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Disloyalty?

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Girls on AW can see you have had appointments with others via the resulting feedback. Do they ever feel a sense of "disloyalty" - especially for a regular - when they see that you have been up to mischief with other girls?

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Girls on AW can see you have had appointments with others via the resulting feedback. Do they ever feel a sense of "disloyalty" - especially for a regular - when they see that you have been up to mischief with other girls?

 

From a this wg's point of view the answer is a resounding no. If there was not a vast choice of wgs to choose from then there would be little or no business.

 

Loyalty does not come into it.  It can be amusing though when a man declares without being questioned... that you are the only one he sees but you know that is not true.

 

We are in a sharing community here..... we all get passed around like sweeties. Nothing to get jealous or hurt by.

 

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You are not our bfs,we all know the score.As has been said its mildly amusing when clients claim they only see you.

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I cannot allow you to tout that it is "a more reliable way of arranging a meeting". There are plenty who would disagree with you. 

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If i find out a lady has seen someone else other then me...i never re-visit....lol

Hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha

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If i find out a lady has seen someone else other then me...i never re-visit....lol

Hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha

Yoiu would be amazed the amount of guys who do think like this, along with the 'I want to be her first client of the day' brigade

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Nope there is plenty of choice out there and outside of our appointments clients lives are nothing to do with me.

 

The only time it can be mildly annoying is if say a guy books you, might even change things around a bit, then close to the time cancels with some reason such as "My trip to the area is cancelled", or "car in the garage/broken", then acquires feedback that puts him in the area at that time(OK it could have been delayed feedback, but I'm not completely daft and have checked up).

 

It's the fib that makes me uneasy and less likely to believe anything they say in future. 

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Yoiu would be amazed the amount of guys who do think like this, along with the 'I want to be her first client of the day' brigade

Other than RO, is there any difference to where you are in line

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Nope there is plenty of choice out there and outside of our appointments clients lives are nothing to do with me.

The only time it can be mildly annoying is if say a guy books you, might even change things around a bit, then close to the time cancels with some reason such as "My trip to the area is cancelled", or "car in the garage/broken", then acquires feedback that puts him in the area at that time(OK it could have been delayed feedback, but I'm not completely daft and have checked up). /quote]

I think that can go both ways, I've had a lady postpone my visit by 2 hrs, as she'd had to pop out, only for there to be feedback for her once I'm out of my delayed meeting with her, For the time I'd originally booked.

It's the fib that makes me uneasy and less likely to believe anything they say in future.[

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Strangely, I met several guys in the past who questioned me why I was seeing other guys, although I so rarely see people anyway.  The last guy further did some very bad things to me, despite being married and with kids, basically having his own life.  My friends said these things seem to repeat so often to me purely because some people confuse my nice attitude with being weak.  And this is besides the 2 stalkers I keep putting up with for the last years.........

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Other than RO, is there any difference to where you are in line

I see you commented on another post, so I'll answer both posts - the only difference is the telling of porkies, because nine times out of ten you are never going to be that first in the line :)

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I cannot allow you to tout that it is "a more reliable way of arranging a meeting". There are plenty who would disagree with you. 

 

Thread cleaned up and a brief reminder to posters to not hijack threads to push their own advertising.

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The small group of ladies I see all know about the others and we often swap information about things such as recommended photographers, for example.

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I see you commented on another post, so I'll answer both posts - the only difference is the telling of porkies, because nine times out of ten you are never going to be that first in the line :)

Aha, I see what you mean,

If I wanted to be the first chap that day, if just book her for an early appt,

If she starts work at 16:00, booking at 20:00 is going to be a given that you not going to be first in line for the day??

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Yes…some of them do. Those escorts though are stupid in assuming that a punter is somehow "theirs" just because he has had bookings with them. No one owns anyone, we dont belong to the punters and the punters dont belong to us. Its common sense to assume even the most loyal regular client sees other girls occasionally. If a girl has a problem with this then she is a problem for her punters.

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Aha, I see what you mean,

If I wanted to be the first chap that day, if just book her for an early appt,

If she starts work at 16:00, booking at 20:00 is going to be a given that you not going to be first in line for the day??

Or you could look at it another way. Every single day a girl works SOMEONE is first in line for the day lol. 

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Aha, I see what you mean,

If I wanted to be the first chap that day, if just book her for an early appt,

If she starts work at 16:00, booking at 20:00 is going to be a given that you not going to be first in line for the day??

Depends on whether anyone else books her, or what she does with that time.

 

I will often say I'm available from say 9am-10pm, and not take any bookings earlier that day so the guy who I'm seeing at 8pm could very well be the first I see. On the other hand some days I may be fully booked from the earliest time and finish my day at 5pm. I have other things I fit around my bookings and if I have a bit of down time I might do so in the middle of the day, leaving me with a gap of 4 or 5 hours between clients, that could be comparable to having an overnight gap.

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Girls on AW can see you have had appointments with others via the resulting feedback. Do they ever feel a sense of "disloyalty" - especially for a regular - when they see that you have been up to mischief with other girls?

A pretty daft question, in my view, given that the escorts are selling, and the punters buying, sex  it is unlikely that either party will be monogamous!! There would be insufficient business for the escorts and lack of variety for the punters.

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A pretty daft question, in my view, given that the escorts are selling, and the punters buying, sex  it is unlikely that either party will be monogamous!! There would be insufficient business for the escorts and lack of variety for the punters.

I'm not so sure it is Paul. Whilst most of the women here are level headed and wouldn't see it as a problem I know first hand there are others out there that are the exact opposite. There are women that expect their clients to be monogamous and get rather upset when they discover that they are not the only one or even number one if that makes sense.

I'll hazard a guess that more than a few of the women here will have either met escorts like this, suffered at the hands of escorts like this, or know of escorts like this.

Many moons ago I got friendly with a girl, we partied together and did a lot of duo work, we became really good friends... Or so I thought! One of her clients booked me and she got to find out about it 'went through my phone', all holy hell let lose. That was the end of our friendship but also the end of his marriage she was that angry about it.

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Some time back I toured briefly to another city. I stayed at the in call place of a lady by myself but did not announce this on my tour info. I met a few nice clients and heard later that the wg claimed they were mostly "hers" ....... hmmmmm

 

How silly....... if that lady had toured to my city then the chances are she would have met some of my own regular clients.

 

As I said earlier.... we are in a sharing game.... no one belongs to anyone.... or it would not be punting would it?

 

:)  ;)

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"Oh you saw my client, yeah I know, he sees others occasionally but he's MY client you know but I don't mind honestly I really really don't mind honestly" oh yes I have heard this from one or two girls I got to know rather well over the years. Passive aggressive jealousy because they can't really cope with knowing they are not always first choice. Then there is the other sort "oh your client came to see ME yesterday, he had a great time, YOU havnt see him for a while have you, oh he is here ALL the time" lol. I have also encountered this not so long ago. I just want to scream GET A LIFE to this sort because they are trying to make me upset that my clients are seeing other girls. It doesn't work with me though because unlike them I saw the bigger picture long ago. We have all met the passive aggressive. It's always said with a smile and the offer of "wanna coffee babe?"

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Jealousy is an ugly trait and is sometimes all too apparent under a thin veil of friendliness in this industry, I have heard of girls going mental at other girls unlucky enough to have been booked by someone else's regular. One girl even said " it's okay I'm here now" upon finding her regular sitting waiting for the other girl he had booked instead of her. Things can get a bit iffy when people lose touch with reality x

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OMG this thread has started the little forgotten moments rolling out of my memory banks. So many are oping up lol. One so called friend smiled sweetly and said " oh your guy came to see me yesterday, he said I was far better than you" ....

....,till the next week he is there waiting in the bedroom with "I decided to book your friend last week but she isn't my cup of tea"

I have to say it's not unheard of in this industry for punters to sometimes try to play girls off against each other and try to cause jealousy in the hope that discounts and extra services will be forthcoming from one or both x

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I have been unlucky enough to have had a punting lifetime of girls whose hopes and dreams have been shattered because I did not devote myself to their sexual ecstasy to the exclusion of all others.

 

It has been hell reading their pleading letters, then pleading emails, then pleading texts, then pleading tweets, then fetching up at my door with a wedding ring in their bra.

 

It has been hell.

 

I am just a ladies man not a one-lady man and you all will just have to get used to that.

 

These pills don't seem lke my usual type...

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Girls on AW can see you have had appointments with others via the resulting feedback. Do they ever feel a sense of "disloyalty" - especially for a regular - when they see that you have been up to mischief with other girls?

This is one of the reasons I stick to my punting code. One of the rules is never see a girl more than twice. If you've had a great time, then go back and do it all again. But draw the line there.

Only one girl was charming and sweet enough to make me break this rule. I ended up seeing her 6 times over a 2 month period and thought wow I could really go for this regular thing. I was also visiting other girls (and reporting on them) during this time, so there was no exclusivity on either side, and I never made the 'you're the only girl I see' claim. However, I found I was fast developing feelings for her, and started to find myself getting too attached. The appeal of seeing her quickly became less about the sex and more about the emotional connection. I swore I wouldn't let that happen, as I felt it was way too risky in this hobby to get emotionally attached.

So I have reluctantly decided regulars are not for me, and have reverted back to the policy that has served me well over my first year or so. But the point of this, and sorry it's taken a while to get to it, is that I now have a strong sense of loyalty towards her. I could never go to the parlour on a day she's working and see another girl - I just couldn't do that and would feel so awful.

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