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Do Your Neighbours Or Friends Know You Escort?

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I've always wondered how some girls keep their escorting secret. Now if you work in a parlour some way from home then yes you can but working from home, or even a flat, or near your home area must make it difficult. Even life style can give rise to raised eye brows, even if you have a genuine day job as well. Going out in th evening dressed up on a regular basis, haing a better car/holidays/lifestyle than your normal income might give you etc.

 

I remember once visting a lady in her own house. I parked some way away and walked there, no one around but when I came out there was a group of kids of about 10-12, who asked "Did you have a nice time?" "Was she good?" Needless to say I did not return although she was a good escort.

 

I saw a lovely mature lady from an outcall agency several times and got to know her a bit so I knew where she worked as a day job etc. She had a car with a personalised number.  One evening I was picking up a colleague to go to a meeting and  pulled up outside his house and noticed this lady's car in the drive opposite. As he and I spoke on his drive she came out her house, looking very smart, so I turned away not to embarass her. Anyway my friend exchanged pleasantries and she set off. He said that's "XXX" she works at YYY but she works as an escort in the evening. I was gobsmacked but played dumb. He did not seem to think it was a big deal so I never mentioned it to the girl.

 

More recently we were at a social gathering at some friends and one of the ladies, who I did not really know, started on about a girl who lived near her, who worked as an escort in the evenings and from what she said I realised it was girl who worked for the local outcall agency and I had seen a couple of times. They even quoted the agency name. Again I played dumb but the girl said what a nice person this escort was and the group of girls were actually quite interested and seem to admire her. Mind you if their partners had been to see her they might have had a different view!

 

I wonder how many girls do not realise that some people do know what they do and if indeed they care? Are there girls who are completely open with their friends about their profession?

 

 

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None that I'm aware of

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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I know of one lady who says that she's honest with her friends and family about what she does.

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There might be 100,000 escorts in the UK.  So there are some who keep it secret and some who tell everybody they know and every range between. From my interactions, I'd say more are worried about a landlord knowing (and kicking them out), than friends.

 

If you are looking for anecdotes, a girl I saw recently said that her mother helped her negotiate a contract with an agency - way to go, Mum!

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If you are looking for anecdotes, a girl I saw recently said that her mother helped her negotiate a contract with an agency - way to go, Mum!

This is awful. Mother - third party pimp!

 

Anyway: there is not such thing as "contract" with an agency. What she was negotiating about anyway?

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My friends know, my neighbours don't. 

 

I think most escorts do not *look* like escorts when they are off duty and it's a bit of a myth we are all swanking about in designer clothes and driving fancy cars. I think only a few women make ridiculous sums of money- most escorts are part time around studies, f/t job, kids etc and even those who are full time don't make millions. Yeah, I make a good living, but not shed loads more than when I was in the civvie world. 

 

Anyway in London neighbours don't notice such things! And I make sure they don't by being careful who I see and not having trails of men coming and going day and night. A few more quid is not worth the risk of someone noticing and reporting me to the management company! 

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I called into a kebab shop after a night on the town with some fellow working girls. There was a guy in there that went to school with Libby Love (aka Busty Libby). He had no idea she was escorting but must have known I did because he pulled Libby to one side and asked her if she knew the woman she was knocking about with was a hooker. Libby amused played dumb and told him not to be daft, we laughed all the way home about that one.

With regards to others knowing we all work different ways, some women hide it for loads of reasons, others don't have to and are open about it. I was always open, never ashamed of it so everybody that knew me knew what I did.

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With English girls is more difficult to understand if they are doing this or not.  But with foreign girls who just arrived here is very easy, especially if they congregate in front of their building/house to smoke at times when people should be at work or coming from work or sit outside clubs/bars and look around making eye contact with everybody or texting friends all the time saying: 'come, the place is packed with dudes to pull'.

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 there are some who keep it secret and some who tell everybody they know and every range between. From my interactions, I'd say more are worried about a landlord knowing (and kicking them out), than friends.

 

Exactly that, Also, I have no worries about what people think - I live in London exactly for the anonymity! 

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This is awful. Mother - third party pimp!

 

Anyway: there is not such thing as "contract" with an agency. What she was negotiating about anyway?

 

Just what the lady told me.  Some sort of conflict and she got help from her mother.  The tone was more non-judgemental mother helping daughter doing what she chooses to do, in a moment when she needed help.

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I've not told my friends or family. My father would disown me no questions asked. But I did have a client who went and told my boyfriend because I wouldn't leave him for said client. Needles to say they're both out of my life.

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Ive no doubt that after events a couple of years ago some of my neighbours are probably wondering what the hell I do but its none of their business. Even if I worked from home, which I dont, its still none of their business as they cause others in the street problems with their mates taking up all the parking spaces at the weekend and their loud music which always rolls into sunday morning. Even if they guessed I would DARE them to complain to me as i have many a complaint to counter theirs with. Live and let live I say. 

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It is a hard thing to know, maybe there are a lot more tolerant people out there than you think.

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I don't think anyone knows about my little secret, I am living a normal life, have a day job, don't drive an expensive car, my neighbours are mainly students so not really bothered about anything and I always make sure that I have enough time left to see friends and family. I think my friends would be cool with it after the initial shock but my family would definitely not agree.

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The few ladies I have seen as escorts you wouldn't know they were escorts.  Are people that bothered nowadays.  It wouldn't bother me if my neighbour was an escort but  I guess that's easy to say as I have seen escorts as a client.  If I had a neighbour as an escort it would be unlikely that I would visit her on a professional level as I try to avoid participating in this hobby on my door step! 

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