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Why Is One Punt Better Than Another ?

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We all know about the 'click' but I believe that generally this is a misconception.  It pre-supposes that all bookings start off equal but that  then they get better or not because of the mystical click. I dont really go along with this.

 

Primarily,I think that the approach of the individual WG in particular to the booking will be the key determining factor to the success of the punt in most cases. The very successful bookings I have attended have by and large been due to the attitude of the WG. My contribution to things plays only a small part. Not much is expected of the client.

 

I think the punts that I have enjoyed the most are those where the WG makes me feel that she is really up for it and where she is pro-active rather than merely being pleasantly passive and re-active. The ladies are all basically doing the same  work but the differences in approach and enthusiasm can be very marked.

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Of course the attitude of the WG is of primordial importance in a booking, but so is the attitude of the punter. 

 

Even the best WG with a multitude of satisfied punters will still have, once in a while, a meeting where the punter is simply not impressed, satisfied or happy with her or her performance. And no one can give the exact same enthusiastic service to every single person that they see; that is certainly not an excuse for slacking off, the service should still be provided with a smile on the face and a pleasant attitude, making sure the punter is happy, but however cheesy this may sound, you cannot fake chemistry. 

 

And I think this is what differentiates okay punts from excellent ones. 

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Agree with Malena's post...if you add chemistry to the equation then get ready for fireworks in the best possible sense....

You will come out thinking wow, that was explosive and some!!!!!!

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Of course the attitude of the WG is of primordial importance in a booking, but so is the attitude of the punter. 

 

Even the best WG with a multitude of satisfied punters will still have, once in a while, a meeting where the punter is simply not impressed, satisfied or happy with her or her performance. And no one can give the exact same enthusiastic service to every single person that they see; that is certainly not an excuse for slacking off, the service should still be provided with a smile on the face and a pleasant attitude, making sure the punter is happy, but however cheesy this may sound, you cannot fake chemistry. 

 

And I think this is what differentiates okay punts from excellent ones. 

 

Yes that's my point, the apathetic or difficult client is 'only once in a while'. Thats only natural as the client is 'up for it'.

 

Surely 'chemistry' can only be found when there is a natural attraction.Genuinely, how often can that occur ?

 

The other day, I had a top drawer punt with a 23 year old. She was very natural  and all over me, seemingly completely uninhibited. I have no doubt that came from practice and great attitude and not from any chemistry. I bet,judging from her reviews, that any good , clean , respectable punter gets the same intense experience from her.

 

I think a WG can deliberatyely raise her game to such an extent that the client can believe 'chemistry' has been achieved.

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I think the reason for the success of any punt (or any activity involving the participation of human beings for that matter) is more intangible than the attitude of either partner, especially with regard to those little factors that make the experience particularly memorable. 

 

How else would you explain the difference in the quality of punts involving the same two people? There are dozens of internal and external factors and circumstances that can make the difference between a good experience and an outstanding one. I'm thinking of the mood-setters, the gestures, actions and words which help create a memorable experience

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I think the reason for the success of any punt (or any activity involving the participation of human beings for that matter) is more intangible than the attitude of either partner, especially with regard to those little factors that make the experience particularly memorable. 

 

How else would you explain the difference in the quality of punts involving the same two people? There are dozens of internal and external factors and circumstances that can make the difference between a good experience and an outstanding one. I'm thinking of the mood-setters, the gestures, actions and words which help create a memorable experience

 

 

The point that I am making is that due to the deliberate and practiced attitude of the WG, the more particularly 'memorable '   the punts her clients are likely to feel that they have  experienced rather than things being left to  the chance of some intangible chemistry.

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It's a state of mind.If somethings stressed you or your a little wound up,no matter how good the lady is things will still not go smoothley.If you're in a great mood,sometimes if the lady isnt that entheusiastic,your good mood will rub off.Not every time,but more than most.Its like,sometimes when you go out for a drink,after a couple you feel lousy.Other times however,you can drink for England and have a great time.

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I think there's a danger that some posters on PN, are reading too much into things and over analysing situations . There's so many variables that twist and alter, I try and enjoy the experience as best as possible.I try Being considerate to the lady and try and be more accepting of outcomes, unless it warrants a complaint.Most of the time I seem to get a professional service and it's adequate to my requirements and odd times I get a cracking real feel experience that puts the brick on top of the chimney.

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The point that I am making is that due to the deliberate and practiced attitude of the WG, the more particularly 'memorable '   the punts her clients are likely to feel that they have  experienced rather than things being left to  the chance of some intangible chemistry.

Good thread Cumandgo.

 

The whole pleasurable experience of seeing a wg all depends on many factors...... re- chemistry it is something that may/ may not be present and which can not be fabricated and is a bonus. Unlike the click factor which can be easy to feign...

 

I think there's a danger that some posters on PN, are reading too much into things and over analysing situations . There's so many variables that twist and alter, I try and enjoy the experience as best as possible.I try Being considerate to the lady and try and be more accepting of outcomes, unless it warrants a complaint.Most of the time I seem to get a professional service and it's adequate to my requirements and odd times I get a cracking real feel experience that puts the brick on top of the chimney.

 

I agree with your post SizeisntEverything.

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 I think , cumandgo is onto something here and looking from a sensible view . It's the attitude of the wg that determines the outcome of the punt and why one punt is better than another .  The thread title comes over as another boring P'net  , time on my hands , kind of thread  but could turn out interesting .

   Of course to a fluffy all punts are fabulous , but cumandgo is not one of them . 

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For me a good punt becomes a great one when there is a little bit more than just a good attitude.

There's no doubt a wg with a good attitude generally makes for good or very good punt but as I prefer longer bookings, if I find there is something about the wg's personality or sense of humour that I like - then that it when it can become a great punt and is more likely to get me returning. Call it chemistry, that we've clicked in some way, whatever - but it's that little bit extra that makes the difference to me.

With one notable exception where the first meeting was one of if not the best punts I've had, I generally find I enjoy myself more after a return visit or two.

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The X Factor is needed for a cracking punt, or a WG who's not frightened to roll her sleeves up and get stuck in!

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Its down to both. No matter how affable and good at the job an escort is, if a guy turns up knowing feck all about her and her service or its like getting blood from a stone i.e the guy never cracks a smile and appears as awkward as possible then it is not going to go well.

If a guy turns up and is friendly and warm then that makes a huge difference to me. He will still get as good a service as I can give but I certainly feel more confident and sexy if a bloke shows willing to get into it.

Its a bit like the difference between a kid at Disney land, believing in the 'magic' and the grumpy brat who goes ...'pah its just a bloke in a Mickey Mouse suit'.

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Its a bit like the difference between a kid at Disney land, believing in the 'magic' and the grumpy brat who goes ...'pah its just a bloke in a Mickey Mouse suit'.

 

I must be either very childish or good at magic then :lol:

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 I think , cumandgo is onto something here and looking from a sensible view . It's the attitude of the wg that determines the outcome of the punt and why one punt is better than another .  The thread title comes over as another boring P'net  , time on my hands , kind of thread  but could turn out interesting .

   Of course to a fluffy all punts are fabulous , but cumandgo is not one of them . 

 

I'd agree with you if a punt was akin to a trip to the dentist where all you had to do was lie back and let it all happen. Maybe it would apply to a massage where the punter is similarly passive (but the experience is possibly a bit more enjoyable).

 

Anything which requires the active participation of both parties requires the full engagement of both parties and that, I suppose, can be derailed by all sorts of little details

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I'd agree with you if a punt was akin to a trip to the dentist where all you had to do was lie back and let it all happen. Maybe it would apply to a massage where the punter is similarly passive (but the experience is possibly a bit more enjoyable). Anything which requires the active participation of both parties requires the full engagement of both parties and that, I suppose, can be derailed by all sorts of little details

I agree, the punter's attitude can play as big a part in making it a great punt. I found that out to my cost early in my punting career when I'd booked an outcall with a wg I'd not seen before. I'd taken the afternoon off for the punt but had a shit morning in work so wasn't in a great mood. Then I ended up having a row at the hotel I'd booked as the room stank of smoke and the hotel's attitude didn't help.

Not an ideal start to the punt which was made worse after the wg arrived and the bloody fire alarm went off! I'm sure they did it on purpose! I tried my best not to let my mood show through but don't think I was very successful. The wg wasn't exactly the life and soul of the party herself and the whole thing just fizzled out. I'm sure if I'd been my usual chipper self I could have rescued the punt but I really couldn't be bothered on the day.

Lesson learned not to let external influences affect my punts after that..

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Yup, sometimes natural chemistry just happens easily, but it's really difficult if you have a client who won't look at you, smile or make conversation or those ones who won't tell you want they even want or those who chop and change every 30 seconds Do this, now do that and so on.

 

On the same token I guess if I turn out to be not what they expect (although it's pretty clear on my website) or they don't get my sense of humour then they may feel it is my fault and the booking won't work. 

 

Think it's sometimes just one of those things! 

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How you feel also has an effect on it.  If you turn up tired with no energy then you may not be as friendly and as good at performing and perhaps won't click one day and if you turn up on another day you will click.   Its not just the lady. Us guys sometimes expect too much and its never going to always be like Disney World!!  I have found sometimes its good and sometimes it isn't and just said hay hoo that's life!! 

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There are many factors at play imo, and while many lie within the control or influence of the WG or punter, many do not.  Whilst some stuff can be learnt, other aspects are more down to the intrinsic personality of the WG and how that interplays with her client.  Strangely some of my best punts have had bad starts, late train, bad traffic, getting lost :o , WG not ready or delayed etc.  Even when that stuff happens it need not destroy the main event.

 

If I were to try and define why things are good, it probably comes down to the sum of all the little things about the WG and punter that enable both to feel relaxed with the other.  When I was travelling to my last punt I received several texts apologising for an unforeseen and significant delay.  I wasn't very happy as everything had been arranged well beforehand.  I did even contemplate calling off the meet, but reviews and previous communications had all been promising, so I decided to just be patient.  As it turned out the delay was less than initially feared and the meeting went ahead

 

It went very well, one of my best meets. I had taken the trouble to explain my likes beforehand, and she had taken the trouble to listen ;) and it seemed, both at the time, and in subsequent exchanges that she really enjoyed some of the stuff we did, as did I.  As the FR report asks "Will you return?", YES :D

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