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Monday: First Meeting … Friday: Bareback .. What The Fuck Am I Doing?

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Crazy past week. Met a new girl late Monday night. Paid for an hour, left 3 hrs later.

 

Saw her again the following night.

 

Third meeting on Thursday.

 

Last night an hour turned into overnight and we got seriously carried away.

 

GUM clinic first thing Monday.

 

 

Girl knows I’m married. She knows I have kids. She hasn’t asked for money and I’m feeling like I’m 18 again.

 

So guys what do I do: walk away now or keep playing Russian Roulette?

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Why would you even have unprotected sex with someone you don't know AND when you're married? That is SO risky.

I think you already know what you should do but are looking for reassurance. Walking away is very very wise.

Just a thought, how many other men do you think she has had unprotected sex with? You won't be the first or the last x

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Not difficult -

  1. Don't go back
  2. GUM
  3. Keep fingers crossed
  4. Don't risk with wifey (or anybody else) until results back
  5. Learn from this

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I don't know but a few people might think you are just trolling.

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Hmm I thought that too but decided on full response ^_^

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I don't know but a few people might think you are just trolling.

 

I'm sorry if you think that's the case.

 

I'll get my head around it eventually I guess.

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Hmm I thought that too but decided on full response ^_^

 

That is because you had something sensible and helpful to say and I didn't.

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Crazy past week. Met a new girl late Monday night. Paid for an hour, left 3 hrs later.

 

Saw her again the following night.

 

Third meeting on Thursday.

 

Last night an hour turned into overnight and we got seriously carried away.

 

GUM clinic first thing Monday.

 

 

Girl knows I’m married. She knows I have kids. She hasn’t asked for money and I’m feeling like I’m 18 again.

 

So guys what do I do: walk away now or keep playing Russian Roulette?

Was all this before, after or with the girl you've referred to on another thread who appeared to be asleep and offered you to cancel?

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What have you done.... Oral (BJ) ... Anal,,, Vaginal...unprotected.....

 

why only Gum clinic you think.... didnt get that .  do you think BJ  can cause AIDS or SERIOUS STD... Please explain

 

Sam

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This started on Monday with another girl.

 

I thought meeting a similar girl might provide some welcome distraction.

 

It didn't.

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removed WG name

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I don't know but a few people might think you are just trolling.

My first thought was trolling aswell, but decided to reply anyway.

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Well done ! Do you want a medal ?

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This started on Monday with another girl.

 

I thought meeting a similar girl might provide some welcome distraction.

 

It didn't.

So you saw a girl on Monday for 3 hours, Tuesday, Thursday, tried to see another girl early hours of Friday, then had an overnight on Friday night...

I admire your stamina!

If by continuing playing Russian Roulette you mean continue barebacking a wg - while also having sex with your partner/wife.... Well what do you think the sensible answer is??

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you mean continue barebacking a wg - while also having sex with your partner/wife.... Well what do you think the sensible answer is??

 

There is no longer any intimacy between my wife and I. Hence the decision to visit WGs.

 

The first WG I ever met (before getting married) was Tara of Oxford.

 

After six years out of this, I really didn't know what to expect. I like this girl a lot but I know my actions are foolish to say the least.

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He'll only get one answer. Get tested, stop bareback and that is it.

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bit of a silly thread like

 

i keep walking across the M1 blindfolded

 

what shall I do?

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   You might find clinic closed on Monday for Bank Holiday  . Better to spend day making up more believable stories , we're not all daft on here .

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OP has been online since posting definitely trolling, sad.

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dunno if hes a troll as i know tara of oxford well but i think hes a twat :)

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Wow, so many sceptics.

 

Sorry for disturbing you all.

 

Mod: please lock this thread.

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I'm assuming that he is not trolling.

 

I once started a thread about how common bareback was outside of punting.

 

Quite common, it seemed: few on a one night stand carry condoms.

 

Also, when affairs start, I suspect that the sudden fumbling and consequent shagging is bareback.

 

Obviously, bareback with an escort is possibly more risky than shagging your wife's best mate, but does that stop one doing this bareback.

 

In the heat of the moment in either circumstance, when offered, it is hard to resist.

 

What if the OP ends up having an affair with this lady? Would he then me expected to always use a condom?

 

Finally, how many men on here will admit to bareback in the heat of the moment with either an escort or during one night stand or an affair?

 

This thread will probably be locked/deleted in any case!

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Seems to be a pretty taboo subject on here. Being taboo doesn't make the issue go away.

 

I do not condone or condemn bareback sex. When in a normal loving relationship and or have multiple partners, it's best to play safe. It's always about respect and safety towards others....If you're single and want to risk it and the opportunities there, who has the right to argue?

 

WG's, I would hope test themselves more often than the average woman, so perhaps less risky in that respect - but still it's playing with fire, all the same.

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Sorry but the minute you say BB all sense goes out of the window

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Seems to be a pretty taboo subject on here. Being taboo doesn't make the issue go away.

Posting or requesting information about providers who offer unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse is against the Forum Rules.

 

A thread which discusses the reasons why it is such a bad idea is OK.

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I'm trying to figure out is Mr West8 is a poser ,troll , braggard, or a punter with a guilty conscience.  I do believe he came to this forum looking for some advice to justify his past week of pleasure which now may lead to disaster in his home life.

 

Someone was thinking with his dick....not his brain.

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