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Something A Little Different

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There is a certain feeling of 'groundhog day ' to punts. I rarely, if indeed  ever, see the WG conduct the booking with variety.Sure, you can request this or that, but that takes away from it all, makes it all a bit staged , a bit compliant.

 

I'd love for the escort to introduce a bit of variety /unusual into the proceedings without having to be requested . Simple things like  dressing,a striptease,some sexy posing, some lathering of lotion, some unusual tease etc -- just not to have to request it.

 

What time of things are ladies more than happy to do off your own bat ?  ( please, no 'go with the flow' -that drives me bonkers ! ) 

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I remember a bonkers (in a nice way) escort who, after a particularly good blow job, proceeded to gargle "Deutschland Uber Alles" with the end result. It certainly set the mood for what can only be called an off the wall but thoroughly fun punt.

Spontenaity is great. I'd imagine though, that must be hard to maintain for a WG who sees several men a day.

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Grrrrr! 

We are not mind readers! It's really hard to suddenly do something random with a new client whose tastes you do not know! Many clients are very specific about what they like in their heads and have reasons for not wanting certain things,  I've had clients who don't want a blow job (not many!). Some men want you stripped straight away, some prefer sex clothed with skirt hitched up and knickers pulled aside so stripping for someone might disappoint them! 

 

I have had clients I know well where I have initiated (very subtly) anal play- some are NO fucking way and others enjoy it and go with it, but it does make me feel a bit weird/bad when someone has stopped me doing something because I don't want them to think I am perusing my own agenda. As is so often said on here it's YOUR booking! 

 

I once tried perking things up with a regular by taking him into the bathroom to fuck me over the sink in front of the mirror and he got all 'Oh no! I can't look at myself, this is weird!' on me which kind of ruined the moment! Of course, other men would find this very hot. 

 

We really can't win- an escort an enthusiastic blowjob and men moan she is only trying to make them come fast and leave, go for the slow and teasing build up to a blowie and they think you're not enthused or don't want to take the cock right in your mouth. 

 

I appreciate your need for surprises and variety, but unless you have a regular woman and you have discussed possible things you'd like to see or try you might find it hard to find a spontaneous booking, 

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Pretty much what Lydia says really.How are we to know whether the 'unusual way of teasing' is new to you or not.Most of us have our own styles but when it's a new client we have no idea what he really likes unless he gives us a clue.

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I remember a bonkers (in a nice way) escort who, after a particularly good blow job, proceeded to gargle "Deutschland Uber Alles" with the end result. It certainly set the mood for what can only be called an off the wall but thoroughly fun punt.

Spontenaity is great. I'd imagine though, that must be hard to maintain for a WG who sees several men a day.

 

Doesn't need top be spontaneous at all-- the WG can pre-plan her different routines from day/day or week/week. Just something different for the client.

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Grrrrr! 

We are not mind readers! It's really hard to suddenly do something random with a new client whose tastes you do not know! Many clients are very specific about what they like in their heads and have reasons for not wanting certain things,  I've had clients who don't want a blow job (not many!). Some men want you stripped straight away, some prefer sex clothed with skirt hitched up and knickers pulled aside so stripping for someone might disappoint them! 

 

I have had clients I know well where I have initiated (very subtly) anal play- some are NO fucking way and others enjoy it and go with it, but it does make me feel a bit weird/bad when someone has stopped me doing something because I don't want them to think I am perusing my own agenda. As is so often said on here it's YOUR booking! 

 

I once tried perking things up with a regular by taking him into the bathroom to fuck me over the sink in front of the mirror and he got all 'Oh no! I can't look at myself, this is weird!' on me which kind of ruined the moment! Of course, other men would find this very hot. 

 

We really can't win- an escort an enthusiastic blowjob and men moan she is only trying to make them come fast and leave, go for the slow and teasing build up to a blowie and they think you're not enthused or don't want to take the cock right in your mouth. 

 

I appreciate your need for surprises and variety, but unless you have a regular woman and you have discussed possible things you'd like to see or try you might find it hard to find a spontaneous booking, 

 

C'mon. How many guys out of 100 would (1) re-act like that and (2) alsocause the booking to be ruined as a result of such an invitation ? All he has to say is " I'd prefer to do such and such."

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Pretty much what Lydia says really.How are we to know whether the 'unusual way of teasing' is new to you or not.Most of us have our own styles but when it's a new client we have no idea what he really likes unless he gives us a clue.

 You're not cooking a meal for him !  Show me a guy who hates striptease,use of a mirror, sexy poses--- come forth guys if you do.

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C'mon. How many guys out of 100 would (1) re-act like that and (2) alsocause the booking to be ruined as a result of such an invitation ? All he has to say is " I'd prefer to do such and such."

Perhaps you'd like to stop mansplaining what and how you think escorts work and what we have to put up with! 

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You're not cooking a meal for him !  Show me a guy who hates striptease,use of a mirror, sexy poses--- come forth guys if you do.

I reckon that for every one stud that would love to bonk in front of a mirror there are two that would hate it.

I do agree with some of what you say though. It's easy for a girl to slip into complacency if she's not careful particularly with regulars and if you have spent time with a guy you should be able to read their body language and work out roughly what they are going to like and even what's likely to turn them off.

I bit a guys butt the other day, it was totally out of the blue and completely unexpected by him but it worked, took him right over the edge instantly. (was not a paid scenario by the way).

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I blindfolded and clingfilmed a young man today..... then teased him with the nutcrackers..............

 

Don't believe me?

 

I just uploaded the photos.................................

 

:eek:  :P

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I blindfolded and clingfilmed a young man today..... then teased him with the nutcrackers..............

 

Don't believe me?

 

I just uploaded the photos.................................

 

:eek:  :P

But I am assuming he wasn't a new client that booked a GFE?!

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But I am assuming he wasn't a new client that booked a GFE?!

You assume correctly,  He is a sub and I like to vary things....... he gives me free range  to do as I want.

 

On a more serious note though........ coming up with novel ideas or surprises for regular clients is not as easy as it would seem..... a lot of guys like to stick with what they feel safe and comfortable with...... and as for the mirror thing...... I have clients who just hate to see themselves in action.

 

Sometimes it is the man who does the surprising.........................  "fondly remembers nettle man"

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I blindfolded and clingfilmed a young man today..... then teased him with the nutcrackers..............

 

Don't believe me?

 

I just uploaded the photos.................................

 

:eek:  :P

Where? I wish to view them!! :P

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We are all different but there are many ways to play :)  One of my favorite teases is at the restaurant, when I go to the ladies room, take my knickers off and go back to my seat and give them discretely to the gentleman. Surprising but very efficient ! Or, teasing in an unusual place, a lift, the train station, the taxi... Naughty me ! :D

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You're not cooking a meal for him !  Show me a guy who hates striptease,use of a mirror, sexy poses--- come forth guys if you do.

How many men have you shagged that are paying for it?You also seem to think that what you might find abit boring or done to death others do as well.I don't think my bookings are too routine but if I don't know someone I will go down the tried and tested route.Wasn't it you that had a go about a w.g that said something was tickly?I would say that was abit different but no that bit of 'spontaneous'behaviour did not go down well with you,you left.

Punting/selling sex is abit like cooking actually.You try and put the right ingrediants together to make something tasty...then you get the guys that whatever you do it isn't quite right and they then expect you to try and make a souffle without a recipe.

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Perhaps you'd like to stop mansplaining what and how you think escorts work and what we have to put up with! 

 

Ha, mansplaining. I like that !  :P

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I reckon that for every one stud that would love to bonk in front of a mirror there are two that would hate it.

I do agree with some of what you say though. It's easy for a girl to slip into complacency if she's not careful particularly with regulars and if you have spent time with a guy you should be able to read their body language and work out roughly what they are going to like and even what's likely to turn them off.

I bit a guys butt the other day, it was totally out of the blue and completely unexpected by him but it worked, took him right over the edge instantly. (was not a paid scenario by the way).

 

I'm a STUD --- yeesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss !!  :D

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How many men have you shagged that are paying for it?You also seem to think that what you might find abit boring or done to death others do as well.I don't think my bookings are too routine but if I don't know someone I will go down the tried and tested route.Wasn't it you that had a go about a w.g that said something was tickly?I would say that was abit different but no that bit of 'spontaneous'behaviour did not go down well with you,you left.

Punting/selling sex is abit like cooking actually.You try and put the right ingrediants together to make something tasty...then you get the guys that whatever you do it isn't quite right and they then expect you to try and make a souffle without a recipe.

 

 

Sometimes a few chilly flakes can spice things up !  Now, souffle is a difficult one !  :D

 

And no, the tickly bit was only the straw that ............................... !

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How many men have you shagged that are paying for it?You also seem to think that what you might find abit boring or done to death others do as well.I don't think my bookings are too routine but if I don't know someone I will go down the tried and tested route.Wasn't it you that had a go about a w.g that said something was tickly?I would say that was abit different but no that bit of 'spontaneous'behaviour did not go down well with you,you left.

Punting/selling sex is abit like cooking actually.You try and put the right ingrediants together to make something tasty...then you get the guys that whatever you do it isn't quite right and they then expect you to try and make a souffle without a recipe.

you can't make an omelette, without breaking a few eggs either!

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I find the best punts are with the wgs that are a bit crazy.They really do it for me!

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If you are seeing a lady regularly. I think she will get to know your taste and it is quite easy for her to suggest would you like to try, or I have an idea. That was how I was introduced to prostrate massage by a lady saying would you like to try.

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Hmmm, I usually find myself agreeing with the good sense we get from the SPs on here and of course bowing to their incontrovertible experience.

 

I think we can only be talking about regulars here as the grateful one mentions - utterly impractical to expect or want a first-time meeting to go a completely different way from the norm although I suppose no great reason for little things to be introduced where early indications suggest the punter is likely to be OK with it, as mentioned with anal play and a nibble on a butt.

 

I am surprised at the comment that more punters dislike performing in front of a mirror than like - so many rooms have mirrors carefully placed for self-viewing which would surely be removed if punters were complaining about them.

 

I was also surprised at my most recent punt with an off and on regular when she suggested going into the garage for our session. Dust, bric a brac, windows... But as it was her idea and she said it was making her horny to think about it, I went along with it happily. It was only when I was reminded on my short 'What Can You Get away With' thread that cameras on phones are ubiquitous now that I started to fret on what sites (and police stations) I might be being stared at...

I think I would like to the idea that an SP was up for doing something a bit different, it just shows an imaginative side to her character that probably makes fora more interesting time but I also see that some SPs find they cope themselves or achieve the most likely satisfaction for their punters if they keep to a pretty set routine.

 

As said earlier - SPs can't really win because for every 10 happy punters,it's the 11th one who will complain - and whine on her feedback, whine on here and whine on reviews on this and other sites...

 

It's certainly one of the things that has stopped me dipping a toe into the world of being an SP.

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We are all different but there are many ways to play :)  One of my favorite teases is at the restaurant, when I go to the ladies room, take my knickers off and go back to my seat and give them discretely to the gentleman. Surprising but very efficient ! Or, teasing in an unusual place, a lift, the train station, the taxi... Naughty me ! :D

 Simple but very effective !  :P

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You assume correctly,  He is a sub and I like to vary things....... he gives me free range  to do as I want.

 

On a more serious note though........ coming up with novel ideas or surprises for regular clients is not as easy as it would seem..... a lot of guys like to stick with what they feel safe and comfortable with...... and as for the mirror thing...... I have clients who just hate to see themselves in action.

 

Sometimes it is the man who does the surprising.........................  "fondly remembers nettle man"

 

Ok, although the thread is about relieving the client of this function, what type of things/activities do you ladies like to see or are open to seeing the client introduce into the booking ?

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I find the best punts are with the wgs that are a bit crazy.They really do it for me!

 

 

As in they do what ??? 

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