Cumonce

Run Down Not Performing

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Hello

 

Lately I haven't performed this may be to being run down. tired or it could be I am getting older!!  I used to be right up for it and now I find it difficult to stay hard even for the most attractive lady!  Should I just take a break from seeing escorts as it tends to be every week/other week  and physically and mentally its not doing me any favours.  Also perhaps if I have a break maybe I should think about Viagra when I am back in the saddle!!  I expect there are many opinions on this?  Help greatly appreciated!!  Thanks from  a feeling low Cumonce!! :(

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To start, the more you think about it, the worse it will get!

Get yourself relaxed and refreshed, ditch your life stresses, work and personal, as best you can.

Find a lady who understands older men and realises that you need careful treatment :) One Thai girl I know in Wales does just this and gets more pops out of me in an hour than anyone else I've met. She seems to sense just when she can wake me up again, coaxes life into me and not just by tugging violently at my cock. At a certain time she will tell me, "He wants to sleep now!" She recognises that there is no more to give.

She is in Wales though and partialy retired and only sees a few old regulars.

Sorry but that's the sort of girl you need to find, What I would call a true courtesan.

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Sorry to say, age does make a difference - at least from my perspective.

 

I've just turned 40, and my libido is only a fraction of what it used to be - saying that I'm a LOT less fit than I was 10+ years ago, so that's the reason why. These days, I love to get massaged in a relaxed environment and should I get horny, I ask the SP to finish me off. Always leaves me refreshed and relaxed. Sometimes the pressure to perform can affect your boner too. Viagra I'd say is a last resort - but a lot of guys use it, even younger men, if they want to prolong their sessions.

 

Try giving it a rest for a month, go swimming, long walks, taking more vitamins and eating healthier foods. Also more water, less caffeine helps.

 

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get a proper checkup from the quack.  If your body is not in the best of condition then it will concentrate on keeping going and will abandon sex.  Loss of libido is, therefore, a possible indicator of some other problem.  Maybe a heart condition.  Ask for an ecg.

get him to check your testosterone levels.  many older man suffer from lower testosterone, and its easily fixed with a supplement.  Having a low testosterone count is not good -it can have nasty side effects besides sexual health. (Women should also have some testosterone, and a low testosterone count for women isn't good either)

as said above de-stress as much as you can.  High stress has physical effects.

check your diet, and whether you are properly hydrated.

and lastly, perhaps you need a short break. I think you can get stale, so a break helps.

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OP, you've had a lot of good advice here.

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And many thanks to all above.  Will take a rest now and keep it in prospective. 

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