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Some of you may recall I wrote a thread about enforced retirement due to prostate cancer and dealing with the fact afterwards that I was left with no natural sensations as the surgeon could not spare the nerves during removal.

 

I was prescribed Viagra and had a very nice punt to test it out, but it was as I expected futile in the intercourse area, although it was nice to have sexual interaction of any kind.

 

So I took the next step and purchased a penis pump. Although i was eligible for one on prescription to keep the thing discreet I ordered it privately after some research - the Rapport premier pump available from a company called Owen Mumford. This one looked a bit less industrial than some. I used a friendly wg as the delivery address and after reading the instructions online turned up by arrangement at her place one day to test it.

 

Now these things are not the easiest to use at first. they have a selection of rings that have to be fitted onto the pump before using lube. You present the penis head to the ring opening and begin to pump to pull the penis through into the suction tube. There is a sizing device to help you select the right ring but I couldn't decide using it, so started with the default ring size recommended. I was enjoying the company of the lady friend at the time and she reacted well to it, very positive and helpful she was, although she wants to stay anonymous. So when I successfully pumped myself up she looked very hopeful but after a few minutes I had gone soft again, and at that point I hadn't understood that it was Ok to put the cock back in the pump and re-inflate so to speak. So at that point we decided to break and I would go away and learn how to use it properly.

 

This process took me quite a few weeks, as I could only use the device when my missus was out, I finished up working up the ring numbers going to smaller apertures in order to maintain the erection - starting at no3 I finished using no 6 which has a significantly smaller opening and to be honest had I started out with that ring size i would have been thinking my cock will never go through that. So one ring size at a time until I found the right one that would hold the erection enabled me to practice all aspects of using the pump including repumping which I found was allowed. So after a few repeats with the right ring I was ready to go, and last week organised another visit to the same lady. We started with extended foreplay and then when I was ready we had to break to use the pump but with practice I have got the preparation time down to a few minutes only, so quite quickly I was ready and the fun began.

 

Well everything was going to be new. When the lady began to suck me it felt like heaven but I was unbelieveably sensitive - five months with no cock sucking and the nerve endings have already forgotten how it feels and I wondered if I would get to sex, but the lady decided she would fit me a condom and we tried intercourse with her on top. However i had gone very slightly soft, and when you realise that although the head will be very hard, the base of the penis where the ring is constricts the cock so it bends, its harder to do some positions. Anyway i decided I would pump myself up a bit with the condom in place, which is possible, and then I was hard enough for a doggy penetration.

 

You can't imagine how it felt, after believeing that I had probably had my last round of sex 5 months previously. I was a bit anxious and so pumped a bit harder from the off than I would have done before, as i was a bit panicky wondering how much time I had before the stiffness might be lost. And overall there is a recommended 30 minute limit with the ring on to consider, so I wanted to finish as I also need about 10 minutes to deflate the cock afterwards! So I pumped and pumped and after a while that familiar feeling started to return, but quite slowly so I felt able to slow down and actually stroke and fondle my partner a bit, which I would usually do. Then with more pumpng the feelings got stronger and I eventually reached a good climax, not the strongest but quite long duration. To say I was happy about that, well, I was a happy bunny indeed. I had worried about discomfort due to the ring pressure but there wasn't any,

 

Now, unlike a normal climax, the cock does not go soft unless the ring is removed. I will no doubt experiment in the future with the sensation of oral post-climax but on this occasion having done the deed I just wanted to deflate, which is a procedure all of its own. You have to squeeze the penis to push the blood back out, so that the size will decrease enought to get the ring back off. I remember the first time wondering if I would finish up in casualty but eventually the ring comes off easily enogh and thats not painful either.

 

Now my temporary partner who is one of the mature ladies sees mature men and many cannot get full erections. It takes practice but anyone that really enjoys penetration as I do can with time and patience learn to work one of these pumps and restore their sex life. I think she will be discussing pumps with some of them.

 

For me, the next step will be seeing a new girl, for me to understand what I need to say to a girl that hasn't met me before and may never have met a pump user either. I also have thoughts about longer sessions, as the penis is supposed to be left for an hour between inflations, and that makes a 2-hour appointment a bit tricky on time. I also have the thought that the penis is hard enough, so I migth be able to try an anal penetration too. Having things to look forward to again is another nice thing in itself.

 

I hope I havn't bored anyone with this. I hope this post will find its way to people who are in a similar situation to myself, to know there is a way forward. And thanks again to ms anonymous...

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Not at all boring but fascinating on many levels. We men are all "anoracks" at heart and I for one was fascinated by the technical details.

On another level, your determination to say "screw you!" to your disease is an inspiration. I hope I have a tenth of you perseverance if I ever get struck by cancer.

And finally it does us all proud that even in the face of all obstacles, you still wanted sex and went for it. Whoever the working girl was, she too deserves a medal.

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That was a life affirming post, OEP. Firstly, I am delighted to hear that you have made a full recovery from prostate cancer (at least, that is what I understood from your post).

 

Secondly, it is great that you have found a sympathetic player who has given you so much physical and moral support. I guess we shall never learn her identity but she is to be congratulated on being so understanding.

 

Good luck with your future adventures and thank you for the enlightening account of your experiences with your pump (perhaps that is now your "new best friend")?

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Recently I had a visitor who I had not seen for some time and he had gone through a similar operation.... rendering him unable to achieve an erection.

 

He brought with him a pump as described by the OP.  I had not seen one (other than in the Austin Powers movie!) and was quite fascinated.

 

It took a few maneuvers to get it all set up What surprised me most was the speed at which it worked!  It was almost instant!

 

Damn good invention if you ask me! 

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 .......

 

For me, the next step will be seeing a new girl, for me to understand what I need to say to a girl that hasn't met me before and may never have met a pump user either. I also have thoughts about longer sessions, as the penis is supposed to be left for an hour between inflations, and that makes a 2-hour appointment a bit tricky on time. I also have the thought that the penis is hard enough, so I migth be able to try an anal penetration too. Having things to look forward to again is another nice thing in itself.

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I have used a similar pump with about a dozen SPs, and none of them have been at all concerned about it.  About half had seen one before.  All have been quite interested, some have been fascinated, and the first one was so excited she immediately grabbed the handle (in situ) and started pumping frantically. (Not something you'd want to encourage.)

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I have used a similar pump with about a dozen SPs, and none of them have been at all concerned about it.  About half had seen one before.  All have been quite interested, some have been fascinated, and the first one was so excited she immediately grabbed the handle (in situ) and started pumping frantically. (Not something you'd want to encourage.)

Not if they don't have an automatic pressure control.

 

I know i'm not the first by a long way but I thought I would add to the public domain material on the subject

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Good to hear from from OEP...now wishing you great times ahead!!!

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Very interesting OEP & admire your determination.  I'm also being treated for prostate cancer but it sounds as if you had surgery whereas I had radiotherapy & am continuing with hormone therapy.  Viagra etc work for me although there's sometimes psychology at play preventing me from getting a good erection.  Never a problem on my own!  I use a pump every morning purely to exercise my dick and keep the erectile tissue healthy.  This was at my request after reading about it and it was on a free prescription.  I have not tried using the rings yet as it scares me a bit - what if I can't get it off and will it hurt? 

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That was a lovely post. Thank you for sharing.

 

I had a client last year who bought a pump along. I was quite amazed that he got it (and various other treatments) on the NHS to wort out his ED after cancer.  I was fascinated by his story and his pump.

 

One of the things I love about this job is learning new things and feeling like actually we (escorts) do make a positive difference to some people's lives and not just as a hole to fuck. 

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That was a lovely post. Thank you for sharing.

 

I had a client last year who bought a pump along. I was quite amazed that he got it (and various other treatments) on the NHS to wort out his ED after cancer.  I was fascinated by his story and his pump.

 

One of the things I love about this job is learning new things and feeling like actually we (escorts) do make a positive difference to some people's lives and not just as a hole to fuck. 

What a lovely attitude to all this, Lydia.  If only the general public could see it this way instead thinking it's sordid, sleezy, disgusting, immoral................

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One of the things I love about this job is learning new things and feeling like actually we (escorts) do make a positive difference to some people's lives and not just as a hole to fuck. 

 

 

You certainly should never think of yourself as 'just a hole to fuck'. I have to say, that before I started punting, I was very uptight, anxious and shy around women. But over a wide variety of punts - some bad, some amazing - I gradually became very relaxed around women in 'normal' life. I didn't feel under pressure to try to 'chat them up', spouting some nonsensical bullshit in a vain and transparent attempt to get them into bed and have sex. Punting, and some wonderful ladies like yourself, gave me satisfaction, a more relaxed demeanour, and I gradually grew more confident generally, in my work life, and around women.

I am active on the punting scene no more.

I have a wonderful girlfriend now, who actually asked me out, because - she says - she liked the fact that I never overtly 'came onto her', but signalled my interest through being attentive, listening to her, and looking her directly in the eye. In short, none of the things I was confident enough to do in pre-punting life !!

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Some of you may recall I wrote a thread about enforced retirement due to prostate cancer and dealing with the fact afterwards that I was left with no natural sensations as the surgeon could not spare the nerves during removal.

 

I was prescribed Viagra and had a very nice punt to test it out, but it was as I expected futile in the intercourse area, although it was nice to have sexual interaction of any kind.

 

So I took the next step and purchased a penis pump. Although i was eligible for one on prescription to keep the thing discreet I ordered it privately after some research - the Rapport premier pump available from a company called Owen Mumford. This one looked a bit less industrial than some. I used a friendly wg as the delivery address and after reading the instructions online turned up by arrangement at her place one day to test it.

 

Now these things are not the easiest to use at first. they have a selection of rings that have to be fitted onto the pump before using lube. You present the penis head to the ring opening and begin to pump to pull the penis through into the suction tube. There is a sizing device to help you select the right ring but I couldn't decide using it, so started with the default ring size recommended. I was enjoying the company of the lady friend at the time and she reacted well to it, very positive and helpful she was, although she wants to stay anonymous. So when I successfully pumped myself up she looked very hopeful but after a few minutes I had gone soft again, and at that point I hadn't understood that it was Ok to put the cock back in the pump and re-inflate so to speak. So at that point we decided to break and I would go away and learn how to use it properly.

 

This process took me quite a few weeks, as I could only use the device when my missus was out, I finished up working up the ring numbers going to smaller apertures in order to maintain the erection - starting at no3 I finished using no 6 which has a significantly smaller opening and to be honest had I started out with that ring size i would have been thinking my cock will never go through that. So one ring size at a time until I found the right one that would hold the erection enabled me to practice all aspects of using the pump including repumping which I found was allowed. So after a few repeats with the right ring I was ready to go, and last week organised another visit to the same lady. We started with extended foreplay and then when I was ready we had to break to use the pump but with practice I have got the preparation time down to a few minutes only, so quite quickly I was ready and the fun began.

 

Well everything was going to be new. When the lady began to suck me it felt like heaven but I was unbelieveably sensitive - five months with no cock sucking and the nerve endings have already forgotten how it feels and I wondered if I would get to sex, but the lady decided she would fit me a condom and we tried intercourse with her on top. However i had gone very slightly soft, and when you realise that although the head will be very hard, the base of the penis where the ring is constricts the cock so it bends, its harder to do some positions. Anyway i decided I would pump myself up a bit with the condom in place, which is possible, and then I was hard enough for a doggy penetration.

 

You can't imagine how it felt, after believeing that I had probably had my last round of sex 5 months previously. I was a bit anxious and so pumped a bit harder from the off than I would have done before, as i was a bit panicky wondering how much time I had before the stiffness might be lost. And overall there is a recommended 30 minute limit with the ring on to consider, so I wanted to finish as I also need about 10 minutes to deflate the cock afterwards! So I pumped and pumped and after a while that familiar feeling started to return, but quite slowly so I felt able to slow down and actually stroke and fondle my partner a bit, which I would usually do. Then with more pumpng the feelings got stronger and I eventually reached a good climax, not the strongest but quite long duration. To say I was happy about that, well, I was a happy bunny indeed. I had worried about discomfort due to the ring pressure but there wasn't any,

 

Now, unlike a normal climax, the cock does not go soft unless the ring is removed. I will no doubt experiment in the future with the sensation of oral post-climax but on this occasion having done the deed I just wanted to deflate, which is a procedure all of its own. You have to squeeze the penis to push the blood back out, so that the size will decrease enought to get the ring back off. I remember the first time wondering if I would finish up in casualty but eventually the ring comes off easily enogh and thats not painful either.

 

Now my temporary partner who is one of the mature ladies sees mature men and many cannot get full erections. It takes practice but anyone that really enjoys penetration as I do can with time and patience learn to work one of these pumps and restore their sex life. I think she will be discussing pumps with some of them.

 

For me, the next step will be seeing a new girl, for me to understand what I need to say to a girl that hasn't met me before and may never have met a pump user either. I also have thoughts about longer sessions, as the penis is supposed to be left for an hour between inflations, and that makes a 2-hour appointment a bit tricky on time. I also have the thought that the penis is hard enough, so I migth be able to try an anal penetration too. Having things to look forward to again is another nice thing in itself.

 

I hope I havn't bored anyone with this. I hope this post will find its way to people who are in a similar situation to myself, to know there is a way forward. And thanks again to ms anonymous...

OEP, you may be surprised just how many of us have encountered gentlemen with pumps.  There are quite a few different ones and some are really faffy and time consuming and some are much better.  Glad you are back in swing.

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You certainly should never think of yourself as 'just a hole to fuck'. I have to say, that before I started punting, I was very uptight, anxious and shy around women. But over a wide variety of punts - some bad, some amazing - I gradually became very relaxed around women in 'normal' life. I didn't feel under pressure to try to 'chat them up', spouting some nonsensical bullshit in a vain and transparent attempt to get them into bed and have sex. Punting, and some wonderful ladies like yourself, gave me satisfaction, a more relaxed demeanour, and I gradually grew more confident generally, in my work life, and around women.

I am active on the punting scene no more.

I have a wonderful girlfriend now, who actually asked me out, because - she says - she liked the fact that I never overtly 'came onto her', but signalled my interest through being attentive, listening to her, and looking her directly in the eye. In short, none of the things I was confident enough to do in pre-punting life !!

Thats good. I have benefitted from the same relaxed approach on quite a few occasions :D

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I have a wonderful girlfriend now, who actually asked me out, because - she says - she liked the fact that I never overtly 'came onto her', but signalled my interest through being attentive, listening to her, and looking her directly in the eye. In short, none of the things I was confident enough to do in pre-punting life !!

 

Nah, that stuff doesnt work either ! :D

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Hi OEP,

 

Pleased to hear things are improving and I sincerely hope all continues to go well.

 

Regards,

 

David

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