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Had another booking recently where at the start, I found a trait of the WG quite disconcerting . Whilst she was bright and bubbly and a great  talker, she would not look at me and diverted her eyes away all the time. It was only in the middle of a long  piece or at the end of her talk that she would briefly make eye contact , as it is nearly impossible to avoid it completely.

 

After a short while, when I got an appropriate opportunity, I asked her about this . She laughed and said it was not personal to me at all and that she does this all the time with everyone, even in her personal life !  I didn't probe any further, as once I was happy it wasn't just me, then I carried on and can say that I went on to have one of the most relaxing, fun and thoroughly satisfying gfe punts I have ever had.

 

I do wonder though, how the WG developed this trait and continues to have it at work, as it is one which clients will automatically find off putting initially .

 

Anyone experience any other odd traits of either WG or client  ?

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I couldnt begin to explain the number of strange and mysterious traits I have found i clients, I have probably forgotten more than I can remember. 

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Chloe, could you give me your read on my one above please ?  You have an opinion on most things ! :P

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I once met a girl who;

 

Turned up on time.

Was dressed as requested.

Looked like her pictures.

Did all the services listed on her profile.

Didn't ask for extra money.

Didn't rush to leave after the time.

 

Very unusual traits :) :) :)

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Had another booking recently where at the start, I found a trait of the WG quite disconcerting . Whilst she was bright and bubbly and a great  talker, she would not look at me and diverted her eyes away all the time. It was only in the middle of a long  piece or at the end of her talk that she would briefly make eye contact , as it is nearly impossible to avoid it completely.

 

After a short while, when I got an appropriate opportunity, I asked her about this . She laughed and said it was not personal to me at all and that she does this all the time with everyone, even in her personal life !  I didn't probe any further, as once I was happy it wasn't just me, then I carried on and can say that I went on to have one of the most relaxing, fun and thoroughly satisfying gfe punts I have ever had.

 

I do wonder though, how the WG developed this trait and continues to have it at work, as it is one which clients will automatically find off putting initially .

 

Anyone experience any other odd traits of either WG or client  ?

 

Was she looking right or left?  Apparently if we look right we tell the truth, and by looking left we tell lies.  Not sure if this can be applied to cross eyed people.

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I once met a girl who;

 

Turned up on time.

Was dressed as requested.

Looked like her pictures.

Did all the services listed on her profile.

Didn't ask for extra money.

Didn't rush to leave after the time.

 

Very unusual traits :) :) :)

 

Haha :)

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Sounds like she was just shy or a little self-concious. It's not uncommon for girls to feel a little uncomfortable making direct eye contact. You're reading way too much into this.

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Sounds like she was just shy or a little self-conscious. It's not uncommon for girls to feel a little uncomfortable making direct eye contact. You're reading way too much into this.

That.

 

Also interesting that many animals feel threatened by direct eye contact.

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I agree with BoyMK. A shy WG isn't unusual, even if she is good-looking. A punter may also make less eye-contact than appropriate, when he is shy, for example if it is his first time punt.

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Good Grief. A fellow carries a hankie in his jacket pocket for such occasions. A quick inspection of the eye and a wipe with the corner of the hankie, would have sufficed.

 

Clearly you are out of uniform. You should have been wearing a blazer. Highly irregular sir.

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That.

 

Also interesting that many animals feel threatened by direct eye contact.

Are you suggesting that we blokes are simply animals?? :blink:

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Reminds me of David Attenborough going in amongst those gorillas. he wouldn't look at any of them full on.

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Chloe, could you give me your read on my one above please ?  You have an opinion on most things ! :P

Doesn't everyone? As soon as you see, hear, smell, read, encounter etc our brains automatically formulate opinions on whatever has caught out attention.  I just chose to share a lot of mine  :D

 

Personally I would say she is a little self conscious or lacking in confidence even if she isn't aware of it hence avoiding the eye contact subconsciously but thats just my opinion…its not based on anything you could call knowledge 

 

http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/mean-talking-someone-cant-look-eye-20593.html

 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-therapy/201202/eye-contact-in-therapy-part-i

 

If you give these a read though they do seem to back up the shy/self conscious/nervous theory. Of course it may just be that she gives clients fictitious details of herself so hide her real details, puts on a persona so to speak so she looks  away from you because she knows in her mind that she is being dishonest even if in the case of the sex industry its a good idea NOT to be too honest about yourself. Perhaps she doesnt like to lie even for good reason so feels guilty about it and avoids eye contact because she feels somewhere in her head that you would be able to see she is lying x

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Very useful links, Chloe Kisses. :)

 

I think there is a difference between being dishonest and being shy. In both cases the very person makes no eye-contact or less than is appropriate. Shy people look down; dishonest people look aside. I myself interpret others' lack of eye-contact as: not paying attention, thinking about what to respond, lack of interest or being bored, waiting for something.

 

BTW, I have an autism spectrum disorder, and my interpret lack of eye-contact by others differently from how others would interpret it.

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That.

 

Also interesting that many animals feel threatened by direct eye contact.

 

I certainly do. 

Its unnatural the way we   are  now required ''to give a good eye contact'' e.g. throughout the job interview:  try it on with a dog and he'll start barking at you in no time- its like challenging  him. 

I'm not it should be avoided altogether, but I've always found something aggressive by people starring me in the eye .

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The eye contact thing is interesting.

 

I've recently discovered an escort who really seems to hit all my buttons and who seems to respond to me particularly well. Crucial in this is the eye contact we have. I'm particularly aware of this since I've been conscious that, with other women, I don't always look them in the eye all the time when we are chatting or screwing.

Some of the girls in the business withhold kissing from their services as it's too intimate they find. Personally I won't see a girl if she doesn't kiss. But thinking about eye contact  - just recall how horny it is when a girl is gobbling your cock and looking up at you to monitor your reaction.

 

Sadly I don't recall the last time Auntie looked lasciviously into my eyes nor indeed the reverse. Doubtless the side-on view of Uncle's frame from the bathtub when Uncle is brushing his teeth is enough to extinguish any last vestiges of lust. Ho hum

 

Uncle Pokey

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The eye contact thing is interesting.

 

I've recently discovered an escort who really seems to hit all my buttons and who seems to respond to me particularly well. Crucial in this is the eye contact we have. I'm particularly aware of this since I've been conscious that, with other women, I don't always look them in the eye all the time when we are chatting or screwing.

Some of the girls in the business withhold kissing from their services as it's too intimate they find. Personally I won't see a girl if she doesn't kiss. But thinking about eye contact  - just recall how horny it is when a girl is gobbling your cock and looking up at you to monitor your reaction.

 

Sadly I don't recall the last time Auntie looked lasciviously into my eyes nor indeed the reverse. Doubtless the side-on view of Uncle's frame from the bathtub when Uncle is brushing his teeth is enough to extinguish any last vestiges of lust. Ho hum

 

Uncle Pokey

A regular of mine who has disappeared on her travels gave the most mesmerising eye contact, it was quite something and definitely added something extra for me. She even allowed me to take a photo of her on one occasion when she was giving me one of her 'looks' - a totally spontaneous thing, but I have that photo hidden away where only I can see it. Looking at it brings back some great memories!

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Was she looking right or left?  Apparently if we look right we tell the truth, and by looking left we tell lies.  Not sure if this can be applied to cross eyed people.

 

Left !  But I expect WGs   to tell porkies. :D

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Sounds like she was just shy or a little self-concious. It's not uncommon for girls to feel a little uncomfortable making direct eye contact. You're reading way too much into this.

 No, I know shy when I see it. This was very different. This was virtually no eye contact at all for long periods of chat time as well as during action time. It was highly unusual and from someone who was a very good and friendly talker. I rather think that it is something deep seated.

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I agree with BoyMK. A shy WG isn't unusual, even if she is good-looking. A punter may also make less eye-contact than appropriate, when he is shy, for example if it is his first time punt.

 

This was in a different league to less than appropriate.

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Doesn't everyone? As soon as you see, hear, smell, read, encounter etc our brains automatically formulate opinions on whatever has caught out attention.  I just chose to share a lot of mine  :D

 

Personally I would say she is a little self conscious or lacking in confidence even if she isn't aware of it hence avoiding the eye contact subconsciously but thats just my opinion…its not based on anything you could call knowledge 

 

http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/mean-talking-someone-cant-look-eye-20593.html

 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-therapy/201202/eye-contact-in-therapy-part-i

 

If you give these a read though they do seem to back up the shy/self conscious/nervous theory. Of course it may just be that she gives clients fictitious details of herself so hide her real details, puts on a persona so to speak so she looks  away from you because she knows in her mind that she is being dishonest even if in the case of the sex industry its a good idea NOT to be too honest about yourself. Perhaps she doesnt like to lie even for good reason so feels guilty about it and avoids eye contact because she feels somewhere in her head that you would be able to see she is lying x

 

I have a suspicion that she may have taken over some other lady's profile... just a suspicion . Or maybe some deep seated anxiety disorder. Maybe she finds working extremely difficult but even if so, she is extraordinary good at putting on a show. 

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I have a suspicion that she may have taken over some other lady's profile... just a suspicion . Or maybe some deep seated anxiety disorder. Maybe she finds working extremely difficult but even if so, she is extraordinary good at putting on a show. 

As I said it may not be for a bad reason. She may just be a very honest person who doesnt feel comfortable putting on a "work persona" so to speak but was told she should by someone else. I was told its better to have one when I first started but the only thing I could come up with is "how the fuck do you keep that up all day long". xx

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It would be interesting if parlours offered an unseen option at a seduced rate where the punter is comfortably blindfolded (perhaps by perfumed silk panties?) and the punt then goes ahead.

 

The punter has the frisson of not knowing who is there, looks are discounted, less glamorous-looking SPs get more business and can use what may be exquisite skills.

 

And the punter can perhaps have the option to see the SP before leaving or not.

 

Sadly even as I write this, I cannot think there are many parlours at all who would consider offering something a bit different at all, whatever it was.

 

(A thread on parlours with a difference might be interesting ...)

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It would be interesting if parlours offered an unseen option at a seduced rate where the punter is comfortably blindfolded (perhaps by perfumed silk panties?) and the punt then goes ahead.

 

The punter has the frisson of not knowing who is there, looks are discounted, less glamorous-looking SPs get more business and can use what may be exquisite skills.

 

And the punter can perhaps have the option to see the SP before leaving or not.

 

Sadly even as I write this, I cannot think there are many parlours at all who would consider offering something a bit different at all, whatever it was.

 

(A thread on parlours with a difference might be interesting ...)

What makes you think the less glamours sps get less work lol. Not everyone likes the over glamorous look. One of the most popular girls I worked with hardly even wore much make up. Plus of course you can always ask to be blindfolded but as the girl would still be doing everything she would even if you were not blindfolded why should she be payed less just because you dont think she is as glamorous as another girl. Parlours wouldnt consider it because its a ridiculous notion.

 

On another note though Im sure there have been times when many a girl would be happy to take less money if she could be blindfolded herself and have a swimmer nose clip on during the booking  :ph34r:

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What makes you think the less glamours sps get less work lol. Not everyone likes the over glamorous look. One of the most popular girls I worked with hardly even wore much make up. Plus of course you can always ask to be blindfolded but as the girl would still be doing everything she would even if you were not blindfolded why should she be payed less just because you dont think she is as glamorous as another girl. Parlours wouldnt consider it because its a ridiculous notion.

 

On another note though Im sure there have been times when many a girl would be happy to take less money if she could be blindfolded herself and have a swimmer nose clip on during the booking  :ph34r:

That would be a huge plus in my book for lots of reasons.

 

1  Less chance of make up running on to my clothes or skin

2  Less chance of perfume odour on my clothes

3  I prefer the natural look on ladies. Too much (or, sometimes, any) make up covers the natural charms of a lady.

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