Pie Eater

Escort's Behaviour Has Put Me Off

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I had an experience about three months ago which has left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth and put me off this past time for the foreseeable future.

I arranged an hour's meeting with what I thought was a decent agency. She turned up just over an hour late and was clearly smashed. Not to the extent that she didn't know what she was doing but she was quite incoherent at times so I felt uncomfortable from the off. Unfortunately I lacked the balls to say I had changed my mind.

After some "conversation" she told me to go and wait upstairs. I could then hear her snorting coke in my kitchen. I should have kicked her out there and then but I didn't and I don't really know why. I can assure you It was nothing to do with thinking with my penis as I had lost all interest by this time. We then proceeded to have a very awkward and uncomfortable hour where I just kept wondering what I was doing.

This is the only bad experience I have had and it was bound to happen sooner or later but it has put me off. Not really sure if to have a long term hiatus or just get back on the horse so to speak.

How would other people have dealt with this situation and would be your attitude now?

Thanks.

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I think the circumstances you descibe would be unfortunate anywhere - but for her to act in this way in your own home is absolutely disgraceful. Knowing you Pie Eater I know you would not want to have been harsh on her - but I full well understand why it has put you off your stride.

The problem is if she was out of it and not acting rationally and you tossed her out you cannot predict how she would of reacted so i kind of understand with this being in your home why you would not do this - in the circumstances maybe i would not of done so either. Nevertheless I think the next day you should have complained to the agency in the strongest possible terms and even if it was 3 months ago I still think you should do so now. They should be concerned because if nothing else they have lost your business for the last 3 months and maybe even forever.

I hope you get over the incident though Pie Eater.

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Kicked her out on the spot as soon as drugs were used or suspected. I'm a bit prudish like that. Lots of escorts will not accept drunken or drugged up clients as the situation could spiral out of control. Same difference with an off her face escort.

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To the OP

 

Is there a particular reason you are bringing this up now.... 3 months after the event? Are you thinking of resuming punting but still not sure?

 

I find that a little odd to be honest........what are the chances of this kind of thing happening again?   First of all the sensible thing to do would have been to refuse the appointment if she was an hour late!  What you describe makes you sound feeble and your money should have been kept snugly in your wallet!  

 

Having said the above.... it may have worried you to refuse her.... a driver outside?  an agency blacklisting you? a drugged up wg venting her anger?  or worse? but you mention none of those on here.

 

As long as men accept shit people and service then those shit people will continue cheating decent men.... because that was she was... her agency too if they knew her at all.... cheats.

 

Is she still on the agency books?  Do they know what happened that night?

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She told you to go and wait upstairs, in your home... And then proceeded to use illicit drugs! What a grotbag! You definitely should've told the agency. Fair enough if she's a recreational substance abuser in her own time, but that behaviour whilst charging people to spend time with you is completely unacceptable; unless of course it is agreed upon in advance, which in this case it obviously wasn't. Do not let this incident put you off. To turn it into a distant memory you need to get back in the saddle, so to speak, and have a positive experience. As an escort if I've had a not so good experience with a client it always feels better, and restores my faith in gentleman, after a nice one.

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I think if you let that be your last experience, it'll be a shame. That sounds like a pretty horrendous punt - far worse than just a shit service or a bait and switch - so I'd say you'd have to be the unluckiest fucker in the world for that to happen again. So basically, your next punt can only be better than the last one!

 

If nothing else, have another punt just to take your mind over it. Never retire on a bad punt.

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Avoid that agency next time and pick a woman or at least an agency who has been recommended on here or highly reviewed.

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Sorry to hear this has happened to you. I agree with the comments about not leaving it with such a negative experience, how about booking someone you know you've had a good experience with previously?

I can understand the reasons for not wanting to, but at the very least the agency should be informed. I can also understand why you may not want to, but if it had happened to me, I'd also seriously consider naming the wg involved to prevent a similar thing happening to other punters. That could depend upon how the agency reacted.

If it happened as you describe, it is beyond unacceptable behaviour. Her arriving off her face on drugs is one issue, actually using drugs in your home is shockingly bad.

Hopefully, you'll get back in the saddle and get yourself a positive experience sooner rather than later, good luck.

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mmm, outcall agencies do attract a "different sort" to be honest. The girls with drug or drink issues too big for them to be able to work in a parlour usually turn to the outcall agencies. The scammers too, one girl I knew in my very distant past even did a runner leaving her bag and everything behind. She went through the pockets in his wardrobe and found a wad of £800 and did the 100 mtr dash out his back door and over his garden fence while he was in the other room. Driver sat outside clueless, client clueless…till he went back into the bedroom. Cant remember her name it was so long ago now.

 

Of course not all outcall girls are like this but Ive met some proper nutters working for an outcall agency years ago lo...

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I don't think I'd ever invite someone into my own home I didn't already know or who was very reliably vouched for. And I'd say the same about hotel bookings, frankly.

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Agreed it is upsetting you had that experience.

 

The other side is that there are no doubt a great many grotbag punters who might well risk turning SPs into quivering wrecks.

 

I wouldn't want to be letting drunk, drugged, smelly, offensive men (or women) be hugely intimate with me with his tongue, hands, fingers, cock.

 

Goodness knows how doing that regularly would affect my lifestyle behaviour.

 

One paying, one charging doesn't change that entirely.

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I had an experience about three months ago which has left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth .................................... just get back on the 'horse' so to speak.

How would other people have dealt with this situation and would be your attitude now?

Thanks.

Are these puns intended?

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Pie Eater, this is a rotten experience but thankfully a very rare one.  You're kicking yourself for not stopping the booking earlier on and most people would feel the same.  You've been a good guy and shown great patience in this situation.

 

If this booking was via a reputable agency, an option would've been to call them and explain why you couldn't proceed with the booking.  They would hopefully then speak to the girl and make her exit at least slightly easier.

 

Please don't be put off; there really are plenty of genuinely lovely SP's available.  You did say that this was the only bad experience you've had, so hopefully the next good one is not far away.

 

If you have time, please write a review to save others the risk of a similar unpleasantness.

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I don't think I'd ever invite someone into my own home I didn't already know or who was very reliably vouched for. And I'd say the same about hotel bookings, frankly.

Is that hotel incall or outcall ?

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I booked an asian lady some years ago to a hotel outcall. It was late, say 12.00 midinght and she arrived a bit giggly and sozzelled. She made me promise not to tell the agency that she had been drinking. I agreed and we went ahead. It was an enjoyable booking, but the only one I ever remember the lady being intoxicated to any degree.... well at least at the start of the booking.

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I had an experience about three months ago which has left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth and put me off this past time for the foreseeable future.

I arranged an hour's meeting with what I thought was a decent agency. She turned up just over an hour late and was clearly smashed. Not to the extent that she didn't know what she was doing but she was quite incoherent at times so I felt uncomfortable from the off. Unfortunately I lacked the balls to say I had changed my mind.

After some "conversation" she told me to go and wait upstairs. I could then hear her snorting coke in my kitchen. I should have kicked her out there and then but I didn't and I don't really know why. I can assure you It was nothing to do with thinking with my penis as I had lost all interest by this time. We then proceeded to have a very awkward and uncomfortable hour where I just kept wondering what I was doing.

This is the only bad experience I have had and it was bound to happen sooner or later but it has put me off. Not really sure if to have a long term hiatus or just get back on the horse so to speak.

How would other people have dealt with this situation and would be your attitude now?

Thanks.

First things first, you should have reported the salient facts to the agency at the first opportunity

 

Second things second, you should write a review to save any other punter having to endure what you endured

 

Third things third,  find another agency and put this bad experience where it belongs.

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I would have kicked her out

i hate drug users with a passion and its totally disrespectful to the client !

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its really rude to rack up in someones house and not offer them a line...

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I have got a shot gun for shooting pheasants offcourse!  I expect I would have come down the stairs with that in my hand and I wouldn't have needed to say much as I guess she would have been out of the door like a shot!

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mmm, outcall agencies do attract a "different sort" to be honest. The girls with drug or drink issues too big for them to be able to work in a parlour usually turn to the outcall agencies. The scammers too, one girl I knew in my very distant past even did a runner leaving her bag and everything behind. She went through the pockets in his wardrobe and found a wad of £800 and did the 100 mtr dash out his back door and over his garden fence while he was in the other room. Driver sat outside clueless, client clueless…till he went back into the bedroom. Cant remember her name it was so long ago now.

 

Of course not all outcall girls are like this but Ive met some proper nutters working for an outcall agency years ago lo...

Absolute garbage.  Why is it that the 'parlour girl' always says shit like this about  agency call out girls.  I have never heard of anything like this happen in Leeds.  There are some cracking agencies here and lots of EE incalls who kick the guy out after he has cum regardless of how much time he paid for.

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its really rude to rack up in someones house and not offer them a line...

Absolutely :)

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I would have kicked her out

i hate drug users with a passion and its totally disrespectful to the client !

I find it hard to believe tbh.  The girl was there to make money not spend it.  I think he is making it up

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dunno alot  of girls arw so hooked on drugs in this game i have seen it first hand x

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dunno alot  of girls arw so hooked on drugs in this game i have seen it first hand x

 

I have never been aware of a girl being on drugs when I have met them. Maybe they just make sure they have the drugs available for after my booking ! :eek:

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I had an experience about three months ago which has left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth and put me off this past time for the foreseeable future.

I arranged an hour's meeting with what I thought was a decent agency. She turned up just over an hour late and was clearly smashed. Not to the extent that she didn't know what she was doing but she was quite incoherent at times so I felt uncomfortable from the off. Unfortunately I lacked the balls to say I had changed my mind.

After some "conversation" she told me to go and wait upstairs. I could then hear her snorting coke in my kitchen. I should have kicked her out there and then but I didn't and I don't really know why. I can assure you It was nothing to do with thinking with my penis as I had lost all interest by this time. We then proceeded to have a very awkward and uncomfortable hour where I just kept wondering what I was doing.

This is the only bad experience I have had and it was bound to happen sooner or later but it has put me off. Not really sure if to have a long term hiatus or just get back on the horse so to speak.

How would other people have dealt with this situation and would be your attitude now?

Thanks.

That is completely disgraceful and unprofessional of her to first be late, be drunk and worst of all be blatantly taking drugs in your own home.

Can understand why it would put you off, just like some of us WGs have really bad experiences and it puts us off. But don't let one silly unprofessional WG ruin it for you.

Just maybe be very careful with who you choose and go on gut instinct.

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