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My first post, so please be kind :)

I have been meaning to see this independent escort for a while now. Great slick website, lots of info provided on website, and great feedback on this forum, with some people here really praising her. She also fit my requirement of a certain type of escort that I fancied, so wanted to contact her.

Contact her I did, yesterday (Thu) morning. Wrote a brief polite intro about myself, provided my mobile number as well, and wrote from my primary email address (probably not a good idea). Basically wanted to show I am genuine. No reply for 3 hours, and then realized I had forgotten to send a subject line in the email, so perhaps it got spammed, so resent the email with a proper subject line.

It is Friday late night as I am typing this and still no reply. I checked my inbox as well as spam folder. Nothing.

Her website does not have a phone number as she does not like to be contacted by phone. Fair enough, but she explicitly says that she replies promptly to email. So, either both my emails got spammed, which I highly doubt, as gmail has a pretty decent spam detector, or she is truly unable to check emails, I wonder ...

I have seen a few escorts at various points in my life so far, but havent had an experience like this. I wonder what the reason could be, and if it would be worth emailing again.

Would like any opinions.

Cheers

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My first post, so please be kind :confused:

I have been meaning to see this independent escort for a while now. Great slick website, lots of info provided on website, and great feedback on this forum, with some people here really praising her. She also fit my requirement of a certain type of escort that I fancied, so wanted to contact her.

Contact her I did, yesterday (Thu) morning. Wrote a brief polite intro about myself, provided my mobile number as well, and wrote from my primary email address (probably not a good idea). Basically wanted to show I am genuine. No reply for 3 hours, and then realized I had forgotten to send a subject line in the email, so perhaps it got spammed, so resent the email with a proper subject line.

It is Friday late night as I am typing this and still no reply. I checked my inbox as well as spam folder. Nothing.

Her website does not have a phone number as she does not like to be contacted by phone. Fair enough, but she explicitly says that she replies promptly to email. So, either both my emails got spammed, which I highly doubt, as gmail has a pretty decent spam detector, or she is truly unable to check emails, I wonder ...

I have seen a few escorts at various points in my life so far, but havent had an experience like this. I wonder what the reason could be, and if it would be worth emailing again.

Would like any opinions.

Cheers

It is possible that some personal problem has restricted her computer access for 48 hours and she may reply shortly. But if it was me, I would be sending off some other emails.

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I wonder what the reason could be

I take a no reply to a second Email to be a "No thanks" and move on.

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How many days a week do you work??? 5 or 7???

So, it could be possible WG has, shock horror, taken a day or 2 off, or another shocker for you, has actually been working...

On the other hand WG in question may not like your email and chosen not to reply...

Don't put your eggs all in 1 basket and contact a few others too!

Carissa

xxx

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She could be on a long booking - happened to me once or twice until I learned how to set up a vacation reply.

You did send the email directly from yours and not using a website booking form?

I've often had guys make a slight spelling mistake when entering their email reply-to address on my booking form. Then when I've replied it's simply been returned as not deliverable.

Sometimes SPs will block certain email addresses, AOL and Yahoo once barred all hotmail and lycos addresses. This meant some guys emailing me didn't get my reply and it was bounced back at me. They would then ring a few days later asking why I'd not replied - when I had tried several times. Other times you may have your security settings too high and the respondent is classed as junk or mail to be blocked completely.

Just a view from the other side - it can be quite frustrating for us too when we know you are waiting for a reply and for some reason the email just won't deliver to you.

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Would like any opinions.

Cheers

Welcome to the forums snowman.

The situation you describe is not uncommon. As the girls have already mentioned, WGs have real lives too. If the lady concerned is interested in a booking with you, she will respond to the e-mails you have already sent. If not, no amount of follow-up e-mails are going to make her change her mind. All of the better WGs, I find, will respond eventually, even if it's simply an apology for not getting back sooner.

If I get no response within 24 hours, I'll usually assume it isn't going to happen and try another girl. I have had the situation where, I have sent my 4th "would you be interested in a booking from me on Friday" e-mail to different girls in 4 days when all 4 girls have responded "yes" within an hour of each other :confused:.

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I know a certain e-mail site (mine) was down for the whole of Thursday and was eventually up and running on Friday morning around 6am

This may have been the problem

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Welcome to the world of punting….enjoy your stay…this is just a tip of the iceberg..you will come up against much worse than that and as you have already noticed some of these girls can be sarcastic!!

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My first post, so please be kind :o

I have been meaning to see this independent escort for a while now. Great slick website, lots of info provided on website, and great feedback on this forum, with some people here really praising her. She also fit my requirement of a certain type of escort that I fancied, so wanted to contact her.

Contact her I did, yesterday (Thu) morning. Wrote a brief polite intro about myself, provided my mobile number as well, and wrote from my primary email address (probably not a good idea). Basically wanted to show I am genuine. No reply for 3 hours, and then realized I had forgotten to send a subject line in the email, so perhaps it got spammed, so resent the email with a proper subject line.

It is Friday late night as I am typing this and still no reply. I checked my inbox as well as spam folder. Nothing.

Her website does not have a phone number as she does not like to be contacted by phone. Fair enough, but she explicitly says that she replies promptly to email. So, either both my emails got spammed, which I highly doubt, as gmail has a pretty decent spam detector, or she is truly unable to check emails, I wonder ...

I have seen a few escorts at various points in my life so far, but havent had an experience like this. I wonder what the reason could be, and if it would be worth emailing again.

Would like any opinions.

Cheers

Welcome snowman

I love the way you have not allowed for being ignored in you reasons for not getting a reply.

Just for a laugh write her another email but don't send it, let her know what it feels like. OK that might not be a laugh to you so maybe just move on to the next pen pal :D

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If you have contacted her through her website, try and send an email direct. Many of my contact forms from my website end up in my junkmail.

Other than that, if she wants to see you she'll probably get back to you soon. She likely has a lot of other things going on, and we can get a rediculous amount of emails sometimes (and I display a number) so it can be hard to get through them all.

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Thanks for the replies, all.

To clarify, I did not use her online booking form. I was at work and did not want to visit her url from work. I emailed her directly at her published gmail address from my personal yahoo account. Yahoo and Google are both rock solid tech companies and it would be extremely unlikely that both of my emails simply vapourized into thin air.

Been 72 hrs now, and still no reply. I did not send further emails. I did not see the point. If she is unable to read them, no use sending further mails. From the website I gather she is pretty tech-savvy, she's got it all : twitter, blackberry, the works. But as some of you say, I would give her the benefit of doubt, it could be anything. Maybe she's not well or something, who knows ?

as I said there was something about her profile that really clicked in me, so I was curious to see her. And the reviews here were outstanding.

sasfan / carissa /Northwinds, I am curious why would a WG *choose* not to reply, given that there's not much info about the punter other than the polite initial request ? I mean, I did not send her a photo or something. From the WG's point of view, when you get simple genuine-looking email requests from several punters, which one would you choose to reply to and which one not to ? Do you see where I am coming from ?

Thanks again.

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Some girls just don't reply. No one knows why. Forget her, there's plenty who will be happy to take your cash.

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How many days a week do you work??? 5 or 7???

So, it could be possible WG has, shock horror, taken a day or 2 off, or another shocker for you, has actually been working...

On the other hand WG in question may not like your email and chosen not to reply...

Don't put your eggs all in 1 basket and contact a few others too!

Carissa

xxx

This is precisely why parlours still get most of my money. I cant get my head round paying a girl £150 an hour and chasing her by emails etc.

Lets face it, she might of given it all up and emigrated to Australia, forgetting to take her site down.:D

It is easier though if a number is displayed and I dont think I would bother any further as there has been no response.

Most Girls with websites do display a phone number surely?

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As people have said, there could be lots of reasons why she has not answered, maybe her cat has died, or someone has whisked her off to Barbados for a long weekend. Dont assume that anything you have written has put her off seeing you, thats quite unlikely, depending on what you've written of course. If she is as you say, all tech'd up, then she will have gotten the email, maybe she will come back, maybe she wont. punting is like that, you can be standing there waving a fistful of money and still get to keep your trousers on. women can be strange creatures sometimes.

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Erratic replies to emails from (even well known, established, reviewed) indies is one of my main bugbears.

A lot of them have proven, over mail, to be quite un-reliable.

And even if the indies have a coherent email reply, they may well turn off their phone on "the day of confirmation".

Well, it is their life, their time etc.. so just have to take it in your stride. It is part of the great hunt for Good Regulars.

The ones that do reply correctly and pick up the phone when you call to confirm are therefore real treasures.

They know who they are!

Reliability issues, especially when visiting an new/unknown town, are indeed one of the reason I keep calling Agencies: at least there is a good chance to get a date on the day. But agencies come with their own issues of planning, drivers, pricing and girl-attitudes (not to mention a recent girl who cut the date short by suggesting I take some coke... Damn!).

A good agent is another rare breed.

nb: notwithstanding all of the above, the market for outcall-escorts in UK seems a lot more reliable and mature then in other european countries.

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By the way Yahoo are not that reliable. It was only 2 years ago they were barring enmasse all emails from hotmail, and last year that they blocked adultw0rk emails which meant anyone using a yahoo account and registered/trying to register on that site had major problems.

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To clarify, I did not use her online booking form. I was at work and did not want to visit her url from work. I emailed her directly at her published gmail address from my personal yahoo account. Yahoo and Google are both rock solid tech companies and it would be extremely unlikely that both of my emails simply vapourized into thin air.

That may be the case but believe me spam filters have a life of their own, especially with web based email providers as Strawberry mentions above. Emailing from one web based email address to another is even more open to getting filtered as junk mail.

I recently was in a similar position as yourself, emailed a girl to her published Yahoo address on her website and didn't get a reply. Went to her ** site which was advertised on her site and sent a message through the ** system & got a reply within a few minutes and arranged the booking. Easy as pie.

My business is EBay based and I have a lot of customers who use web based email addresses such as Yahoo, Hotmail etc. The number of times my emails do not get through because they have been spuriously labelled as spam somewhere along the line borders on ridiculous. To be fair Gmail seems not to be so bad.

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Perhaps she spilt tea on her laptop,perhaps she has fallen fowl of the fact that half the time you cant get online.

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Well if shes got Twitter when was her last twitter post?

It is xmas so she may be out getting presents, visiting friends family, etc.

Leave it a week or a month and send another one or from a different email address that isnt google or yahoo.

If you still hear nothing then just leave it and just be thankful that its was only your email she never replied to, and not her front door if arrived for a booking :D

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I have seen a few escorts at various points in my life so far, but havent had an experience like this. I wonder what the reason could be, and if it would be worth emailing again.

Would like any opinions.

Cheers

You pick up your email once a day, maybe twice, but then again it could be a couple of days later. Client A is a new client who booked weeks ago - he puts a booking through for x date/time. Potential client B, emails for a similar time on x date. You email A to find out if he still wishes to go ahead with the appointment, or maybe try to change the time, explaining your dilema. Client A may not get back to you immediately, you give him the benefit of the doubt re: response time because he may only access his emails at work.

Now you may not want to put off client B, by telling him your dilema - there may not have been one if A could have given his reply immediately. So 3/4 days could go by. Client B finds someone else and A doesn't get back in touch.

It can all get very complicated when you're dealing with men. :D

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Thanks for the replies, all.

To clarify, I did not use her online booking form. I was at work and did not want to visit her url from work. I emailed her directly at her published gmail address from my personal yahoo account. Yahoo and Google are both rock solid tech companies and it would be extremely unlikely that both of my emails simply vapourized into thin air.

Been 72 hrs now, and still no reply. I did not send further emails. I did not see the point. If she is unable to read them, no use sending further mails. From the website I gather she is pretty tech-savvy, she's got it all : twitter, blackberry, the works. But as some of you say, I would give her the benefit of doubt, it could be anything. Maybe she's not well or something, who knows ?

as I said there was something about her profile that really clicked in me, so I was curious to see her. And the reviews here were outstanding.

sasfan / carissa /Northwinds, I am curious why would a WG *choose* not to reply, given that there's not much info about the punter other than the polite initial request ? I mean, I did not send her a photo or something. From the WG's point of view, when you get simple genuine-looking email requests from several punters, which one would you choose to reply to and which one not to ? Do you see where I am coming from ?

Thanks again.

Surely all reasonable emails would be replied to :D

Speaking for myself, the ones I ignore are those written in text speak, one liners and those who have obviously not read my site.

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This is precisely why parlours still get most of my money. I cant get my head round paying a girl £150 an hour and chasing her by emails etc.

Lets face it, she might of given it all up and emigrated to Australia, forgetting to take her site down.:D

It is easier though if a number is displayed and I dont think I would bother any further as there has been no response.

Most Girls with websites do display a phone number surely?

As you know i wouldnt bother in the first place unless she had a phone number, waiting for responses, sending more emails, what a waste of time IMO. To be honest i find it strange that ladies in this business wouldnt use all easily available means to attract punters but i have learnt on here of the reasons some dont use the phone for initial contact, but they must lose out on a lot of punters in my view, but thats up to them.:o

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As you know i wouldnt bother in the first place unless she had a phone number, waiting for responses, sending more emails, what a waste of time IMO. To be honest i find it strange that ladies in this business wouldnt use all easily available means to attract punters but i have learnt on here of the reasons some dont use the phone for initial contact, but they must lose out on a lot of punters in my view, but thats up to them.:P

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I agree. I'm dis-interested by email only responses to girls/ladies posting on adult work.

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On some occasions have found that a bit of patience on my part reaps dividends in the end regarding going down the email route for initiating first contact then moving forward.

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