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How do you guys feel when a wg on Awork doesn't respond to an email.  Perhaps she doesn't log in every day or you try for a last minute appointment but she doesn't respond to be polite.  Some do and say I am busy and others just ignore the email. It doesn't worry me as there are plenty fish in the sea but I usually won't bother trying again with the wg in question if no response I'm afraid so her loss not mine!!

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Not everyone can stay in front of the PC to respond to a message straight away: the majority of girls are very responsible.  Of course, there will be cases when you can blame the girl but sometimes there are problems with the system so the fault definitely does not lie with the girl for not receiving a message.

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That's fair enough.  We all deserve a second chance! :)

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First, I would say always read a profile carefully to see if the lady specifies a prefered method of communication.  Check reviews as well; it was only from their reviews that I learnt that Anikassecret and Smiley Sindy (to take only a couple of examples) both prefer contact by text to calls.  But I would say the majority of WGs prefer a call to an email so, to be frank, I think emailing is almost asking to be ignored (unless, of course, the lady doesn't list a number).

I will usually give a lady a second chance if it is simply the case that a call, text or email has been ignored.  It is only if someone actively messes me around - eg. fails to answer a call when we have previously agreed a time I should call, cancels a booking without reason, fails to show up, etc - that I give someone up as a bad lot.  But on that I am rigid: if someone messes me around once, they don't get a chance to do it again, even when it is someone I have seen before.

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If she doesn't respond to her preferred method of communication if she has one, then I'll try once more. If it's a text I'll put *0# before the text so I know she's received it. If it's a phone call she doesn't pick up I'll leave a message or send a text asking her to text me and I'll call her back. If she doesn't then I'll move on.

If it's an AW message and I can see she's read it, again I might try once more, after that move on.

I've been a bit spoilt in that regard as most of the wg's I've seen respond very promptly, but I follow the above for those who don't. How I feel about it is that if they can't be arsed responding to a polite enquiry I don't really want to see them anyway.

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It only takes a couple of minutes to set up an auto reply on AW, if a WG does not spend all day sitting at a laptop she could just write "sorry unable to respond to your email enquiry in person, but if you would like to phone me when my number is in my profile I will se what I can do for you".

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If she doesn't respond to her preferred method of communication if she has one, then I'll try once more. If it's a text I'll put *0# before the text so I know she's received it. If it's a phone call she doesn't pick up I'll leave a message or send a text asking her to text me and I'll call her back. If she doesn't then I'll move on.

If it's an AW message and I can see she's read it, again I might try once more, after that move on.

I've been a bit spoilt in that regard as most of the wg's I've seen respond very promptly, but I follow the above for those who don't. How I feel about it is that if they can't be arsed responding to a polite enquiry I don't really want to see them anyway.

 

And shall we assume that the WG in question actually escorts, and that her profile is not merely a honey trap to get us to pay to view her private gallery?  WGs on AW often move in mysterious ways.  I always request a mobile number before I either pay to view her private photos or decide to pursue her further.  I have quite a few numbers in my own mobile 'address book' that I have not contacted again but I view them, collectively, as my 'to do' list.  But, in any case, no mobile number - no booking.

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I think email communication or lack of it is fraught in any walk of life - they do go astray, lost in cyber space can and does happen and then there is that old junk box problem etc.

 

To be honest if I have set my heart on a lady I don't give up to soon - I leave it a few days and try again if I have gone the email front and then it comes good - which I largely do as I like to introduce myself and then set up a phone call - on the phone call front I do like to agree a window or time as I think that back and forth is good for neither.

 

The vast majority of ladies are within 24 hours which I think is reasonable in any profession - even longer I am pretty relaxed about to be honest.

 

I just don't get my pants to twisted on this one. As I prefer to give the benefit of any doubt regarding not getting back to me - I find 99% of the ladies I approach do - and I know only to well myself how life can get in the way - I don't have a 'never again' policy because I feel certain that if I did I could miss out on a great punt.

 

I have to say that patience on this front has been richly rewarded - so no hard and fast rules from me on this one - again were all different and I respect that.

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And shall we assume that the WG in question actually escorts, and that her profile is not merely a honey trap to get us to pay to view her private gallery?  WGs on AW often move in mysterious ways.  I always request a mobile number before I either pay to view her private photos or decide to pursue her further.  I have quite a few numbers in my own mobile 'address book' that I have not contacted again but I view them, collectively, as my 'to do' list.  But, in any case, no mobile number - no booking.

I sometimes view private galleries but never if they're more than a couple of credits.

I'd agree about the mobile number, although I wouldn't rule a profile out if one isn't displayed - quite a few wg's I've seen don't display a number but will send one when making a booking.

I know AW feedback isn't 100% reliable but I do use it to some extent to see if I think a wg is genuine. There are several names I recognise who've seen the same girls I have, and seem to have similar tastes so if I see one of them has left fb for a girl I've not seen I'd tend to believe it's at least a genuine profile.

I think they do the same as you can frequently see one name on feedback followed by the same 2 or 3 names just after!

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It only takes a couple of minutes to set up an auto reply on AW, if a WG does not spend all day sitting at a laptop she could just write "sorry unable to respond to your email enquiry in person, but if you would like to phone me when my number is in my profile I will se what I can do for you".

Correct, I stopped doing this routinely when I figured it might be annoying for those I do get into email correspondance with. Each and every reply then receives two replies.

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I never use the email facility, just phone calls. If a girl on Adultwork hasn't got the sense to pay to display her number, she is probably losing out on many hundreds of £££'s in lost bookings

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I never use the email facility, just phone calls. If a girl on Adultwork hasn't got the sense to pay to display her number, she is probably losing out on many hundreds of £££'s in lost bookings

It's not always about a lack of intelligence - there are other reasons a wg may not wish to display a number. Each to their own but some of my best punts have been with wg's who don't display their phone numbers...

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Not everyone can stay in front of the PC to respond to a message straight away: the majority of girls are very responsible.  Of course, there will be cases when you can blame the girl but sometimes there are problems with the system so the fault definitely does not lie with the girl for not receiving a message.

Exactly.Aw like anything sometimes goes bandy.They've had messaging issues,several attacks etc.Then as youve stated,not everyone is constantly at the pc.Add to that pg scammers,fake profiles which are actually dudes set up for various reasons.Far easier to just phone.

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Whatever suits the wg really. But sifting through emails and such requires more head and arse time, not only for her, but the punter. So I prefer a phone number.

 

I see a mature Hungarian wg. She's a decent soul, but some days she isn't that much in the mood and looking for something different; and wanting a surprise or anything to break the humdrum of punting, and may ignore my mobile.

 

A new sim works wonders. The response is instantaneous and yes she will see me within the hour. When I get there she knows she's been had, but she's a forgiving soul and the punt happens quite nicely.

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I normally give it a few tries to communicate before moving on...therefore always giving the lady the benefit of doubt.

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I never use the email facility, just phone calls. If a girl on Adultwork hasn't got the sense to pay to display her number, she is probably losing out on many hundreds of £££'s in lost bookings

This also assumes she has the capacity for the missed bookings, and a booking is only ever a booking if it goes ahead. She can only ever see a certain number, or may wish to only accept a certain number of clients.

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I never use the email facility, just phone calls. If a girl on Adultwork hasn't got the sense to pay to display her number, she is probably losing out on many hundreds of £££'s in lost bookings

 

I thought that most of the AW girls do not display their numbers purely because they might have a day job or other reasons.  The majority girls there prefer bookings organised in advance, also AW charges for displaying the number: this might not be convenient for girls who charge a bit more and do not have bookings every day but only when they come to London for example or they can organise bookings.

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How do you guys feel when a wg on Awork doesn't respond to an email.  Perhaps she doesn't log in every day or you try for a last minute appointment but she doesn't respond to be polite.  Some do and say I am busy and others just ignore the email. It doesn't worry me as there are plenty fish in the sea but I usually won't bother trying again with the wg in question if no response I'm afraid so her loss not mine!!

It gets on my wick when potential clients email me for a last minute appointment..it states clearly on my profile to ring if it is last minute.For most of us it really is a daft method to try and get a same day or short notice booking.I answer the vast majority of my emails as soon as I can (the exception being obvious idiots that write guff). However if a gent emails for the same day I could be in and out of bookings and his email might not get looked at for several hours in which case the time he wanted might well have passed, whereas if he had called me I could have picked up my phone quicker between other things and sorted out a booking in 2 mins.Also the internet can be a bit flakey in my apartment or I could have nipped out locally for lunch and not be logged in to be looking at emails...a phonecall will get through though and easier to answer the phone than be logging into something every 2 mins in case someone has emailed.We have had alot of threads bemoaning girls not answering emails and I know it does go on and it's frustrating however I am one of the ones that emails back and quite often you get service seekers not emailing back either because its same day and they have emailed a fair few others and you didn't get there quick enough.

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Whatever suits the wg really. But sifting through emails and such requires more head and arse time, not only for her, but the punter. So I prefer a phone number.

I see a mature Hungarian wg. She's a decent soul, but some days she isn't that much in the mood and looking for something different; and wanting a surprise or anything to break the humdrum of punting, and may ignore my mobile.

A new sim works wonders. The response is instantaneous and yes she will see me within the hour. When I get there she knows she's been had, but she's a forgiving soul and the punt happens quite nicely.

I wouldn't see someone who does that it comes across creepy.

Buying a new sim to contact someone you've seen before but pretend like you're a new client? A little weird

It's like those guys on AW who lie and say you've seen them before in hope you'll see them.

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I wouldn't see someone who does that it comes across creepy.

Buying a new sim to contact someone you've seen before but pretend like you're a new client? A little weird

It's like those guys on AW who lie and say you've seen them before in hope you'll see them.

No she's a regular so its like how we do things.

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No she's a regular so its like how we do things.

I gathered she's a regular but you stated sometimes she doesn't want to answer you so you buy a new sim and contact her that way, then when she meets up with you she knows she's been had.

I find it a little weird you'd get a new number to contact her to book her that way, men have tried that with me and I steer clear of them, it just seems a little much.

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No she's a regular so its like how we do things.

That's between you and the lady concerned if that's how you work but if any wg I see regularly started ignoring calls or messages from my usual number I'd take the hint and move on. No way would I use a different number to contact her on. Basically if she don't want to see me, why would I want to see her!?!

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That's between you and the lady concerned if that's how you work but if any wg I see regularly started ignoring calls or messages from my usual number I'd take the hint and move on. No way would I use a different number to contact her on. Basically if she don't want to see me, why would I want to see her!?!

That was exactly my thoughts!

If I'm not replying to a clients calls or texts it's because I specifically don't want to see them.

For them then to buy a new sim to contact me is all new kinds of weird and would get them blocked and most likely a warning posted.

If she doesn't want to see you why force it?

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That was exactly my thoughts!If I'm not replying to a clients calls or texts it's because I specifically don't want to see them.For them then to buy a new sim to contact me is all new kinds of weird and would get them blocked and most likely a warning posted.If she doesn't want to see you why force it?

Then again if it was a regular I'd been seeing and for whatever reason she'd rather not meet again I'd prefer she came out and said so rather than just ignoring as lets face it initially you wouldn't know if you were being deliberately ignored or your calls/messages weren't getting through... I know you'd get the hint eventually but it'd be easier all round just to know!

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Then again if it was a regular I'd been seeing and for whatever reason she'd rather not meet again I'd prefer she came out and said so rather than just ignoring as lets face it initially you wouldn't know if you were being deliberately ignored or your calls/messages weren't getting through... I know you'd get the hint eventually but it'd be easier all round just to know!

That's true, if I don't want to see someone I let them know in the most polite possible way.

But if she's ignored his calls and texts previously it's quite obvious she's doing it delibarately, and if that was me I would find someone who is happy to book me rather than go to lengths of buying a new sim to get an answer! X

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