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I've been doing this for some time now and if I'm being honest, if I don't have my orgasm , I feel I have lost out and that the punt , whilst enjoyable, fell short of qualifying as a success.

 

First, I believe that as a good service provider, the WG wants to see her efforts satisfied by the knowledge of her client attaining climax, the seal of approval.  For me, the orgasm is confirmation of time, effort and money well spent. The problem is , the orgasm is not a forgone conclusion and can be unpredictable.

 

Had a booking the other day, in fact I had 3 within the space of 8 hours. The first was perfect. A few hours later, I knew I was ready to go again and booked WG No.2.  I had wanted to meet her for ages.I had booked a pal of hers some time ago , when I had not performed, the reason being I  thought primarily because the pal was a little cold. So, I was determined for a good performance with this WG. She was lovely and quite sexy. Everything was going well, until the critical stage was reached. The girl really wanted success and I guess thought by sounding as if she was really into it and gyrating etc that this would excite me. It did the opposite. I tried nicely to get her to stop , so that I could concentrate myself to orgasm but things just went downhill .Once downhill, the damage was done and there was no quick revival . There was a slight sense of disappointment all round.I admit, I left somewhat frustrated.

 

A couple of hours later, I wanted to rid myself of that feeling of frustration and booked WG,No.3. She was in no way as attractive as WG No.2 but was sensual and full-on ( and had great boobs ! ). I was on fire and exploded effortlessly and powerfully, I only wished I had re-acted in the same way with WG No.2 a few hours previously.

 

Performance, a pain in the bum.

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Maybe you were putting undue pressure on yourself during the second go ?

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There is no pain, you are receding... Quality should always come first during a meeting, not quantity or performance. Perhaps 3 punts a day is too much for you ?

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And what do you do for living? ha ha

 

I was thinking you surely have lots of free time to dedicate to this hobby.  :)

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I've been doing this for some time now and if I'm being honest, if I don't have my orgasm , I feel I have lost out and that the punt , whilst enjoyable, fell short of qualifying as a success.

First, I believe that as a good service provider, the WG wants to see her efforts satisfied by the knowledge of her client attaining climax, the seal of approval. For me, the orgasm is confirmation of time, effort and money well spent. The problem is , the orgasm is not a forgone conclusion and can be unpredictable.

Had a booking the other day, in fact I had 3 within the space of 8 hours. The first was perfect. A few hours later, I knew I was ready to go again and booked WG No.2. I had wanted to meet her for ages.I had booked a pal of hers some time ago , when I had not performed, the reason being I thought primarily because the pal was a little cold. So, I was determined for a good performance with this WG. She was lovely and quite sexy. Everything was going well, until the critical stage was reached. The girl really wanted success and I guess thought by sounding as if she was really into it and gyrating etc that this would excite me. It did the opposite. I tried nicely to get her to stop , so that I could concentrate myself to orgasm but things just went downhill .Once downhill, the damage was done and there was no quick revival . There was a slight sense of disappointment all round.I admit, I left somewhat frustrated.

A couple of hours later, I wanted to rid myself of that feeling of frustration and booked WG,No.3. She was in no way as attractive as WG No.2 but was sensual and full-on ( and had great boobs ! ). I was on fire and exploded effortlessly and powerfully, I only wished I had re-acted in the same way with WG No.2 a few hours previously.

Performance, a pain in the bum.

I've found the more you worry about performance the less you're likely to perform.

I didn't orgasm until my 4th punt... The first 2 were really enjoyable the third no so much but yes I was left with a feeling of disappointment overall - in myself and nothing to do with the girl. I know it was completely psychological with me, and once I'd got it into my head to enjoy the punt and forget about reaching orgasm I found nature took care of things and all was fine. I've also overcome my two other mental blocks - coming twice in a session and more recently with a condom on while having sex - although the latter is also to do with desensitisation issues because of the condom.

Kudos for 3 punts a day though - that's something I know I'd never manage!

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It's all in the mind (worst cliche to use i know but...........).

Anyway, Burty you should try it someday, you just never know...

Somedays sex is the last thing on my mind and sometimes its the only thing on my mind lol...

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On a couple of occasions I've failed to orgasm where it hasn't been the fault of the SP. Something on my mind or whatever. In those cases I have made sure the SP knows that I've had a good time in spite of failing to cum (generally true - I enjoy the ride as well as reaching the destination). Some SPs have been disappointed (not in me but it seems in themselves) but so long as they've made a genuine effort I always try and reassure them. When or if I go back they sometimes make an extra effort! 

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It's all in the mind (worst cliche to use i know but...........).

Anyway, Burty you should try it someday, you just never know...

Somedays sex is the last thing on my mind and sometimes its the only thing on my mind lol...

Even if I wanted to - after a couple of hours with either of the two wg's I'm seeing at the moment there's no way I'd have the energy! I've consoled myself with the fact it's quality over quantity these days :)

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Had a booking the other day, in fact I had 3 within the space of 8 hours. 

 

Sir, I salute your courage and your indefatigability!

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Sir, I salute your courage and your indefatigability!

Is he Sadam Hussain and you George Galloway ?

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Is he Sadam Hussain and you George Galloway ?

 

Very well spotted.

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It's been discussed elsewhere that you can take not cumming two ways.

 

I would think, as a former occasional 4 girls in a day man, that the likelihood of not cumming or not maintaining erection with one or other is perfectly likely but not inevitable on any given day.

 

Obviously it's different for you but 1. I could not care less if I cum or not (done that thousands of times) and get more pleasure from the girl cumming or at least seeming to have enjoyed our time and 2. I ensure the girl knows that the nicer she is the longer it takes me to cum so when it is the case I am happy to tell her if she wants to stop when time up or before she gets shagged out or her hand tired wanking me then that is fine by me.

 

Not for everyone but I am seen off by smiley happy girls who will love seeing me next time too (I think).

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Maybe you were putting undue pressure on yourself during the second go ?

 

 Yes, I was conscious of seeking success but the punt was going so well, I thought it was a forgone conclusion. I acceeded to her request to take off her heels which for me was a major mistake and I couldnt get her to go quiet and let me concentrate. Sometimes you need to concentrate.

 

There is no pain, you are receding... Quality should always come first during a meeting, not quantity or performance. Perhaps 3 punts a day is too much for you ?

 

Maybe of course, but the problem was with the second.It was that failure that led me to the third.

 

And what do you do for living? ha ha

 

I was thinking you surely have lots of free time to dedicate to this hobby.  :)

 

I am self-employed so I have great flexibility obviously. When the mood gets a grip of you, it is very difficult to shake off unfortunately.

 

I've found the more you worry about performance the less you're likely to perform.

I didn't orgasm until my 4th punt... The first 2 were really enjoyable the third no so much but yes I was left with a feeling of disappointment overall - in myself and nothing to do with the girl. I know it was completely psychological with me, and once I'd got it into my head to enjoy the punt and forget about reaching orgasm I found nature took care of things and all was fine. I've also overcome my two other mental blocks - coming twice in a session and more recently with a condom on while having sex - although the latter is also to do with desensitisation issues because of the condom.

Kudos for 3 punts a day though - that's something I know I'd never manage!

 

Well, I didnt really either.

 

Sir, I salute your courage and your indefatigability!

 

It was frustration not courage.I tend to take things very slow and easy , so much so that fatigue never really enters into it.

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I honestly wonder, if I was a man, would I have had all this sexual energy?  Or would I have been a bald chap?

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I honestly wonder, if I was a man, would I have had all this sexual energy?  Or would I have been a bald chap?

 

The two are not mutually exclusive ;)

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Bald men have more Testosterone than the "average" man. That's why they are bald. And the more Testosterone you have the more male you are. The more male you are the more you are interested in sex. I am very bald and totally over sexed. Have been for years.

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Bald men have more Testosterone than the "average" man. That's why they are bald. And the more Testosterone you have the more male you are. The more male you are the more you are interested in sex. I am very bald and totally over sexed. Have been for years.

 

How did I know that pay off line was cumming up...

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Bald men have more Testosterone than the "average" man. That's why they are bald. And the more Testosterone you have the more male you are. The more male you are the more you are interested in sex. I am very bald and totally over sexed. Have been for years.

 

nearly 60, hairy, enough drive to want to punt. 

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nearly 60, hairy, enough drive to want to punt. 

 

I think most guys have the drive even when much older, problem is engaging a gear with a faulty gearbox.

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Bald men have more Testosterone than the "average" man. That's why they are bald. And the more Testosterone you have the more male you are. The more male you are the more you are interested in sex. I am very bald and totally over sexed. Have been for years.

 

I have a thing for very tall, bald men: something like the Rock aka Dwayne Johnson.  

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Feel a bit drained but yet would still like to visit a WG this afternoon. Performance is at risk. Is that fair on the lady  ?

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Feel a bit drained but yet would still like to visit a WG this afternoon. Performance is at risk. Is that fair on the lady  ?

Totally. I am sure she'll utterly resent you for paying her £120 an hour to watch you fail to get it up :rolleyes:.

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Totally. I am sure she'll utterly resent you for paying her £120 an hour to watch you fail to get it up :rolleyes:.

 

Funny enough, I remember reading on a forum a body of opinion who felt strongly that if the client was aware, for whatever reason, that he might have difficulty getting an erection that it was unfair to the escort as she would be working tripley hard ( excuse the pun ) to try to achieve success and probably in vain ! 

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Totally. I am sure she'll utterly resent you for paying her £120 an hour to watch you fail to get it up :rolleyes:.

 

Ha ha, true, this might apply to somebody who sees lots of clients and does not care.  But if somebody meets guys only once in a while, this might leave her with a headache.  Not fair  :)

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