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Just to report that I went to visit Natalie today. She stubbed out a fag when we entered her living room. I was not happy with this and left. Let her know if you want her to be smoke free.

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Considering that it is clearly stated on Natalie's website that she smokes, your walking out of the booking on that account was well out of order. Clearly you did not communicate to her in advance that you found smoke objectionable - if you had, I am certain she would have made sure there was no trace of it when you arrived. IMO you owe her a cancellation fee and an apology.

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you are most likely rubbish in bed anyway if you are that fussy im sure she would have not had a trace of smoke on her when you started

why did you book her in the first place when her website says she smokes and then just walk out with out giving her a chance to put things right

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Just going by what has been written, its poor form to walk out like that, i'm sure some will disagree but its a matter of ones own principles and we all view things differently. Maybe a percentage of the ladies fee as a kind jesture or token of good will...

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Sigispen, frankly I think you have a nerve to come on here and complain. As others have said your behaviour is totally unacceptable whereas the lady having given warning is totally blame-free. You are lucky there is no website available for her to pass on your phone number to other escorts as a time-waster.

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The option on the AW Interviews section for smoking offers a choice of Yes, No, or Socially. Natalie has marked it Socially. I have visited a number of WGs who have marked it in the same way. None have ever been smoking when I arrived. When I visited Mia Stars I saw she had said Yes and asked her not to smoke before I arrived. She was happy with that. I have always taken the view that if the client is not happy he should leave. I had already been let down once by Natalie who 'phoned me an  hour and a half before our appointment to cancel. The idea of paying some sort of cancellation fee is risible. My time is just as valuable as hers.

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Thank you OP, really. Thanks for the free exposure and advertisement you offered me, for free :) You should put your glasses on to read profiles, grumpy old man ? xx

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sigispen GROW THE HELL UP!

Coming on to a forum and staring a topic About this ,,, did you think you would get sympathy? hell noooo no when she has stated she smokes!!

 

If you did that on a booking of mine ( i dont smoke tho) i would have gone mental !time waster

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What the OP doesn't say, is that I "let him down" as I was moving in my new flat and that he asked me for a roleplay, which I had to rehearse beforehands. Who's the time waster then ?

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I do not want to get into slanging match. I merely posted because I wanted others to know that Natalie was more than a mere social smoker and to arrange their booking accordingly.

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and how do you know she is more.... the fact she was having a fag before your meet ?? prehaps thats her way of dealing with nerves same as an escort who has wine before a meeting?

honestly your getting up my asshole

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I do not want to get into slanging match. I merely posted because I wanted others to know that Natalie was more than a mere social smoker and to arrange their booking accordingly.

As Natalie said you're a grumpy old man.

Why are you seeing women who smoke or socially smoke if you're so offended by it?

Natalie could easily post your number on Saafe and class you as a timewaster I sure as hell would.

She hasn't done nagging wrong and you have the cheek to dedicate a post to her for no reason but because of your bitterness.

Looks like your plan to blacken her name backfired.

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A little calmness people...

Although i do not agree with the OP starting such a thread he has shown a little coutesy in replying in a sensible manner...maybe this should go to PM...

Personally i think it was a petty thing to do but we are all different but sincerely hope the OP does think twice in future...

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Not the conduct of a gentleman, IMO. Are you sure you wouldn't be more at home on one of the other forums if that is the way you express yourself? Natalie's website couldn't be clearer. Your loss, self-inflicted.

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Speaking as a non smoker, I am hoping to visit Natalie in the near future, and I am happy for her to smoke as much as she wants beforehand and during our time together. :)

Having had the pleasure of chatting to her already, she is very lovely and I look forward to seeing her.

And indeed it does say that she's a smoker clearly on her website.

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I have an opinion here which I doubt the lady or anyone else would agree with.

 

If a wg states on her profile that she is a smoker..... it is good that she is honest and that is fine.  

 

However...... unless a client has a smoking fetish and specifically asks for her to smoke prior/on arrival/during his visit.............

 

she should not be obviously smoking or just putting one out. 

 

A used ashtray in view is awful.... whether or not the individuals are smokers.

 

I also do not believe any man should pay a cancellation fee if he leaves within a moment of arrival.... whatever the reason.

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I have an opinion here which I doubt the lady or anyone else would agree with.

 

If a wg states on her profile that she is a smoker..... it is good that she is honest and that is fine.  

 

However...... unless a client has a smoking fetish and specifically asks for her to smoke prior/on arrival/during his visit.............

 

she should not be obviously smoking or just putting one out. 

 

A used ashtray in view is awful.... whether or not the individuals are smokers.

 

I also do not believe any man should pay a cancellation fee if he leaves within a moment of arrival.... whatever the reason.

 

what on earth if i ever had a client turn up and leave within a moment of arrival i would be so angry ! he would have made me miss another booking!

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what on earth if i ever had a client turn up and leave within a moment of arrival i would be so angry ! he would have made me miss another booking!

I am not like you then.

 

It has not happened to me but I have always firmly believed that if for any reason a man is not entirely happy or comfortable with who and what is behind the door...... it is his right to decline...... cancellation fees are ridiculous in my view.  

 

Wg's do not ALWAYS have so many bookings that they would have missed one as you describe.   :)

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I am not like you then.

It has not happened to me but I have always firmly believed that if for any reason a man is not entirely happy or comfortable with who and what is behind the door...... it is his right to decline...... cancellation fees are ridiculous in my view.

Wg's do not ALWAYS have so many bookings that they would have missed one as you describe. :)

It's never happened to you and that's why you have that opinion.

It's never happened to me either but I find it rude and as Rebecca said it you could've had a booking in that time.

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Don't the OP and you ladies worry about my bookings. I'm perfectly fine, thank you very much. Actually this little free advert brought me more than I could expect :lol:

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I am not like you then.

 

It has not happened to me but I have always firmly believed that if for any reason a man is not entirely happy or comfortable with who and what is behind the door...... it is his right to decline...... cancellation fees are ridiculous in my view.  

 

Wg's do not ALWAYS have so many bookings that they would have missed one as you describe.   :)

Thanks Lynn. My post was not intended to slur Natalie, but to avoid the recurrence of mine and Natalie's experience. I never thought it would create quite such a storm.

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Thanks Lynn. My post was not intended to slur Natalie, but to avoid the recurrence of mine and Natalie's experience. I never thought it would create quite such a storm.

No it wasn't you knew what you were doing.

If her profile states she smokes why did you feel the need to write a post about it?

Quite pathetic in my eyes.

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Thanks Lynn. My post was not intended to slur Natalie, but to avoid the recurrence of mine and Natalie's experience. I never thought it would create quite such a storm.

 

Maybe the issue could have been posted up without the need to name names, that way the discussion could have been more useful.

 

I'm a non-smoker, and I'm rarely around smokers, so returning from somewhere smelling of cigarettes is a big issue for me.  For that reason I tend to steer clear of smokers.  If you use AW, don't just look to see which boxes have been ticked, look at the photos too, because they sometimes tell a different story.

 

On the few occasions when I have booked with a WG who does smoke, I always make it very clear that I am a non-smoker and establish that this is understood.  Some of the WGs I've met who smoke are very good at concealing it, smell, taste etc.  Perhaps all this could have been avoided with a bit of extra clarity in the pre-meet communications.

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So I should be angry with every guy I see stubbing a fag out on the way to my door and tell them to bugger off and cancel the booking then should I as I clearly state Im a non smoker on my profile??

 

If Belle states on her profile that she smokes then its your fault for not reading the profile or website properly. This is why we put this information into our profiles, for you to read and comprehend not just because we like the look of our own fingers flying across the keyboard. 

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I am not like you then.

 

It has not happened to me but I have always firmly believed that if for any reason a man is not entirely happy or comfortable with who and what is behind the door...... it is his right to decline...... cancellation fees are ridiculous in my view.  

 

Wg's do not ALWAYS have so many bookings that they would have missed one as you describe.   :)

This is where sods law comes into play though Lynn. Its rare that I have a no show when I haven't already turned guys away for that time slot because some days the guys all want the same few time slots. The reality of how many bookings we get compared to the number of callers is small which is why it makes it all the more annoying when you have taken a booking, turned sometimes 2 or 3 guys away because they either wanted that time slot or a time that would have been incompatible with your already booked appointment, then the guy either doesnt turn up or decides they dont want to stay or has some disaster occur that they end up arriving 40 minutes late and you then can't take a booking even further down the line because he is so apologetic and been on the way for 2 hours. 

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