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Just curious how timings supposed to work? Does it start from the moment you walk through the door? the moment you shower and get ready or the moment you hand over the money?

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Let the can of worms be opened!

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I was thinking about this the other day.  Do the girls ask the guy to leave when the hour expires or they do not mind staying 20min more for either sex/talks/longer shower etc without charging him.....  I seem to be very bad in this respect as I never watch the clock, yet I never got tips.

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If a guy arrives a bit early for a shower or he is quick in there then it starts when he comes back into the bedroom. If he is on time or has let me know that he is going to be a bit late then it starts when I arrive back in the bedroom after putting the fee away. If he wants to shower together either for the fun of it or because he wants to make sure Im all clean then thats included in his time. Lets face it if he wants it for the first reason then he will assume its part of the booking time anyway as he is having fun and the second instance, well, Im naked in the shower with him. 

 

If he just randomly arrives late though without so much as an apology then it starts when he walks through the door of my bedroom. If he arrives on time then proceeds to spend 20 minutes in the shower  then I will consider ten minutes of his shower time as part of his appointment because if I dont I will be left with ten minutes to get showered myself afterwards for my next client and I dont consider it fair on the next guy to have a rushed me just because the guy before him was inconsiderate

 

 

Manners beget manners. 

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It all depends. I can only speak for the indie wg's I've seen, as I've never visited a parlour - but no one has thrown me out the second the time is up. I've also been offered a shower at the end of the booking even though the time was well up so I'd say most indie wg's are fairly flexible providing you don't take liberties.

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I always assumed it was from the time of the booking, although if the woman runs late the time should be adjusted accordingly.

 

So, if I book to see a lady from 2:00-3:00 I would expect to be walking in the door at 2:00, and back out of it at 3:00.  If I have an extended shower or waste time during the hour, then it's my prerogative and it's my time I am wasting.  I generally leave it up to the lady to organise the schedule during the meeting as I don't want to be checking the clock while enjoying myself. If the lady has a no plans after the booking, and she is having a good time then she can extend as long as she wants to.

 

I've had 1 hour bookings run to over 2 hours when we've clicked, and I've had bookings for an hour been exactly that.  Having a shower, and doing the paperwork doesn't take long, so I wouldn't expect the time to start after this (2:04-3:04 just seems ridiculous), I am paying for the hour with the woman, not an hour of sex.

 

I'm not too sure on the whole "tip" thing Annabelle, it would make me feel a bit weird, slipping you some more money after the event because we'd run over.  I guess this is one of the downsides to paying up front (if they do), although I think the next meeting I would include something extra.

 

I guess I'm easy going, but if someone was completely time wasting, or kicked me out after 30 minutes, then I just wouldn't go back.

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The other point mentioning is that some are clock watchers and some not. Quite often time will run over if anything IME

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I always assume it is from the time I ring the doorbell

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I think it should start when you are up and ready for it because that's what you are paying her for

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I think it should start when you are up and ready for it because that's what you are paying her for

So what happens with a guy who takes half an hour of foreplay before he gets a stiffy then?

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As outcall only, it starts after we have had a chat and got acquainted a bit, ideally having had a glass of wine. Admittedly not all punters want that, but I always prefer to have a bit of banter before starting the booking that is not included in the time. I think some of them think I'm just trying to waste their time and I just want to tell them to relax as I'm not trying to do that. I always seem to run well over the allotted time because I certainly don't keep looking at the time and never know exactly when it's ended.

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So what happens with a guy who takes half an hour of foreplay before he gets a stiffy then?

Also,what happens if he can't maintain?Would the clock be stopped until everything was again upstanding.And if it kept happening,would the clock be on off on off?

Sorry,At the moment i'm chuckling imagining some kind of set up with those clocks they use for time chess.Every time the fella deflates he smacks it to stop time,and everytime the old fella props up again,the lady smacking it to restart.In fact,a service like that could come with an extra.Instead of a watching service,an offical timekeeper :)

Also,would time only start when in a fully erect state,or would there be a reduced rate for almost erect,a semi rate as it were

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As outcall only, it starts after we have had a chat and got acquainted a bit, ideally having had a glass of wine. Admittedly not all punters want that, but I always prefer to have a bit of banter before starting the booking that is not included in the time. I think some of them think I'm just trying to waste their time and I just want to tell them to relax as I'm not trying to do that. I always seem to run well over the allotted time because I certainly don't keep looking at the time and never know exactly when it's ended.

Exactly, its not when the clock starts…its when it stops thats important. If it stops before the guy has had the time he paid for then there is a problem. If he has his full time or a little more then he should be happy regardless. Fact is that guys sometimes forget its the escorts job to keep an eye on the time, that doesnt mean that he is going to be shortchanged though, in fact it can mean the opposite. Many a time I have chatted afterwards for a long old time with my guys. I doubt if they were bothered what time the clock started as they have more than they paid for half the time anyway. 

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Just curious how timings supposed to work? Does it start from the moment you walk through the door? the moment you shower and get ready or the moment you hand over the money?

Simple. Turn up fresh, having had a shower prior to the booking. Are guys seriously expecting to turn up and have a shower to get themselves into a presentable state on the girl's paid time. If you need a shower, fair enough, but then that should come off your time, not hers.

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Simple. Turn up fresh, having had a shower prior to the booking. Are guys seriously expecting to turn up and have a shower to get themselves into a presentable state on the girl's paid time. If you need a shower, fair enough, but then that should come off your time, not hers.

 

To me a quick shower before and after should not be on paid-for time. It's much nicer to see someone who is freshly showered, especially in humid weather, and sometimes the clients aren't coming straight from home/gym where they have access to a shower, so having one on arrival is necessary.

It's not fair to expect clients to be 100% fresh if they've had to pay to shower, essentially encouraging them to shower as fast as possible and maybe be a little lax with washing properly. 

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Simple. Turn up fresh, having had a shower prior to the booking. Are guys seriously expecting to turn up and have a shower to get themselves into a presentable state on the girl's paid time. If you need a shower, fair enough, but then that should come off your time, not hers.

That's not always possible, and even if I've showered, if the wg asks if I want to take a shower I always have a quick dunk anyway so she knows for sure I'm squeaky clean.

I think it all comes down to attitude. I don't demand or expect the shower time to be added to the booking time, but if it is, then it's appreciated - as it was earlier this evening with a 90 minute booking that ran to 2 hours :)

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I think it should start when you are up and ready for it because that's what you are paying her for

 

Penetrating point.

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whenever I go to a parlour and they send me off, I always say to the receptionist - "make sure the "knock" is timed from when XXX enters" and make a point of looking at my watch.

 

since doing that I have had not issue with parlours cutting my time

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Whenever the lady wishes for it to start (and finish may i add)...

But, like a lot of others its always nice to break the ice with an initial chat, drink or even quick bite to eat before concentrating on dessert...

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Really does depend on the girl. More established escorts seem to be more flexible with times, in my experience if it's your first time seeing a girl time starts from when you turn up. There are girls out there now that work like a conveyer belt, they've even taken texts for booking in the middle of are meeting, all they seem to want to do is get the job over and done with and move on to the next one. If you find a good escort all her time will be on you and she won't clock watch, this doesn't mean you can take the piss. If your going to turn up early or be late text or call beforehand to let them know

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I always assume it is from the time I ring the doorbell

 

I agree, I would never take the liberty of assuming that my time will start from after I've showered and handed over the fee. For me, the time starts from my scheduled appointment time. I will always take a shower at the beginning of a punt, it's the polite thing to do, especially as I've usually been travelling on public transport to arrive there, but would never expect that time to be added to my hour. With girls that I've seen a couple have had their eye on the clock, but the majority have been quite relaxed and usually allow the appointment to go maybe ten minutes over the allotted time - although on a couple of occasions where I've developed a rapport with the girl we've gone as much as 30mins over time, admittedly chatting, looking at photos/reviews etc. Always a bonus when you make a connection and the meeting doesn't feel rushed.

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Whenever the lady wishes for it to start (and finish may i add)...

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Absolutely.

 

Where do you think "You had me at hello" came from.

 

A good experience depends very much on the professionalism of the lady you are visiting because as soon as you think you have "rights" you are "screwed".

 

If you believe you have been short changed on time or any other service I find it's best to take it up with her customer service department (Igor) rather than directly with the lady. :ph34r:

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I always assumed it was from the time of the booking, although if the woman runs late the time should be adjusted accordingly.

 

So, if I book to see a lady from 2:00-3:00 I would expect to be walking in the door at 2:00, and back out of it at 3:00.  If I have an extended shower or waste time during the hour, then it's my prerogative and it's my time I am wasting.  I generally leave it up to the lady to organise the schedule during the meeting as I don't want to be checking the clock while enjoying myself. If the lady has a no plans after the booking, and she is having a good time then she can extend as long as she wants to.

 

I've had 1 hour bookings run to over 2 hours when we've clicked, and I've had bookings for an hour been exactly that.  Having a shower, and doing the paperwork doesn't take long, so I wouldn't expect the time to start after this (2:04-3:04 just seems ridiculous), I am paying for the hour with the woman, not an hour of sex.

 

I'm not too sure on the whole "tip" thing Annabelle, it would make me feel a bit weird, slipping you some more money after the event because we'd run over.  I guess this is one of the downsides to paying up front (if they do), although I think the next meeting I would include something extra.

 

I guess I'm easy going, but if someone was completely time wasting, or kicked me out after 30 minutes, then I just wouldn't go back.

 

So let me understand this: you had 1h bookings that run over to 2h and you did not pay anything extra?  

 

Also, were you kicked after 30min after the 1h booking or 30min into the hour you booked with the girl?

 

Do not take this the wrong way, I am simply asking because that is what I used to do: stay with a guy WAAAAAAAAAAY longer because we had such a great time without getting anything extra........ or even a date that extended to the whole weekend with a guy who then texted me to say: 'sorry, I am falling for you'.  I learned my lesson the hard way, even if until now, I never kick the guy out or leave myself when the time finishes.  It looks like I cannot change in this respect.

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For the woman that went over, I went back again and tipped her well the next time I saw her (50% tip on the second booking), but I didn't leave anything on the first occasion as I usually tend not to carry anything extra on me and I think scrabbling through my pockets for change may have been seen as being more of an insult.  I usually tend to flit on one offs that last the allotted time and (usually) don't blow my mind, so having a second booking to me was unusual and was only because of the great service the first time around.

 

I've never had the second scenario happen, was more of an "if", but I'm not the kind of guy to kick up a fuss, I'd just chalk it off to a bad experience and move on.

 

Perhaps I ought to take more money, but I guess I've been to a few dodgy places in the past where leaving valuables out of view would have been a bit stupid (and I don't want to take my clothes to the shower with me).  I'm sure 99.99% of people are honest, but if it's not there, then there's no temptation.

 

I like your attitude, life should be about good experiences and it's a pity that people have not shown appreciation when you've obviously given more than you needed to.  It's their loss, as a little something would have left a completely different vibe to the end of the booking, with you both walking away feeling happy.

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For me if a guy books for 2pm his booking starts at 2pm.If he is running late and lets me know I will do my best to accommodate and he will get his full time.

I don't often rush people out dead on time but I don't expect to have someone try for another bout 1 minute before he is meant to be on his way.If I am enjoying our time and I don't have other bookings then I have quite happily carried on over time and I really don't mind someone having a shower for a few mins after the booking is up.

I'm with Chloe really.I'm more easy going with guys who have manners and don't come along expecting to go over the time.

At the end of the day though I sell my time (and body of course) and I don't think it is fair for blokes to deliberately try and go over time and they should not expect it.

If they want another 30 mins or an hour then the booking should be extended.

I also learned the hard way when I worked part time.I had guys booking for an hour and staying for like 90 mins.At the time I thought that it was good to be flexible then I found out one or two of them saw me as a soft touch.They would book ladies I knew who charged more and would get them out on time and they had mentioned me and were almost smug about the extra time.So its about balance a few mins no probs but no pisstaking.If you stay longer for nothing its my choice not the clients.

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