MinxyLydia

Missed Calls And How Many Times Do You Call An Escort?

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OK. I often get missed calls if I am busy or if I can't grab my phone quick enough. If I have literally just missed a call I might text them to say 'I'm free to talk now' or similar, and often they will ring back. 

 

I know discretion is key so obviously I wouldn't call back or text after any time has passed. 

 

However, I have noted that very often someone calls once and then that's it. no return call, voicemail or text. I wonder if these are men just working through a list of escort numbers until they get a reply or if they assume I will get back to them?

 

It amazes me that if someone wants to see me they will only try calling once. Do I assume they are the kind of punters who just want to see any old escort who is instantly free?

 

Ladies, how do you deal with these one off callers?

 

My voicemail states I won't call back unless they leave me a message to ask me to....

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It is an odd one isn't?I once had a client get quite shirty,making a point that he had called a few times and I had never answered or returned his calls.I asked what time he had called and he had said at nighttime...so a good chance my phone would have been off as I finish around 8 or 9pm.

I asked if he had left a voicemail?Nope he hadn't.He didn't actually get a booking as I found him quite rude.

How do I deal with missed calls?I don't.They can ring back or leave a voicemail simple.

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OK. I often get missed calls if I am busy or if I can't grab my phone quick enough. If I have literally just missed a call I might text them to say 'I'm free to talk now' or similar, and often they will ring back. 

 

I know discretion is key so obviously I wouldn't call back or text after any time has passed. 

 

However, I have noted that very often someone calls once and then that's it. no return call, voicemail or text. I wonder if these are men just working through a list of escort numbers until they get a reply or if they assume I will get back to them?

 

It amazes me that if someone wants to see me they will only try calling once. Do I assume they are the kind of punters who just want to see any old escort who is instantly free?

 

Ladies, how do you deal with these one off callers?

 

My voicemail states I won't call back unless they leave me a message to ask me to....

 

Possibly Lydia, but the following other interpretations come to mind:-

 

1. They are VERY selective punters who have picked a list of the top 5 best escorts in London and have decided to go with whichever one responds first to a phone call

 

2. They are schoolkids going through a comprehensive list of WGs for a laugh and the list is so long that it's unlikely they will get to the end of the list and start over again before their mum/holiday job boss/probation officer/ calls them away

 

I have to say that if I called you and you didn't answer first time I would definitely call again.....

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I usually leave an announcement along the lines of: 'please try me again after 2 pm, or leave a message'. That way guys have a vague idea when I'm free next. If he needs to get laid immediately, he can just move on to the next number, and not waste time leaving messages and waiting with bated breath for a call back.

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Possibly Lydia, but the following other interpretations come to mind:-

 

1. They are VERY selective punters who have picked a list of the top 5 best escorts in London and have decided to go with whichever one responds first to a phone call

 

2. They are schoolkids going through a comprehensive list of WGs for a laugh and the list is so long that it's unlikely they will get to the end of the list and start over again before their mum/holiday job boss/probation officer/ calls them away

 

I have to say that if I called you and you didn't answer first time I would definitely call again.....

 

I do like your number 1 reason you ole charmer! :) 

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I will usually call once and leave a message if necessary. If I don't get a callback or a text, I don't pursue the matter any further. So many girls don't ever bother to respond that you never really where you are.

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Bit of both in my case.  I think that if I’ve sent an email and rung once leaving a message with contact details then that should be sufficient.

 

On many occasions I have only tried the once. Repeated attempts to contact a girl might be interpreted as stalky or threatening and, as dick78 says, so many girls don’t respond that it’s easier to fish elsewhere until you get a bite.  

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Wanted to see a lady in my neck of the woods for ages...a few weeks ago called several times, left messages and e-mails. No reply.

 

Disappointment.

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Most lady's websites state their working hours, so I try to call within the time frame they suggest. If I am very keen to see that particular escort I will persevere, but if all I need is to get my rocks off fast I will go down my list till I find a lady who is able to talk.

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If there's no answer on the phone, I'll leave a text either saying when it's ok to return my call or asking for a text message anytime so they can tell me when to call back. Or I'll send an email with a similar message. I'd phone a second time but no more than that.

I'd only call during a wg's working times if they were displayed.

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Often when I find myself with some freetime and fancy a punt that day an in certain area(I might just be free for 2 hours or so) I do a quick search say on AW and ring WGs until I get an answer and they are free then - One who have not answered I might not ring back if I'm not in that area again or happy with the one who answered and I booked...

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I will usually call once and leave a message if necessary. If I don't get a callback or a text, I don't pursue the matter any further. So many girls don't ever bother to respond that you never really where you are.

If I miss a call I do not respond.

 

Once a long time ago I missed a call from someone I had seen a good few times.  I called him straight back, within a minute, and his wife picked up.  I was shocked and told her I had got the wrong number.  She said 'oh no you have the right number, are you one of my husband's ladies'?

 

I said I didn't think so unless  he wanted to work a shift in an old people's home tonight..  I could not think of anything else to say  - it was off the cuff.  She laughed and conceded I had called the wrong number.  I never told him what had happened and after that I never call anyone back, unless I know them well and know it is okay to do so - even then I tend not to.

 

There can be lots of reasons for not responding, so don't give up is what I say.  These days I never take my phone out of my flat.  I only answer it when I am there, and half of that time it is on silent anyway.

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Wanted to see a lady in my neck of the woods for ages...a few weeks ago called several times, left messages and e-mails. No reply.

 

Disappointment.

If she did not respond to emails then that is not good.  Problem is that if the lady does not respond and the guy keeps trying he starts to look like a slalker through no fault of his own other than persistence !

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If she doesnt answer send a text. If I come out of a long booking I can only really send a "sorry I missed your call text" to people who have called very very near to the end of my booking. The people who send texts though saying "are you free at such and such a time" will get answered as soon as Im free. Chances are the ones I do text back because I missed their call then dont call till Im in a booking half an hour later again so you just end up playing the missed call game for half the day. Text it if she doesnt answer, at least then she knows what time you want to come along and that you want to make a booking. If that gets no answer then to be honest she's a bit rude. Texts ask to be answered. Missed calls are just question marks as you dont know if you even can dare text back if its more than ten minutes ago x

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I would imagine that some guys spend a long time building up the courage to call a wg, and after all that time they don't get an answer then they give up?

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I hate leaving messages.I always feel a plonker and end up leaving complete gibberish,thus i only leave them when i absolutely have to.
If its someone i really wanted to see,i'd call.If there was no answer then i'd leave it a while and try again.In the past however,when i didnt plan anything in advance and rarely knew when i'd have any time off i'd phone someone,and if there was no answer i'd repick and try someone else.

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I would imagine that some guys spend a long time building up the courage to call a wg, and after all that time they don't get an answer then they give up?

1st rule of punting. Remember escorts see other men too and try to imagine how you would feel if an escort stopped sucking your willy to answer the phone to another guy. Its basic common sense to assume we may be with another customer. 

 

I have had the little text sequence so many times

 

1. hi are you working today

 

2. hello?

 

3? hello i would like to make an appointment!!!!!!

 

4. you are rude!!!!!!!???

 

and thats been within half hour bookings, out I come to find this little text timeline, Ive given the extremely polite version too. When they get really annoyed the words "slag" "slut" and "dirty prostitute" often come into play. These guys just get blocked after I have explained nicely to them why I couldnt answer their texts. For some reason they then get confused when I tell them that no, I am not available to them because of their rudeness. 

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It depends on what mood I am in.  If feeling randy I will go down a list and I don't like leaving messages so may leave a text but may go onto hunt for more prey!!  If I have seen a girl I really like I plan ahead and pre book and fix a time slot etc.

 

 

However, having said about the list, I generally don't do it anymore as have got more picky with what I like.  I think there a 3/4 ladies that I really like now so will try to stick to those if possible. 

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I have had the little text sequence so many times

 

1. hi are you working today

 

2. hello?

 

3? hello i would like to make an appointment!!!!!!

 

4. you are rude!!!!!!!???

 

 

Last week I got:

 

1. Anser your phone!

 

2. Why arnt you answering?

 

3. want to c u 2night

 

4. basterd!!!!

 

 

His spelling not mine! 

 

Charmed I was! 

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Last week I got:

 

1. Anser your phone!

 

2. Why arnt you answering?

 

3. want to c u 2night

 

4. basterd!!!!

 

 

His spelling not mine! 

 

Charmed I was!

Now I know why most of the wg's I see don't display a phone number!! :rolleyes:

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Ladies, how do you deal with these one off callers?

 

 

 

I just ignore them.  If they are genuine, and really want to meet you, they usually leave the message, or SMS text. Of course texts: "are you available now" "when you are free", etc. got ignored also.

 

However when they state my name, when they want to meet,  for how long, etc... and I can see that they definitely read my website or AW profile, then I would text back.  I never would call back though.

 

Still: in average I receive about 7-10 emails/ texts/voicemails/AW enquiries a day from the people I have not seen before. Its only 1 .. or at most 2 worth responding to.

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I just ignore them.  If they are genuine, and really want to meet you, they usually leave the message, or SMS text. Of course texts: "are you available now" "when you are free", etc. got ignored also.

 

However when they state my name, when they want to meet,  for how long, etc... and I can see that they definitely read my website or AW profile, then I would text back.  I never would call back though.

 

Still: in average I receive about 7-10 emails/ texts/voicemails/AW enquiries a day from the people I have not seen before. Its only 1 .. or at most 2 worth responding to.

 

Yes I agree with all you say here! I was mainly intrigued as to how men's minds worked on this issue, but I think it's probably as I guessed in my first post, that men who don't give a toss who they see just call once and then move onto the next woman. Not my kind of client! 

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If I am able to book well in advance I will leave a message saying something like "can I see you at such and such a time on such and such a day for x minutes. Please call or text to confirm if this is OK". Responses vary from prompt to non-existent.

 

If the booking is at short notice I will prepare a prioritised short list of between 3 and 5 girls and call them one after another until I get the time I want.

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Yes I agree with all you say here! I was mainly intrigued as to how men's minds worked on this issue, but I think it's probably as I guessed in my first post, that men who don't give a toss who they see just call once and then move onto the next woman. Not my kind of client! 

Come on, Lydia!! You know that we think with our dicks when it comes to sex!! Our minds have nothing to do with it! :rolleyes:

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I was mainly intrigued as to how men's minds worked on this issue

As many of the replies on this thread show Lyd, a substantial number of male minds don't seem to function at all when it comes to booking a prostitute. I guess, sadly, this is representative of the population in general, both genders, not just male punters.

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