solentmag

No Fool Like An Old Fool, Part 2

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On 29/4/14, I posted on the forum that I had a disaster booking which left me upset. I had always prided myself on my masculinity and felt it disappeared on that occasion with my pride and libido.

 
I was encouraged to try again and I have. Probably should have left it a couple of months longer and thought it may be a bit too early but it was driving me mad not knowing if I could consummate again, so it had to be now. This is what happened and I hope I am not too salacious and colourful but its written by a strong and proud Geordie (in exile), the way it was and from the heart. 
 
Thanks to those on this forum and by PM who gave me real advice and encouragement but then state the disappointment with the WG who wrote to me, kindly at first and then later destroyed me even further - I will write about her at a later date (still don't know how and what to say about what was said to me and via her blog- really bad and don't who the hell she thinks she is). 
 
However, one of you decent WG's PM'ed and suggested this for me:
* Change and choose a woman and nearer my age - I did, 45 and physically did not feel unattractive in front of her and had more in common.
* Inform the woman of what had happened - I did and she knew what to expect. She was great and allowed me to email and phone, allowed me to warm to her and to try and get to know her a little. Not Facebook mind! 
* Be economical with what you say about your personal circumstances -Tried my best but I do go on and she still got my life story. I shut up when she was asleep and snoring though.
* Don't put pressure on yourself - I cleared my head and was relaxed. Difficult for me though.   
* Take the day off work - I did and didn't have aeroplanes dropping out of the sky because I wasn't there. Kids at school and put the other three, not at home, out of my mind. Had a 11.00 appointment and was fresh. Time for "me time".
* Leave yourself plenty time - Hour early, parked up and went for The Walk of Anticipation.  
* Get suited and booted - I did and look ok for an old man.
* Have a two hour booking - I did so and had plenty of time to get myself going. I was ready though as I went through the door. I was in her pants and she was in my wallet, metaphorically speaking,  the second the door closed.  
* Please yourself and don't try to please the woman - I did please myself but I think she had a good time too.
* See the doctor - I did and prescribed a change to my diabetes medication, a course testosterone replacement and Viagra. Still
loosing weight at the rate of a pound a month. Attending diabetic clinic once a month. Still felt I could't tell my doctor everything. She knows I am on my own and told her of my need for an erection but not of my need for a woman. I didn't want her to pass judgement on me having sexual intercourse with a stranger - stresses me just writing that. 
Most of all though, enjoy yourself and have some fun with the woman - I did. Even had a cup of tea and a sandwich half way through as well because she wanted her lunch! Bizarre but I enjoyed fiddling her as she tried to butter the bread and then enjoyed eating the finished sandwich too!  Mad.
 
She was very womanly to me and I was, grateful to say, very manly to her! Pure lust but I was still very respectful. Viagra was great for my penis but great for my confidence too.  A bit of an odd couple, me 6'5" and she 5'2" but she made sure that I didn't miss out on anything. Had a massive bean bag type thing, almost the size of an armchair, which made easy to explore her. I had only been with one WG and this second woman was friendly,  fun, warm, emphatic and actually had great people skills, a little quirky with a great cheeky sense of humour and of course, very sexually exciting.   
    
I was with her for three hours in end. Put it like this, I knew I had been with a woman. Worth every penny.  I gave her a tip but she said the flowers I gave her would have been enough and the fact that I said I would see her regularly in the future. I wanted a woman with a certain feminine womanly way to see on a regular basis and I have found her.    
 
But most of all I found my masculinity but I will say this though - I will find a girlfriend when my two youngest children are ready to accept someone - am I allowed to say that on here? 
 
In closing, I mentioned last time in part 1, that after my disaster, I went to my tennis club and then, when outside to go home, I almost cried. I lied, I did cry. Deburdened myself again but this time, no tears - only feeling like a man should. This old man is not yet ready for Valhalla! 
 
Take care you lot.   
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Bloody great post.

I particularly liked "the walk of anticipation"!

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Agree, very good post that I really enjoyed reading, good for you.

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Bloody great post.

I particularly liked "the walk of anticipation"!

 

Very moving post solentmag. Happy you found the woman tailored for your needs :) Take care !

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Brilliant, Solentmag, just brilliant. Delighted for you

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Yes, great post.

But don't worry about your GP. What you do with your erection is none of her business. She's there to help you enhance it.

 

(PS: stop beating yourself up with the titles to your posts: nothing foolish about them or what you do and what you want at all.)

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Really glad to hear all went well for you second time around. Thanks for updating us

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Please do write a review for her on here - she deserves it!

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Excellent sounds like you found a nice lass.Happy it went well this time x

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Really lovely to hear you found a good WG, to help you out, and give you a good time.

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This is a lovely post and it's amazing hearing the punter's perspective as well in terms of nervousness/anxiety as I get that myself sometimes. I am happy everything worked out better in the end. 

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She made you at half time sarnie???? You found yourself a good 'un there. Well done.

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Great result!  At minimum , name and shame  praise on this thread!

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Solentmag: glad you're back on track and a big thanks for coming back and telling us :)

DG

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Now all you need is to support a football team that doesnt get whacked for six when you're at a low ebb

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Now all you need is to support a football team that doesnt get whacked for six when you're at a low ebb

I am a Newcastle United man, sorry can't help it.

 

I get up to Newcastle 2 or 3 times a year to see them and with my new found and gain in confidence and improving health, I will be taking in a visit to one of the local WG's,

 

That will take my mind of the football and getting wacked for six.. 

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Solentmag. Well done. So glad the way things worked out. I hope you can now look forward to many happy hours of being a man again

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I'm very glad for you. Do consider telling this heart warming story to the BBC  reporter Charlie (see other posts). I have just had a very constructive preliminary chat on the phone with her and am sure she would be interested. Your experience of paying for sex is much more worthy than my hedonistic adventures compensating for a sexless relationship and helps to show how such encounters can be mutually caring notwithstanding the exchange of money!

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I'm very glad for you. Do consider telling this heart warming story to the BBC  reporter Charlie (see other posts). I have just had a very constructive preliminary chat on the phone with her and am sure she would be interested. Your experience of paying for sex is much more worthy than my hedonistic adventures compensating for a sexless relationship and helps to show how such encounters can be mutually caring notwithstanding the exchange of money!

 

Thanks for your comments.

 

I do not mind sharing my thoughts on here with like minded men and women like you but not for me with a journalist who may or may not make a balanced documentary and will have editorial control of what is said. My background story (only partly told) probably would be a interesting one but not sure if I could trust someone not to make it entertainment, But in the end, I went with the women because I wanted to be a man again, it's as simple as that. 

 

I have only been with two WG's and am not the most experienced man on here. It was stresssful enough going with these respectful, decent women and just writing about it but can't imagine how I would be appearing in front of a camera.  

 

Not saying that anyone else shouldn't tell their story mind, but no, not for me at the moment.

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Glad you had such a rip roaring time of it xxx

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Solentmag yours is a powerful and uplifting story. Let the journalist find it for herself. There appear to be a lot of journalists sniffing around the industry looking for a story, and they will already have created their story just need the anecdotes to substantiate their punchline. Continue to enjoy what you have, I hope your circumstances continue to improve and that you have your new regular to care of you.

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