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Had some brief communications over a year or so with a touring escort but our times never synchronised. Her style was always friendly , open , inviting -- perfect !

 

Finally arranged to meet. This is difficult to explain but from get-go I felt there was a slight awkwardness.She was very pleasant but I felt her tone was 'professional' and slightly plastic. I felt she was making a bit of an effort . Little things were off centre. This is a well travelled, serious and experienced escort.

 I could not forget at any stage that I was paying for her services. I suppose I felt the complete lack of a click. After another little altercation ( about 10 mins in ) I stopped and called a halt to the proceedings and went to get dressed. She was non-plussed and asked why , as this had never happened to her before. You cant get into a this or that discussion really, so the few minutes getting dressed were a bit awkward. I just said it is one of those things, they happen. Sometimes it feels right , other times not. She offered the full fee back, not to strongly mind but she did offer but I refused to take it or any of it even though I had built in a reasonable tip.She had done nothing wrong as such I just wasnt enjoying myself.

 

Was I an eejit in refusing to take back some or all of the fee or did I do the right thing and just chalk it up ?  What would you have done ? 

 

 

 

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you havent explained what a "another little altercation" is...

 

if she took her knickers off to reveal a cock then you should have asked for your money back...

 

if she had her period then a discount would be understandable but you're a decent guy if you let her keep the money...

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I want to know what the altercation was.

 

Stop being a tease and spill.

 

How can anyone advise if we don't know what the problem was...... you say you didn't "click" which is fair enough but you only stayed 10 minutes. 

 

Not clicking happens... though a meeting can still be fruitful........ but that is not the same as an actual disagreement.

 

Tell us. 

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The ideal resolution would be, of course, for you both to walk away thinking "well it didn't work out but it was a fair resolution".  It was very good of her to offer the whole fee back.  You both spent time and money on travel or accommodation and maybe both learn something for how you might react or treat the situation differently should a similar instance arise again.

 

So she did a decent thing in offering to return the fee.  You also did a very decent thing in giving her the whole fee, and also know that should you ever want to change your mind and see her again, that she would know you were okay.

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After another little altercation ( about 10 mins in ) I stopped and called a halt to the proceedings and went to get dressed. She was non-plussed and asked why , as this had never happened to her before.

Brilliant, my favourite part is when you say "I stopped and called a halt to the proceedings" :) .....absolute classic!

Hardly surprising she was somewhat perplexed by this, it's quite unusual behaviour - especially when it doesn't appear anything was wrong other than you feeling you hadn't clicked.

Credit to the girl for offering you a full refund. I can only imagine she was beyond confused and wasn't thinking straight when she did.

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Was there a plan b. If so the refund would have been useful.

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you havent explained what a "another little altercation" is...

 

if she took her knickers off to reveal a cock then you should have asked for your money back...

 

if she had her period then a discount would be understandable but you're a decent guy if you let her keep the money...

 

 

I want to know what the altercation was.

 

Stop being a tease and spill.

 

How can anyone advise if we don't know what the problem was...... you say you didn't "click" which is fair enough but you only stayed 10 minutes. 

 

Not clicking happens... though a meeting can still be fruitful........ but that is not the same as an actual disagreement.

 

Tell us. 

 

With respect, you are both sort of missing the point.The little altercation was for me merely the straw that broke the camel's back. It highlighted what I had felt from the start in that it was all a little bit strained.false.

 

The straw was that I went down on her ., lightly. She did a little 'shiver' and said that it was tickly. Ok, so I go again but again there was "ooooooohh, very tickly " . Now, if things were going right, after the first 'tickly' , she would or should have put her hand on my head, drawn me into her and instructed me on how she wanted the RO ( if at all ). Simple and gives confidence to the client that he is not annoying her or wasting his time. Leading up to that, there were little things wrong, like she didnt want a massage, didnt want to keep her heels on for comfort etc.

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Was there a plan b. If so the refund would have been useful.

 

No there was no plan B. I never have one. Having said that I was horny on the way home and booked another girl. When I got to her location, her accent was so heavy I simply could not follow her directions. It was a comical scene. I guess she had all sorts of friends on the phone, equally accented, trying to give me the info. I asked for the directions to be texted to me but although promises were made, none came thru and I left.

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Brilliant, my favourite part is when you say "I stopped and called a halt to the proceedings" :) .....absolute classic!

Hardly surprising she was somewhat perplexed by this, it's quite unusual behaviour - especially when it doesn't appear anything was wrong other than you feeling you hadn't clicked.

Credit to the girl for offering you a full refund. I can only imagine she was beyond confused and wasn't thinking straight when she did.

 

She wasnt falling all over herself to return it .  She wanted to know was there anything else she could do. When you make the decision to split, there is no turning back and what is the point of having an indepth discussion about all the little things, when she is not going to see it or accept it. 

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No there was no plan B. I never have one. Having said that I was horny on the way home and booked another girl. When I got to her location, her accent was so heavy I simply could not follow her directions. It was a comical scene. I guess she had all sorts of friends on the phone, equally accented, trying to give me the info. I asked for the directions to be texted to me but although promises were made, none came thru and I left.

Every now and then we punters go on a wild goose chase. It goes with the game.

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Every now and then we punters go on a wild goose chase. It goes with the game.

 

 

There was more stuff earlier that day too. A day best forgotten !

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hmmm... sounds like you didnt click...

 

no you dont deserve a refund for that.

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There was more stuff earlier that day too. A day best forgotten !

It's beginning to sound like the News of the World quote "Your reporter made his excuses and left". After the reluctance for her to allow you to go down on her I think I might have taken my money and left her with, say, £50 for out of pocket expenses.

 

Perhaps I am a mean old sod. :(

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Its a situation which is somehow redolent of two leading movie stars who have been put together and the assumption is that a box office hit is guaranteed to follow. In actual fact there could be no interaction and a wooden b movie is produced.

 

So a big build up over a year, and two big characters, expectations and so on, leaving two people feeling bemused with one another, and consequently sex was not going to solve it.

 

But it sounds as if you were being quite macho and she working some cunning also.  probably too evenly matched and naught was produced.

 

However the offer of a refund is interesting, because I think even if you had gone for it; she might have produced a clever compromise. Which would be useful for you to know in future circumstances, that might be equivalent.

 

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What a pity it didn't work out after all that anticipation. Once it's taken a whole year to sort an appointment, expectations are sky-high, and it's very easy for the date itself to feel disappointing. Onwards and upwards, hopefully.

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I would have done the same as the OP, I might have said we'll split the fee, but there again with the awkward 2 minutes getting getting dressed my thought would have been on getting out as fast as I could. 

 

I think I would however asked the question why she didn't want my performing the RO, I have been known to forget what services a girl provides.  :P

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I don't think she refused reverse oral she just said it was tickly. I have at times said certain things are tickly but I didn't mean I didn't like it and I wanted them to stop.It sounds like there were no winners to be honest, you spent enough time with the girl to get her naked and go down on her, it sounds like she tried to rectify the situation but you just didn't click. I don't think you merited getting all of your money back either but certainly I would have offered some back.

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I was fascinated to read that you had added in "a reasonable tip" having not met her previously and not knowing what the service was going to be like. I would do that on a repeat visit or maybe take a small gift but not on a first visit. Do other people tip before knowing what they are going to get?

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I generally find that if a bloke is going to tip it is afterwards as he has especially enjoyed the service.

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So you did not click for one reason or another......  next people will be asking you to name and shame, when it seems to me like it ain't her fault.  Sorry but that's how it looks to me from the things you have said

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Some blokes tip and most don't.  The tippers of this industry/world go with the intent and tip anyways.

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Its a situation which is somehow redolent of two leading movie stars who have been put together and the assumption is that a box office hit is guaranteed to follow. In actual fact there could be no interaction and a wooden b movie is produced.

 

So a big build up over a year, and two big characters, expectations and so on, leaving two people feeling bemused with one another, and consequently sex was not going to solve it.

 

But it sounds as if you were being quite macho and she working some cunning also.  probably too evenly matched and naught was produced.

 

However the offer of a refund is interesting, because I think even if you had gone for it; she might have produced a clever compromise. Which would be useful for you to know in future circumstances, that might be equivalent.

 

 

What a pity it didn't work out after all that anticipation. Once it's taken a whole year to sort an appointment, expectations are sky-high, and it's very easy for the date itself to feel disappointing. Onwards and upwards, hopefully.

 

You know  I think you hit the nail on the head. When the door opened, I thought I detected a little disappointment and everything after that just re-enforced that first impression.But we had not been close in any material way over the previous year, so certainly I dont see , as an escort,  why she would have any serious preconceived ideas about. me. I would wager that her style that evening was quite normal for her.

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I would have done the same as the OP, I might have said we'll split the fee, but there again with the awkward 2 minutes getting getting dressed my thought would have been on getting out as fast as I could. 

 

I think I would however asked the question why she didn't want my performing the RO, I have been known to forget what services a girl provides.  :P

 

She said that she hadnt actually wanted me to stop but if that was the case, she could have just directed me as to the way she liked it rather than concentrating only on the tickly  !  :D

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I was fascinated to read that you had added in "a reasonable tip" having not met her previously and not knowing what the service was going to be like. I would do that on a repeat visit or maybe take a small gift but not on a first visit. Do other people tip before knowing what they are going to get?

 

 

I generally find that if a bloke is going to tip it is afterwards as he has especially enjoyed the service.

 

 

I dont always tip but mostly do and when I do so, I always do it in advance. Probably selfish I know, but whty not have the lady feeling appreciative before the action rather than when you are in the car driving home .

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So you did not click for one reason or another......  next people will be asking you to name and shame, when it seems to me like it ain't her fault.  Sorry but that's how it looks to me from the things you have said

 

Hence, I refused the return of the fee.  Its not really a question of 'fault' anyway. You pay your money, you take your chances ( in the absence of fraud ).

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