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Booking Escorts For Friends Without Their Knowledge

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Interested to hear if anyone has ever done this to get a friend laid, if its happened to you, or if any WG has ever been booked for this.

 

Is it alright, or is it not on? Would you be happy if you found out someone had done this to you after you thought you'd scored a legitimate one night stand?

 

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If this is a serious post ... then no, I wouldn't do that to a friend and wouldn't consider anyone who did that to me to be a friend. I guess others may feel differently but I think it comes under the category of 'fucking with people's heads for fun'. 

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Nope - definite no go for me. If a friend of mine had done something like that to me and I found out, he'd better have been good at finding hiding places...

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To be clear, this is not something I'd ever do for anyone. Either surreptitiously for some kind of prank, or out of sympathy to get an unlucky in love mate laid for the first time. But I've heard of it happening, so I'm interested to know if anyone's every been involved in some kind of arrangement.

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I have always and always will turn down bookings "for my mate" x

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I'm with Chloe I have and always will turn down those kind of bookings too. X

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No, I think it's a cruel thing to do when you set something up like that without your friend's knowledge.

 

I think when it occurs people do it for selfish reasons. "I know hot girls- when you're out with me you will get laid"- that is the theory behind it. Although on the surface its a 'favour' for a mate- it's actually all for the benefit of the ego of the person who is setting it up.

 

The fall-out can turn difficult if your friend doesn't accept it was a one night stand. He might try and track down the escort who participated, or at the time pressure her for her number. Can have unpleasant consequences for everyone.

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This would always get a "No" from me.

 

I need to speak to the person I'll be getting personal with before meeting. If I do not then I do not have a clue how they are going to react, whether we can communicate effectively, and also set the boundaries.

 

For instance to many people sleeping with a prostitute is something they'd not actually go through with, consider and some even abhor the idea. I also need to know the other person knows what is and isn't on offer. I cannot do or know any of this without speaking to the person themselves.

 

I also do not fancy a gaggle of mates egging him on, or being in the vicinity of whereever we meet. Then there's the discretion, oh and a safety thing.............

 

No, it's not going to happen.

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The only time I have known this to happen was in the film True Romance. Trust me it's nothing like the title suggests but it's a great film.

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I did a fabulous booking with a client's friend, as a birthday surprise! I answered the hotel door with a gift-tag round my neck, a gift-bow for knickers, holding a cake with candles and singing happy birthday! It only dawned on me how badly it could go when I was waiting for him to arrive. I could tell he had never done anything like it when he arrived, but had the most fun, lovely way about him, so it really was a wonderful experience. 

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For all the good intentions,to do so is about as mean as you can get.If the person doesnt know you are essentially messing with their emotions and their head.That is about as far out of line as a person can get

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I know about this being done by an Iranian guy who used to heavily see escorts when he used to come to London.  He then tried to 'introduce' his friends to this world without them knowing and simply assuming they pulled the girls at an established location.  Some people really have devious minds, ha ha

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Fuck that, I'm too busy trying to do for me!  :P

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Burty but if you were in a hotel and she knocked on the door, gift wrapped,  and she was drop dead gorgeous would you be angry at the time but say well ok just this once!!  I would have to buy my friend socks or the widest Y fronts as revenge!

 

Its a no no isn't it.  The only way it could work is if you had a friend that you went punting with and you new what he liked.  He would have to be a very very close buddy and its probably not going to happen.

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Burty but if you were in a hotel and she knocked on the door, gift wrapped,  and she was drop dead gorgeous would you be angry at the time but say well ok just this once!!  I would have to buy my friend socks or the widest Y fronts as revenge!

 

Its a no no isn't it.  The only way it could work is if you had a friend that you went punting with and you new what he liked.  He would have to be a very very close buddy and its probably not going to happen.

If the scenario existed where he knew I punted (never gunna happen) and I knew she was a wg then I might let him off, maybe even return the favour if he was a punter himself.

In the op's scenario where it was done as a set up to make me think I'd pulled, and I found out - well he best get his running shoes on. Mates don't do that to one another IMHO, and as you and others have said, it's a no no.

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No, for many reasons -

 

I want to speak to the person I'm going to be alone and intimate with and make it clear what I do and do not do before I'll take a booking, it's part of my security screening.

 

If he knows an escort has been booked for him it could still go horribly wrong if I'm not his type, what turns us on or off can be very subtle and despite good intentions a friend can get this very wrong.

 

There are some things I feel it's important to know to be able to give informed consent to a sexual encounter, 'I'm being paid for this' is one of those things. Consent goes both ways; if a gentleman doesn't know I've been paid to have sex with him how can he give his full consent?

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As others have said, I wouldn't be much of a friend if I did such a despicable thing to them and I'd be pretty pissed off if I found they did it to me.

 

Frankly, I'm surprised you even had to ask if such a thing is OK.

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It's a definite no from me. It's such a personal thing that I think it's vital for the man to choose the lady himself (what if I'm not his type?!) and be 100% certain he wants to go with a sex worker. I'd also worry about the potential security issues of mates being involved.

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