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Jonnybgood

Losing My Mojo.

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My regular girl has gone back home for 6 weeks and then she's off on holiday for a couple of weeks, I saw her about 3 weeks ago.

 

The last couple of days I've been perusing the London section of A.W. looking for a girl and got down to a short list of 5 girls. The trouble is I haven't got round to contacting any of them, the truth is I can't be arsed, my punch line has caught up with me.

 

The problem isn't physical, I don't know if I'm just getting tired of the whole scene or if its because I've just been seeing the one girl and getting into a rut, there's a joke or pun there somewhere. In this case the body is willing but the mind isn't.

 

I've been seeing my regular for nearly six years now and the last time I saw anyone different was about this time last year when she did the same thing, went home and then had a holiday.

There was a time when I mixed it up a bit more, seeing the regular and different girls, on outings I would have standby lists with me in case the girl I wanted to see dropped out, I needed sex so much I wasn't going to miss out on a opportunity.

I suppose I found something that suited me and became less adventurous, now its come back to bite me in the bum.

 

Anyone been in the same boat and do you have any advice.

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Yes, bite the bullet and get shagging. What happens if one day she goes on home and decides not to come back. Get out of the comfy rut because when the day comes that she doesn't want to do this anymore you possibly won't even know it's coming x

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I was very much addicted to one lady I've seen for a couple of years.  Use to think about her all the time.  It was not a way to live in a rut!  But I have seen a few more and have seen the light!  Reg is a "friend" as well and I am helping her on a professional level as well so its more than client wg relationship but am not so obsessed.  Yes as Chloe said sow your seeds but try to manage it and pull back from it when you can and take stock of your emotional and financial spending.  This can be fun provided you control it which I haven't at times! 

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Nothing wrong with slowing down for a bit, or even taking a break. Why spend all that money if the urge isn't really there? Enjoy summer, do other stuff, go jogging in the park early mornings, have al fresco dinners with friends, and re-evaluate in September. I bet your horny will return. Meanwhile, don't overthink it. It is what it is.

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I think a break is wise, besides never get too attached to a Escort, they're just making a living at the end of the day. 

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I didn't mean go on a shagging frenzy lol just fuck someone else if you are horny x

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Sounds like you're pining for her.

Guess that will likely happen when you've seen a girl over a lengthy period of time. Absence of that person might leave you feeling a bit lacklustre.

I find I can easily get attached to some people, so early on decided having a regular wouldn't work for me. Plus I prefer the excitement of variety and meeting new girls. It's like a drug to me!

Take a break for a while and I'm sure your mojo will return.

The beauty of this hobby is YOU decide when and how often you have fun :)

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Nothing wrong with slowing down for a bit, or even taking a break. Why spend all that money if the urge isn't really there? Enjoy summer, do other stuff, go jogging in the park early mornings, have al fresco dinners with friends, and re-evaluate in September. I bet your horny will return. Meanwhile, don't overthink it. It is what it is.

 

 

I think a break is wise, besides never get too attached to a Escort, they're just making a living at the end of the day. 

 

Agree - WG's will still be there whe your horniness returns. Let your bollocks fill up for a while  !

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I'm sure you will all be happy to know that I'm out of my fugue. Not sure why, perhaps the sunshine and all those pretty girls in their nearly there summer frocks.

I decided against wading through AW again and looked through the Punternet reviews instead, I found an agency girl who fit the bill.

I last used an agency about 4 years ago, not a happy experience, so I normally only see indies or my regular, but I had a pleasant surprise.

 

That's really why I'm writing this post, I did a review but didn't say how good the agency were. Not sure if I can name them in this post and be accused of cheerleading, so the review is under my alias Peter Imp and the No. is, 117350.

 

To start with the voice at the other end of phone was English, so no problems with communication, very friendly and helpful. I live in London but I have a northern accent, I don't know if it was because of that and they thought I was from out of town, but I was given very good directions from the tube station. I had booked 2 days in advance and on the day I phoned to confirm the booking, they made sure I had the right address etc. I got there a bit early and phoned the agency, they checked and the girl wasn't ready yet but phoned back when she was and I wasn't left hanging around too long, no walking round the block killing time. A very seamless and pain free transaction. I may even use them again.

One word of caution the photo's were 'shopped' but not in a bad way and I think most agency's and not a few indies do the same.

 

A last word on the location, for those who have been to the Kensington HOD, it was in a similar building and location but a much quieter side street, I don't know if all their premises are like that but it could be fun finding out.

 

I'm no expert on agency's and don't know if my experience is the norm but its what I would expect, its not what I've experienced in the past, hence my seeing indies and when finding a good girl making her a regular.

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