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Newbie Question: Discussing Explicit Details With Escort Beforehand

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Hello, I'm a newbie to punting. After some careful consideration I've booked an incall with an escort, on the aw site. She has great feedback, and is really friendly, I'm sure I'll have a great time.

One thing though is that there's been no discussion of the specifics, other than her saying we'll have great fun.

In particular, id like to see her pleasuring herself with a toy, to get me ready for round 2. Can I reasonably ask for this? It's not a dealbreaker, and I don't want to offend her if asking explicit questions would be generally considered bad etiquette.

So what do I do? Ask the question, or just turn up and hope she's equipped and willing?

Sorry if this is a naive question, I just don't know the etiquette

Thanks

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As long as your language isn't crude you should be OK asking. If you're polite and she's as friendly as you say she is, you probably won't offend her by asking even if the answer is no.

 

The only naivete in your question is hoping somebody is willing. You should always ask for clarity on what services are on offer.

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Whilst most escorts don't mind in the slightest about requests like yours, sometimes getting them across without sounding like a tongue tied pervert can be difficult, especially in your early days. If seeing her play with a toy is truly important for this first booking, then drop her a politely worded email beforehand. My advice for a first visit though would be to go with the flow and see what develops. You may be surprised. If you click with her and decide to have a second booking, bring the toy idea up then when she knows you aren't a timewaster.

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Almost every wg I've contacted asks if there are any requests once a booking has been made - that's the time to ask. It's always worth confirming what services you want either by phone or email.

I met a wg on an outcall who mentioned toys on her enjoys list, so after I'd make the booking I dropped her a nice email saying I notice she had toys on her enjoys list and asked her if she'd mind bringing some with her. Which she did and took great pleasure in demonstrating them and letting me play along.

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Just drop her a quick email saying something like "I have a small request with regards to our meeting, would it be possible to see you play with your toys please?" 

 

That's nice, polite and straight to the point.

 

Good Luck x

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Just drop her a quick email saying something like "I have a small request with regards to our meeting, would it be possible to see you play with your toys please?" 

 

That's nice, polite and straight to the point.

 

Good Luck x

There is nothing to add to this advice. Keep your mail polite and respectful and I bet you will get the result you seek

 

Good luck.

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Hi, nothing wrong in asking to clarify whats available even if it is in my profile, a quick email is fine, but to be honest I don't want to read a song and dance about what you ate for breakfast or the name of your hamster, keep it concise to get my full attention, remember that we get loads of inquiries and soon develop a sense of who is genuine and who just gets a hard-on communicating with a lady of the coinage.

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Hi, nothing wrong in asking to clarify whats available even if it is in my profile, a quick email is fine, but to be honest I don't want to read a song and dance about what you ate for breakfast or the name of your hamster, keep it concise to get my full attention, remember that we get loads of inquiries and soon develop a sense of who is genuine and who just gets a hard-on communicating with a lady of the coinage.

Well said that woman !

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Always start the conversation by asking what colour knickers they are wearing (if any)...this will put them in such a good mood that they usually tend to slam the phone down in 0.5 seconds flat...

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I am sure asking about toys wont offend any wg and it will be on her AW profile if she likes to play with them during a meeting.  Just ask her but the leave the dirty talk to the meeting or Jason Dorello. 

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Thanks for all your replies it's much appreciated.

I've taken the advice of keeping the request brief and polite, referring to her likes list.

She got back quickly saying she'd happily bring along some toys to play with. Wtf was I worried about?! Yay!

Thanks again

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Thanks for all your replies it's much appreciated.

I've taken the advice of keeping the request brief and polite, referring to her likes list.

She got back quickly saying she'd happily bring along some toys to play with. Wtf was I worried about?! Yay!

Thanks again

Good luck and let us know how you get on ;)

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Cheers, it's a couple of weeks away, but yeah I'll let ya know how I get on

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Good luck with it.  Have a good time !

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I'm glad you got it sorted and it sounds like you'll have a great time because I was a bit worried that the advice to say "I have a small request with regards to our meeting, would it be possible to see you play with your toys please?" might just result in being sat around her old train set

Good Luck x

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I'm glad you got it sorted and it sounds like you'll have a great time because I was a bit worried that the advice to say "I have a small request with regards to our meeting, would it be possible to see you play with your toys please?" might just result in being sat around her old train set

Good Luck x

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might just result in being sat around her old train set

Haha well yeah, what did you think I meant? wwf action figures would also be acceptable, as long as she's got ultimate warrior.

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Just drop her a quick email saying something like "I have a small request with regards to our meeting, would it be possible to see you play with your toys please?" 

 

That's nice, polite and straight to the point.

 

Good Luck x

 

But what is the point in asking a WG to masturbate with her toys in advance.That pre-supposes that you are both going to click and that she is genuinely going to feel sexy and turned on ?  If I know that this is one of the things she is going to do, no matter what, just because I have requested it--- it defeats the purpose totally.

 

Now, if during the booking there is a genuine click and she is turned on and she, off her own bat, introduces a toy to heighten her enjoyment while asking you to join in or watch or whatever.......NOW, you're talking. :P 

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But what is the point in asking a WG to masturbate with her toys in advance.That pre-supposes that you are both going to click and that she is genuinely going to feel sexy and turned on ?  If I know that this is one of the things she is going to do, no matter what, just because I have requested it--- it defeats the purpose totally.

 

Now, if during the booking there is a genuine click and she is turned on and she, off her own bat, introduces a toy to heighten her enjoyment while asking you to join in or watch or whatever.......NOW, you're talking. :P 

The point when I asked the wg to bring toys with her was it was an outcall, and I thought if I didn't ask she might not bring anything. In truth I was having such a great time when we met I forgot all about the fact I'd asked - until she produced them during a period of 'down time' - so it was still a fairly spontaneous thing, and a great start to the remainder of the booking :)

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The point when I asked the wg to bring toys with her was it was an outcall, and I thought if I didn't ask she might not bring anything. In truth I was having such a great time when we met I forgot all about the fact I'd asked - until she produced them during a period of 'down time' - so it was still a fairly spontaneous thing, and a great start to the remainder of the booking :)

 

Sounds the business there , lucky guy. :)

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Don't forget, it's pretty unlikely your request will be for something that we haven't heard before - the girl can always say no, although I usually wont if its on my likes list ;)

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Hello, I am a newbie myself. Kind of embarrassed to ask the following questions but I appreciate any help. I'm a Japanese who visits the UK every now and then. I've enjoyed punting here but I'm new to the punting scene in the UK. I kinda racially sensitive so would being Japanese (apperance wise, I have a pretty good North-American English accent) be detrimental. I also enjoy busty girls being from an anime culture. Does anyone recommend an escort service and if so any good places in London? Also I have no permanent phone nor address but only a prepaid phone. I've read that for security reasons, many agencies asks for such things or does "Show me the money" suffice? Sorry for the silly questions. I appreciate any help and or advice!

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A prepaid phone is good enough if you are going to an incall. If you meet her at your hotel then some more detail about the hotel and about you may be needed. Having said that, I have met ladies who knew and trusted me at hotel on nothing else but a phone call.

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Thanks for the friendly advice JKJ. So an outcall might be difficult then?

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Well, the date has come and gone, and unfortunately the meeting didn't happen.

The booking was re-arranged for today, after the lady was absent for the original appointment. Texted as instructed but got no reply, tried phoning but phone went straight to answer. Call not returned, so after the first no-show, I assumed that she wasn't going to turn up, and decided not to waste my time makeing the trip.

A bit disappointing, especially as prior comms from her were great, but maybe my misfortune on this occasion is an omen...

Does this happen a lot? Despite my disappointment, the overriding concern is that the girl is safe and well

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