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Does anyone else feel wholly uncomfortable with this look?

In an era where it appears we are discovering lots of historical child abuse in this country it seems distasteful that men and women are happily engaging in sexual fantasies about school children.

Or am I just being a bit hysterical here? Do those that offer/ask for this service see something in it that I just can't?

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I agree with you to a certain degree that it's a little weird to fantasise about a girl in a school uniform.

I get a few (plenty) requests for a school girl outfit, I'm also young so maybe that goes with it, I don't mind playing out the role play, but do think some men take the fantasy to a whole new level.

But I guess some people have fantasises and fetishes that others don't really get or find weird.

Aslong as it's two consenting adults role playing and keeping it strictly role play there's not much wrong with it.

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I'm too old to play the school girl, and anyway would be uncomfortable in this outfit and in the role, for the reasons mentioned above especially child abuse. Having said this, role play can be very fun with other fantasies...

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Dressing up and playing a role as consenting adults doesn't necessarily mean fantasising about school children.

It's not my thing either and not something I'd request, but each to their own. A wg I'm currently seeing fairly regularly asked me if I had any requests before one meeting and I mentioned that if she looked like a particular photo in her gallery I wouldn't complain.

There was obviously a little confusion as to which pic I meant and she dressed up as a sort of schoolgirl although it wasn't a full school uniform as such. It did nothing for me other than there was a stunning young woman (she's 28 so nowhere near schoolgirl age) standing in front of me wearing a short skirt and white top and looking incredible.

If someone started getting into the realms of pretending the wg was under age then I'd agree with you but not just the act of dressing up in itself.

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This has been covered quite extensively in posts before and previously it's split the forum in to two camps quite sharply. I suspect due to the recent events there won't be too many posters admitting to doing it. I understand where you are coming from but I think context has to be applied.

 

If you are asking a WG to wear the uniform so they can live out a fantasy of sleeping with someone underage then that is creepy. There are some WG's who play on the fact they look underage.

 

However, if you acknowledge the age of the WG as being over 18 and it's just a cheeky "carry on" style slap and tickle role play which is meant to be fun with lots of double entendres then where is the harm. There is no illusion that person is under 16 and it is not being played as such. It's more about sexual tongue and cheek play around the dominant\submissive positions that role has.

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I totally understand why men love it, but for me I just really dislike it. That has nothing to do with morals on the subject though, I just hate dressing up in tacky uniforms.

I must say I find it really funny when I see pictures of women over 30 wearing school girl uniforms, there's just something about it that doesn't seem right. I've even seen women in their 40s and 50s doing it!!!

They just look silly IMO but that's just my thoughts on the subject.

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My last punt was a girl in a schoolgirl uniform but it didn't stay on very long :)  The uniform didn't do much for me but she certainly did as she's one of my regulars  (age about 28 btw)

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Current public perception of this is naturally very negative and maybe won't change but I doubt if there's anything sinister in all but extremely few cases. Not for me these days as Im just too old for it not to seem ridiculous:-(

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It is a no no for me ..... not only because I am far too "mature" to a] look convincing and b] feel comfortable dressed like a 16 year old.....but because the outfit goes hand in hand with being submissive..... and that I am not.

 

I still have one of those short pleated tartan skirts which I only ever wore for one particular client....bought purely for his visits..... he is long gone now. It was not a school girl outfit though but nevertheless I always felt a bit daft in it.

 

These days I much prefer the headmistress outfit I occasionally wear when I meet young (often aged 60+) school students who need a spot of punishment.

 

( so is it accepted by most that ladies can seduce a MALE school student..... but frowned on when it is the other way? )

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Like somebody mentioned- I strongly dislike  wearing tacky uniforms be it schoolgirl, PVC catsuit, maid, you name it. 

However, I failed to understand how is having sexual fantasies  unethical- does it have to be ethical in the first place? People don have control over what they fantasies about and what turns them on- so much so I they choose to act those fantasies out within '' legal framework'' good on them.  It doesn't have to be ethical.

I suspect,  loads of people have pedophilic tendencies- so what, they can't help it, it who they are.  I mean as long as they not breaking the law, which they are not ( given that the escort is not underaged)

Its really not my place to judge them- especially if I choose to cater for that type of client.  

 About it being distasteful  ..I engage into lots of activities that may appear ''distasteful'' to many people. Some people actually think that getting payed for sexual services is quite distasteful...

This topic got me intrigued as I read these forums from time to time and  came across this phenomenon, shall we call it  '' the prudish hooker syndrome '' , which I think is rather hypocritical think to be.  

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Schoolgirls can be 16, 17 or 18 years old so I don't know why people are being so puritanical about it. In any case it isn't modern schoolgirls that men think look so nice. It's 1950s and 1960s public or convent schoolgirls with a pleated grey skirt and straw hat.

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Each to there own but definitely not my cup of tea...

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I really don't like this world's overly Politically Correct attitude to sex. Having a school girl uniform fantasy doesn't mean a man is a Paedo. UK Girls of legal age 16 upwards still have to wear school uniform and have plenty of sex (remembering my youth! ;) there).  The school girl uniform fantasy has been around for decades and fulfils the fantasies of many an adult male, who perhaps gets a kick out of harking back to his youthful sexual experiences? Who knows, not my cuppa java, but one shouldn't criticise someone about this for purely P.C reasons, just as long as they're not doing wrong.

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the pix of hookers I have seen on AW are usually

 

women who are clearly older than teenage. I hardly think fantasizing about a 40 year woman in 'uniform' is paedophilic

 

women in kit unlike any schoolgirls uniforms I have seen.  I haven't seen many girls in skirts half way up their bum, blouse unbuttoned down to thier navel wearing stockings and suspenders

 

Its fantasy from when we were teenagers, thats all.

 

(Why are there not schoolboy costumes in Anne Summers?)

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One of the wonderful things about sex between two mature, sensible adults is the 'suspension of disbelief'. It happens all the time if you think about it! Most men can believe an attractive woman is mad keen to have sex with him when it comes to escorting without too much trouble. Schoolgirl fantasies are just an extension of that. 

 

In fact I once did a schoolboy fantasy (I was naughty sixth former, he was a younger boy I corrupted) with a client in his 60's. It's all about getting in the right zone, and two intelligent, open minded adults can do that. 

 

I am pushing 40 but enjoy the schoolgirl roleplay thing, I don't get asked *that* often to be fair, but when it does it can make for an erotic roleplay. And yes, some people would think I looked ludicrous, but essentially it's just a slutty outfit with the addition of a school tie. Call me tacky if you like, but I make my money out of men getting off on slutty outfits so I don't give a toss what people might think!

 

Anyway, the point is, schoolgirl roleplay is nothing to do with paedophilia, especially when it's with a very womanly 30 something dressed up!

 

Each to their own though, noone should do what they are uncomfortable with, but accusations of it being 'wrong' are unfounded and sneer at the older women dressing up beyond their years all you like, they are laughing their way to the bank! :)

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Schoolgirls can be 16, 17 or 18 years old so I don't know why people are being so puritanical about it. 

Yes they can but they generally are excused uniform for sixth form, so the girls you see wearing it are, in all likelihood, under 16 or at best only just turned 16.  

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I might be completely wrong here, but I'd bet most role-play dress up games are completely benign in nature and safe for both parties. If a WG wishes to provide the dressing up service, and the punter wants it, who are we to question it? Better the games are played amongst adults other than with actual 16 year olds, I say! I mean there are grown up men in in the top level of their professions, in their 50-60s and wanting to be adult babies. Go figure...lol

 

Actually the 'sexy secretary' sounds quite nice....with glasses on. ooo missus. :P

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Unfortunately we are so far down the road with this, that people are forgetting it would/should be a 'healthy' fantasy, not one designed to encourage abuse and lead to 'depravity'.

 

If a wg saw a guy was getting into those kind of realms of fantasy, you would think she had the sense to bring it all to an end sharpish.

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I dont see many schoolgirls dressed like this where I live.

http://www.sparklingstrawberry.com/products/Dark-Schoolgirl-Costume.html

No you don't, but what do you say to the clients who want a genuine school uniform? I find that VERY disturbing.

I had a client once ask for a school girl roleplay and requested I wear my old shook uniform if I still have it.

There's roleplayinf a school girl and wearing fun outfits then there's just plain weird when they want the real uniform or as close as possible to it.

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No you don't, but what do you say to the clients who want a genuine school uniform? I find that VERY disturbing.

I had a client once ask for a school girl roleplay and requested I wear my old shook uniform if I still have it.

There's roleplayinf a school girl and wearing fun outfits then there's just plain weird when they want the real uniform or as close as possible to it.

 

and what message does 'tight young teen' send out?

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There will always be people wanting to cross lines. I personally think it's down to the WG's discretion to get a feel of a punter's attitude over the phone/emails etc just to see where that line is drawn. If it gets too freaky, call a hault or just say no.

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and what message does 'tight young teen send out?

That I'm a tight young teen. ADULT.

What my name consists of does not mean it's acceptable to ask me for my first nudes or for my genuine school uniform.

My name is in no way shape or form misleading or weird, it's simply describing what I am.

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There will always be people wanting to cross lines. I personally think it's down to the WG's discretion to get a feel of a punter's attitude over the phone/emails etc just to see where that line is drawn. If it gets too freaky, call a hault or just say no.

You're absolutely right, I can usually tell from an email if a client is genuine/or not.

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That I'm a tight young teen. ADULT.

What my name consists of does not mean it's acceptable to ask me for my first nudes or for my genuine school uniform.

My name is in no way shape or form misleading or weird, it's simply describing what I am.

So your a tight young teen working as a prostitute?

between 13 and 19, on the young end, so quite possibly 15-16?

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