why have you not approached her in this context?

It seems a very very bad idea to me to contact her in her professional capicity.

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Don't do it, for the same reason I wont use the brothel less than 100 yds from my front door, its called shitting on your own doorstep.

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Also would say not to do it. Lots of downside. Shagging your friends is different because even if you fall out, they can't use that against you in the same way.

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Why not just ask her out, if you already move in the same circles as her?

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